Across Cultures, Holding Our Parts With Compassion

About Across Cultures, Holding Our Parts With Compassion

This podcast explores trauma, healing, culture, and the inner world we all carry. Through Internal Family Systems (IFS), we look at protective parts, wounded parts, and the Self that offers compassion and clarity. We speak as both practitioners and fellow travellers on the healing path. If you're curious about inner parts and healing with kindness, you're in the right place. If something resonates, you're not alone—gentle inner exploration is available when you’re ready. Yanira: https://calendly.com/coachingsuitepr/ignite or coachingsuitepr@gmail.com Eri: dr.blue.coaching@gmail.com

Publisher

Yanira Rivera, Eri Blue

Category

health & fitness

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

22 Apr 2026

Latest episode

30 Jul 2026

Latest episodes

10 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   30 Jul 2026

   How would you describe the experience of Self energy, and how can we tell when parts have taken us out of Self?

   Disclaimer: The statements, reflections, and opinions shared in this podcast reflect the personal experiences of the hosts, are for informational and personal exploration purposes only, do not constitute medical or professional advice, are not affiliated with the Internal Family Systems Institute (IFSI), and if medical or mental health support is needed, listeners should contact their local emergency services immediately. In this episode, the hosts gently explore what it feels like to be in Self energy and how we can begin to notice when parts have taken the lead. With a compassionate and curious tone, they reflect on the qualities that often arise in Self—such as calmness, clarity, connection, and openness—and how these can show up as a grounded, relaxed presence with no agenda, only a genuine interest in understanding. Through an IFS lens, this conversation invites listeners to tune inward and notice subtle shifts in their nervous system, emotions, and perspective. The hosts share how Self-led energy often feels spacious, connected, and alive, while parts-led moments may bring urgency, narrowing focus, activation, or disconnection. Rather than framing this as right or wrong, they hold it as a natural and human continuum we all move through.  (https://coachingsuitepr01-my.sharepoint.com/personal/yanirarivera_coachingsuitepr01_onmicrosoft_com/Documents/Microsoft%20Copilot%20Chat%20Files/ep-8%20How%20would%20you%20describe%20the%20experience%20of%20Self%20energy,%20and%20how%20can%20we%20tell%20when%20parts%20have%20taken%20us%20out%20of%20Self_.pdf) They also reframe parts taking over as meaningful opportunities—moments when something inside is asking to be seen, heard, and understood. With patience and curiosity, these moments can become invitations to build trust and deepen relationship with our internal system over time.  (https://coachingsuitepr01-my.sharepoint.com/personal/yanirarivera_coachingsuitepr01_onmicrosoft_com/Documents/Microsoft%20Copilot%20Chat%20Files/ep-8%20How%20would%20you%20describe%20the%20experience%20of%20Self%20energy,%20and%20how%20can%20we%20tell%20when%20parts%20have%20taken%20us%20out%20of%20Self_.pdf) As the conversation unfolds, the hosts normalize that recognizing Self energy is a practice that develops gradually, and that each person’s experience will feel uniquely their own. Even small moments of awareness are honored as powerful steps toward greater self-leadership and connection. We gently invite you into an exploration of: What Self energy may feel like in your body, mind, and relationships  (https://coachingsuitepr01-my.sharepoint.com/personal/yanirarivera_coachingsuitepr01_onmicrosoft_com/Documents/Microsoft%20Copilot%20Chat%20Files/ep-8%20How%20would%20you%20describe%20the%20experience%20of%20Self%20energy,%20and%20how%20can%20we%20tell%20when%20parts%20have%20taken%20us%20out%20of%20Self_.pdf) Noticing nervous system cues that signal shifts between Self-led and parts-led states  (https://coachingsuitepr01-my.sharepoint.com/personal/yanirarivera_coachingsuitepr01_onmicrosoft_com/Documents/Microsoft%20Copilot%20Chat%20Files/ep-8%20How%20would%20you%20describe%20the%20experience%20of%20Self%20energy,%20and%20how%20can%20we%20tell%20when%20parts%20have%20taken%20us%20out%20of%20Self_.pdf) Understanding parts activation as invitations for connection, not problems to fix  (https://coachingsuitepr01-my.sharepoint.com/personal/yanirarivera_coachingsuitepr01_onmicrosoft_com/Documents/Microsoft%20Copilot%20Chat%20Files/ep-8%20How%20would%20you%20describe%20the%20experience%20of%20Self%20energy,%20and%20how%20can%20we%20tell%20when%20parts%20have%20taken%20us%20out%20of%20Self_.pdf) Cultivating curiosity, compassion, and calm toward your inner experience  (https://coachingsuitepr01-my.sharepoint.com/personal/yanirarivera_coachingsuitepr01_onmicrosoft_com/Documents/Microsoft%20Copilot%20Chat%20Files/ep-8%20How%20would%20you%20describe%20the%20experience%20of%20Self%20energy,%20and%20how%20can%20we%20tell%20when%20parts%20have%20taken%20us%20out%20of%20Self_.pdf) Allowing your unique experience of Self to unfold at its own pace  (https://coachingsuitepr01-my.sharepoint.com/personal/yanirarivera_coachingsuitepr01_onmicrosoft_com/Documents/Microsoft%20Copilot%20Chat%20Files/ep-8%20How%20would%20you%20describe%20the%20experience%20of%20Self%20energy,%20and%20how%20can%20we%20tell%20when%20parts%20have%20taken%20us%20out%20of%20Self_.pdf) Building trust with your parts through presence, patience, and gentle awareness  (https://coachingsuitepr01-my.sharepoint.com/personal/yanirarivera_coachingsuitepr01_onmicrosoft_com/Documents/Microsoft%20Copilot%20Chat%20Files/ep-8%20How%20would%20you%20describe%20the%20experience%20of%20Self%20energy,%20and%20how%20can%20we%20tell%20when%20parts%20have%20taken%20us%20out%20of%20Self_.pdf) This conversation offers a gentle reminder: there is no perfect way to be in Self—only a growing awareness that supports you in meeting whatever arises with curiosity and care.

