All Boy

About All Boy

America's 65 million boys and young men are struggling — too often socially isolated, financially stifled, educationally adrift, terminally single, and spiritually thirsty. All Boy candidly explores the urgent challenges facing American manhood while asking the essential question: How do we help?

Publisher

Chance Seales

Category

kids & family

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

6 May 2025

Latest episode

17 Dec 2025

Latest episodes

18 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   17 Dec 2025

   The invisible weight men carry | Dr. Jett Stone

   Dr. Jett Stone on loneliness, vulnerability, and getting help Overview Dr. Jett Stone is a clinical psychologist who specializes in treating men. He’s the author of Quiet Your Mind: A Men’s Guide, a Psychology Today columnist, and co-founder of Men’s Therapy Hub—a directory connecting male clients with male therapists launching in the US in 2026. In this conversation, we explore why men struggle to seek help, what they actually say when they finally walk through a therapist’s door, and how the mental health system can better serve them. Chapters 00:00 The Journey to Clinical Psychology 04:54 Working with Men in Therapy1 0:43 Understanding Male Vulnerability 12:18 The Male Loneliness Crisis 17:00 The Concept of Man-Keeping 21:54 The Existential Load on Men 22:29 Understanding the Emotional Burden in Relationships 29:04 The Role of Male Identity in Financial Provision 34:32 The Decline of Family Formation and Its Implications 37:44 Barriers to Mental Health Treatment for Men 44:38 Finding the Right Fit in Therapy Key Topics The difference between loneliness and alienation—and why alienation may better capture what many men experience “Mankeeping” and the debate over emotional labor in relationships The “existential load (https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-souls-of-men/202511/the-existential-load-what-dads-carry-that-no-one-sees)” men carry: a chronic vigilance about providing that fuses identity with earning Why emotional vulnerability feels dangerous to many men Making therapy work for men: walk-and-talk formats, front-loading clarity, building trust before depth The decline of male therapists (now just 25% of the field) and why representation matters Family formation trends and their connection to male wellbeing Quotes - On what men discover in therapy: “There is this private sense of being fundamentally alone and inadequate, with the fear that if I really were to talk about the things I’m now talking about, I would lose respect—I wouldn’t be lovable.” - On vulnerability: “Emotional vulnerability is dangerous. That’s one of the core beliefs that a lot of men come in with.” - On the existential load: “It’s not just money stress. It’s a radar constantly scanning for threats to family survival. It contaminates presence.” Resources Men’s Therapy Hub (http://menstherapyhub.com) Dr. Stone’s website (http://www.jettstonephd.com) Podcast: No Man’s an Island (https://menstherapyhub.co.uk/podcast/) (co-hosted with Chris Hemmings) Book: Quiet Your Mind: A Men’s Guide (https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/768720/quiet-your-mind-a-mens-guide-by-jett-stone-phd/) Subscribe to All Boy on Substack (https://allboy.substack.com/) for essays and podcasts covering fatherhood, boys’ development, and men’s issues.

2. 

   19 Nov 2025

   Are all-boys schools better for your son? | Ben Smith

   Chance Seales sits down with Ben Smith, Head of Research (https://aibm.org/who-we-are/ben-smith/) at the American Institute for Boys and Men (AIBM), to explore whether single-sex schools benefit American boys. They dig into the data from AIBM’s 2025 report (https://aibm.org/research/all-boys-schools-what-do-we-know/) and discuss what’s working in single-sex public schools, what information is missing, and what it actually means for your sons. Underlying research (https://aibm.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/07/Promises-and-Pitfalls-of-Single-Sex-Education_-Final-Report_For-Public-Release.pdf) conducted by Nina Hankins. All Boy on Substack (https://allboy.substack.com/) - subscribe for free Chapters00:00 Current Trends in All-Boys Education02:26 The Impact of All-Boys Schools on Educational Outcomes05:28 Personal Experiences in All-Male Environments08:31 The Role of Self-Selection in Education11:21 Evaluating Evidence and Outcomes of All-Boys Schools13:37 The Impact of Single-Sex Education on Academic Outcomes19:23 Building Relationships and Character Development in Boys' Education24:48 The Importance of Social-Emotional Learning29:27 International Insights on Single-Sex Education34:39 Generalizability of Research Findings38:21 The Role of Male Teachers in Education40:51 Individual Perspectives on All-Boys Schools The Promise of All-Boys Schools Schools with all-boys models have shown lower delinquency, higher engagement, and higher teacher expectations internationally Proponents say teachers develop deeper relationships with students and tailor instruction to developmental needs Most accessible in urban charter systems serving majority-minority and low-income communities The Legal & Policy Landscape Single-sex public schools became possible after 2001’s No Child Left Behind Act and 2006 Title IX adjustments As of 2022, only 45 public all-boys schools exist in America (down from 58 in 2016) Must be voluntary with co-ed alternatives available The Research Gaps Surprisingly little U.S.-based research exists on these schools’ long-term impacts Academic benefits documented are modest, and generalizability to suburban/rural contexts remains unclear Missing data on soft skills development and sustained outcomes — key factors in adulthood flourishing Male Teachers Matter Presence of male teachers, especially black male teachers, improves outcomes for black boys Evidence shows potential to close reading gaps and improve graduation rates Male teachers often become mentors and role models through coaching relationships, holding boys to higher expectations Ben Smith bio Head of Research at the American Institute for Boys and Men Naval Academy grad and former submarine officer Brings both research expertise and personal experience with all-male environments Ben’s recommendation: There’s no strong policy case for a wholesale shift to single-sex schools, but individual families should feel empowered to explore all-boys options if available—particularly for middle and high school. One thing is clear: more research would be helpful. Would you enroll your son in an all-boys school? I’d love to hear your thoughts.

