Welcome to Actually, I Like My Spouse — the podcast for couples who believe marriage can be FUN, faith-filled, and full of friendship. We’re Kreasha and Michael Webley — 12 years together, 7 years married, and still crushing on each other. Each week, we share honest, funny, and sometimes spicy conversations that keep us connected and thriving — and we’ll help you do the same. Whether you’re newly engaged, years into love, or working to bring the spark back, you’ll find practical tools, real talk, and plenty of laughs to help your relationship feel lighter, closer, and built to last.
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In this episode of 'Actually, I Like My Spouse,' we dive into our weekly segment called 'Love It or Leave It,' where we discuss some of the hottest relationship takes from the internet. We tackle topics like the importance of weekly date nights, whether to go to bed angry, if your partner should be your best friend, and the famous saying 'Happy Wife, Happy Life.' We also talk about the necessity of separate bank accounts, the benefits of therapy for couples, sharing phone passwords, and setting realistic boundaries in relationships. Join us as we share our perspectives and insights!
00:00 Introduction to 'Love It or Leave It'
00:41 Date Nights: Weekly Ritual or Unrealistic Pressure?
02:47 Never Go to Bed Angry: Toxic Positivity or Peace Practice?
04:50 Should Your Partner Be Your Best Friend?
06:56 Happy Wife, Happy Life: Wisdom or Low Effort?
08:38 Separate Bank Accounts: Financial Independence or Division?
10:18 Couples Therapy: Preventative or Overkill?
12:28 Knowing Each Other's Phone Passwords: Trust or Control?
13:30 Can Your Partner Be Your Everything?
14:30 Should You Have to Ask for What You Need?
15:15 Conclusion and Podcast Promotion
15 Sept 2025
Your Spouse Is NOT The Enemy!
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It’s not a fight against each other, it’s fight against the problem.
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
00:41 Technical Difficulties and Reshoot
02:33 Emotional Impact of Reshooting
04:40 Navigating Personal Challenges
06:07 Commitment and Authenticity
07:13 Love, Heal, Inspire
11:11 Your Spouse Is Not The Enemy
12:22 A Little Bit About A Lot with Big Daddy Mike
12:36 The History of Black Television
17:07 Why We Sometimes Feel Like Our Spouse Is The Enemy
28:47 Emotional Hijacking and The Real Enemy
34:02 Ego and Individuality in Modern Marriages
35:27 Core Values and Communication
35:58 Invisible Labor and Relationship Dynamics
37:56 Resentment and Stonewalling
47:22 Trusting in God's Plan
49:42 Shifting Mindsets and Conflict Resolution
01:02:40 The Importance of Friendship in Marriage
01:06:05 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
Discover the truth about your marriage and learn how to strengthen your relationship by shifting your perspective. In this video, we explore the common misconception that our spouse is the enemy, and how this mindset can harm our marriage. By recognizing that our partner is not the adversary, we can work together to build a stronger, more loving relationship. Learn how to communicate effectively, resolve conflicts, and nurture a deeper connection with your spouse. If you're looking for a more harmonious and fulfilling marriage, this video is for you. Watch now and start building a stronger, happier relationship with your partner.
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8 Sept 2025
Is Your Marriage Relationship Goals? Redefining Relationship Goals: Beyond the Instagram Image
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00:00 Introduction to Relationship Goals
00:17 Welcome Back and Personal Updates
01:12 Defining Relationship Goals
01:30 The Great Lock In and Marriage Goals
03:49 Individualism in Marriage
04:31 Reflecting on Personal Goals
05:51 Supporting Each Other's Goals
08:46 Quentin Tarantino's Life-Changing Reflection
11:27 Role-Playing Exercise for Goal Setting
14:07 Career Reflections and Lessons Learned
24:43 Struggles in Medical School
25:03 Discovering Fashion Merchandising
26:18 Transition to Fashion Blogging
27:11 Chasing Money in Tech
28:40 Entrepreneurial Lessons Learned
33:50 Revisiting Dreams and Goals
41:32 Setting Realistic Goals for Couples
43:31 Encouragement for Couples and Individuals
47:51 Conclusion and Future Plans
25 Aug 2025
The #1 Reason Your Marriage feels SO Hard!
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00:00 Introduction: Why Marriage Feels Hard
00:27 The Real Problem: It's You
00:48 Internal Baggage and Its Impact
03:40 The Journey Back Home: Self-Love, Self-Worth, and Self-Forgiveness
05:20 Self-Love: The Foundation of a Healthy Marriage
21:31 Self-Worth: Believing You Are Enough
22:20 Cultural Expectations and Self-Worth
23:04 Personal Journey to Self-Worth
23:34 The Role of Worthiness in Relationships
25:58 Navigating Worthiness in Marriage
33:39 The Power of Self-Forgiveness
46:00 Building a Supportive Community#marriageadvice
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18 Aug 2025
Exploring Better Communication and Unmet Expectations in Marriage EPS 3
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Welcome back to 'Actually, I Like My Spouse!' In this episode, Michael and Kreasha Webley dive deep into the foundation of a great marriage and whether marriage lives up to the hype. We discuss the importance of fun, faith, and friendship in a relationship, share personal stories from our journey, and offer tips on handling unmet expectations within a marriage. We also explore the concept of invisible labor, the significance of communication, and the need for setting realistic expectations. Plus, don't miss out on our 'Actually I Like My Spouse Weekly Scorecard' to help you and your partner improve your relationship. Join us for an insightful and candid conversation on love, marriage, and everything in between!
