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Episode 74: Boundaries breached, hearts shattered: #10 of the Top 10 Worst Relationship Mistakes
Crossing the boundaries into infidelity is like tiptoeing over a minefield, as it can detonate a relationship's foundation and unleash a cascade of harmful effects that not only impact both people’s health but adversely affects generations. Sadly, I observe the profound effects each day in the counselling room.
Here's the ultimate chapter in my ongoing series on the Top 10 Relationship Blunders I've been crafting over recent years.. I’ve tapped fingers to keyboard on this topic a few times before, particularly at this time of year as we’re about to head into the silly season and it deserves a big mention in this series.
People are worn down, stressed out and let their guard down. I always receive plenty of grim feedback that it’s all too relevant and timely. So, I’m here to remind us that in a world of the “quick fix”, and as thrilling as these clandestine transgressions seem at the time, infidelity is a mistake fraught with consequences, and the harmful effects on both you and your partner's health can be profound and long-lasting.
Why do people still tread amongst these minefields still today? Listen to the three main reasons I observe most often.
Reach out to a professional therapist if you're struggling in this area. You can read more on my previous articles on this topic HERE (https://www.theconfidantecounselling.com/blog/category/infidelity).
Joanne Wilson is the Relationship Rejuvenator and author of Renovate Your Relationship – All The DIY Tools For Your Most Important Project ($29.99). She is a neuropsychotherapist inspiring the community for thriving and dynamic relationships that impact generations for mental well-being. Find out more about her online courses at www.relationshiprejuvenator.com
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Read this entire Top 10 Worst Relationship Mistakes series here (https://www.theconfidantecounselling.com/blog/category/top-10-worst-relationship-mistakes).
24 Sept 2023
Episode 73: #9 of the Top 10 Worst Relationship mistakes: When Intimacy Takes the Backseat
Physical intimacy - the source of so much joy and frustration for many couples. Will you relate as I highlight the common experiences as noticed in the counselling room? Listen all the way through for helpful tips on what you can do.
21 Mar 2023
Episode 72: #8 of the Top 10 Worst Relationship Mistakes: An alcohol or porn addiction is undermining your connection
Dare to revisit some of your biggest blunders or crazy arguments in your relationship. Did any occur when one or both of you were under the influence of alcohol? Have you or your partner ever been busted watching porn and what was the reaction? Join me in this episode for some insights to the counselling room on the somewhat effects of drinking and alcohol in couple's therapy and what you can do about it.
Other helpful resources:
Your Brain on Porn: (https://www.amazon.com/Your-Brain-Porn-Pornography-Addiction-ebook/dp/B00N2AH8NW) Gary Wilson
Helpful Podcasts on Porn and Sex Addiction (https://www.podchaser.com/lists/podcasts-about-pornography-addiction-107a9DGB5b)
Quit Like A Woman: The Radical Choice to Not Drink in a Society Obsessed with Alcohol (https://www.booktopia.com.au/quit-like-a-woman-holly-glenn-whitaker/book/9781526612250.html) Holly Whittaker
The Easy Way to Stop Drinking (https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/6762): Allen Carr
Joanne Wilson is the Relationship Rejuvenator and author of Renovate Your Relationship – All The DIY Tools For Your Most Important Project ($29.99). She is a neuropsychotherapist inspiring the community for thriving and dynamic relationships that impact generations for mental well-being. Find out more about her online courses at www.relationshiprejuvenator.com
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