3. 

   5 Nov 2025

   Universities tell young men, 'You belong here' | Dr. Kelly Nolin

   Guest: Kelly Nolin, Ph.D. (https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelly-nolin-7b99a040/), Director of Admissions at the University of Montana Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Gender Dynamics in Higher Education 03:14 Understanding Parental Perspectives on College Enrollment 06:14 Marketing Strategies to Attract Male Students 09:15 The Importance of Equity in Education 12:05 Initiatives for Male Student Engagement 15:18 The Impact of Student Loan Debt on College Decisions 17:59 The Future of Non-Traditional Students 20:55 Programs That Attract Male Students 24:01 Self-Reliance and Independence in Montana's Culture 27:06 Conversations Among Institutions on Male Engagement 30:02 Belonging and Community in Higher Education 33:12 Navigating Political Ideologies on Campus 36:10 Retention and Graduation Rates for Male Students 39:06 The Hopeful Future of Higher Education Key Stats + Resources Young men comprise only 42% of four-year college students (Pew Research (https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/12/18/fewer-young-men-are-in-college-especially-at-4-year-schools/), 2023) Women earn 59% of college degrees vs. 41% for men—a complete reversal from decades ago (Ed Dept (https://nces.ed.gov/programs/coe/indicator/cta)) University of Montana has increased male enrollment from 42% to 43% By 2032, experts predict a 5 million person gap between jobs requiring college degrees and people with that education Volt article (https://voltedu.com/features/enrollment/no-country-for-young-men/) by Erica Levi Zelinger Higher Education Male Achievement Collaborative (HEMAC (https://www.menincollege.org/)) Why It Matters: The gender gap affects earnings, dating, family formation, and America’s workforce. People with lower educational attainment often earn less over a lifetime and face reduced likelihood of marriage and fatherhood. Recruitment Strategies: “Rugged masculinity” marketing featuring forestry, lumberjack sports, hunting, and outdoor activities Focus on practical programs: business, forestry, trades (welding, diesel mechanics, construction) Embedded community colleges offering immediate career pathways Emphasizing themes that resonate: entrepreneurship, self-reliance, career readiness, purpose Barriers to Male Enrollment: Concerns about political bias on campuses Student debt anxiety Perception that college isn’t necessary for success Feeling academically unprepared Lack of sense of belonging Creating Belonging: Hosting diverse political speakers (Charlie Kirk, Bernie Sanders, AOC) Welcoming all political and religious viewpoints 77.2% retention rate at Univ. of Montana —highest ever Active academic advising with student tracking Emphasis on respectful dialogue across differences The Future: Kelly Nolin views higher education’s mission as instilling hope—helping students envision different paths and possibilities that create ripple effects for families and future generations.

4. 

   21 Oct 2025

   Gen Z's Skilled Trade Revolution

   Episode Overview: As the landscape of American careers shifts dramatically, a back-to-basics career path is emerging — one that offers job security, competitive wages, and genuine satisfaction. In this episode of All Boy, Kate Cinnamo, Executive Director of Explore the Trades, talks with Chance Seales about why the skilled trades are experiencing a surge of interest from young people and their parents. Check out Explore the Trades (https://explorethetrades.org/) All Boy on Substack ( https://allboy.substack.com/) 00:00 Introduction to the Trades and Market Demand 03:33 Engaging Young People in the Trades 06:15 Financial Opportunities in the Trades 09:11 Changing Perceptions of Trade Careers 12:13 The Importance of Skilled Trades in Communities 15:23 Innovative Messaging for the Trades 18:24 STEM Connections in Trade Education 21:18 Encouraging Women in the Trades 22:47 Breaking Stereotypes in Trades 25:54 The Future of Trades and Technology 28:15 Exploring Education Models for Trades 30:14 Public-Private Partnerships in Trade Education 33:09 Debt-Free Pathways into Trades 33:51 Respecting the Trades 36:42 Back to Basics: The Value of Handicrafts 40:58 Encouraging the Next Generation in Trades Key Statistics (Thumbtack (https://blog.thumbtack.com/inspired-by-social-media-gen-z-is-increasingly-drawn-to-the-skilled-trades-30a9c352d61a), 2024): - 57% of Gen Z men are now considering careers in skilled trades - 89% of tradespeople express high job satisfaction - that's 30 points higher than lawyers and 17 points higher than doctors - Over 160,000 new jobs projected in plumbing, heating, cooling, and electrical trades over the next decade - 80% of parents and 93% of Gen Z college graduates believe skilled trades offer better economic security than college - 95% of skilled tradesmen feel optimistic about their professional futures The Changing Face of Skilled Work: Kate Cinnamo brings a unique perspective to this conversation. With nearly 10 years leading Explore the Trades, she's witnessed firsthand the transformation in how society views skilled work. "Twenty-five years ago, if you talked about the trades at school, you got that very apathetic response," she explains. Today's reality is starkly different. The trades now of high interest, representing: - STEM careers requiring deep understanding of science, technology, engineering, and mathematics - Environmental stewardship through smart home technology and energy-efficient systems - Community service providing essential infrastructure and emergency repairs - Entrepreneurial opportunities with clear paths to business ownership Entry-Level Earnings: - New electricians, plumbers, and HVAC technicians: $50,000-$70,000 annually - Master-level tradespeople: $115,000-$120,000+ - Specialized roles (comfort advisors, service managers): Additional premium pay There's no single "right way" to enter the trades: - Union Route: Structured programs with job placement but limited flexibility - Trade School: Classroom learning followed by apprenticeship - Direct Company Training: In-house apprenticeship programs with immediate employment - High School CTE Programs: Career and Technical Education starting in secondary school Job Security in an Uncertain World - Unlike many white-collar positions vulnerable to automation or economic downturns, skilled trades offer remarkable stability - Essential services that can't be outsourced - Local demand that isn't affected by global markets - Diverse opportunities from emergency service to new construction A Return to Fundamentals: The skilled trades revolution represents more than just a career trend - it's a return to valuing tangible contributions to society. In an era of digital overwhelm and economic uncertainty, working with one's hands to create, repair, and maintain the infrastructure that supports modern life can offer both personal satisfaction and economic security.

