A Gift For Grief

About A Gift For Grief

A Gift for Grief with Louise Bates A compassionate podcast for anyone navigating the pain of loss and looking for connection, comfort, and healing. Grief can feel isolating—but you are not alone. In A Gift for Grief, Louise Bates creates a safe, honest, and empathetic space for conversations about bereavement, grief, and life after loss. Each episode features deeply moving stories from individuals who have experienced the death of a loved one—offering hope, support, and real-life insight into the grieving process. Having lost her son Matthew, Louise brings a personal understanding of the darkness and depth that grief can bring. Her gentle, real, and open approach provides a beacon for listeners searching for meaning, comfort, or simply someone who understands. If you are currently experiencing grief or you feel stuck in your journey, please know that you are not alone. Welcome to this safe and compassionate community. 👉 Subscribe and follow A Gift for Grief on Acast or your favorite podcast platform so you never miss an episode of connection and comfort. 🔗 Explore more resources: https://linktr.ee/louisebates (https://linktr.ee/louisebates) #GriefPodcast #LifeAfterLoss #GriefSupport #ChildLoss #BereavementJourney #GriefHealing #GriefAwareness #LossSupport #MentalHealth #AFriendInGrief Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

Publisher

Louise Bates

Category

health & fitness · society & culture · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

28 Jul 2023

Latest episode

1 Sept 2026

Latest episodes

57 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   1 Sept 2026

   Do Our Loved Ones Send Us Signs? Real Stories of the Afterlife – Part 1

   Do our loved ones really send us signs? Can a white feather, a robin, a butterfly, or even a golf ball be more than coincidence? In this special compilation episode I bring together some of the most moving conversations I've had with previous guests as we explore one of the questions that fascinates so many people: Is there life after death and do our loved ones find ways to let us know they're still with us? The inspiration for this episode came after listening to Steven Bartlett's conversation with neuroscientist Dr Tara Swart on The Diary of a CEO. Their discussion about consciousness, life after death, and the possibility of receiving signs from loved ones became one of the podcast's most listened-to episodes and inspired me to revisit the incredible stories my own guests have shared. Whether you're a firm believer, an atheist, agnostic, spiritual, religious, or simply curious, this episode offers a wide range of honest perspectives. There are no right or wrong answers, only deeply personal experiences that have brought comfort, hope, and meaning to people living with grief. Along the way we explore some of the signs people commonly report, including: White feathers Butterflies Robins Rainbows Meaningful coincidences Dreams Intuitive feelings Hearing a loved one's voice Unexpected moments that bring comfort Ultimately, this episode isn't about proving whether the afterlife exists. It's about listening to people's experiences with an open mind and recognising the comfort these moments can bring during grief. I'd love to hear from you... Have you ever experienced what you believe was a sign from someone you've lost? Was it a feather, a butterfly, a robin, a dream or something impossible to explain? Email me and let me know. Your experience may bring comfort to someone else walking through grief. If this episode resonated with you, I'd be incredibly grateful if you could follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with someone who may need a little hope today. Recommended Books: Signs by Dr Tara Swart E – Squared by Pam Grout The Diary of a CEO podcast with Steven Bartlett https://stevenbartlett.com If this conversation has helped you, please consider following or subscribing to A Gift For Grief. Leaving a review and sharing the episode helps these important conversations reach more people who may need them. Connect with your host Louise: https://www.louisebates.co.uk/ (https://www.louisebates.co.uk/) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

2. 

