In a time where we're all threatened by a rhetoric of hate from the people in power; A Gay And A NonGay challenges our differences. No matter who you are, or what you're into, gay's and nongay's can & should be friends.
'Highly Recommended' Guardian
'One of the most fundamentally kind and funny podcasts in Britain' RadioTimes
'A hilarious take on love, friendship and sex' TimeOut
An independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@DanHudson). Find us on Insta, TikTok, Twitter and Facebook @gaynongay
Get bonus content on Patreon, with our super exclusive fan feed
10 Years Of A Gay and A NonGay: Jamie Dornan Reviews His 'Doppelgänger' Dan
This is a re-release celebrating a decade of love and allyship on A Gay And A NonGay. For our final throwback, we're revisiting a particularly memorable episode from February 2024...
It's finally happened. What does Jamie Dornan think of Dan moonlighting as a Jamie Dornan look alike? Jamie Dornan makes a surprise appearance to settle the score on Dan's Jamie Dornan lookalike status.
Plus our listener shares his struggles with being mistaken for gay and wonders if there's something he's missing about himself.
Follow A Gay & A NonGay
TikTok: @gaynongay
Instagram: @gaynongay
YouTube: @gaynongay
Facebook: @gaynongay
Website: gaynongay.com
Email Us: us@gaynongay.com
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
29 Dec 2025
10 Years Of A Gay and A NonGay: Confessions Of A Gay Metal God with Rob Halford
This is a re-release celebrating a decade of love and allyship on A Gay And A NonGay. This week we're throwing it back to November 2020...
On this episode, Dan and James are joined by the rainbow of metal, the Metal God himself, Rob Halford, frontman for Birmingham heavy metal legends Judas Priest. Wahey.
Rob came out as gay live on MTV in 1998, today we chat about his incredible journey as the gay frontman of one of the biggest heavy metal bands in the world - his coming out, his meeting with Cilla Black at Buckingham Palace and his friendship with Lady GaGa!
He offers his support to outsiders in the LGBTQ+ community and this episode is a really important reminder that not all gay people are the same. Get those leathers on and strap in…
Follow A Gay & A NonGay
TikTok: @gaynongay
Instagram: @gaynongay
YouTube: @gaynongay
Facebook: @gaynongay
Website: gaynongay.com
Email Us: us@gaynongay.com
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
24 Dec 2025TRANSCRIPT
10 Years Of A Gay and A NonGay: The London Patient: A Cure for HIV?
This is a re-release celebrating a decade of love and allyship on A Gay And A NonGay. This week we're throwing it back to May 2020...
We've heard about 'expendable' populations before, but last time they meant gay people.
32 million people have died of AIDS related illnesses since the 1980s and in 2018, 770,000 people died worldwide because of the virus. The London Patient: A Cure For HIV? is the first episode in a brand new two-part series - funded by the Wellcome Trust and the British Podcast Awards Fund.
Both episodes were recorded in accordance with government social distancing measures.
On this episode, we look at the start of the epidemic, chat to AIDS activist Sir Nick Partridge OBE and head to Oxford to meet Professor John Frater who explains the science behind HIV. Trigger warning: Contains upsetting audio.
Incredible advances in medicine now mean that if you are HIV+ and on effective treatment, you can’t pass it on. Undetectable = Untransmittable. And in March 2019, it was revealed that a second person had been cured of HIV - The London Patient.
What does the London Patient’s story tell us about a cure for HIV? Plus in the age of Covid19, can the story of HIV and AIDS offer the world any hope?
This episode is bought to you with thanks to the MTV Staying Alive Foundation, the Terrence Higgins Trust and the National AIDS Trust.
Follow A Gay & A NonGay
TikTok: @gaynongay
Instagram: @gaynongay
YouTube: @gaynongay
Facebook: @gaynongay
Website: gaynongay.com
Email Us: us@gaynongay.com
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Inside a recent episode
10 Years Of A Gay and A NonGay: Jamie Dornan Reviews His 'Doppelgänger' Dan
Published 31 Dec 2025 · Transcript excerpt
[…] Okay, right. Hi, again, Longay. I need your advice. I moved to London from a small village in southwest England, just, this is oddly specific, just over seven years ago for university. I lost my virginity to a girl in my first year and hooked up with another couple of girls in my second year. However, since then, I've not managed to pull anyone. Right, hello from the 90s. No matter how great my chat is... on a night out or at a party girls just never seem interested now after confiding in my close friends i've discovered that every single one of my friends thought i was gay when they first met me right literally all of them and since finding this out i've realized that most women i meet might assume the same thing so dan how would you make sure a girl you're chatting to knows you're straight James, could they be seeing something in me that I haven't seen myself? […]
Pod Engine is an independent podcast discovery and analytics service and is not affiliated with or endorsed by this podcast. Artwork and show content belong to their owners. Full legal notice.
Explore this show Podcast research with Pod Engine