5. 

   7 Oct 2025

   Becoming a 'good dad' | Joe Gidjunis

   Episode Summary: Joe Gidjunis, creator of the PBS documentary series "Grown Up Dad," joins Chance Seales to explore what it means to be a father in the modern era. Their conversation reveals why this might be the best time in history to be a dad, while acknowledging the unique challenges and opportunities that come with contemporary fatherhood. Meet Joe Joe Gidjunis is a filmmaker and father who created the documentary series "Grown Up Dad" for PBS. The series explores the complexities of modern fatherhood through five episodes covering topics like maintaining friendships, affording childcare, gender roles, and managing screen time. Joe lives in Philadelphia with his wife, nine-year-old son Gabe, and their dog. Grown Up Dad (https://grownup.dad/) is a nonprofit endeavor. You can help them explore more facets of fatherhood through donations. Subscribe to All Boy on Substack (https://allboy.substack.com/) Key Topics Discussed: Personal Journeys and Family Dynamics: Joe and Chance reflect on their relationships with their own fathers and how those experiences shaped their approach to parenting. Joe discusses his father's "drive-by parenting" style, working out of town and being present only 2-3 days per month during Joe's childhood. This absence motivated Joe to pursue a more engaged approach with his own son. The Search for Role Models: The conversation takes an unexpected turn when Joe reveals his primary parenting inspiration: Bandit Heeler from the Australian animated series "Bluey." Joe argues that Bandit represents the best-written TV dad in history. Age and Perspective in Parenting: Joe became a father at 33, his wife at 35. They explore how older parenthood can bring advantages like greater emotional maturity, financial stability, and life perspective, while acknowledging the energy advantages of younger parents. Equity in Household Responsibilities: Joe reframes the concept of household equity, arguing it's not about maintaining perfect 50-50 splits but rather about partners working together to reach 100% as a team. He emphasizes that some days both parents might only have 20% energy to give, requiring creative collaboration to meet family needs. Social Connections and Male Friendship: A significant portion of the conversation addresses the challenge of maintaining friendships as fathers. Key insights include: - Men often rely on their wives for social connections - Making friends as an adult requires intentional effort and skills not taught in traditional settings - Joe's prescription: "couples night every Friday and guys night every other weekend" - The former Surgeon General Vivek Murthy's research on loneliness particularly affects men - Men typically prefer activity-based bonding over conversation-focused socializing Practical Takeaways for Fathers: - Give yourself permission to maintain and create new friendships as an adult - Engage in activity-based bonding opportunities - Be intentional about scheduling social time - Consider joining leagues, clubs, or organized activities - Use children's activities as networking opportunities Household Management: - Think of equity as reaching 100% as a team, not perfect 50-50 splits - Communicate openly about energy levels and capacity - Share both fun activities and challenging responsibilities - Model collaboration for children Quality Time with Children - Focus on being present for short, meaningful periods rather than perfect all-day parenting - Find activities that naturally encourage conversation - Express both love and genuine enjoyment of your children's company - Address competitive behavior and perfectionism early Personal Development: - Evaluate what worked and didn't work in your own upbringing - Be intentional about defining your fathering approach - Seek inspiration from unexpected sources - Make time for personal interests and friendships

