- 10
- Episodes
- 2022
- First episode
About A Relationship Podcast: Turned On | Tuned In
This relationship podcast is for people who want to learn what actually works when creating a healthy, exciting, and passionate relationship with depth, both emotionally and sexually. On top of being leading Dating, Relationship and Intimacy Coaches, we are also a couple! If you want to live by your true needs, authentic expression, and letting go of dysfunctional narratives - this is the podcast for you. Connect With David: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ Email: hello@theauthenticman.net Connect With Asa: https://www.instagram.com/coachwithasa/ Email: hello@asabaav.com
- Publisher
- Asa Baav & David Chambers
- Category
- health & fitness · society & culture
- Language
- en
- Explicit
- Yes
- First episode
- 22 Jul 2022
- Latest episode
- 18 Jan 2026
Latest episodes
10 episodes in the feed.
18 Jan 2026
Weekly Mini Episode: Blaming Women Makes You Unattractive
Many men believe their dating struggles are caused by women's standards — but that belief is often the very thing keeping them stuck. In this episode, David challenges the growing trend of men blaming women for their lack of dates, relationships, intimacy, or sex — and explains why blame feels empowering while actually making men more bitter, disconnected, and unattractive. Rather than reinforcing red-pill narratives or internet outrage, this conversation cuts through the noise to reveal what's really happening underneath: shame, emotional avoidance, lack of self-awareness, and undeveloped emotional leadership. If you feel frustrated with dating, resentful toward women, stuck in cycles of rejection, or tempted to give up entirely, this episode offers a grounded, responsibility-based perspective on what actually creates attraction, connection, and healthy relationships. 📌 Topics Covered ✅ Why blaming women feels empowering — but actually makes men powerless ✅ How shame and rejection fuel bitterness and resentment ✅ The self-fulfilling cycle that keeps men stuck in dating failure ✅ Why bitterness and victimhood are deeply unattractive ✅ The difference between superficial explanations and real growth ✅ What emotional intelligence actually looks like in dating ✅ How lack of attunement makes men feel unsafe to women ✅ Why women don't want to carry emotional labor anymore ✅ The role of responsibility, self-awareness, and leadership in attraction ✅ How men can radically increase attractiveness through inner and outer work 🔥 What to Do Next 👇 Comment below: Where do you notice yourself blaming others instead of taking responsibility in dating or relationships? ➡️ Join the Relate Waitlist https://forms.gle/2AXhmyNweasETaso7 ➡️ Build emotional leadership, secure attachment & grounded masculinity https://www.theauthenticman.net/ (https://www.theauthenticman.net/) Follow / Connect Instagram — @theauthenticman_ For Coaching 📧 hello@theauthenticman.net Newsletter ttps://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe
22 Jul 2022
EP9: Tangible Steps to Live a More Conscious Relationship And Developing Commitment
By taking charge of your own life, you will develop a healthier perspective of your relationship too. Are you clear on what you truly wish to create in your life? Do you wish you could view yourself in a more positive light? Would you like to let go of old regrets and past events? The key here is to create crystal clear clarity on what you want and commit to taking small steps towards it every day. The depths of a conscious relationship start and stop with the depths of how well you know yourSELF, as awareness is key to choosing how you want to show up for yourself and your partner. And the truth is that you can build a stronger, deeper connection with your partner by simply committing to a more conscious way of relating with yourself. In this episode, Asa and David talk about the importance of commitment, not just to the relationship but to yourself. Are you meeting your life fully? Are you truly aware of how you interact with yourself and others? Are you aware of your relationship fears and how to mute the inner critic so that you can create more feel-good moments in your relationship? Living a conscious relationship has everything to do with self-expression, self-responsibility, commitment, honest communication, sexual exploration, and constantly checking in with yourself and your partner, and today we will talk about how to foster exactly that. Key topics covered in this episode: Living a more conscious relationship Learn about your views Showing all parts of yourself Accountability Structuring time in the relationship Trust Commitment is a practice Importance of self-expression Relationship check-ins Sexual exploration Are you ready to radically change your perspective on dating and relationships into one that supports growth and the relationship vision that you hold for yourself? Join us, Asa and David, for our 8-week group program, The Relationship School, helping singles and couples completely change the way they live, experience, and grow romantic relationships. Get more details about our program starting September 4th https://www.asabaav.com/the-relationship-school/ Connect With David: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ (https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/) Email: hello@theauthenticman.net Connect With Asa: https://www.instagram.com/coachwithasa/ (https://www.instagram.com/coachwithasa/) Email: hello@asabaav.com