2. 

   23 Jul 2026

   English as a second language.

   Disclaimer: The statements, reflections, and opinions shared in this podcast reflect the personal experiences of the hosts, are for informational and personal exploration purposes only, do not constitute medical or professional advice, are not affiliated with the Internal Family Systems Institute (IFSI), and if medical or mental health support is needed, listeners should contact their local emergency services immediately. In this episode, the hosts gently explore the experience of English as a second language through an Internal Family Systems (IFS) lens. With curiosity and compassion, they reflect on how learning another language can bring both challenges and unexpected opportunities for connection, self-expression, and healing. The hosts discuss the parts that may feel intimidated by grammar, pronunciation, mistakes, or the pressure to communicate "correctly." They also acknowledge the protectors that strive for perfection, avoid embarrassment, or work hard to ensure acceptance and belonging. Rather than viewing these parts as obstacles, they are honored for their efforts to keep us safe and connected.  (https://coachingsuitepr01-my.sharepoint.com/personal/yanirarivera_coachingsuitepr01_onmicrosoft_com/Documents/Microsoft%20Copilot%20Chat%20Files/ep-11%20English%20as%20a%20second%20language..pdf) Throughout the conversation, the hosts explore how language can become a bridge between inner and outer worlds. They reflect on the ways a second language may create access to new resources, relationships, perspectives, and healing experiences, while supporting parts that long to express themselves more freely and authentically. They also speak to the ongoing journey of building trust within our systems when communicating in a non-native language. Whether navigating self-doubt, vulnerability, translation challenges, or emotional expression, the hosts emphasize the importance of extending patience and compassion to every part involved in the learning process.  (https://coachingsuitepr01-my.sharepoint.com/personal/yanirarivera_coachingsuitepr01_onmicrosoft_com/Documents/Microsoft%20Copilot%20Chat%20Files/ep-11%20English%20as%20a%20second%20language..pdf) We gently invite you into an exploration of: Recognizing the parts that find learning or speaking a second language challenging Understanding how perfectionistic and protective parts may show up around communication Exploring language as a bridge for healing, connection, and self-expression Honoring the courage of parts that continue learning despite uncertainty or mistakes Meeting self-doubt and vulnerability with curiosity, compassion, and care Cultivating greater trust in ourselves as we navigate new ways of communicating and connecting This conversation offers a gentle reminder: every step toward connection matters, regardless of the language we speak. With Self-energy, compassion, and curiosity, we can honor the parts that are learning, growing, and reaching across new bridges toward healing, understanding, and authentic connection.  (https://coachingsuitepr01-my.sharepoint.com/personal/yanirarivera_coachingsuitepr01_onmicrosoft_com/Documents/Microsoft%20Copilot%20Chat%20Files/ep-11%20English%20as%20a%20second%20language..pdf)