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   24 Sept 2025

   Do 23% of teen boys really have ADHD? | Dr. Stephen P. Hinshaw

   🚨 KEY STATS • 23% of 17-year-old boys in America now have an ADHD diagnosis • Stimulant prescriptions jumped 58% in just one decade (2012-2022) • Boys are 2-3x more likely to be diagnosed than girls • Adults in their 30s saw prescriptions TRIPLE from 5M to 18M • US rates are 3-4x higher than the global average of 5-7% 🎯 WHAT YOU'LL DISCOVER In this eye-opening conversation, Stephen P. Hinshaw (https://psychology.berkeley.edu/people/stephen-hinshaw), UC-Berkeley Distinguished Professor of Psychology, joins Chance Seales to explain the complex forces behind America's ADHD explosion. As one of the world's leading ADHD researchers and author of The ADHD Explosion (https://www.amazon.com/ADHD-Explosion-Medication-Todays-Performance/dp/0199790558), Hinshaw reveals why we're seeing unprecedented diagnosis rates, why boys are more often diagnosed than girls, how stimulant treatments work, behavioral interventions and the holistic programs shown to be most effective. Chapter List: - 00:00 Understanding ADHD: Definition and Spectrum - 05:45 The Overdiagnosis of ADHD in Boys - 11:10 Diagnosis: Impairment vs. Average - 12:47 The Ethics of Medication for ADHD - 17:04 The Complexity of ADHD: Genetic and Environmental Factors - 20:47 The Role of Parenting and Environment in ADHD - 22:46 Cultural and Racial Disparities in ADHD Diagnosis - 24:37 Understanding Gender Differences in Neurodevelopmental Disorders - 26:47 Exploring ADHD: Symptoms and Treatment Options - 29:40 The Role of Medication in ADHD Management - 31:40 The Impact of Social Media on ADHD Awareness - 33:56 The Rise of Adult ADHD Diagnoses - 35:28 Long-Term Efficacy of ADHD Medications - 38:27 The Importance of Authoritative Parenting - 40:26 Screen Time and Mental Health - 43:01 Dietary Influences on ADHD Symptoms - 45:50 The Role of Play in Child Development 💡 KEY INSIGHTS The Perfect Storm: How compulsory education, performance pressure, and 15-minute diagnoses heightened the risk of overdiagnosis Nature vs. Nurture: Why ADHD is 80% heritable (more genetic than depression) but environment still matters enormously The Gender Gap: Why girls were historically underdiagnosed while boys face overdiagnosis Treatment Facts: Why medication can be effective, but alone isn't enough—and the holistic methods with the best outcomes The Adult Epidemic: How experts chronically overlooked legitimate adult case, plus the TikTok and online self-diagnosis driving adult ADHD rates through the roof 🔍 CRITICAL QUESTIONS ANSWERED Is your child actually ADHD or just being a normal, wild kid? Why does the US have 10x more ADHD diagnoses than other countries? How does Adderall work? Are stimulants effective across the lifespan? What non-medication treatments actually work? ⚡ UNIQUE INSIGHTS Dr. Hinshaw explains how authoritative parenting can transform outcomes for ADHD kids, why most teens stop taking medication by high school, and how simple dietary changes can potentially reduce symptoms. He also tackles the controversial question: Are we medicating normal childhood behavior? 🎯 FOR PARENTS Learn the signs of proper vs. rushed diagnosis, discover holistic treatment approaches, and understand when medication is truly necessary. 📚 ABOUT DR. HINSHAW: Professor Stephen P. Hinshaw is Distinguished Professor of Psychology at UC Berkeley, former department chair, and runs the renowned Hinshaw Lab. His research has shaped our understanding of ADHD for decades. Resources: - Hinshaw Lab (https://hinshawlab.berkeley.edu/) - CDC ADHD Data (https://www.cdc.gov/adhd/data/index.html) - ADHD: Controversy, Developmental Mechanisms, and Multiple Levels of Analysis (Hinshaw (https://www.annualreviews.org/content/journals/10.1146/annurev-clinpsy-050817-084917)) - The ADHD Explosion (https://www.amazon.com/ADHD-Explosion-Medication-Todays-Performance/dp/0199790558) - Have We Been Thinking About ADHD All Wrong? (Paul Tough, NYT (https://www.nytimes.com/2025/04/13/magazine/adhd-medication-treatment-research.html))

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   10 Sept 2025

   Defining success like a Stoic | Donald J. Robertson

   Donald J. Robertson, cognitive-behavioral psychotherapist and author of "How to Think Like a Roman Emperor" and "How to Think Like Socrates," joins Chance Seales to explore how ancient Stoic principles can help young men navigate modern challenges around work, money, relationships, and finding meaning. All Boy with Chance Seales (https://allboy.substack.com/) on Substack Adversity as Growth Setbacks and challenges are necessary for character development Retrospective vs. prospective views of adversity differ dramatically What seems catastrophic in anticipation often becomes valuable in hindsight Character traits like courage and integrity require struggle to develop Unhealthy Worrying: Occurs when anxious (impaired cognitive state) Focused entirely on future scenarios Verbal, repetitive "what if" thinking Loses awareness of present moment Constructive Planning: Done when calm and rational More visual than verbal Maintains present-moment awareness Focuses on coping strategies and problem-solving The View from Above Technique Imagine viewing your situation from great height or across time Reduces overwhelming feelings without trivializing real issues Helps distinguish between what matters long-term vs. momentary concerns Money Matters Money is neither inherently good nor bad The key question: How will you use wealth? Wisdom in usage matters more than accumulation External goals vs. intrinsic values create different life orientations Finding your "why" 1. Extrinsic motivation: Working toward external outcomes (salary, promotion, recognition) 2. Intrinsic motivation: Acting according to personal values (creativity, integrity, service) Actions vs. Feelings External focus creates "I'll be happy when..." mentality Fundamental principle: Actions don't have to follow feelings "Do not feel your way into new actions, act your way into new feelings" Many people assume emotions must drive behavior Developing the ability to act despite emotional states is crucial for growth Death and Meaning Death gives life meaning through creating urgency and perspective Brushes with mortality often trigger spiritual "awakening" Forces us to question superficial cultural values Creates what Stoics called "epistrophe" (conversion/turning around) Ask Yourself: 1. What do you want your life to stand for or represent? 2. What do you want to be remembered for after you're dead? Tools for Young Men Breaking Free from Cultural Programming Recognize how consumer culture exploits insecurities Question whether external achievements truly bring fulfillment Develop intrinsic values independent of social validation Resources: Stoicism: Philosophy as a way of life (https://donaldrobertson.substack.com/) by Donald J. Robertson "How to Think Like a Roman Emperor (https://donaldrobertson.name/books/)" by Donald J. Robertson "How to Think Like Socrates (https://donaldrobertson.name/how-to-think-like-socrates/)" by Donald J. Robertson “The Philosophy of Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy (https://donaldrobertson.name/the-philosophy-of-cognitive-behavioral-therapy/)” by Donald J. Robertson

