We all grow up hearing “act your age,” as if there’s one right way to be at every stage of life. But life doesn’t move in neat stages, and neither do we. Acting My Age is a monthly conversation about navigating your twenties in real time. It’s about shifting identities, gentle self-discovery, lessons that land slowly, and the quiet chaos of becoming. The episodes should feel like late-night conversations with someone who gets it, someone figuring it out too, just a few steps ahead or behind.
Voice Memo: What stability looks like at 27 - spoiler: it’s still chaotic
This episode is a 25-minute ramble about what stability means when you’re no longer chasing what the world calls “secure.” I talk about growing up, redefining stability, and learning to make peace with change, the kind of change that’s constant, uncomfortable, but somehow grounding.
It’s about the shift from wanting life to be stable to feeling aligned. From 23 to 27, growth has been less about building a perfect structure and more about finding rhythm in the mess and choosing peace that feels real over order that looks good.
19 Sept 2024
Voice Memo: Religion, God, the Universe and Existence
I saw a post by @purplehelena on tiktok (go watch it!!!!!) talking about why she’s agnostic and what religion/belief meant to her. It resonated with me as well and I wanted to capture my own thoughts as I discoved/listed to her perspective and what was meant to be a voice memo somehow turned into a 40-minute conversation with myself about Agnosticism, God, Religion, the Universe and Existence! So, zero structure here. Give it a listen if you want. I went through a series of understanding belief systems, why/why not religion, human existence and blah blah blah. Enjoy I guess🤩🤩🤩
15 Apr 2024
is social media fake? influencer culture and being chronically online
Surely everything we see on social media is curated and fake? Maybe not? On today's episode, we dive into curated media, content creation, influencer lies and why we may need to touch some grass here and there. PS: I swear I'm not fighting in this episode, though it may seem that way ;)
7 Jan 2024
feminine vs masculine energy: wtf? modern day patriarchy
Are you in your ✨soft girl, most feminine✨ era? In this episode, we talk about how language can impact how ideas are received. We dive into how being chronically online can impact our thoughts and how important it is for us to decenter men to maintain authenticity.
29 Oct 2023
Let’s discuss: Careers, passions and capitalism in your twenties
Careers are a scam, surely? "Do what you love and never work a day in your life"! Uhhh? Under capitalism? No such thing. In this episode, we talk about how the idea of a linear career design isn't very human. We also dive into how capitalism has tricked us into giving up the best years of our lives for a later *perceived* freedom and ALSO the best parts of ourselves by convincing us, "If you're good at something, never do it for free", and SO MUCH MORE.
16 Jun 2023
dating older men in your early twenties: mature taste, daddy issues or just societal grooming?
What even are daddy issues? Like your men just how you like your wine? Can't be grooming if ✨you✨ made the decision, can it?
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17 Mar 2023
why do people have kids? the concept of mini mees, broke besties and treating children like sub-humans.
In today’s episode, I’m playing ✨devil’s advocate✨ on some of the reasons people have children. Of course there’s a lot of projecting and everything I say is based on my worldview (but maybe some things are fact, not opinion 😆). So stick around if you want to hear some potentially ✨problematic✨ takes. 😘
13 Oct 2022
you're not the girl you think you are: body dysmorphia, disordered eating, insecurities & more
✨Trigger Warning✨ On this week's ep on the AMA podcast, we're talking about body dysmorphia, living for your fictional self, bringing into light some of your (read my) insecurities, internalized fat-phobia and the desirability Olympics. We dive into my eating habits, self-image and all the juicy buzzwords relating to our body images and how we view ourselves. Please give me a dollar every time I mention one of them. I hope u enjoy the EP! ☺❤
23 Sept 2022
why women (me) like gay porn.
Am I the only one who truly enjoys gay porn as a cis female? (spoiler alert, no I'm not.) What's that about anyways? Well, in this episode I dive right in as to why women (me) prefer watching two men getting it on over cis porn. If you're curious to know and maybe have yourself validated for your likes, this is the episode for you. 😌
Apologies in advance for some of the sound differences in there! ❤
connect with me on Instagram: @actingmyage.podcast
7 Mar 2022
prioritizing pleasure: instant gratification in a world of capitalism and social media
Putting yourself and pleasure first has never been harder, especially in the current rise and grind era. In this episode of Acting My Age, we talk about everything pleasure: what prioritizing pleasure looks like, the trope of 'nothing good comes easily' and how we often perform pleasure based on societal principles instead of ourselves.
connect with me on Instagram: @actingmyage.podcast
3 Feb 2022
"stop being silly and act your age, Amy Ray!" - welcome to the Acting My Age podcast.
We've all probably heard someone say, "Act your age!" But what does that even mean? This is a weekly podcast where Amy Ray shares her experiences navigating young adulthood as a 23-year old woman. She takes us along her journey and defines what acting her age truly means for her. The episodes are meant to feel like conversations with a close friend, discussing new findings, manifestations, hobbies, feelings, all the popular buzzwords, society and culture and everything in between whilst stumbling through adulthood, trying to casually grow with the flow.
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