- 19
- Episodes
- 22
- Ratings
- 2024
- First episode
About AFFECT
We are bringing you the highs & lows, the laughter & tears, and everything in between as prison girlfriends. Our intention is to shed light on perspectives overlooked & provide a platform for voices that deserve to be heard. Whether you’re an outsider looking in or finding solace in shared experiences, this is an intimate exploration into our world. From navigating prison visits to the emotional roller coaster of letters & calls, we’re here to open up the conversation and breakdown the stereotypes. The Affect Podcast is a platform where the bars may separate, but the stories connect us all.
- Publisher
- AFFECT
- Category
- society & culture
- Language
- en
- Explicit
- Yes
- First episode
- 16 Mar 2024
- Latest episode
- 23 Jul 2024
Latest episodes
19 episodes in the feed.
23 Jul 2024
A Torturous Lullaby
Peggy West-Schroder, the executive director of Free, discusses the work her organization is doing to support incarcerated women and girls in Wisconsin. Free focuses on issues such as maternal and infant health, healthcare for incarcerated individuals, housing, and ending the shackling of pregnant women and girls. Peggy shares her personal experience with incarceration and the impact it has had on her life. She also highlights the need for change within the criminal justice system and the importance of advocating for the rights and dignity of incarcerated individuals. Connect with Free: Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/freeWI2018) Website (https://freemvmnt.org/) Connect with Affect: Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/theprisonaffect) Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/721518283487390/?ref=profile_plus_visit_group) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/theprisonaffect/) TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@theprisonaffect) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ2BWTF3-13p59VUQ0uv3hg) Connect with Amy: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/amy.ramirez.71066) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/a.m.y.r.u.t.h/) Website (https://www.byamyruth.com/) Connect with Nicole: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/xonicolekristan) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/xonicolekristan/) *Music by Alex Grohl: "Rebellions"
9 Jul 2024
Talk of the Town ft. Megan Fitzgerald
In this episode of the Affect Podcast, the hosts Amy and Nicole are joined by their guest Megan. Megan shares her experience of being in a relationship with someone in the prison system. She talks about the challenges and the impact it has had on her and her partner. Megan highlights the importance of communication and building a strong foundation in a relationship during this difficult time. She also discusses the public scrutiny and judgment she has faced and how she has learned to navigate through it. Megan shares her experience of speaking at the sentencing and the emotional impact it had on her. She describes how she wrote a speech but couldn't read it due to overwhelming emotions. Megan also discusses the intrusive presence of the media during the sentencing and the feeling of failure when the sentence was not what they expected. She talks about the deep love she has for her partner and the support she receives from him. Megan and Nicole connect over their shared experience of wanting others to see their partners through their eyes. They discuss the challenges of grieving and the spectrum of love and lack of love in these situations. Megan shares the difficulties of visiting her loved one in prison and the limited physical contact they have. Megan and Amy joke about their age gap and the challenges of dating someone in prison. They discuss the importance of energetic protection and the potential triggers for her partner when he is released. Megan mentions the positive relationships her partner has built in prison and the sense of community within the facility. She expresses relief and gratitude for being able to share her story in a non-judgmental space. Connect with Affect: Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/theprisonaffect) Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/721518283487390/?ref=profile_plus_visit_group) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/theprisonaffect/) TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@theprisonaffect) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ2BWTF3-13p59VUQ0uv3hg) Connect with Amy: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/amy.ramirez.71066) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/a.m.y.r.u.t.h/) Website (https://www.byamyruth.com/) Connect with Nicole: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/xonicolekristan) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/xonicolekristan/) *Music by Alex Grohl: "Rebellions"
2 Jul 2024
Amy's Health Crisis + Catch Up
In this conversation, Amy and Nicole discuss various topics including intuitive nudges, health issues, and volunteering in a prison hospice unit. Amy shares her experience of receiving intuitive messages and how important it is to listen to them. She also talks about her recent health issues and the challenges she faced with the healthcare system. Nicole reflects on the prison system and how it can be both challenging and a gift. They also touch on the importance of appreciating the little things in life and finding peace in the present moment. In this conversation, Amy shares her frustrating experience with the healthcare system and the lack of empathy and care she received. She highlights the bureaucratic nature of the system and how it prioritizes rules and policies over patient well-being. Amy emphasizes the importance of advocating for oneself and the need for healthcare providers to prioritize patient care over liability concerns. The conversation also touches on the power of gratitude and the importance of taking a lighter approach to life. The overall message is to practice gratitude and love life. Connect with Affect: Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/theprisonaffect) Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/721518283487390/?ref=profile_plus_visit_group) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/theprisonaffect/) TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@theprisonaffect) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ2BWTF3-13p59VUQ0uv3hg) Connect with Amy: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/amy.ramirez.71066) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/a.m.y.r.u.t.h/) Website (https://www.byamyruth.com/) Connect with Nicole: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/xonicolekristan) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/xonicolekristan/) *Music by Alex Grohl: "Rebellions"