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   27 Aug 2025

   A Psychiatrist's Guide to Ending Male Loneliness | Dr. Jessi Gold

   Dr. Jessi Gold, Chief Wellness Officer of the University of Tennessee system, joins Chance Seales to tackle one of the most pressing issues facing young men today: the epidemic of loneliness and isolation. They explore the staggering reality that 15% of men now have zero close friends (up from just 3% in 1990), examine how digital culture glamorizes "secular monks" who live successful lives without human connection, and discuss why men are four times more likely to die by suicide than women. This essential conversation offers both sobering insights into the male mental health crisis and practical, actionable solutions for individuals, families, and communities. 🎯 KEY TOPICS: Critical Stats - 15% of men now have ZERO close friends (was only 3% in 1990) - Men are 4x more likely to die by suicide than women - Young men driving the worsening suicide trend since 2010 Campus Mental Health Challenges - Students struggling to make friends despite abundant opportunities - Emotional regulation challenges - The comparison trap fueled by social media Digital Age Isolation - "Secular monk" lifestyle glamorized online - success without people - Solo leisure activities: gaming, porn, gambling - A.I. friends as false solutions to real connection needs The Gender Gap in Help-Seeking - Why men don't say "I'm lonely" - Mental health seen as "what girlfriends do" - Need for male providers and masculine-friendly messaging PRACTICAL SOLUTIONS: If You're Worried About Someone: - Lead with normalizing statements, not observations - "School's been hard lately, what's it been like for you?" - Check in regularly, don't give up after one conversation If You're Struggling: - Start small - pick ONE activity, not multiple - Try group fitness classes, church, hobby groups, community organizations - Script conversations if social anxiety is high - Be open to meeting people in unexpected places About Dr. Jessi Gold: Chief Wellness Officer, University of Tennessee System (62,000+ students). Renowned psychiatrist and author of "How Do You Feel: When Doctors Search for Humanity in Medicine (https://drjessigold.com/how-do-you-feel-book-by-jessi-gold-md/)." Dr. Gold’s homepage (https://drjessigold.com/) 💭 Bottom Line: We need one close friend, not 75. Human connection isn't optional - it's essential for mental health and survival. The crisis is real, but so are the solutions. Subscribe to ALL BOY for more conversations about young men's mental health and practical solutions. Resources: - Men's Social Circles are Shrinking (AEI (https://www.americansurveycenter.org/why-mens-social-circles-are-shrinking/)) - Male Suicide Patterns and Trends (AIBM (https://aibm.org/research/male-suicide/)) - The Anti-Social Century (Derek Thompson, The Atlantic (https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2025/02/american-loneliness-personality-politics/681091/)): All Boy Substack (https://allboy.substack.com/) (subscribe!) Follow: @DrJessiGold (Instagram/social) @ChanceSeales (Instagram/LinkedIn)