3. 

   16 Jul 2026

   What are some of the challenges of parts work?

   Disclaimer: The statements, reflections, and opinions shared in this podcast reflect the personal experiences of the hosts, are for informational and personal exploration purposes only, do not constitute medical or professional advice, are not affiliated with the Internal Family Systems Institute (IFSI), and if medical or mental health support is needed, listeners should contact their local emergency services immediately. In this episode, the hosts gently explore some of the challenges that can arise in parts work. Through a compassionate and curious lens, they reflect on the ways protective parts can make it difficult to turn inward, access Self-energy, or trust the healing process. With openness and honesty, the hosts discuss common experiences such as unblending from parts, navigating self-like parts, and working with protectors that rely on thinking, explaining, or staying busy to help the system feel safe. They highlight how these parts often carry positive intentions, even when they seem to create obstacles.  (https://coachingsuitepr01-my.sharepoint.com/personal/yanirarivera_coachingsuitepr01_onmicrosoft_com/Documents/Microsoft%20Copilot%20Chat%20Files/ep-9%20How%20do%20we%20know%20when%20a%20higher%20level%20of%20care%20is%20needed,%20and%20what%20challenges%20can%20arise%20in%20that%20process_.pdf) The conversation also makes space for the reality that connecting with parts is not always easy. Stress, exhaustion, life demands, and limited capacity can affect our ability to access our inner world. The hosts normalize these experiences and offer reassurance that healing unfolds at its own pace.  (https://coachingsuitepr01-my.sharepoint.com/personal/yanirarivera_coachingsuitepr01_onmicrosoft_com/Documents/Microsoft%20Copilot%20Chat%20Files/ep-9%20How%20do%20we%20know%20when%20a%20higher%20level%20of%20care%20is%20needed,%20and%20what%20challenges%20can%20arise%20in%20that%20process_.pdf) They further reflect on the challenge of maintaining relationships with vulnerable parts once they have been discovered. Balancing daily responsibilities while tending to parts that long for attention, rest, play, and nurturing can be an ongoing practice of intention, patience, and care.  (https://coachingsuitepr01-my.sharepoint.com/personal/yanirarivera_coachingsuitepr01_onmicrosoft_com/Documents/Microsoft%20Copilot%20Chat%20Files/ep-9%20How%20do%20we%20know%20when%20a%20higher%20level%20of%20care%20is%20needed,%20and%20what%20challenges%20can%20arise%20in%20that%20process_.pdf) We gently invite you into an exploration of: Recognizing common challenges that can arise as we begin or deepen parts work Understanding what may make it difficult to unblend from protective parts and access Self-energy Exploring how self-like parts and cognitive protectors show up with positive intentions Meeting moments of overwhelm, limited capacity, or difficulty connecting with parts with compassion Honoring the needs of vulnerable parts while balancing the demands of daily life Cultivating patience, trust, and Self-leadership as relationships with parts develop over time This conversation offers a gentle reminder: challenges in parts work are not signs of failure, but invitations to deepen trust and understanding within our inner system. With curiosity, compassion, and consistency, we can continue building meaningful relationships with our parts and move toward greater Self-leadership and healing. (https://coachingsuitepr01-my.sharepoint.com/personal/yanirarivera_coachingsuitepr01_onmicrosoft_com/Documents/Microsoft%20Copilot%20Chat%20Files/ep-9%20How%20do%20we%20know%20when%20a%20higher%20level%20of%20care%20is%20needed,%20and%20what%20challenges%20can%20arise%20in%20that%20process_.pdf)

4. 

