Unfiltered, Unapologetic, Unhinged (in the best way).
Not the Friends You Put on Speaker is the podcast where two outspoken, foul-mouthed besties, Peita and Bel, say all the thins everyone else is too scared to admit out loud.
From friendship, relationships, mining life, chaos, mindset, motherhood (or avoiding it) and the shit that happens in between- we're the girls who will hype you up, call you out and make you laugh so hard you'll forget your trauma for at least 45 minutes.
We're raw, we're real, we swear too much. Think boss bitch energy mixed with "oh my god I can't believe you just said that".
Every episode is a mix of story time confessions, brutally honest opinions, real life drama and the kind of girl talk you definitely shouldn't play through your car Bluetooth with the kids in the back.
If you're into women who back each other, speak their truth, don't sugar coat shit and somehow turn chaos into comedy- Welcome! You've found your people!
New episodes dropping weekly. Headphones on. Feelings off. Lets get unhinged!
Peita and Bel wrap up season one with episode 13.
In this episode we discuss our learnings, our challenged, what we have learnt and our goals for season two
Thanks for listening to season 1, we will see you in a few weeks
12 Feb 2026
What's wrong with the world
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5 Feb 2026
Working with your partner
Zac & Bel get real about working together in mining - long swings, high pressure, zero escape!
When your partner is also your co-worker, boss, safety net and the person you're meant to go home and relax with... what could possibly go wrong?!
#mining #workingtogether #notthefriendsyouputonspeaker #podcast
29 Jan 2026
Adult Friendships & Moving Away
Welcome back to another episode of Not The Friends You Put on Speaker. Episode 10 delves into how adult friendships aren't as simple as they use to be. We unpack the realities of maintaining friendships as life changes - moving away, shifting priorities and unmet expectations.
We talk about the importance (and rarity) of 50-50 effort. We dive into why making friendships as an adult feels so hard and how to navigate the loneliness, growth and acceptance that comes with it
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22 Jan 2026
Small Business
Episode 9- Small Business Chat
In this episode we dive into our small business, side hustles and hobbies. How they started and how they're evolving. We share what we've learnt since launching the podcast, unpack the reality of analytics and social media growth and talk honestly about how numbers can both motivate and challenge you.
We touch on the importance of friends and family support when building something from the ground up and what it really feels like when that support shows up (or doesn't).
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15 Jan 2026
Trainer and Assessors
In this episode, Peita and Bel dive headfirst into the world of trainers and assessors, and yes the passenger seat horror stores come out!
From white-knuckle moments that should never happen, to the difference between ticking a box and actually teaching someone how to do their job properly.
We talk experience vs ego, why knowledge matters and how a good trainer can build confidence, skill and safety- while a bad one can create dangerous operators and terrifying situations.
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8 Jan 2026
Toxic Leadership
In this episode, Peita and Bel get brutally honest about leadership- the good, the bad and the downright toxic.
We unpack what actually makes a great leader, why some people should never be put in charge of others and how poor leadership can destroy confidence, culture and careers.
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1 Jan 2026
Tipsy Chats
A chaotic, tipsy deep dive into life's highs, lows and everything we're too sober to admit, Grab a drink as we unpack the wild ride of 2025, laugh through the mess, cry through the lessons and manifest our big, unapologetic goals for 2026. Strap yourself in!
25 Dec 2025
Grief
In this episode Peita opens up about losing her brother Trent in a tragic car accident. This is a raw, honest conversation about grief, resilience and how to support someone going through grief.
We also touch on the NSW license legislation change which Peita and her family were a driving force behind.
Its emotional, real and an important conversation for anyone navigating life after loss.
#notthefriendsyouputonspeaker #grief #loss #nswlegislation
18 Dec 2025
FIFO DIDO RESI
In this episode we break down the truth about working FIFO, DIDO and residential- no sugar coating, no corporate bullshit, just real experiences from two women who've lived it.
#notthefriendsyouputonspeaker #mining #fifo #dido #residential
11 Dec 2025
Women In Mining
In this episode, we dive steel cap first into the wild, gritty, absolutely unfiltered world of women in mining.
From the bullshit we've put up with, to the barriers we've smashed through, to the careers we've built and the friendships we've made.
We talk equal opportunity, safety, respect, career progression, confidence and what it really takes to survive and thrive in a male dominated industry.
If you're in mining, thinking about joining the mining industry or you just want a raw and real chat from two women who have lived it, this one's for you!
4 Dec 2025
Careers
In this episode we dive into our careers, how we got here and the wild, messy, hilarious shit we've survived along the way. From mining life to side hustles, business dreams, ambition and everything in between.
27 Nov 2025
Introduction
In our very first episode of Not the Friends You Put on Speaker, we're kicking the doors wide open and diving straight into who we are, why we're here and what unfiltered madness you can expect every week.
We introduce ourselves the only way we know how - loud, honest, foul mouthed and already oversharing. You'll hear the story behind the podcast name, how we decided to hit record and why this show is definitely not safe for speakers, workplaces, children or anyone who can't handle the truth.
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