- 13
- Episodes
- 2023
- First episode
About The Becoming You Podcast
Join host Lisa Hardie each week for real, honest, and sometimes laugh-out-loud conversations about showing up for yourself. We’re here for women ready to ditch the overwhelm, embrace self-love, and step into their best lives. Expect practical tips, tools, and tricks, personal stories, and inspiring guest interviews that will help you shift your mindset, tackle the hard stuff, and really become YOU. Are you ready to start the adventure?
- Publisher
- Lisa Hardie
- Category
- education · society & culture
- Language
- en
- Explicit
- No
- First episode
- 10 Dec 2023
- Latest episode
- 23 Jan 2026
Latest episodes
13 episodes in the feed.
23 Jan 2026
The 3 Rituals That Anchor Your Day (Even When Life Feels Chaotic)
In this episode of the Becoming You Podcast, Lisa Hardis discusses three essential rituals that can anchor your day amidst chaos. These rituals focus on self-love, intention, and mindfulness, providing practical ways to reconnect with oneself. Lisa emphasizes the importance of belief in the effectiveness of these rituals and encourages listeners to start small, adapting the rituals to their personal lives. The conversation covers the significance of morning anchors, midday resets, and evening closures, all aimed at fostering emotional well-being and grounding in daily life. Takeaways: Rituals are simple, meaningful touch points for daily life. Belief in the ritual is crucial for its effectiveness. Morning anchors help set intentions for the day. Midday resets interrupt negative thought spirals. Evening closures provide necessary rest and reflection. Rituals do not require perfect conditions to be effective. Start with one ritual and adapt it to your life. Awareness is key to recognizing when to reset. Rituals help maintain connection to oneself during chaos. You are always worthy of self-care and attention. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Rituals for Daily Anchoring04:01 The Importance of Morning Anchors08:05 Midday Resets: Finding Calm in Chaos12:21 Evening Closure: Releasing the Day Connect with Lisa: Instagram → / thelisaannecoaching TikTok → / thelisahardie YouTube → Watch our Podcast Here! Join The Joyful Mom Collective → Join the Collective Here! Get weekly inspiration, resources, and more → www.lisahardiecoaching.com
15 Jan 2026
The Real Reason You Feel Behind (It’s Not Time Management)
Do you constantly feel behind, even when you’re doing everything you’re supposed to be doing? In this episode, we’re breaking down one of the biggest misconceptions moms carry: that feeling behind means you’re bad at time management. The truth is, most moms aren’t struggling because they’re disorganized or undisciplined, they’re struggling because they’re carrying an invisible mental and emotional load that never turns off. If you’ve ever felt like your brain is always running, even when you finally sit down to rest… this episode is for you. We talk about what mental load really is, why traditional productivity and time-management advice often misses the mark for moms, and how invisible labor and emotional responsibility contribute to chronic overwhelm. Most importantly, we unpack why feeling behind does not mean you’re failing, and how to release that belief with compassion. This episode isn’t about doing more or fixing your life overnight. It’s about understanding what you’re carrying, why it feels so heavy, and learning how to reduce mental load in a way that fits real life. You’ll also learn a simple, practical reset you can implement today to help quiet the mental noise, externalize what you’re holding in your head, and begin creating relief without adding more to your plate. If you’re tired of feeling like you can’t keep up, and ready for a more supportive, realistic approach, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are. In This Episode, We Cover: Why feeling “behind” has very little to do with time management What mental load actually is (and why it’s so exhausting for moms) Invisible labor and emotional overwhelm no one talks about Why rest doesn’t feel restful when your mind won’t shut off How shame and self-blame add to burnout A simple, actionable way to reduce mental load starting today How to reframe the belief that you’re failing with compassion Why carrying less, not doing more, is the real solution Chapters: 00:00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:03:00 The Feeling of Falling Behind 00:09:00 Understanding Mental Load 00:15:00 Practical Steps to Manage Load 00:21:00 Changing Your Relationship with Pressure 00:27:00 Conclusion and Encouragement Next Steps If this episode resonated with you: Share it with someone who might need this reminder Follow the podcast so you don’t miss upcoming conversations And if you’re looking for a supportive space where these topics continue, you’re always welcome inside my free community/collective (linked below) Connect with Lisa: Instagram → / thelisaannecoaching TikTok → / thelisahardie YouTube → Watch our Podcast Here! Join The Joyful Mom Collective → Join the Collective Here! Get weekly inspiration, resources, and more → www.lisahardiecoaching.com