00:00 Welcome Back to 'I Like My Spouse'
00:44 Launching Our Podcast: Reflections and Feelings
03:49 Does Marriage Live Up to the Hype?
09:12 Expectations vs. Reality in Marriage
22:27 The Role of Faith and Friendship in Marriage
25:38 Understanding Contempt in Relationships
26:40 Unspoken Expectations and Communication
27:19 Using 'I' Statements to Improve Communication
28:54 Silent Score Keeping in Relationships
30:27 Addressing Unmet Expectations Around Intimacy
31:12 The Importance of Setting the Stage for Conversations
35:39 Unacknowledged Invisible Labor
38:57 The Role of Communication in Managing Expectations
43:02 Baseline Expectations in Partnerships
47:19 Weekly Scorecard Challenge#marraigecouple #marriageadvice #communicationinmarriage #silenttreatment #communicationskills
11 Aug 2025
6 Ways to Increase Intimacy In Your Marriage EPISODE 2
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In this episode, we dive deep into maintaining intimacy in long-term monogamous relationships. We discuss the importance of flirting, both inside and outside of your relationship, and address how playful interactions can reignite desire between partners. We also share practical tips on creating a more intimate environment and discuss ways to maintain mystery and exploration in your relationship. Listen as we recount personal anecdotes, present intriguing research, and offer actionable advice for couples seeking to keep their fire burning bright.
00:00 Introduction to Rekindling Intimacy
00:25 Welcome Back: Episode Two
01:27 Special K's Segment: A Little About A Lot
02:15 Psychoactives and Personal Experiences
04:58 The Ayahuasca Journey and Bad Trips
08:45 Meditation and Self-Discovery
10:47 Flirting in Long-Term Relationships
27:04 Emotional Affairs vs. Flirtation
27:28 Flirting Within Relationships
28:44 Three Flirtatious Tips for Women
30:55 Three Flirtatious Tips for Men
41:58 The Importance of Mystery in Relationships
46:07 Spicing Up Long-Term Relationships
50:11 Intimacy Challenges and Communication
53:35 Conclusion and Viewer Engagement
6 Aug 2025
Do You Even Like Your Partner? What's the difference between Love and Like? AILMS Episode 1
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Hey loves! It's The Webley's, Kreasha and Michael here, welcoming you to 'Actually, I Like My Spouse' podcast. We believe a great marriage is rooted in fun, anchored in faith, and fueled by friendship. Join us in our living room as we dive deep into the essence of love and like in long-term partnerships. We explore how having meaningful conversations can be an anchor in marriage and discuss the importance of feeling safe with your partner to share differing opinions. We'll also touch on how our relationships evolve and the necessity of being curious about the new versions of each other. Get ready for real talk on the difference between love and like, maintaining attraction, and re-learning your partner. Don't forget to take our 'Actually I Like My Spouse' quiz to get personalized tips. https://stan.store/actuallyilikemyspouse (https://stan.store/actuallyilikemyspouse)
Tune in every Wednesday for more insights and connection. Let's grow together!
00:00 Welcome to the Podcast
00:51 Setting the Scene: Our Home Studio
01:18 The Importance of Conversations in Marriage
02:43 Friendship as the Foundation of Relationships
03:21 Generational Perspectives on Relationships
06:33 Introducing Today's Topic: Like vs. Love
08:31 A Little About a Lot with Special K
11:26 Personal Reflections on Self-Love and Partnership
15:05 Early Stages of Love and Like
23:53 Navigating Expectations in Relationships
26:16 The Significance of Liking Your Partner
27:56 Foundations of a Strong Relationship
28:38 The Importance of Liking Your Partner
30:53 Rekindling Friendships and Partnerships
34:00 Adapting to Changes in Relationships
37:20 Maintaining Attraction Over Time
46:42 Growing Together Through Life's Seasons
51:50 Challenge of the Week and Final Thoughts
31 Jul 2025
Introducing the 'Actually, I Like My Spouse' The Couples Podcast
Launching August 6th!
In the prelaunch Episode 0 of the 'Actually, I Like My Spouse,' Podcast hosts Michael and Kreasha Webley discuss their motivations for starting a podcast centered around sharing their positive and fulfilling marriage experiences. Feeling called by God and reflecting on their 12 years together, they aim to counter the dominant narrative that marriage is difficult and uninspiring. They highlight the importance of maintaining love and connection in marriage, sharing their journey in real-time to inspire and relate with others.
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00:00 Introduction to Our Podcast
00:09 Why We Started This Podcast
00:54 The Blessing of Marriage
01:27 Changing the Narrative on Marriage
01:53 Staying in Love
02:55 Our Journey and Invitation
03:14 Authenticity in Sharing
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