22 Jul 2022
EP8: Building a Relationship Vision
How do you create a strong and healthy relationship? So, you have decided to pursue your person and commit to this relationship, now what? Let us introduce you to one of the favourite aspects of our teachings, building a relationship vision! You can have the life and relationships you want by learning about the power of intention setting. But perhaps you tend to doubt your decisions, stay away from making choices, or even talk about the future? In this episode, Asa and David will give you the tools and advice on how to expand your life together by creating and getting clear on a vision of what your relationship can look like so that you can truly achieve the life beyond your wildest dreams Key topics covered in this episode: How to give your relationship direction Healing yourself on a deeper level Getting clear on goals and vision in the relationship Creation of visions for yourself and the relationship Sharing yourself with your partner Power of intention Importance of shared values Drifting relationships Everything is a practice Are you ready to radically change your perspective on dating and relationships into one that supports growth and the relationship vision that you hold for yourself? Join us, Asa and David, for our 8-week group program, The Relationship School, helping singles and couples completely change the way they live, experience, and grow romantic relationships. Get more details about our program starting September 4th https://www.asabaav.com/the-relationship-school/ Connect With David: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ (https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/) Email: hello@theauthenticman.net Connect With Asa: https://www.instagram.com/coachwithasa/ (https://www.instagram.com/coachwithasa/) Email: hello@asabaav.com
22 Jul 2022
EP7: From Conflict to Connection & Why The Communication in Your Relationship is Broken
Relationship satisfaction depends on the quality of communication. First of all, how are you communicating with yourself about how you are feeling and what you need? Are you clearly sharing this with your partner? Or are you consciously or unconsciously avoiding sharing what you really need? Taking the time to learn the communication skills we never got will change your life and every aspect of your daily life, especially your romantic relationship. When we know how to respond rather than react, we give ourselves the chance to grow, allowing our relationships to grow too. Sharing the deepest parts of ourselves can leave us feeling nervous and overwhelmed, no matter if we are single, in a new relationship or have been married for years. The first step here is knowing that it is okay to feel discomfort, yet committing to the journey of relationship depth by opening up for deeper, more genuine connections. In this episode, Asa and David share our insight into the different aspects of communication, conflict, and connection, how to redefine conflict and how to turn conflict into connection Key topics covered in this episode: Aspects of communication Conflict Projection Stories Redefining conflict Attuning yourself to your partner Are you ready to radically change your perspective on dating and relationships into one that supports growth and the relationship vision that you hold for yourself? Join us, Asa and David, for our 8-week group program, The Relationship School, helping singles and couples completely change the way they live, experience, and grow romantic relationships. Get more details about our program starting September 4th https://www.asabaav.com/the-relationship-school/ Connect With David: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ (https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/) Email: hello@theauthenticman.net Connect With Asa: https://www.instagram.com/coachwithasa/ (https://www.instagram.com/coachwithasa/) Email: hello@asabaav.com
22 Jul 2022
EP6: Co-creating Deep Emotional Connection, Emotional Intimacy And Creating a Safe Space For Vulnerability in Your Relationship
Do you feel comfortable sharing your emotions with your significant other? Are you present with the emotions arising in your body? Have you created a safe space for your partner to share how they are feeling and for you to do the same? No matter where you are on your dating and relationship journey, we all experience a wide array of emotions every single day. It takes time, dedication and a deep willingness to openly express one’s feelings and needs. Yet, both individuals in the relationship can work together to develop the connection and space for emotional intimacy. In today’s episode, Asa and David go over how you can build a safe space for emotions with your partner, the reality of sharing yourself with another, how to strike a balance between under and oversharing, and how to build a meaningful emotional connection. Key topics covered in this episode: Developing deep emotional connections Interdependence Emotional intimacy Under and oversharing Uncomfortability and endurance Being vulnerable Creating safety with your partner Are you ready to radically change your perspective on dating and relationships into one that supports growth and the relationship vision that you hold for yourself? Join us, Asa and David, for our 8-week group program, The Relationship School, helping singles and couples completely change the way they live, experience, and grow romantic relationships. Get more details about our program starting September 4th https://www.asabaav.com/the-relationship-school/ Connect With David: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ (https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/) Email: hello@theauthenticman.net Connect With Asa: https://www.instagram.com/coachwithasa/ (https://www.instagram.com/coachwithasa/) Email: hello@asabaav.com
22 Jul 2022
EP5: Keeping Sexual Attraction Alive, Overcoming a Sexless Relationship & Dysfunctional Dating
Do you trust your partner to openly discuss and communicate their fears? Creating and committing to a space of vulnerability will positively strengthen your relationships, but let’s be honest how often have you openly talked about your sexual needs or desires? There are many reasons why you might feel nervous communicating with your partner, regardless of gender. Society, family, and friends all play a part in what we view as reasonable to ask for, talk about and explore when it comes to sex and intimacy. This leads to the majority of us hiding away from our sexual truth, leading to a disconnect that leaves some couples feeling more like friends than lovers over time. In this episode, Asa and David guide you through what it means to communicate and engage with yourself and your partner, how you can evaluate what is important to you in the bedroom and how to create healthy sexual exploration and keep the sexual attraction alive. Key topics covered in this episode: Looking into the details of sex and what makes experiences beautiful Sexual exploration Dysfunctional dating How to explore and address what you want Erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation Normalizing conversations around fears How to keep the sexual attraction alive What to do when a relationship becomes sexless Getting deep in your purpose Are you ready to radically change your perspective on dating and relationships into one that supports growth and the relationship vision that you hold for yourself? Join us, Asa and David, for our 8-week group program, The Relationship School, helping singles and couples completely change the way they live, experience, and grow romantic relationships. Get more details about our program starting September 4th https://www.asabaav.com/the-relationship-school/ Connect With David: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ (https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/) Email: hello@theauthenticman.net Connect With Asa: https://www.instagram.com/coachwithasa/ (https://www.instagram.com/coachwithasa/) Email: hello@asabaav.com
22 Jul 2022
EP4: Sexual Exploration, Seduction & Reducing The Pressure to Perform
What does sex look like and feel like to you? For most people, the definition of sex can differ a lot! And trust us when we say this, intimacy and pleasure can be explored guilt free and without the pressure to perform! It might take some time to unlearn what the lack of sex education failed to give us, but if you are willing to be open to a new way of viewing your sexual self and what pleasure is, the rewards are abundant. As tantra teachers, we know that sex is not all about orgasms, in fact, our idea of what sex is has expanded so much in recent years. It is no longer a cut-and-dry explanation of penetrative intercourse. Sex can be fluid, transformative and expansive. Through sex, we can strive to develop a rich understanding of ourselves and what we truly desire. Key topics covered in this episode: Definition of sex Sexual exploration Seducing your partner Importance of making an effort and initiating sex Premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction Pressures men feel to perform and how to manage that Orgasm gap How you can shift your mindset to enjoy a pleasure Are you ready to radically change your perspective on dating and relationships into one that supports growth and the relationship vision that you hold for yourself? Join us, Asa and David, for our 8-week group program, The Relationship School, helping singles and couples completely change the way they live, experience, and grow romantic relationships. Get more details about our program starting September 4th https://www.asabaav.com/the-relationship-school/ Connect With David: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ (https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/) Email: hello@theauthenticman.net Connect With Asa: https://www.instagram.com/coachwithasa/ (https://www.instagram.com/coachwithasa/) Email: hello@asabaav.com
22 Jul 2022
EP3: Resolve Conflict, Building Real Trust & Powerful Communication in Thriving Relationships