   11 Jun 2026

   Self Leadership And Podcast

   Disclaimer: The statements, reflections, and opinions shared in this podcast reflect the personal experiences of the hosts, are for informational and personal exploration purposes only, do not constitute medical or professional advice, are not affiliated with the Internal Family Systems Institute (IFSI), and if medical or mental health support is needed, listeners should contact their local emergency services immediately. In this episode, the hosts gently explore what it means to step into self-leadership while creating something new and unknown together. With honesty and warmth, they share how their parts respond to uncertainty, growth, and the vulnerability of being seen and heard. Through an Internal Family Systems (IFS) lens, this conversation invites us to notice the protectors that arise—perfectionism, fear, hesitation—and how Self energy can meet them with compassion, curiosity, and calm. The hosts reflect on the learning process as a deeply human experience, where mistakes become opportunities for connection rather than judgment. As the podcast itself unfolds organically, they model what it looks like to trust the process, listen inward, and honor the pace and readiness of each part. This episode becomes a shared space of witnessing—where nothing needs to be perfect, only present. We gently invite you into an exploration of: What self-leadership feels like in real, imperfect moments Meeting fear, perfectionism, and protectors with compassion Trusting the unfolding process when stepping into the unknown Reframing mistakes as part of learning and growth Listening to your system and honoring the pace of your parts Creating a safe inner space grounded in curiosity, calmness, and connection This conversation offers a gentle reminder: you don’t have to have it all figured out to begin—your Self can lead, one compassionate step at a time.

5. 

   4 Jun 2026

   How Do Cultural Identities Shape The Way We Heal And Connect With Others?

   Disclaimer: The statements, reflections, and opinions shared in this podcast reflect the personal experiences of the hosts, are for informational and personal exploration purposes only, do not constitute medical or professional advice, are not affiliated with the Internal Family Systems Institute (IFSI), and if medical or mental health support is needed, listeners should contact their local emergency services immediately. In this episode, the hosts gently explore how cultural identities shape the way our parts learn to survive, connect, and heal. With compassionate curiosity, they reflect on how culture can hold both protective intentions and inherited burdens—especially around seeking support, expressing pain, and making sense of our inner world. The hosts share how some parts may have learned that healing is unsafe, inaccessible, or even impossible within certain cultural contexts, while other parts carried the courage to look beyond those boundaries in search of understanding, language, and connection. Through an IFS lens, this conversation honors the complexity of leaving familiar systems, integrating new ways of being, and building spaces where healing becomes more possible. We invite you to hear the reflections on: How cultural messages shape our parts’ beliefs about help, safety, and healing The role of language in giving voice (or limiting expression) to our inner experiences The impact of secrecy, stigma, and normalization of harm within cultural systems The courage of parts that seek healing beyond familiar environments Navigating grief and growth when stepping outside cultural expectations How new healing communities can offer witnessing, validation, and connection The ways healing transforms relationships and invites new relational dynamics Integrating cultural identity while releasing burdens that no longer serve This episode is an invitation to turn inward with gentle curiosity—honoring how your system has been shaped, what it has carried, and what it may be ready to release.

6. 

   28 May 2026

   【Special Episode】Becoming an IFS Level 3 Practitioner: What Changed Inside?

