因為你的大腦曾經把他當作「重要的人」,習慣性地關注他的行為、情緒、表情,甚至會下意識去解讀他的反應。這是一種「心理慣性」,就像曾經養成的習慣一樣,哪怕你現在不想管他了,潛意識還是會忍不住去注意。
而且,分手後的憤怒和不甘心,會讓你更想去確認:「他現在怎麼樣?他有沒有後悔?他過得比我好嗎?」這種心態會讓你不自覺地把注意力放在他身上。
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11 Mar 2025
如果是我想的那樣就好了
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2 Mar 2025
奴性
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20 Feb 2025
該死的情侶
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4 Feb 2025
被玉米濃湯燙到 跟 討厭的同事
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前男友去死 沒有你我也可以過得很好
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21 Jan 2025
再給我抽煙啊 建中
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7 Jan 2025
第一天去麥當勞上班
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3 Jan 2025
很努力的講我在幹嘛
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26 Dec 2024
asshole
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17 Dec 2024
...情緒勒所?
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9 Dec 2024
可以不要長大嗎
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3 Dec 2024
失控的愛
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21 Nov 2024
我看了不該看的東西
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16 Nov 2024
喝酒腦袋變笨了
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14 Nov 2024
第一次錄podcast好奇怪喔
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