8 Jan 2026
Habits vs. Rituals: Why One Sticks and the Other Actually Changes Your Life
Have you ever set a habit with the best intentions… only to watch it slowly fade away? If you’ve ever wondered why some changes never seem to stick, especially in seasons where life already feels full, you’re not alone. And it’s not because you lack discipline or motivation. In this episode, we explore the powerful difference between habits and rituals, and why understanding that distinction can change the way you approach growth, self-care, and consistency (especially as a mom). Drawing inspiration from the work of Michael Bungay Stanier, author of The Coaching Habit, this conversation reframes behaviour change in a way that feels realistic, compassionate, and sustainable. We talk about why resistance is a normal part of change, how to design around it, and why returning matters more than staying perfect. You’ll also hear a personal story about skincare, not as an anti-aging routine, but as a ritual rooted in self-worth, nervous system regulation, and the belief that you deserve to be taken care of. This episode is an invitation to stop forcing change, and start supporting yourself instead. In This Episode, We Cover: The key difference between habits and rituals, and why it matters Why habits often fall apart in real life (especially for moms) How rituals create meaning, flexibility, and self-trust Why resistance is inevitable when trying something new How to work with resistance instead of fighting it Why starting small and easy makes change more sustainable The power of support and not doing change alone Why slipping doesn’t mean failing, and how returning creates real progress Key Takeaway: You don’t need more discipline or a full life overhaul. You need habits and rituals that meet you where you are, and permission to return without guilt when life gets messy. Chapters: 0:00 Introduction and Acknowledgment1:54 Habits vs. Rituals4:28 Personal Example: Skincare8:12 The Power of Rituals9:48 Working with Resistance11:54 Community and Support13:01 Conclusion and Call to Action Next Steps If this episode resonated with you: Share it with someone who might need this reminder Follow the podcast so you don’t miss upcoming conversations And if you’re looking for a supportive space where these topics continue, you’re always welcome inside my free community (linked below) Connect with Lisa: Instagram → / selflovecoachingco TikTok → / thelisahardie Join The Joyful Mom Collective → Join the Collective Here! Get weekly inspiration, resources, and more → www.lisahardiecoaching.com
1 Jan 2026
Why "Me Time" Doesn't Work for Moms
Join The Joyful Mom Collective → https://www.skool.com/the-joyful-mom-membership-3522/about In this episode, we’re talking about the truth behind “me time”, and why it often doesn’t work for moms the way we’re told it should. So much self-care advice assumes life is calm, predictable, and manageable. But what happens when it’s not? When you’re navigating grief, stress, caregiving, emotional exhaustion, or simply carrying the weight of everything that needs to get done? Lisa shares openly about her own recent season of loss and uncertainty, including the passing of her grandmother, her dad being in the ICU, and spending much of Christmas at the hospital. Through this experience, she reflects on why me time can feel impossible (and even ineffective), when it’s unplanned, unprotected, and treated as an afterthought. This episode explores the shift from accidental self-care to intentional self-support, and why planning for yourself before the week begins can be a powerful act of self-respect. Lisa introduces the concept of Monday Hour One, also known as Sunday Service Sessions, as a gentle, compassionate way to check in with yourself, protect your energy, and create space for care — even when life feels heavy. You’ll hear why starting with your own needs matters, how to treat your personal care like a non-negotiable appointment, and how intentional planning can help you feel