Single Black Female New England

About Single Black Female New England

Welcome to Single Black Female New England—a bold, unfiltered podcast that dives into the unique realities of dating and daily life as a Black women in the often-overlooked corners of the Northeastern U.S. Hosted by a witty, insightful New England native & a New England transplant, this show explores everything from the joys and frustrations of finding love in predominantly white spaces, to navigating career, community, and culture in a region known more for its foliage than its diversity. Each week, you'll hear real stories, raw conversations, and candid interviews with other Black women sharing their triumphs, challenges, and unspoken truths. Whether it’s decoding the New England dating scene, confronting subtle racism in the workplace, or celebrating small wins in snowy cities, Single Black Female New England is where lived experience meets laughter, honesty, and sisterhood. This is more than a podcast—it’s a place for reflection, representation, and real talk. New episodes drop every [Friday] — tap in, sound off, and stay unapologetically you.

Publisher

Lollie N Marcelin & Angelita Chevannes

Category

society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

4 Jul 2025

Latest episode

29 Jan 2026

Latest episodes

18 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   29 Jan 2026

   Are you Sadistic and or Masochistic?

   Are you caught in a cycle of toxic romance or wondering why the modern dating scene feels like an emotional battlefield? In this provocative episode of Single Black Female, we’re pulling back the curtain on the darker psychological drivers behind our relationships. We dive deep into why some men and women lean into sadistic and masochistic behaviors in their dating lives—often without even realizing it. Whether it's the "thrill" of the chase or the comfort of the struggle, we explore why we s...

2. 

   21 Jan 2026

   Why Are They Marching?

   Are you navigating the chaotic intersection of dating and politics in the Northeast? In Season 2, Episode 2 of Single Black Female, we’re diving deep into the modern-day "bait and switch." Join us as we dissect the current political climate and its unavoidable impact on the Black dating experience in New England. From the streets to the sheets, we’re asking the hard questions: Why are they marching, and why is that energy so different from what we see on the apps? 🎙️ In This Episode, We Discu...

3. 

   13 Jan 2026

   Season (2 ) Ep 1 "Magic Stick Got Me Feeling A Way"

   Welcome to the Season 2 Premiere of Single Black Female New England! 🥂 We are back and diving straight into the deep end. In this episode, titled "Feel Some Way," we’re peeling back the layers on the emotional and physical dynamics that define our dating lives and our social reality in the Northeast. In This Episode, We Discuss: The "Standard" Struggle: Why do some men try to make you feel guilty for how you want to be treated? We’re breaking down the gaslighting that happens when you set a h...

4. 

   21 Dec 2025

   Episode 14: Tubi & Chill? The Uncut Truth About Modern Dating

   Welcome back to another unfiltered episode of Single Black Female. This week, we are diving deep into the trenches of the current dating landscape, from the "low-budget" vibes of Tubi dates to the specific anatomical surprises that catch us off guard. In this episode, we’re breaking down why some men think a "Tubi and Chill" night is an acceptable first date and how to spot a "Selective Provider"—the man who uses his co-parenting responsibilities as a shield to avoid showing up for the woman ...

5. 

   14 Nov 2025

   Episode 13: Emotional Banks, Multifaceted People, & Instigator Energy

   This week on Single Black Female New England, we're handing out financial literacy... for your feelings! We're breaking down the concept of Emotional Deposits and Withdrawals: what it means to build up your emotional bank account in relationships, how to recognize when you're being overdrawn, and the importance of knowing when to close the account. Next, the ladies celebrate complexity with a discussion on Multifaceted Women and Men. Why are we often pressured to fit into a single box? ...

6. 

   9 Nov 2025

   Episode 12: Villain Origin Story, Hobo Sexual, & The Art of Manipulation

   Single Black Female New England is back, and we're getting into the darker corners of dating and self-preservation! This week, we're dissecting the journey into your "Villain Origin Story": those pivotal moments that make you decide to stop playing nice and prioritize self-interest. Next up, we're unpacking the messy dynamics of being a "Hobo Sexual"—what does this term truly mean in the dating landscape, and how does it play into the expectations and exploitation of women? Finally, we're del...

7. 

   25 Oct 2025

   Single Black Female Podcast: Ep 11 - Black Women: An Endangered Species (Dating & Danger in 2025)

   Tune into the crucial, no-holds-barred conversation on Single Black Female Podcast, Episode 11, as we confront the uncomfortable truth: are Black women an endangered species? This episode is a deep-dive into the severe dangers for Black women around the world, covering global and domestic issues from alarming health disparities and violence to systemic neglect. We unpack the intense, often overwhelming, pressures Black women face just to exist safely and thrive. But the real talk doesn't stop...

8. 

   17 Oct 2025

   Ep 10 Part 1: Black Women: Endangered Species

   In this powerful and essential Episode 10, we dive deep into the challenging, complex, and often painful reality for Black women in modern society. Titled "Black Women: An Endangered Species," this episode fearlessly tackles the systemic issues that make survival, not just thriving, a constant battle. We explore alarming statistics and personal narratives surrounding: Mental Health and the "Strong Black Woman" Myth: The toll of constant resilience and how to prioritize self-care in a world th...