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   13 Aug 2025

   How Scouting 'Builds Good Men' | Glen Pounder

   Glen Pounder, Chief Safeguarding Officer of Scouting America, joins Chance Seales to explore how traditional scouting remains vital for boys' development in a modern world marked by isolation. From building resilience and real-world skills to creating lasting friendships and positive male role models, discover why this 115-year-old organization continues to transform young men. Key Topics 🏕️ The Power of Real-World Experience Why boys need controlled risk and outdoor adventure The magic of Jamborees and high-adventure bases Trading TikTok for tent stakes: disconnecting to reconnect 👥 Fighting the Loneliness Epidemic 15% of young men have zero close friends (5x higher than 1990) How scouting builds unbreakable bonds that last decades The importance of male mentorship and positive role models 🎯 Building Essential Life Skills From knot-tying to problem-solving: mastery through practice Learning to fail safely and bounce back stronger Merit badges as pathways to real-world competence 🧠 Mental Health & Resilience Evidence-based research showing better mental health outcomes for scouts How outdoor time and group activities combat isolation Teaching boys it's okay to fail and ask for help 🛡️ Safeguarding & Safety Modern approaches to child protection in youth organizations The "no one-on-one contact" rule and other safety measures Why youth-serving organizations are safer than many alternatives ⚖️ Single-Sex vs. Coed Opportunities The value of boy-only spaces How Scouting America accommodates different family preferences Maintaining brotherhood while welcoming girls Chapters 00:00 Lifelong Benefits of Scouting 06:56 The Modern Value of Traditional Scouting 16:20 Controlled Risk in Scouting 18:16 Mental Health and Scouting's Impact 20:33 Navigating Online Risks for Youth 22:21 Mastery and Self-Discovery in Scouting 25:38 Building Resilience Through Failure 28:38 The Importance of Male Connection and Role Models 31:39 Inclusivity in Scouting: Religious and Outdoor Preferences 32:42 The Role of Male Mentorship in Scouting 34:37 Safeguarding and Child Protection 41:33 Empowering Parents in the Scouting Journey Guest Bio: Glen Pounder serves as Chief Safeguarding Officer for Scouting America, bringing decades of international law enforcement experience to youth protection. Originally from the UK, Glen became an American citizen just one year ago. His journey with scouting began through watching his own son's development in the UK program, leading to his current role protecting over one million youth and 500,000 adult volunteers across America. Resources Mentioned: Find Local Troops: BeAScout.org Philmont Scout Ranch: 140,000-acre high adventure base in New Mexico Youth Protection Training: Available for all parents and volunteers Programs for Different Ages Squirrels: Ages 4-5 (new program for very young children) Cub Scouts: Ages 5-10 (parent involvement required) Boy Scouts: Ages 11-17 (increasing independence) High Adventure: Specialized outdoor experiences for older scouts Notable Quotes: - "Boys need risk... everything in scouting is perceived and controlled risk. The kids have the perception that they're taking risks because in their world they are." - Glen Pounder - "Scout leaders are like mental health professionals in disguise." - Richard Reeves, American Institute for Boys and Men - "We have over a million sheepdogs. We have no sheep for you." - Glen Pounder on preventing predators - "A scout is trustworthy, loyal, helpful, friendly, courteous, kind, obedient, cheerful, thrifty, brave, clean and reverent." - The Scout Law All Boy homepage (https://allboyallgood.com/)

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    30 Jul 2025

    Not Just A Plant: How Cannabis Affects Developing Male Brains | Grace Blest-Hopley, Ph.D.

    Dr. Grace Blest-Hopley on young men, THC, psychosis, and CBD "This is your brain on drugs" became something of a joke in the DARE generation, as weed came to be seen as harmless. That was wrong. But legalization and normalization (“it’s just a plant”) became a runaway train. Cannabis is now king, raking in nearly $47 billion domestically in 2025, Statista reports (https://www.statista.com/outlook/hmo/cannabis/worldwide). 26% of high school seniors (https://news.umich.edu/missing-rebound-youth-drug-use-defies-expectations-continues-historic-decline/) report using cannabis in the previous year, which was a slight decline. Boys seem to be at particular risk of early exposure to THC morphing into heavy use and mental illness, like psychosis. The National Institute on Drug Abuse notes that, "regular, heavy cannabis use in adolescence is associated with negative effects on working memory, processing speed, verbal memory, and academic functioning." Young users are also more likely to struggle in educational attainment, earnings and employment. So if most users appear unscathed, what are the real effects and risks of THC on developing brains? Neuroscientist Dr. Grace Blest-Hopley and Chance Seales explore the effects of cannabis, particularly THC, on adolescent male brains, discussing the risks associated with early use, the relationship between cannabis and psychosis, and the differences in effects between genders. It also delves into the potential of CBD and other cannabinoids as alternatives to THC, emphasizing the need for caution in loose public discourse about cannabis legalization and use. Resources Monitoring The Future study (Univ. of Michigan (https://news.umich.edu/missing-rebound-youth-drug-use-defies-expectations-continues-historic-decline/)) Is the Adolescent Brain at Greater Vulnerability to the Effects of Cannabis? A Narrative Review of the Evidence (Frontiers in Psychiatry (https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33005157/), 2020) Cannabis effects data (NIDA (https://nida.nih.gov/research-topics/cannabis-marijuana#gateway-drug)) Cannabis use stats (NIDA (https://nida.nih.gov/news-events/news-releases/2024/12/reported-use-of-most-drugs-among-adolescents-remained-low-in-2024)) Biography Dr. Grace Blest-Hopley is a neuroscientist with over 10 years of experience specializing in the neuropsychopharmacology of cannabinoids and psychedelics. She completed her PhD in Neuroscience at King's College London. Currently, she serves as the Chief Scientific Officer at NWPharma Tech and the Research Director at Heroic Hearts Project, a charity supporting combat veterans with mental health challenges resulting from trauma. Additionally, she is an officer in the British Army Reserve. Grace is also the founder of Hystelica, a company dedicated to researching, advocating for, and educating about the safe and effective use of psychedelics for women. Chapters 00:00 The Impact of THC on Brain Function 10:29 Cannabis Use and Psychosis Risk 19:20 Gender Differences in Cannabis Effects 22:07 The Risks of Cannabis and Alcohol in Adolescence 27:48 Social Influences on Drug Use 30:52 The Need for Serious Conversations about Cannabis 33:09 Exploring Alternatives to THC 36:11 The Promise of CBD and Other Cannabinoids 53:20 All Boy.mp4 Takeaways Adolescents are more vulnerable to the effects of cannabis due to ongoing brain development. Heavy cannabis use in adolescence is linked to negative cognitive outcomes. THC acts as an inhibitor of neuronal activation, affecting memory and learning. There is a significant risk of developing cannabis use disorder, especially in adolescents. High THC levels are correlated with an increased risk of psychosis. CBD may provide neuroprotective effects against the harmful impacts of THC. Public perception often trivializes the potential harms of cannabis use. Gender differences exist in cannabis use patterns and effects, with young men at higher risk. Synthetic cannabinoids pose greater risks due to unknown effects and lack of research. Research into cannabinoids is ongoing, with potential therapeutic applications for CBD. All Boy homepage (http://allboyallgood.com/)