supported inside your life instead of constantly trying to escape it. This is a grounded, honest conversation for moms who are tired of feeling like they’re failing at self-care and are ready for something that actually works in real life. If this episode resonated with you, you’re invited to join Lisa’s free community, where she hosts workshops and live Sunday Service Sessions to help moms intentionally create space for themselves. Some features are available through a paid membership for those who want deeper support, but the heart of the community is connection, compassion, and doing this together. ✨ You are worth showing up for. Always. Takeaways Self-care is often seen as a luxury for moms, but it's essential. 'Me time' can feel impossible to achieve amidst chaos. Life doesn't pause for self-care; it requires planning. Intentional self-care is more effective than accidental moments. Moms often carry a heavier emotional and mental load. Scheduling self-care should be treated as non-negotiable. Community support can enhance self-care practices. Grief and stress significantly impact self-care capacity. You deserve more than just scraps of rest. You are worth showing up for yourself. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Its Purpose 00:26 The Challenge of 'Me Time' for Moms 04:25 Intentional Self-Care: Planning Ahead 09:42 Creating a Supportive Week: The Importance of Structure 11:46 Community Support and Conclusion Connect with Lisa: Instagram → / selflovecoachingco TikTok → / thelisahardie Join The Joyful Mom Collective → https://www.skool.com/the-joyful-mom-membership-3522/about Get weekly inspiration, resources, and more → https://www.selflovecoachingco.com
18 Dec 2025
Mini Episode: Rest Is Not A Setback
This is a softer, gentler episode. Today’s episode is a reminder that rest is not a setback. It’s care, maintenance, and self-respect. If you’ve been feeling tired, overwhelmed, or stretched thin, this short check-in is here to remind you that slowing down doesn’t mean you’re falling behind. Especially as moms, we’re conditioned to push through and keep going, even when our bodies and hearts are asking for a pause. This episode is an invitation to listen, to release the guilt around rest, and to remember that you don’t need to earn your worth through productivity. Consider this your permission slip to slow down, breathe, and choose yourself - even just for a moment. Short. Gentle. Exactly what you might need today.Connect with Lisa: Instagram → / selflovecoachingco TikTok → / thelisahardie Join The Joyful Mom Collective → https://www.skool.com/the-joyful-mom-... Get weekly inspiration, resources, and more → https://www.selflovecoachingco.com 🎧 Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode with a friend who needs a little reminder: You are worth showing up for. Always.
11 Dec 2025
Filling Your Cup This Holiday Season
In the final episode of The Calm Mom Season holiday series, we’re talking about something moms rarely give themselves permission to do - receiving the same care they give everyone else. This episode takes an honest, compassionate look at the reality of motherhood during the holidays: the invisible labour, the mental overload, the overstimulation, the guilt around resting, and the pressure to be “on” even when you're completely drained. We explore the science behind why this season feels so heavy, why rest is a biological necessity (not a luxury), and how to regulate your nervous system in tiny, realistic moments that actually make a difference, especially for single moms or moms without a lot of support. This episode will help you: Understand why holiday overwhelm hits so hard Release guilt around slowing down or saying no Recognize the signs of nervous system overload Create small grounding rituals that regulate your stress response Navigate overstimulation and emotional fatigue with more compassion Shift from performance to presence Give yourself permission to take up space this season Whether your holidays are busy, bittersweet, complicated, joyful, or somewhere in between, this episode is your reminder that you deserve peace too. Reflection Prompt:What do I need this season to feel at peace? Weekly Challenge:Schedule one act of self-love this week — and protect it like any other important commitment. Be sure share this will your mom friend and follow the podcast so you don't miss any future episodes. Connect with Lisa: Instagram → / selflovecoachingco TikTok → / thelisahardie Join Our Collective → The Joyful Mom Collective Get weekly inspiration, resources, and more: Subscribe to our Newsletter Here!