Are you clear on your relationship needs and wants? For each person, what they require is different, and that is what makes us unique, but it can also make relating very confusing and difficult. Here is the thing, your partner cannot read your mind. We must dare to communicate and convey our thoughts, feelings, and wishes. But what happens when we don’t feel safe to speak up? In this episode, we share the two key predictors for relationship satisfaction and how to create trust by consciously making the decision to be open, honestly and present. And we will reveal the moments in our own relationship that became the doorway to healthy communication and trust. Key topics covered in this episode: What really matters in dating How to communicate your wants and needs Managing conflict What successful, happy couples do differently How our minds react to negativity Respecting and hearing your partner How to create the environment for honesty in a relationship Are you ready to radically change your perspective on dating and relationships into one that supports growth and the relationship vision that you hold for yourself? Join us, Asa and David, for our 8-week group program, The Relationship School, helping singles and couples completely change the way they live, experience, and grow romantic relationships. Get more details about our program starting September 4th https://www.asabaav.com/the-relationship-school/ Connect With David: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ (https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/) Email: hello@theauthenticman.net Connect With Asa: https://www.instagram.com/coachwithasa/ (https://www.instagram.com/coachwithasa/) Email: hello@asabaav.com
22 Jul 2022
EP2: Creating Meaningful Connections in Dating & The Early Stages of a Relationships
What internal stories are you creating and committing to on a daily basis? Are your thoughts more positive or negative inclined? Have you found yourself stuck in a pattern of an unsatisfying love life? Shifting your way of thinking creates the spaces for connection, attraction, and satisfaction to grow. In this episode, Asa and David discuss what you can do to show up more for yourself, your relationship and how to navigate the early stages of a relationship. Every day we speak to people who feel stuck in love lifes they don’t want. Either they are not seeing the quality connection they know they are capable of, or they are constantly being tortured by wondering when something is going to go horribly wrong with their chosen person now when they have found someone they can actually see themselves with. Tune into this episode for our tips on how to deepen the relationship with yourself and others by creating connections, altering your dating mindset and learning how to take the lead in your relationship. Key topics covered in this episode: Creating connections in dating Altering your dating mindset How to navigate the early parts of a relationship Relationship models How to lead and create direction in your life Are you ready to radically change your perspective on dating and relationships into one that supports growth and the relationship vision that you hold for yourself? Join us, Asa and David, for our 8-week group program, The Relationship School, helping singles and couples completely change the way they live, experience, and grow romantic relationships. Get more details about our program starting September 4th https://www.asabaav.com/the-relationship-school/ Connect With David: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ (https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/) Email: hello@theauthenticman.net Connect With Asa: https://www.instagram.com/coachwithasa/ (https://www.instagram.com/coachwithasa/) Email: hello@asabaav.com
22 Jul 2022
EP1: Finding a Conscious Partner
Have you ever wondered if there is a secret to attracting and finding your perfect partner? By showing up for yourself, taking control of your life and going after what you really want, you can achieve your dating and relationship goals. In this episode, Asa and David provide actionable and insightful steps on navigating dating, finding your person and improving your relationship with yourself. Key topics covered in this episode: Finding and attracting the one Navigating the dating world How to be and find a conscious partner What Asa and David have learned in their relationships Breaking down our ideas of relationships and what they should and shouldn’t be Are you ready to radically change your perspective on dating and relationships into one that supports growth and the relationship vision that you hold for yourself? Join us, Asa and David, for our 8-week group program, The Relationship School, helping singles and couples completely change the way they live, experience, and grow romantic relationships. Get more details about our program starting September 4th https://www.asabaav.com/the-relationship-school/ Connect With David: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/ (https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/) Email: hello@theauthenticman.net Connect With Asa: https://www.instagram.com/coachwithasa/ (https://www.instagram.com/coachwithasa/) Email: hello@asabaav.com
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