18 Jun 2024
Quantum Healing + Helping Those Incarcerated ft. Matt Schmidt
In this episode, Amy, Nicole, and guest Matt Schmidt discuss their personal connections and how they came to know each other. They share stories about their experiences in different fields, including biology, science, and metaphysical healing. Matt also talks about his friend who is incarcerated and how he helped him through a healing session. The conversation highlights the importance of emotional and mental well-being in physical healing. The conversation explores the openness and vulnerability of communication in jail and prison. The unfairness and subjectivity of the justice system are discussed, along with the challenges of the appeal process. The concept of soul contracts and the fluidity of life experiences are explored, challenging the idea that everything is predetermined. The connection between emotions and physical health is also discussed, with examples of how suppressed emotions can manifest as physical ailments. Matt shares his personal experience with quantum healing and how it transformed his life. He highlights the power of accessing and changing subconscious programming to achieve lasting change. Matt also suggests meeting loved ones on their healing journey with love and compassion. Connect with Affect: Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/theprisonaffect) Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/721518283487390/?ref=profile_plus_visit_group) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/theprisonaffect/) TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@theprisonaffect) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ2BWTF3-13p59VUQ0uv3hg) Connect with Amy: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/amy.ramirez.71066) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/a.m.y.r.u.t.h/) Website (https://www.byamyruth.com/) Connect with Nicole: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/xonicolekristan) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/xonicolekristan/) Connect with Matt: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=14835781) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/matt_schmidt_qh/) TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@mattschmidtqh) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/@MattSchmidtQH) Website (https://www.mattschmidtqh.com) Email (mailto:mattscientist1@gmail.com) *Music by Alex Grohl: "Rebellions"
11 Jun 2024
Stop the Torture
In this episode, Amy and Nicole discuss the recent press conference held by the Dodge County Sheriff regarding the deaths of four inmates at the Waupun prison. They highlight the lack of proper care and treatment for inmates, including inconsistent medication administration and the presence of drugs in the facility. They also discuss the culture within the Department of Corrections (DOC) and the need for better training and support for correctional officers. The hosts express their frustration with the charges brought against the employees involved, which are classified as class I felonies instead of class A homicides. They emphasize the importance of holding the DOC accountable for the broken system and the inhumane conditions in which inmates are living. The conversation highlights the deplorable conditions in prisons, such as the lack of dignity, outdated facilities, and contaminated water. It also discusses the financial motivations behind the prison system and the corrupt practices of officials. The protest in front of the prison and the mayor's admission that keeping the prison open is a moneymaker for the town is mentioned. The conversation emphasizes the need for change and the importance of sharing stories and raising awareness to bring about that change. Connect with Affect: Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/theprisonaffect) Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/721518283487390/?ref=profile_plus_visit_group) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/theprisonaffect/) TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@theprisonaffect) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ2BWTF3-13p59VUQ0uv3hg) Connect with Amy: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/amy.ramirez.71066) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/a.m.y.r.u.t.h/) Website (https://www.byamyruth.com/) Connect with Nicole: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/xonicolekristan) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/xonicolekristan/) *Music by Alex Grohl: "Rebellions"
4 Jun 2024
The Repercussions of Solitary Confinement ft. Megan Kolb
In this conversation, Megan Kolb shares her experience with her father's incarceration and subsequent death in a Wisconsin prison. She discusses the neglect and mistreatment he faced, as well as the lack of mental health support in the prison system. Megan is now an advocate for prison reform and is working to bring awareness to the issues within the system. She highlights the need for rehabilitation and support for inmates before they enter the prison system. Megan also shares fond memories of her father, including his love for cars and teaching her how to drive in the snow. In this conversation, they discuss the need for prison reform and the importance of treating incarcerated individuals as human beings. Megan emphasizes the need for rehabilitation and support services within the prison system. She also encourages families with incarcerated loved ones to advocate for change and stay connected with their loved ones. The conversation ends with a reflection on the impact of Megan's advocacy work and the importance of bringing awareness to the issues surrounding incarceration. Connect with