   8 Aug 2026

   A Birthday in Heaven: Remembering My Son Matthew

   There are some birthdays I will never stop celebrating in my heart. People often say that time heals, but if you've lost someone you love, you'll know that grief doesn't heal, it changes. You learn to carry it, and somehow you learn to carry the love too. That's what this episode is about. In this episode I reflect on the journey of living with loss, and read the beautiful poem - The Dash. This poem reminds us that our lives are not measured simply by the dates at the beginning and end, but by the little dash between them. That tiny line represents every smile, every act of kindness, every challenge overcome, every person we've loved, and every life we've touched. Matthew's dash lasted just 27 years, but the love he gave and the difference he made continue to ripple through the lives of those who knew him. His story reminds me that it isn't the length of our lives that matters most, it's how we choose to live them. If you're grieving someone you love, I hope this episode brings you comfort. I hope it reminds you that love doesn't end when a life does, and that the people we miss most continue to shape who we are every single day. Thank you for allowing me to share Matthew with you. His life will always be one of the greatest gifts I've ever known, and I hope that, through this episode, his legacy encourages you to treasure every precious moment of your own dash. I recorded this special birthday episode in Matthew's memory. Together we reflect on the beautiful poem The Dash and what it teaches us about grief, love, legacy, and living a life that matters. Whether you're grieving a child, a parent, a partner, a sibling, or a friend, I hope this episode brings comfort and reminds you that love never dies. If this conversation has helped you, please consider following or subscribing to A Gift For Grief. Leaving a review and sharing the episode helps these important conversations reach more people who may need them. Connect with your host Louise: https://www.louisebates.co.uk/ (https://www.louisebates.co.uk/) Credit: The Dash poem, written by Linda Ellis, copyright Southwestern Family of Companies (www.thedashpoem.com (http://www.thedashpoem.com)), Used by Permission. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

3. 

   1 Aug 2026

   Baby Loss: Grieving One Twin While Celebrating Another

   In this deeply moving episode, Louise is joined by Richard Ganjavi, who shares the heartbreaking experience of grieving the loss of his daughter, Bella, while celebrating the arrival of her twin sister Penelope (Penny). Richard speaks with honesty and compassion about receiving the heartbreaking news at a routine 34-week scan that one of the twins had died, meeting both daughters just two days later, and navigating the impossible emotions of welcoming one baby into the world while saying goodbye to another. He shares the precious memories made during Bella's short time with her family, the exceptional care they received from the staff at Warwick Hospital, and the incredible support provided by organisations dedicated to helping bereaved families. Richard also talks about writing his children's book, Whispers of a Purple Butterfly, explaining how storytelling became part of his own healing journey while creating something that offers hope and comfort to other families facing baby loss. This conversation is a powerful reminder that grief and joy can exist side by side, and that love continues long after someone dies. In this episode we discuss: The unique grief of losing one twin while welcoming another Receiving devastating news during a routine pregnancy scan Creating precious memories with a baby after stillbirth The importance of Cuddle Cots and giving families the gift of time Life in the Special Care Baby Unit while grieving The emotional challenges of parenting after baby loss The compassion of healthcare professionals The meaning of the Purple Butterfly symbol Support available for bereaved parents How writing became part of Richard's healing journey Faith, hope and finding meaning after profound loss Living with grief while embracing joy Recommended book: Whispers of a Purple Butterfly by Richard Ganjavi – Available from Amazon. https://bit.ly/4vUMoba (https://bit.ly/4vUMoba) Connect with Richard Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rganjaviwriter (https://www.instagram.com/rganjaviwriter) The Lily Mae Foundation https://www.lilymaefoundation.org (https://www.lilymaefoundation.org/) The Skye High Foundation https://www.theskyehighfoundation.com/ (https://www.skyehighfoundation.org/) The Luca Foundation https://thelucafoundation.org.uk/ (https://thelucafoundation.org.uk/) Purple Butterfly Initiative (supporting families who lose one or more babies from a multiple pregnancy) https://www.theskyehighfoundation.co.uk/gallery (https://www.skyehighfoundation.org/purple-butterfly) Jasper's Rainbow – Supporting bereaved parents and families following the loss of a baby. Their resources offer comfort, practical guidance and ongoing support. Website:https://jaspersrainbow.com/\ (https://jaspersrainbow.com/%5C) Previous episode mentioned Episode 19 – Sharon Luca Hatha Louise speaks with Sharon Luca-Hatha whose own experience of stillbirth inspired the creation of The Luca Foundation. Through her work, thousands of bereaved families have been given the precious gift of time with their babies through the provision of Cuddle Cots in maternity units across the UK. About Richard Richard Ganjavi is a primary school teacher, author and father. Following the loss of his daughter Bella while expecting twins, he wrote Whispers of a Purple Butterfly to help children and families navigate love, remembrance and baby loss with honesty, hope and compassion. Please remember that you are not alone. Grief can feel incredibly isolating, but there is support available. If this conversation has helped you, please consider following or subscribing to A Gift For Grief. Leaving a review and sharing the episode helps these important conversations reach more people who may need them. Connect with Louise: https://www.louisebates.co.uk/ (https://www.louisebates.co.uk/) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

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