3 Dec 2025
Why Perfect Moments Don’t Matter - This Does
So many moms move through the holidays carrying a weight they never talk about — the weight of trying to create “perfect” moments for everyone else. The perfect holiday.The perfect mood.The perfect memory. But here’s the truth we dive into in this episode: Perfect moments don’t matter.The real ones do.And most moms are unintentionally missing them. In this week’s Calm Mom Season holiday series episode, we explore the quiet pressure that pulls moms out of the present and into performance, and how to reclaim the moments that actually matter. This conversation is honest, grounding, and deeply human.If you’ve ever found yourself rushing, fixing, curating, or trying too hard to “make it magical,” this episode will feel like someone putting a hand on your back and saying, “You can breathe now.” ✨ Inside this episode, we talk about: Why moms often miss the very moments they’re trying to create The emotional root of perfectionism during the holidays A personal story that shifted my entire perspective What real presence looks like in everyday motherhood (it’s messy and beautiful) How to slow down enough to actually experience your life A grounding 5-minute presence practice you can use anywhere This week’s Calm Mom challenge: a no-phone night or a slow morning The thing your family remembers long after the moment is gone ✨ This episode will help you: release pressure soften your expectations reconnect with what actually matters feel more human and less “held together” find calm in the middle of real life, not after it This is your invitation to stop chasing perfect…and start living the moment you’re in. Press play when you’re ready to feel lighter. Be sure share this will your mom friend and follow the podcast so you don't miss any future episodes. Connect with Lisa: Instagram → / selflovecoachingco TikTok → / thelisahardie Website → www.selflovecoachingco.com
27 Nov 2025
The Calm Mom Holiday Series: The Pressure to Be Merry
The holidays are here… and while this season is often painted as joyful and magical, the reality for many moms is far more complex. In today’s episode of The Becoming You Podcast, we’re diving into one of the most emotionally charged experiences of the holiday season: the pressure to be merry — even when you’re not. This episode comes at a deeply personal moment. My grandma recently passed away, and I’ve been navigating grief in a season that’s supposed to be filled with cheer. I share openly about what this feels like, how emotional pressure shows up for moms, and why so many women feel obligated to be “happy” during the holidays even when life is heavy. If you’ve ever found yourself smiling through stress, pushing down your feelings to keep the peace, or pretending you’re fine just because it’s Christmas…this episode is for you. Chapters: 00:00 - Navigating the Holiday Pressure 07:32 - Embracing Authentic Emotions 10:55 - The Magic of Being You Mentioned in this episode:🩷 Join The Joyful Mom Collective, a supportive space for moms to reconnect with themselves, find joy, and live with balance and self-love. It’s the perfect Christmas gift for you.👉 Learning more about the Collective HERE Reflection for this week:Where have I been forcing myself to be “merry,” and what do I actually need emotionally right now? Challenge:Allow yourself to feel one emotion fully without judging it or pushing it down.Name it.Acknowledge it.Let it exist without apologizing for it. Connect with Lisa: Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/selflovecoachingco TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@thelisahardie Website → www.selflovecoachingco.com 🎧 Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode with a friend who needs a little reminder: You are worth showing up for. Always.
19 Nov 2025
The Calm Mom Holiday Series: Finding Calm in the Holiday Chaos
The holidays are here, and while they’re supposed to be filled with joy and connection, sometimes they feel more like chaos and overwhelm. Between the planning, the shopping, and the pressure to make everything perfect, it’s easy to lose sight of what this season is really about. In this first episode of The Calm Mom Holiday Series, Lisa opens up about the first time she hosted Christmas, how she tried to do it all herself, what happened when she didn’t accept help, and the powerful lesson she learned about perfection, peace, and letting go. If you’ve ever felt the pressure to make the holidays “just right,” this episode is your permission slip to slow down, release control, and find moments of calm, right in the middle of the mess. You’ll learn:✨ How to let go of perfection and find peace in imperfection✨ Why asking for help is a form of self-love (not weakness)✨ Simple ways to ground yourself when things feel chaotic✨ How to create your own “peaceful pause ritual” this season Mentioned in this episode:🩷 Join The Joyful Mom Collective, a supportive space for moms to reconnect with themselves, find joy, and live with balance and self-love. It’s the perfect Christmas gift for you.👉 Learning more about the Collective HERE Reflection for this week:What would my most peaceful holiday season feel like? Challenge:Create one peaceful pause ritual this week to ground yourself and bring calm back into your day. Connect with Lisa: Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/selflovecoachingco TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@thelisahardie Website → www.selflovecoachingco.com 🎧 Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode with a friend who needs a little reminder: You are worth showing up for. Always.
