Alive in Him is a faith-filled podcast for the divorced, separated, or brokenhearted who are searching for hope again. Each week, Dolapo Ayeni shares real and vulnerable parts of her story of pain, healing, and rediscovering God’s plan while reminding you that your life didn’t end the day everything changed.
Through raw storytelling, scripture, and encouragement, this podcast explores God’s love, forgiveness, grace, mercy, provision, and favour in life after heartbreak. It’s a safe space to breathe, heal, and believe again, because no matter the pain, you’re alive.
You’re Strong for the Kids… But Who’s Strong for You?
You’re strong for your kids.
You show up. You provide. You hold it together.
But behind closed doors… who’s strong for you?
In this deeply honest episode of Alive In Him Podcast, we talk about the silent weight of being a divorced single parent — the guilt, the exhaustion, the loneliness, and the faith it takes to keep going.
If you’re raising children while healing from divorce, this conversation will meet you right where you are.
You are not alone.
#SingleParent #DivorcedChristian #FaithAndHealing #AliveInHim
14 Feb 2026
Should Divorced Christians Step Down From Ministry?
In this episode of Alive In Him Podcast, we tackle one of the most sensitive questions in the church today. Does divorce automatically disqualify someone from preaching, leading, or serving? Or does the gospel of restoration still apply?
With Scripture, honesty, and grace, we explore calling, character, healing, and what the Bible really says about leadership after divorce.
If you’re divorced and wrestling with your place in ministry — this conversation is for you.
#DivorcedChristian #ChristianLeadership #ChurchHealing #AliveInHim
31 Jan 2026
If Sex After Divorce Is a Sin, Are Masturbation and Sex Toys the Answer?
Masturbation and sex toys, are they the answer after divorce?
If sex after divorce is considered a sin, what is a Christian really supposed to do with desire?
In this episode of Alive In Him, we have an honest, biblical conversation about sexuality, self-control, and healing after divorce without shame or pretending.
If you’re trying to love God and still be real about your struggles, this one’s for you.
Raw. Faith-filled. Necessary.
Prayers included.
17 Jan 2026
Is Wanting Sex After Divorce a Sin or Signal?
After divorce, many Christians quietly wrestle with desire, guilt, and unanswered questions. You love God… but your body didn’t get the memo. So what does that mean?
In this episode of Alive In Him, we talk honestly about sex after divorce without shame, pretending, or religious clichés. Is wanting sex a sign of backsliding, or is it simply a signal pointing to deeper needs like connection, healing, and intimacy?
We unpack:
Why desire doesn’t disappear after divorce
The difference between temptation and sin
How faith and self-control work without suppression
When desire becomes a warning and when it’s just being human
What the Bible actually says about desire, healing, and the body
This conversation is for divorced Christians who are trying to walk with God while navigating real emotions, real urges, and real life.
You are not broken. You are rebuilding.
And God is not shocked by your struggle.
Scriptures referenced include James 1:14–15, Proverbs 4:23, John 4, 1 Corinthians 9:27, and Psalm 37:4.
If this resonates, like, subscribe, and share with someone going through divorce or separation. Let’s keep the conversation honest and healing.
10 Jan 2026
You Lost a Marriage, Not Your Assignment
In this episode of the Alive in Him Podcast, we speak to the heart of loss, purpose, and restoration, reminding you that divorce does not cancel God’s calling on your life. If you’ve felt sidelined, disqualified, or unsure of your next step, this conversation will help you reconnect with purpose and hope in God.
3 Jan 2026
If God Hates Divorce, Why did Mine Happen?
If God hates divorce, why did yours still happen? 💔
In Alive in Him Podcast (Series Two), we unpack this hard question with scripture, truth, and hope free from shame and condemnation. If you’re healing after divorce and seeking God again, this episode is for you.
22 Nov 2025
Dating After Divorce
Dating after divorce doesn’t have to feel scary. In this episode, we talked about healing, wisdom, and choosing God’s way this time. Tune in and be encouraged.
8 Nov 2025
God’s Plan for Single Parents
Being a single parent isn’t a punishment. It is a purpose God can use. In this episode of Alive in him, discover how God provides strength, grace, and hope for every day.
#AliveInHim #SingleParents #FaithPodcast #GodProvides #Divorced #Seperated
1 Nov 2025
Healing The Silent Wounds
Healing isn’t always visible, sometimes it’s the silent wounds that hurt the most.
In this episode of Alive in Him, we talk about emotional and mental healing through faith, honesty, and God’s love.
Watch, listen, and let God begin your healing journey today.
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25 Oct 2025
Favour in Unexpected Placces
When life feels uncertain, God’s favour can show up in the most surprising ways. In this episode, Dolapo Ayeni shares real stories of how God opened doors she never expected and how He can do the same for you.
#AliveInHimPodcast #Faith #GodsFavour #ChristianPodcast #Divorced
18 Oct 2025
Finances After Divorce
Welcome to Alive in Him, the podcast that reminds you that no matter the pain, you are still alive and God still has a plan.