Affect: Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/theprisonaffect) Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/721518283487390/?ref=profile_plus_visit_group) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/theprisonaffect/) TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@theprisonaffect) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ2BWTF3-13p59VUQ0uv3hg) Connect with Amy: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/amy.ramirez.71066) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/a.m.y.r.u.t.h/) Website (https://www.byamyruth.com/) Connect with Nicole: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/xonicolekristan) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/xonicolekristan/) Connect with Megan: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/megan.kolb.advocate) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/megan_kolb_advocate/) TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@megan.kolb.advocate?lang=en) *Music by Alex Grohl: "Rebellions"
21 May 2024
Slavery in America ft. Gaby Caplan
In this conversation, Amy, Nicole, and Gaby discuss the issues surrounding capital punishment and prison rights. They explore the profit motive behind mass incarceration, the working conditions and low wages of incarcerated individuals, and the impact on their loved ones. They also touch on the role of prisons in local economies and the demonization of incarcerated individuals. The conversation highlights the need for reform in the criminal justice system and the importance of humanizing those who are incarcerated. The conversation covered various topics related to the prison system, including the lack of value provided to incarcerated individuals, the institutionalization that occurs in prison, the impact of language on perceptions of incarcerated individuals, the high levels of incarceration in the US, the profit motive behind the prison system, the school-to-prison pipeline, and the issue of capital punishment. The conversation also touched on the documentary 'Unlocked' and the experiences of individuals on death row. Overall, the conversation highlighted the need for reform in the prison system and a shift in societal attitudes towards incarcerated individuals. Connect with Affect: Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/theprisonaffect) Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/721518283487390/?ref=profile_plus_visit_group) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/theprisonaffect/) TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@theprisonaffect) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ2BWTF3-13p59VUQ0uv3hg) Connect with Amy: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/amy.ramirez.71066) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/a.m.y.r.u.t.h/) Website (https://www.byamyruth.com/) Connect with Nicole: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/xonicolekristan) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/xonicolekristan/) Connect with Gaby: Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/gabycaplan/) TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@gabycaplan1?lang=en) *Music by Alex Grohl: "Rebellions"
14 May 2024
Why Prisons Are Built To Break
In this conversation, Amy and Nicole discuss the concept of human design and its role in understanding oneself. They explore how human design can provide insights into an individual's purpose and energy blueprint. The conversation then shifts to the topic of prisons and why they are built to break. Amy shares an email she received that suggests that prisons rob incarcerated individuals of their deep human needs for contribution, purpose, and meaning. They discuss the importance of connection and validation in the prison system and how finding purpose can make a significant difference in an individual's experience. Amy also shares how she attuned her partner, Ru, to Reiki to provide him with a sense of purpose and healing while incarcerated. The conversation then shifts to the topic of prisons and the need for rehabilitation rather than punishment. They mention the documentary 'Unlocked' and express their desire to have the sheriff, Eric Higgins, as a guest on their show. The conversation concludes with a discussion about the possibility of having the cast members on their show. Connect with Affect: Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/theprisonaffect) Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/721518283487390/?ref=profile_plus_visit_group) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/theprisonaffect/) TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@theprisonaffect) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ2BWTF3-13p59VUQ0uv3hg) Connect with Amy: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/amy.ramirez.71066) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/a.m.y.r.u.t.h/) Website (https://www.byamyruth.com/) Connect with Nicole: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/xonicolekristan) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/xonicolekristan/) Connect with Tami: Email (mailto:tamippearce@yahoo.com) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/groups/1245669085546325) *Music by Alex Grohl: "Rebellions"
7 May 2024
A Mother's Perspective
In this conversation, Amy, Nicole, and Tami discuss Tami's journey into energy work and how it has helped her son who was incarcerated. They talk about the importance of supporting incarcerated individuals and not judging them based on their past actions. Tami explains the concept of the Emotion Code and how it helps release trapped emotions in the body. They also discuss inherited emotions and the impact they can have on our well-being. Tami shares her advice for mothers of incarcerated children and emphasizes the importance of unconditional love and support. In this conversation, Tami discusses the concept of a heart wall, which is where we place emotions to protect ourselves. Having a heart wall can prevent us from giving and receiving love, connecting with others, and connecting with our own spirit. Tami explains that she works on releasing the heart wall in her sessions, but it may take multiple sessions depending on the depth and thickness of the wall. She also mentions