11 Nov 2025
How to Let Go of the Guilt and Finally Feel Free
This episode of The Becoming You Podcast was released on November 11th, Remembrance Day.Before diving in, Lisa takes a moment to pause and acknowledge the brave men and women who have served and sacrificed for our freedom. Their courage is a reminder of the strength, resilience, and peace we’re all capable of finding within ourselves. From there, she dives into one of the most universal struggles so many of us face, guilt. That heavy, exhausting feeling that tells you you’re not doing enough; whether as a mom, a partner, or even just as a person trying your best. In this honest and heartfelt episode, Lisa Hardie, Self-Love and Life Coach, opens up about her own journey through mom guilt and the deep self-blame she carried after her marriage ended. Through vulnerability and reflection, she shares what helped her release the weight of guilt and finally find peace, not by being perfect, but by forgiving herself. You’ll learn: Why guilt isn’t proof that you care, it’s proof that you’re human How mom guilt and self-blame shape your identity What really happens in your brain when guilt becomes chronic Four powerful mindset shifts to reframe and release guilt How to turn guilt into gratitude and self-compassion Lisa reminds us that you can’t carry both guilt and growth, one keeps you stuck in the past, the other helps you move forward. 🎧 Tune in to learn how to forgive yourself, let go of what’s weighing you down, and start living in the “what now” instead of the “should have.” ✨ Plus, stay tuned for a preview of next week’s episode — the start of Lisa’s new four-part series: “How to Calm the Chaos During the Holidays.” Mentioned in this episode: 🌸 The Joyful Mom Collective: A supportive community for moms ready to let go of guilt, embrace joy, and rediscover themselves, one small shift at a time.✨ Doors officially open in early December! Learn more at https://www.skool.com/the-joyful-mom-membership-3522/about Special note:This episode was recorded and released on Remembrance Day, honouring those who have served and sacrificed for our freedom. May we carry their spirit of resilience as we work toward peace within ourselves and in the world around us.Connect with Lisa: Watch the episodes on YouTube Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/selflovecoachingco TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@thelisahardie Website → www.selflovecoachingco.com 🎧 Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode with a friend who needs a little reminder: You are worth showing up for. Always.
4 Nov 2025
How to Date Yourself: The Secret to Confidence, Self-Love, and Joy
Have you ever felt uncomfortable doing things alone? Or maybe the idea of taking yourself out on a “solo date” feels awkward, intimidating, or even a little scary? In this week’s episode of The Becoming You Podcast, we’re talking all about what it really means to date yourself and why it just might be the most life-changing relationship you’ll ever have. Lisa shares her own journey of learning how to spend intentional time alone, how she moved past the fear of judgment, and what she discovered on the other side: confidence, peace, and a deeper sense of self-love than she ever thought possible. 💬 In this episode, you’ll hear: What “dating yourself” actually means (and what it’s not) Why it feels so uncomfortable and scary at first The science-backed benefits of solitude and self-connection Practical ideas for planning your first solo date The emotional and personal growth that comes from learning to enjoy your own company Lisa also shares key studies showing how intentional alone time improves emotional regulation, reduces stress, and builds confidence—reminding us that spending time with ourselves isn’t selfish, it’s essential. 💡 Your Takeaway This week, plan one solo date. It doesn’t have to be elaborate—just something that lets you reconnect with yourself. Notice what comes up, how it feels, and what parts of you you start to rediscover. 🔗 Episode Resources 10 Ways to Date Yourself Workbook – Download coming soon at selflovecoachingco.com Follow Lisa on Instagram @selflovecoachingco and TikTok @thelisahardie 💕 If you enjoy this episode: Subscribe or follow the show so you don’t miss new episodes every week Leave a quick review, it helps other women find the podcast and reminds me you’re out there listening Share this episode with someone who could use the reminder that she’s worth showing up for
28 Oct 2025
The Journey Back to Yourself
In this first episode, I share my personal journey of losing myself and what it took to finally start showing up for me. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of who you are beyond the roles you play, this episode will remind you that it’s never too late to reconnect with yourself. You’ll hear my story, what to expect from the show, and a simple step you can take this week to start showing up for yourself again.
10 Dec 2023
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Welcome to The Becoming You Podcast with your host, Lisa Hardie! Get ready for raw and honest solo conversations, insightful interviews, and discussions on self-care, mindset, dating yourself, anxiety, and so much more. Lisa shares tips, tricks, and tools to help you navigate the journey of personal growth. Join us as we tackle the hard stuff, change mindsets, and embrace who you truly are. Subscribe now for empowering stories and a supportive community. Let's take this journey, together.
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