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    16 Jul 2025

    Igniting Men's Pioneer Spirit | A.M. Hickman

    A.M. Hickman joins Chance Seales on All Boy, urging young men to build meaningful lives by embracing tradition and hardship. Hickman shares his unique perspective on living a traditional, self-sufficient life in a small village. Hickman, scribe of the popular Hickman’s Hinterlands (https://shagbark.substack.com/), discusses the beauty he finds in rural living, the importance of hardship, and the value of action in a world filled with modern distractions. He emphasizes the significance of spirituality and myth in personal development and offers unapologetic personal insights into navigating modern dating and preparing for fatherhood. Hickman doesn't mince words in this chat, challenging young men to embrace opportunities in today's world, despite the challenges they face. Bio: Hickman is the author of Hickman's Hinterlands on Substack, chronicling his journeys to America's overlooked gems and the richness of life found in his small Adirondacks village of 250 residents. Hickman's Hinterlands (https://shagbark.substack.com/) Hickman dispatches (https://www.thefp.com/w/am-hickman) for the The Free Press On Manhood: Hickman published a letter called To Find Manhood in a Gutless Age (https://shagbark.substack.com/p/to-find-manhood-in-a-gutless-age), addressed to a young man looking for direction and adventure at 18 years. It advises, in part: "... if you have ever pined for a frontier, and have mourned the closure of the American West or the end of the mythic eras of men, well, you have mourned vainly. For the process I describe — the process of obtaining the goal that will gild your every hour — this is a frontier all your own. And lest you should get the sense that I am only making witty equivocations here, or are playing some kind of a parlor trick with rhetoric — understand that I mean this all in the most serious way I could mean it. If you find yourself in a rut, my friend, you must take action, and you must do so immediately, and physically. Do not research whatever it is that you choose to do; saunter up to it as men in battle saunter toward their quarry — stalk it as you live and breathe, as hunters do. Banish neuroticism, risk-aversion, and overwrought calculus of every kind. Lift up your musculature and bone (and indeed, your eyes) and move forward; understand that the story into which you are now stepping will appear to you only in vague, random strokes and visions — and that it is, above all, your task to navigate such strange and immeasurable phenomena deftly and with incredible style and grace." Chapters: 00:00 A.M. Hickman Introduction 01:32 Living an 1850's Life in Modern America 02:59 Finding Beauty in Blight 11:27 The Importance of Action and Gumption 16:16 Rethinking the American Dream 20:35 Navigating Modern Masculinity and Success 20:50 The Myth of Success 22:13 Navigating Traditionalism and Modernity 25:19 The Value of Stability and Community 26:24 Lessons from Nature for New Generations 29:29 Balancing Technology and Nature 32:28 Traditional Dating in a Modern America 36:03 Flourishing Wherever You Live All Boy homepage (https://allboyallgood.com/) Takeaways: - Living simply can lead to a fulfilling life. - Finding beauty in blight is possible. - Hardship is a natural part of life. - Spirituality plays a crucial role in personal growth. - Action is essential to avoid feelings of worthlessness. - Rural living offers unique obstacles and opportunities. - Modern dating requires discernment and understanding. - Preparing for fatherhood involves teaching timeless values. - Community and connection are vital for well-being.

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    2 Jul 2025

    To Save Youth Sports, Parents Need to Chill | Linda Flanagan

    Author Linda Flanagan discusses with Chance Seales the transformation of youth sports into a high-pressure, expensive industry, examining the impact on children's mental health and development in this interview.

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    17 Jun 2025

    Get Fit, Get Rich, Get Girls: Masculinity Influencers' Impact on Young Men

    Clinical psychologist Zac Seidler discusses with host Chance Seales the impact of online masculinity influencers on young men, exploring the psychological effects and the need for open conversations about masculinity in this interview.

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    5 Jun 2025

    Fatherhood is Still Evolving | Augustine Sedgewick

    Augustine Sedgewick discusses the evolving complexities of fatherhood with Chance Seales, examining historical context, cultural impacts, and the importance of listening to children in this interview.