that the heart wall can come back in certain situations. Amy shares her personal experience with having her heart wall released and how it temporarily came back after a few months. Tami offers free sessions for incarcerated individuals and explains the importance of energy work for them. She also talks about her son being a star seed and how their relationship has shifted since his release from incarceration. Connect with Affect: Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/theprisonaffect) Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/721518283487390/?ref=profile_plus_visit_group) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/theprisonaffect/) TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@theprisonaffect) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ2BWTF3-13p59VUQ0uv3hg) Connect with Amy: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/amy.ramirez.71066) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/a.m.y.r.u.t.h/) Website (https://www.byamyruth.com/) Connect with Nicole: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/xonicolekristan) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/xonicolekristan/) Connect with Tami: Email (mailto:tamippearce@yahoo.com) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/groups/1245669085546325) *Music by Alex Grohl: "Rebellions"
23 Apr 2024
Heartbeat in Solitude | Why We Stay
In this episode, Amy and Nicole discuss their astrological signs and how they relate to their personalities. They share stories of getting fired from previous jobs and the lessons they learned from those experiences. The conversation then shifts to the topic of staying in relationships with incarcerated partners and the challenges that come with it. Nicole emphasizes the emotional safety and authenticity she feels in her relationship, while also acknowledging the longing for physical contact. In this conversation, Amy and Nicole discuss the importance of open communication, grace, and compassion in prison relationships. They emphasize the need to pay attention to the small bids for connection and to validate each other's feelings. They share personal anecdotes about their own relationships and highlight the significance of loving all parts of an individual. They also discuss the importance of healing and growth in relationships, as well as the need to enjoy the sweetness of life. Connect with Affect: Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/theprisonaffect) Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/721518283487390/?ref=profile_plus_visit_group) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/theprisonaffect/) TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@theprisonaffect) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ2BWTF3-13p59VUQ0uv3hg) Connect with Amy: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/amy.ramirez.71066) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/a.m.y.r.u.t.h/) Website (https://www.byamyruth.com/) Connect with Nicole: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/xonicolekristan) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/xonicolekristan/) *Music by Alex Grohl: "Rebellions"
16 Apr 2024
Absurd Experiences
In this conversation, Nicole shares stories about Joel's experiences in prison, including getting fired from jobs and being sent to the hole for eating hamburgers. They also talk about their own experiences with triggers and victim mentality. Amy shares her experiences with IC Solutions and the challenges she faced in setting up video calls and obtaining health insurance information for inmates. In this conversation, Amy shares her frustrating experience trying to get information about healthcare benefits for her incarcerated loved one. She encountered unhelpful social workers and a lack of clarity in the prison's policies and procedures. They also discuss the indifference and judgment they've observed from some prison staff members. They emphasize the need for reform and awareness of the flaws in the system. Connect with Affect: Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/theprisonaffect) Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/721518283487390/?ref=profile_plus_visit_group) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/theprisonaffect/) TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@theprisonaffect) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ2BWTF3-13p59VUQ0uv3hg) Connect with Amy: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/amy.ramirez.71066) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/a.m.y.r.u.t.h/) Website (https://www.byamyruth.com/) Connect with Nicole: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/xonicolekristan) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/xonicolekristan/) *Music by Alex Grohl: "Rebellions"
9 Apr 2024
Logistics, Communication + Property
In this episode, Nicole and Amy provide practical information for people new to the prison system, such as approved vendors for ordering goods, the process of setting up an inmate's personal items, and the availability of religious items. They share their experiences with Union Supply and JL Marcus, two approved vendors, and discuss the challenges and frustrations they encountered. Overall, the episode provides valuable insights and tips for navigating the prison system. In this conversation, Amy and Nicole discuss various tools and resources for communicating with incarcerated loved ones. They cover topics such as sending money, ordering items, scheduling visits, and using email services. They also share their experiences and frustrations with different platforms, including ICSolutions and TextBehind. The conversation is filled with humor and laughter as they navigate the challenges of staying connected with their loved ones. Connect with Affect: Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/theprisonaffect) Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/721518283487390/?ref=profile_plus_visit_group) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/theprisonaffect/) TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@theprisonaffect) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ2BWTF3-13p59VUQ0uv3hg) Connect with Amy: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/amy.ramirez.71066) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/a.m.y.r.u.t.h/) Website (https://www.byamyruth.com/) Connect with Nicole: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/xonicolekristan) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/xonicolekristan/) *Music by Alex Grohl: "Rebellions"
