Two seasoned New York City women—one, an erstwhile matchmaker with an open heart, the other a serial monogamist with a healthy skepticism—talk love, lust, loss, and how to stay hopeful in a city that never settles.
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In the latest installment of their Ask A Man series, Madison and Marie discuss newlywed bliss with creative director Dylan McBrayer. Topics include male insecurity, the perks of a creative partnership and the process of choosing an engagement ring. Should long distance lovers revive the lost art of the e-mail? Does love at first sight exist? The trio breaks down the big questions of our time, with many laughs along the way. Bonus fragrance review at the end of the episode!
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12 Dec 2025
The Way of the Superior Man
Madison and Marie are back to discuss a self help classic: The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida.
Will this solve the “masculinity crisis” of modern society?
Topics include An Affair to Remember, sexual polarity, “hot” vs. “cool” women, and chanting with the homies. Bonus: Madison shares her tried and true advice on how to get a kiss at the end of a date.
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5 Dec 2025
Of Monsters and Men
The girls return from their Thanksgiving break with a review of Guillermo del Toro’s Frankenstein and a few other cultural texts. Not unlike Frankenstein’s Monster, this episode is composed of many different updates and fragments. Other topics include Beaujolais Nouveau, The Neapolitan Novels, complicated friend dynamics, Night Club 101 and male Cancers. Sometimes, the wanting is better than the having.
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21 Nov 2025
Relationship Therapy with Dr. Tema Watstein
Madison and Marie have their first ever female guest on the pod! Dr. Tema Watstein joins the ladies to discuss couples therapy and polyamorous relationships. She also gives out some much needed free therapy! Topics include: white guy syndrome, lesbians being the least poly people, facilitating breakups, and dating people who are already in relationships. Can men ever change? Tune in to see if Tema can get M&M to change their tune on open relationships…
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14 Nov 2025
Unlocked: The Agony & The Ick
Unlocked episode. The girls divulge about their various icks. Fellas, is it gay to take an uber alone?
Other topics include wedding season, the Walker’s vortex, and frivolous beauty tips.
Editor’s note: the sound is a little wonky in the first part due to reasons that are unclear. I tried my best to fix it! Xo Marie (editor of the pod).
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7 Nov 2025
Pen Pals and Tamagotchis
Madison and Marie discuss Lily Allen’s new album, the surprising perks of heartbreak, and experiences with long distance relationships.
Is there a civilized way to slide in someone’s DMs? Would it be a good idea to date a reply guy?
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31 Oct 2025
Love Letters
First remote recording! Marie shares insight about some hot spots in Paris and the French male gaze. Madison stays home and gets a life-changing haircut (her stylist is single, btw!)
The girls open up the mailbag this week and answer three listener questions. How do you balance practicality with fantasy? How do you prevent a relationship from falling into unhealthy social rhythms while you’re living together? What do you do with that person who seems right but it’s always the wrong time?
Other topics include Burgundy Chardonnays, Gwyneth Paltrow’s relationship requirements, and integrating the boyfriend with the friend group.
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24 Oct 2025
It Girl Syndrome
Madison and Marie review the new Jane Birkin biography and the movie Darling by John Schlesinger. Can one be fabulous forever? Is it enough to inspire without ever creating something of your own? The girls reflect on their muses, hot moms and media references as they unpack the It Girl’s journey.
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17 Oct 2025
The Agony & The Ick
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Marie opens about an on again/off again relationship and Madison gives her some tough love. The girls divulge their various icks. Fellas, is it gay to take an Uber alone?
Other topics include wedding season, the Walker’s vortex, and frivolous beauty tips.
Editor’s note: the sound is a little wonky for the first 37 minutes due to reasons that are unclear. I tried my best to fix it! Xo Marie (editor of the pod)
10 Oct 2025
Third Mike ft. CFCF Music
Men, they’re just like us! In the first installment of their “Ask A Man” feature, Marie and Madison have famed 37 year old man and musician Mike Silver aka CFCF on the pod to answer all of their burning questions. The trio covers it all, from dating in LA vs. Montreal, to splitting the bill, vibes based ghosting, and past dating mistakes. Where did all the vulnerability go?
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8 Oct 2025
Charney's Angels
Bonus episode! Madison and Marie make a trip to the new Los Angeles Apparel in Soho to report on the scene. They also discuss their days working at American Apparel, Williamsburg of the early 2010’s, flirtations with coworkers, delinquent underage behavior, and Lil Wayne’s under appreciated rock album.
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3 Oct 2025
From Boys To Men
Madison and Marie discuss age gap relationships, pretty boys vs. funny guys, when jokes go too far and the art of dating within your friend group.
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26 Sept 2025
Non-Ethical Non-Monogomy
Madison and Marie discuss the ins and outs of cheating - what is the state of non-ethical non-monogamy in the era of ethical non-monogamy? Topics include: fantasizing the future with a new lover, sexy book recommendations, emotional vs. physical affairs, micro-cheating, and the ego of it all.
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