In this episode, we dive deep into one of the hardest parts of starting over, rebuilding your finances after divorce.
When life shifts from “we” to “me,” the emotional and financial weight can feel overwhelming. But this is where God steps in as Provider, Sustainer, and Restorer.
Join Dolapo Ayeni as she shares her personal journey of learning to trust God again not just with her heart, but with her resources.
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Don’t forget to like, comment, and share this episode with someone rebuilding after a storm.
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11 Oct 2025
Is Divorce Biblical?
In this heartfelt episode, we tackle one of the most difficult and misunderstood topics in the Christian walk. "Divorce".
After two years of being divorced, I’ve often been asked, “Is divorce biblical?” and reminded of scriptures that seem to close the door on remarriage.
For a long time, I carried guilt not just from what people said, but from my own understanding of scripture. Maybe you’ve been there too. 💔
In this episode, we explore what the Bible really says about divorce, God’s original design for marriage, and His heart for those who have walked through separation, betrayal, or abandonment.
We’ll look at passages like Matthew 19, 1 Corinthians 7, and Malachi 2:16, and discover that while God values marriage deeply, He also values you.
Tune in to listen till the end for encouragement, grace, and truth that will remind you:
- Your divorce does not define you,
- God’s love does.
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4 Oct 2025
Mercy in my Mess
We all have moments where life feels messy, where past choices, regrets, and struggles weigh us down. In this episode, I shared how I found God’s mercy in the middle of my own chaos, and how He continues to meet us right where we are, not where we “should” be.Here’s what you’ll hear in this episode:- Stories of finding God’s mercy after divorce and heartbreak.- The difference between guilt, shame, and God’s forgiveness.- How mercy restores hope and gives us the courage to start again.- Scriptures that remind us that His mercy is new every morning (Lamentations 3:22–23).Your mess doesn’t disqualify you, it’s often the place where God’s mercy shines brightest.Listen, be encouraged, and share this with someone who needs to know that no matter the struggle, God’s mercy still covers them.Don’t forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and hit the notification bell so you never miss an episode.#AliveInHimPodcast #MercyInMyMess #GodsMercy #HealingInChrist #DivorceHealing
27 Sept 2025
Love Beyond Scars
Heartbreak leaves marks, sometimes visible, sometimes silent but those scars don’t define you. In this episode, I open up about life after pain, the deep wounds left by divorce and separation, and how God’s love became my healing balm.Romans 8:38-39 reminds us: “Nothing can separate us from the love of God.” Not heartbreak. Not divorce. Not mistakes. His love goes deeper than the scars and rebuilds what we thought was lost.Tune in, be encouraged, and remember you are loved beyond the scars.If this blessed you, please LIKE, SHARE, and SUBSCRIBE to the Alive in Him podcast. Let’s spread hope, healing, and God’s love together.#AliveInHimPodcast #LoveBeyondScars #HealingInChrist #DivorceHealing #GodsLove
20 Sept 2025
Grace Found Me
In this episode of Alive in Him, Dolapo Ayeni shares how God’s grace carried her through her lowest moments after divorce and heartbreak. Grace showed up when shame tried to silence her, when brokenness felt overwhelming, and when hope seemed far away.
Through scripture, storytelling, and prayer, this episode reminds you that grace is not earned, it’s a gift. No matter how far you’ve fallen or how unworthy you feel, God’s grace can find you, lift you, and restore your life.
13 Sept 2025
Learning to Forgive When It Hurts the Most
Forgiveness isn’t about saying what happened was okay, it’s about choosing freedom over bitterness. In this episode of Alive in Him, Dolapo Ayeni opens up about the struggle to forgive after abuse and divorce, and how God revealed that forgiveness is not approval, but release.
Through scripture, personal reflection, and prayer, this episode offers hope for anyone who feels weighed down by anger, betrayal, or pain. Forgiveness may hurt, but it is the doorway to peace, healing, and life in Christ.
6 Sept 2025
God Wants You Alive, Not Broken
In this episode of Alive in Him, Dolapo Ayeni shares her journey of healing after abuse, separation, and divorce. Reminding you that God never intended for you to live in brokenness. Through raw storytelling and faith-filled encouragement, she reveals how scripture, forgiveness, and God’s love can transform scars into strength.
If you’ve walked through divorce, abuse, or heartbreak, this episode is a lifeline of hope: God doesn’t want you crushed! He wants you alive, whole, and living fully in His grace.
30 Aug 2025
The Day Everything Changed
In this very first episode of Alive in Him, Dolapo Ayeni opens up about the day her world turned upside down. The moment life, love, and marriage didn’t go the way she imagined.
What felt like an ending became the beginning of God’s rebuilding work.Through raw storytelling and faith-filled reflection, this episode reminds anyone walking through divorce, separation, or abuse that your story didn’t end the day everything changed. God still has a plan, and He wants you alive, fully alive in His love, grace, and purpose.
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