2 Apr 2024
Our First Prison Visit
In this episode, Amy and Nicole discuss their experiences visiting their boyfriends in prison for the first time. They share their anxieties and preparations leading up to the visit, including what to wear and what to expect. They also talk about the security measures at the prison and the emotions they felt during the visit. Despite the challenges, they both express their love and support for their partners. They share stories about the challenges they faced, such as strict rules and inaccessible facilities. They also talk about the emotional impact of these visits, including the joy of seeing their loved ones and the sadness of leaving. The conversation highlights the importance of human connection and the need for more understanding and compassion in the prison system. Connect with Affect: Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/theprisonaffect) Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/721518283487390/?ref=profile_plus_visit_group) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/theprisonaffect/) TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@theprisonaffect) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ2BWTF3-13p59VUQ0uv3hg) Connect with Amy: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/amy.ramirez.71066) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/a.m.y.r.u.t.h/) Website (https://www.byamyruth.com/) Connect with Nicole: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/xonicolekristan) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/xonicolekristan/) *Music by Alex Grohl: "Rebellions"
26 Mar 2024
Pivotal Moments in Our Relationships
In this conversation, Amy and Nicole discuss various topics including personal updates, a manifestation technique, and pivotal moments in relationships. Nicole shares a pivotal moment in her relationship and the decision to stay by her partner's side. In this conversation, Nicole and Amy discuss their experiences with growth, healing, and choosing to stay in their relationships. They explore the concept of telepathic communication and how they have practiced it in their own lives. They also share their experiences of energetically connecting to each other's spaces, including Nicole's bedroom and the prison where J. and Ru are incarcerated. The conversation highlights the power of energetic connection and the impact it can have on relationships and environments. Connect with Affect: Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/theprisonaffect) Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/721518283487390/?ref=profile_plus_visit_group) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/theprisonaffect/) TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@theprisonaffect) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ2BWTF3-13p59VUQ0uv3hg) Connect with Amy: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/amy.ramirez.71066) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/a.m.y.r.u.t.h/) Website (https://www.byamyruth.com/) Connect with Nicole: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/xonicolekristan) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/xonicolekristan/) *Music by Alex Grohl: "Rebellions"
20 Mar 2024
New Temporary Home | Getting Staffed
In this episode, Amy and Nicole discuss the challenges of being staffed in prison and the limited programs available to incarcerated individuals. They highlight the lack of control in choosing facilities and the focus on keeping good workers in certain institutions. The hosts also mention their plans for future episodes on the costs of incarceration and the impact of changes in routine on incarcerated individuals. Ru, Amy's partner, joins the conversation to share his perspective on being staffed and the importance of staying present in prison. In this episode, Amy and Nicole reflect on the wisdom and growth they have witnessed in their incarcerated loved ones. They discuss the power of self-improvement and how it can unlock new levels of wisdom and personal transformation. The conversation also explores the deep sense of gratitude and appreciation that comes from experiencing separation and reunion. They delve into the different communication styles and the evolution of their relationships. The episode concludes with a discussion on the importance of expressing love and feeling safe in a relationship, as well as appreciating each other's unique traits and strengths. Connect with Affect: Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/theprisonaffect) Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/721518283487390/?ref=profile_plus_visit_group) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/theprisonaffect/) TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@theprisonaffect) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ2BWTF3-13p59VUQ0uv3hg) Connect with Amy: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/amy.ramirez.71066) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/a.m.y.r.u.t.h/) Website (https://www.byamyruth.com/) Connect with Nicole: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/xonicolekristan) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/xonicolekristan/) *Music by Alex Grohl: "Rebellions"
19 Mar 2024
Navigating Uncertainty | The Waiting Game Between Reception & Being Staffed
