Bringing the key approaches and concepts of NLP to everyday life.
- How NLP can help you to be the best version of yourself
- How it can help you have more effective relationships in and out of work
- How you can improve your confidence and personal effectiveness
Season 5 Episode 11: Everyday NLP Bites... What Are You Saying ? Making Comparisons
“Comparison is the thief of joy.” Theodore Roosevelt
In this last podcast of Season 5 I look at comparisons. Comparisons, especially unclear ones, take us down a blind alley. Whether it is willing ourselves to do something ‘better’ or someone else telling us to - how do we know we have got there or measure our achievement ? The end result is often disappointment and blame. What would happen if we stopped doing this to ourselves or others ? By being claer what we are comparing with we can measure and celebrate success.
In the NLP Meta Model these are referred to as Comparative Deletions – watch or listen to find out more !
“Winners compare their achievements with their goals.” Nido Qubein
Want to find out more about personal effectiveness and NLP ? My books are available on Amazon:
'The Intention Impact Conundrum' Click HERE (https://www.florencemadden.co.uk/IntentionImpactAmazon)
'Everyday NLP' Click HERE (https://florencemadden.co.uk/EverydayNLPAmazon)
13 Feb 2021
Season 5 Episode 10: Everyday NLP Bites... What Are You Saying? Who Specifically?
“ʺThey are all the same!ʺ Is the cruelest
gallows humankind ever built.” ― Lamine Pearlheart, Author
How often to we talk about groups of people with the implication that they are all the same and think the same ? ‘They’ ‘The government’ ‘Management’ ‘ the Council’ or more vaguely still ‘some people’.
In the NLP Meta Model these are referred to as an Unspecified Referential Index.
They are commonplace ways of speaking ,but what’s the effect on the point we want to make, our credibility or even the impact on our own thinking? How more effective or happier might we be by being clear who we are referring to?
Want to find out more about personal effectiveness and NLP ? My books are available on Amazon:
'The Intention Impact Conundrum' Click HERE (https://www.florencemadden.co.uk/IntentionImpactAmazon)
'Everyday NLP' Click HERE (http://www.florencemadden.co.uk/EverydayNLP)
6 Feb 2021
Season 5 Episode 9: Everyday NLP Bites... What Are You Saying? Be Specific !
“I always wanted to be somebody, but now I realize I should have been more specific.” Lily Tomlin, Actor
Being specific can be exhausting in conversation ….and yet without it there possibilities of misunderstanding are huge! What more could we learn if we asked more questions of others, or noticed when we aren’t being clear?
In NLP Meta model these are referred to as Unspecified Verbs and Simple Deletions
Want to find out more about personal effectiveness and NLP ? My books are available on Amazon:
'The Intention Impact Conundrum' Click HERE (https://www.florencemadden.co.uk/IntentionImpactAmazon)
'Everyday NLP' Click HERE (https://florencemadden.co.uk/EverydayNLPAmazon)
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