   Disclaimer: The statements, reflections, and opinions shared in this podcast reflect the personal experiences of the hosts, are for informational and personal exploration purposes only, do not constitute medical or professional advice, are not affiliated with the Internal Family Systems Institute (IFSI), and if medical or mental health support is needed, listeners should contact their local emergency services immediately. In this special episode, the hosts reflect on a meaningful milestone while turning inward to explore what truly shifts during a season of growth. Through an IFS lens, they compassionately connect with the parts that emerge along the journey. When moving through growth, there are moments when parts of us question whether we are enough, whether we need to prove ourselves, or whether we can truly trust the process.  The hosts also explore the complexity of achievement: how pride, relief, questioning, and even grief can coexist, and how external validation can both support and challenge our inner sense of worth. Ultimately, this episode centers on the evolving relationship within—the growing ability to trust your path, your parts, and your capacity to repair and keep learning. We welcome you to witness reflections on: How fear, urgency, and the desire to prove ourselves show up in growth Deepening self‑trust through the process of learning and waiting The coexistence of relief, pride, grief, and self‑doubt in achievement Listening to protective “do no harm” parts with care and respect Building confidence through repair, curiosity, and Self‑leadership  (https://coachingsuitepr01-my.sharepoint.com/personal/yanirarivera_coachingsuitepr01_onmicrosoft_com/Documents/Microsoft%20Copilot%20Chat%20Files/Episode%205%20Transcript-%20%E3%80%90Special%20episode%E3%80%91Becoming%20an%20IFS%20Level%203%20Practitioner_%20What%20Changed%20Inside_.pdf) This conversation honors that becoming is not just about reaching a milestone—it’s about the evolving relationship within. It’s about learning to trust your parts, your path, and the process, even when uncertainty is present.  (https://coachingsuitepr01-my.sharepoint.com/personal/yanirarivera_coachingsuitepr01_onmicrosoft_com/Documents/Microsoft%20Copilot%20Chat%20Files/Episode%205%20Transcript-%20%E3%80%90Special%20episode%E3%80%91Becoming%20an%20IFS%20Level%203%20Practitioner_%20What%20Changed%20Inside_.pdf) If parts of you feel pressure to succeed, question your worth, or long for reassurance—this episode offers compassion, understanding, and space to breathe. You’re invited to listen from Self. All parts are welcome.

7. 

   20 May 2026

   What Gives You Hope When Working With Trauma?

   Disclaimer: The statements, reflections, and opinions shared in this podcast reflect the personal experiences of the hosts, are for informational and personal exploration purposes only, do not constitute medical or professional advice, are not affiliated with the Internal Family Systems Institute (IFSI), and if medical or mental health support is needed, listeners should contact their local emergency services immediately. When working with trauma, there are moments when parts of us wonder if healing is really happening at all. In this episode, we slow down and gently turn toward those questioning parts to explore what hope looks like through an IFS lens. The hosts reflect on how hope emerges in trauma healing as parts begin to trust Self‑leadership and soften their survival roles. Through shared experiences, they explore how overworked protector parts can learn to rest, and how meeting exiled parts with compassion allows long‑held pain to thaw. Together, the conversation honors healing as a layered, nonlinear process—one where presence, capacity, and gentle curiosity make more space for hope. We invite you to hear the reflections on: How hope emerges when protector parts begin to trust Self Recognizing healing through changed responses, not perfection Meeting younger, exiled parts with curiosity and compassion Why trauma healing unfolds in layers, each requiring more capacity The quiet hope that comes from knowing it’s not too late This conversation is a reminder that trauma healing isn’t about erasing the past—it’s about building enough safety inside to meet our parts as they are, when they’re ready. Hope lives in those moments of connection, release, and gentle trust that more healing is still possible. If parts of you are tired, unsure, or quietly wondering whether the work matters—this episode offers reassurance, tenderness, and room to breathe. You’re invited to listen from Self. All parts are welcome.

8. 

   13 May 2026

   What Has Surprised You the Most About Trauma Healing?