In this conversation, Nicole and Amy discuss various topics related to their experiences with navigating the uncertainty that comes with waiting for their loved ones to move from reception status to being staffed. They talk about the impact of reclassification on their loved ones' prison experiences and the potential for more freedoms and opportunities. The conversation touches on the slow pace of the prison system and the difficulties of waiting for changes. They talk about their experiences with their relationships, and the importance of self-care and self-reflection. They touch on the power of energy work and the benefits of having a routine. Overall, the conversation is light-hearted and humorous, showcasing the strong bond between Nicole and Amy. Connect with Affect: Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/theprisonaffect) Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/721518283487390/?ref=profile_plus_visit_group) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/theprisonaffect/) TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@theprisonaffect) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ2BWTF3-13p59VUQ0uv3hg) Connect with Amy: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/amy.ramirez.71066) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/a.m.y.r.u.t.h/) Website (https://www.byamyruth.com/) Connect with Nicole: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/xonicolekristan) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/xonicolekristan/) *Music by Alex Grohl: "Rebellions"
18 Mar 2024
Transition from County Jail to State Prison
In this conversation, Nicole and Amy discuss their experiences of their boyfriend’s transfers from jail to prison. They also talk about the support groups they joined. They discuss the need for validation from others and the importance of trusting their own beliefs. In this conversation, Nicole and Amy discuss the emotions and experiences they have had while navigating relationships with incarcerated loved ones. They talk about moments of sadness and gratitude, the impact of incarceration on friendships, and the importance of staying true to oneself despite judgment from others. They also touch on the power of letting go of fear and negative opinions. Overall, the conversation highlights the complexities and challenges of maintaining relationships with incarcerated individuals. Connect with Affect: Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/theprisonaffect) Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/721518283487390/?ref=profile_plus_visit_group) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/theprisonaffect/) TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@theprisonaffect) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ2BWTF3-13p59VUQ0uv3hg) Connect with Amy: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/amy.ramirez.71066) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/a.m.y.r.u.t.h/) Website (https://www.byamyruth.com/) Connect with Nicole: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/xonicolekristan) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/xonicolekristan/) *Music by Alex Grohl: "Rebellions"
17 Mar 2024
Sentencing Hearings
In this episode, Amy and Nicole discuss the sentencing hearing and its impact on their lives. They share their experiences leading up to the hearing, the emotional turmoil they went through, and the aftermath of the sentencing. They also highlight the lack of rehabilitation and support for individuals who have been incarcerated. Overall, the conversation sheds light on the challenges and trauma associated with the justice system. Connect with Affect: Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/theprisonaffect) Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/721518283487390/?ref=profile_plus_visit_group) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/theprisonaffect/) Tiktok (https://www.tiktok.com/@theprisonaffect) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ2BWTF3-13p59VUQ0uv3hg) Connect with Amy: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/amy.ramirez.71066) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/a.m.y.r.u.t.h/) Website (https://www.byamyruth.com/) Connect with Nicole: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/xonicolekristan) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/xonicolekristan/) Colt’s Canine Club (https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100057562835025&mibextid=LQQJ4d) *Music by Alex Grohl: "Rebellions"
16 Mar 2024
Introduction: Meet Your Hosts + Prison Girlfriend Life
In this episode, Amy and Nicole share their experiences as prison girlfriends. They discuss the process of coming out and telling the first person about their boyfriends' incarceration. They also talk about the reactions and support they received from friends and family. The conversation then shifts to the discovery of the arrests and the emotional roller coaster that followed. Amy and Nicole share how they reconnected with their boyfriends and the challenges they faced in maintaining their relationships. They also discuss the sentencing and the time their boyfriends have to serve in prison. In this conversation, Nicole and Amy share their personal experiences as prison girlfriends and discuss the challenges and joys of maintaining relationships with incarcerated loved ones. They talk about the fast passage of time and the slow pace of daily life, the importance of emotional intimacy in long-distance relationships, and the support they have found in online communities. They also recount the serendipitous way their paths crossed and the unique connections they have made through their shared experiences. The conversation highlights the need for prison reform and aims to break stereotypes and stigmas associated with prison relationships. The hosts express their mission to give a voice to those who are incarcerated and to provide support and guidance for others navigating the prison system. Connect with Affect: Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/theprisonaffect) Facebook group (https://www.facebook.com/groups/721518283487390/?ref=profile_plus_visit_group) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/theprisonaffect/) TikTok (https://www.tiktok.com/@theprisonaffect) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ2BWTF3-13p59VUQ0uv3hg) Connect with Amy: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/amy.ramirez.71066) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/a.m.y.r.u.t.h/) Website (https://www.byamyruth.com/) Connect with Nicole: Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/xonicolekristan) Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/xonicolekristan/) *Music by Alex Grohl: "Rebellions"
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- 5.0 / 5
- 13 ratings
- Spotify
- 4.4 / 5
- 9 ratings
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