9. 

   10 Oct 2025

   Episode 9, Can't Give It Away

   Welcome back to Single Black Female! In Episode 9, "Can't Give It Away," we're getting brutally honest about the current dating landscape. Host [Host Name(s)] deep-dives into the viral topic: "Men Are Lost in New England." Is it the region, or are men everywhere struggling with commitment and direction? We share frustrating New England dating stories and social commentary on the state of men today. Then, we tackle the provocative phrase, "Can't Give It Away," as it relates to Black fem...

10. 

    29 Sept 2025

    Episode 8: "Emotionally Naked, Love Bombed & Tired: The One Who Got Away"

    In this raw and unfiltered episode of Single Black Female, we dive deep into the emotional trenches of modern dating. We're talking about the one who got away — that lingering "what if" that keeps us up at night. But it doesn’t stop there. We get emotionally naked in this conversation, exploring the vulnerability it takes to love and be loved, even when it feels like you're doing it all alone. Have you ever been love-bombed—showered with affection only to be ghosted when you let your guard do...

11. 

    26 Sept 2025

    Episode 7: "Working It Out", Separated, Been Through, Imposter

    In this episode of Single Black Female New England, we dive deep into the mess and the magic of becoming. Host [Lollie & Angie open up about navigating life after separation, the emotional weight of “being through,” and the journey of reclaiming space—physically, emotionally, and mentally. From hitting the gym to hitting personal walls, we’re talking about working out in every sense of the word. We also tackle the quiet struggle of imposter syndrome—how it creeps in when you'...

12. 

    19 Sept 2025

    Episode 6 “Don’t Play with Me” – Betrayal, Consistency & the Cost of Settling

    In this episode of Single Black Female New England, we’re getting real about the sting of betrayal, the importance of consistency, and what it means to open yourself up to something new—without lowering your dating standards. Hosts Lollie & Angie unpack the emotional rollercoaster of navigating relationships where actions don’t match words, and where “potential” often tries to pass for progress. How do you stay grounded when betrayal comes from those closest to you? Why does consistency f...

13. 

    14 Sept 2025

    Episode 5: Reclaiming Power – Agency, Toxicity & the Mirror We Avoid

    In this powerful and unfiltered episode of Single Black Female New England, we’re diving deep into the complex terrain of agency, toxicity, sexual harassment, and self-reflection. What does it truly mean to reclaim your power in spaces that constantly try to shrink you? How do we confront the toxic dynamics we participate in—or allow to continue? And when is the last time we looked in the mirror, not to judge, but to really see ourselves? Hosts Lollie & Angie unpack the layers of navigati...

14. 

    22 Aug 2025

    Episode 4, Part 1 – Triggers, Guilt, Manifestation, & the Laws of Attraction

    In this episode of Single Black Female New England, we explore the challenges and triumphs of being a single Black woman in New England through the lens of self-discovery, healing, and empowerment. We dive deep into the laws of attraction, manifestation practices, and how these shape dating, relationships, and personal growth. This conversation unpacks the emotional impact of triggers, guilt, and societal expectations that many single Black women face, while also offering tools to transform t...

15. 

    22 Aug 2025

    Episode 4, Part 2 – Triggers, Guilt, Manifestation & the Laws of Attraction

    In part 2 of this episode in this episode of Single Black Female New England, we explore the challenges and triumphs of being a single Black woman in New England through the lens of self-discovery, healing, and empowerment. We delve into the laws of attraction, manifestation practices, and how these principles shape dating, relationships, and personal growth. This conversation unpacks the emotional impact of triggers, guilt, and societal expectations that many single Black women face, while a...

16. 

    15 Aug 2025

    Ep. 2 (Part 2) New England Friendships & Wounded Warriors — Single Black Female,

    In Part 2 of Episode 2, Single Black Female delves deeper into the complex dynamics of New England friendships — from navigating unspoken boundaries to finding genuine connection in a place where social warmth can feel fleeting. Then, we shift gears to honor the resilience of our wounded warriors, exploring the parallels between healing in battle and healing in everyday life. Through candid storytelling, sharp observations, and heartfelt moments, this episode blends humor with empathy t...

17. 

    15 Aug 2025

    Episode 2 New England Friendships Part 1

    In this episode of Single Black Female, we sip tea (hot and iced — it is New England after all) and we unpack the quirks, charms, and quiet codes of friendship in the Northeast. From the art of the “polite-but-distant”, we explore what it’s like to build connections in a region where warmth takes time but runs deep once it’s there. Expect humor, real talk, and a dash of side-eye at the cultural etiquette of New England friendships. Support the show Single Black Female New England

18. 

    4 Jul 2025

    Are You Too Intimidating To Date?

    In the premiere episode of Single Black Female New England, we’re tackling a question that too many Black women have heard in the region: "Are you too intimidating to date?" Join your hosts as we unpack the loaded language behind "intimidation," why confidence and ambition are often misread in Black women, and how regional culture in New England adds another layer to the dating experience. We’ll get real about what it feels like to dim your light (or refuse to), and how to navigate the fine l...