   Disclaimer: The statements, reflections, and opinions shared in this podcast reflect the personal experiences of the hosts, are for informational and personal exploration purposes only, do not constitute medical or professional advice, are not affiliated with the Internal Family Systems Institute (IFSI), and if medical or mental health support is needed, listeners should contact their local emergency services immediately. Many of us come into healing with hopeful parts that believe trauma work will be quick, clean, and quietly transformative. In this episode, we gently turn toward those parts—with curiosity, compassion, and honesty. The hosts reflect on what has surprised them most in their trauma‑healing journeys. They explore how healing is less about fixing something “broken” and more about meeting the parts of us that learned to survive—through dissociation, hypervigilance, shutdown, or fawning. This conversation invites listeners to notice: The parts that hoped healing would be a one‑time event—and the grief they carry What happens when dissociate‑to‑survive parts begin to soften and reality comes into focus How widening the window of tolerance can feel unfamiliar, even unsettling The protector parts that fear shame, rejection, or failure when boundaries are set How Self‑energy—courage, clarity, and compassion—helps us take small, brave steps forward Healing, as shared here, is not about becoming someone new. It’s about building a trusted relationship with our inner system, honoring the roles each part has played, and slowly growing capacity to live with more presence and choice. This episode is a gentle companion for anyone walking a trauma‑healing path—especially if parts of you feel impatient, discouraged, or unsure whether anything is changing. Rather than becoming a “new” person overnight, trauma healing invites us to build capacity, self‑trust, and compassion—one step at a time. This is an honest reminder that progress is often only visible when we look back, and that healing doesn’t just change us—it can change future generations too. If you’re navigating trauma recovery, nervous system healing, or relearning safety and self‑leadership, this episode offers language, validation, and hope. Listen in and reflect with us.

9. 

   8 May 2026

   Have You Ever Discovered a Surprising Part In Yourself?

   Disclaimer: The statements, reflections, and opinions shared in this podcast reflect the personal experiences of the hosts, are for informational and personal exploration purposes only, do not constitute medical or professional advice, are not affiliated with the Internal Family Systems Institute (IFSI), and if medical or mental health support is needed, listeners should contact their local emergency services immediately. In this episode, we gather in a curious and compassionate conversation around that very question. Through personal stories and reflection using an Internal Family Systems (IFS) lens, we explore how parts show up—especially when we don’t slow down or listen closely enough. We talk about parts that communicate through the body, such as injuries or health conditions, trying to send a clear message: it’s time to stop and rest. We also explore how manager and firefighter parts work hard to protect us, sometimes in intense or uncomfortable ways. The conversation also opens space for rest, creativity, play, and healthier choices—like noticing what we consume during our downtime and inviting in activities that support calm, presence, and joy (yes, even adult coloring books). This episode is an invitation to notice your inner system with curiosity, listen to your parts before they have to get loud, and remember that every part—no matter how surprising—has a good intention and wants to be seen. Disclaimer: The statements, reflections, and opinions shared in this podcast are for informational and personal exploration purposes only and do not constitute medical, psychological, or professional advice. Listening does not establish a therapeutic or professional relationship. The hosts and guests disclaim any liability for actions taken based on this content. This podcast is not affiliated with or endorsed by the Internal Family Systems Institute (IFSI). If medical or mental health support is needed, please contact your local emergency services immediately.

10. 

    22 Apr 2026

    Parts Work and Trauma Healing: A Conversation Between Practitioners

    Disclaimer: The statements, reflections, and opinions shared in this podcast reflect the personal experiences of the hosts, are for informational and personal exploration purposes only, do not constitute medical or professional advice, are not affiliated with the Internal Family Systems Institute (IFSI), and if medical or mental health support is needed, listeners should contact their local emergency services immediately. In this first conversation, we open a space where our parts are welcome to speak and be witnessed. Yanira from Puerto Rico and Eri from Japan come together to share a cross-cultural conversation about trauma healing, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and the personal journeys that led them to this work. Both of us are trauma-informed practitioners and non-native English speakers who chose to speak in English so we can connect with a wider healing community around the world. In this episode, we talk about: Our backgrounds and journeys into trauma healing What the IFS model means to us personally How different cultures shape the way we understand trauma Why witnessing our parts can be a powerful step in healing This conversation is an invitation to anyone walking their own healing path. You are not alone.