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    22 May 2025

    Richard Reeves Implores Men: 'We Need You' in Nursing and Teaching

    Richard Reeves, founder of the American Institute for Boys and Men, shares the vision of his HEAL Initiative, which is focused on helping boys and men thrive in growing professions where they're typically underrepresented, particularly in healthcare, education, and therapy and counseling. Reeves and Chance Seales discuss the decline of men in HEAL professions, the importance of male teachers, the need for male mentors, and the rewards and challenges faced in fields like social work. The conversation also touches on the impact of AI on jobs and the broader movement for boys and men, emphasizing the need for unity and collaboration between genders. Resources Richard Reeves bio (https://aibm.org/who-we-are/richard-v-reeves/) AIBM homepage (https://aibm.org/) HEAL Economy report (https://aibm.org/research/the-heal-economy/) Of Boys and Men newsletter by Chapters 00:00 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oy3kZaunfeo) Introduction to the HEAL Initiative 01:30 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oy3kZaunfeo&t=90s) Understanding HEAL: Health, Education, and Literacy 05:10 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oy3kZaunfeo&t=310s) The Gender Gap in HEAL Professions 08:03 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oy3kZaunfeo&t=483s) Healthcare: Increasing Male Health Workers 1 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oy3kZaunfeo&t=775s)2:55 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oy3kZaunfeo&t=775s) The Importance of Male Representation in Education 16:56 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oy3kZaunfeo&t=1016s) Strategies for Attracting Men to Teaching 21:30 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oy3kZaunfeo&t=1290s) Opening Up the Teaching Profession 22:00 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oy3kZaunfeo&t=1320s) The Rewards and Challenges of Counseling and Social Work 24:38 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oy3kZaunfeo&t=1478s) The Call for Men in Caring Professions 26:59 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oy3kZaunfeo&t=1619s) The Need for Male Mentorship 29:13 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oy3kZaunfeo&t=1753s) HEAL vs. STEM: The Future of Jobs 30:53 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oy3kZaunfeo&t=1853s) Apprenticeships and Public-Private Partnerships 33:55 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oy3kZaunfeo&t=2035s) The Impact of AI on Jobs 37:48 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oy3kZaunfeo&t=2268s) Institutionalizing the Conversation on Boys and Men Takeaways The HEAL Initiative aims to support boys and men in various professions. There has been a significant decline in men entering HEAL professions. Male teachers can positively impact boys' education and engagement. Mentorship is crucial for boys, especially in underrepresented areas. Social work and counseling is a challenging but vital profession that needs more male representation. The future of work may see a shift towards more relational and caring professions. AI may impact jobs differently across genders, with potential risks for women in administrative roles first. The movement for boys and men is gaining traction and needs to be institutionalized. Collaboration between genders is essential for addressing societal issues. Financial incentives and scholarships could help attract more men into HEAL professions. All Boy homepage (http://allboyallgood.com/⁠)

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    15 May 2025

    Young Love, Porn and Male Vulnerability with Dr. Cortney Warren

    Clinical psychologist Dr. Cortney Warren and Chance Seales explore the current state of young relationships, focusing on the decline in dating among young men. They discuss the impact of technology and pornography on sexual dysfunction, the importance of interpersonal connections, and the risks associated with being sexless. The conversation also touches on modern dating dynamics, chivalry, and the cultural shifts affecting relationships today. Dr. Warren emphasizes the need for authenticity and vulnerability in dating, while also addressing the psychological implications of these trends on mental health and societal well-being. Cortney Warren, Ph.D. biography and books (https://drcortney.com/) Resources: Male vs. Female single rates (Pew Research (https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/08/for-valentines-day-5-facts-about-single-americans/)) 44% of young men have never had a relationship (AEI (https://www.americansurveycenter.org/research/generation-z-and-the-transformation-of-american-adolescence-how-gen-zs-formative-experiences-shape-its-politics-priorities-and-future/)) Male teen sexual activity drops by double digits (AIBM (https://aibm.org/commentary/gen-zs-romance-gap-why-nearly-half-of-young-men-arent-dating/)) Male body image concerns in online dating (BBC (https://www.bbc.com/culture/article/20240326-inside-looksmaxxing-the-extreme-cosmetic-social-media-trend)) Chapters 00:00 Dr. Cortney Warren Intro 02:08 The Importance of Dating in Adolescence 05:04 The Impact of Technology on Dating 06:11 Sexual Development and Dysfunction in Youth 11:11 The Role of Pornography in Sexual Education 14:16 Body Image Issues and Sexual Expectations 17:19 The Choice of Singleness and Its Implications 20:18 Navigating Modern Dating Dynamics 25:29 Building Resilience in Teenagers 28:34 Navigating Rejection and Self-Worth 29:44 The Complexity of Attraction 31:57 Authenticity in Relationships 34:13 Vulnerability and Connection 35:14 Chivalry and Modern Dating 41:27 Cultural Shifts in Relationships 44:13 The Value of Long-Term Commitment Takeaways 63% of young men are single, indicating a shift in dating culture, per Pew. Dating serves as a crucial self-discovery process for teens.- The rise of technology has changed how young people connect. Pornography is linked to sexual dysfunction in young people. Being sexless can carry psychological risks for adolescents. Connection and social belonging are essential for mental health.- Authenticity in dating is more attractive than a curated persona. Chivalry and traditional gender roles are evolving in modern relationships. Cultural shifts are leading to declining marriage and birth rates. Life's challenges are opportunities for growth and resilience. All Boy homepage (https://allboyallgood.com/)

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    12 May 2025

    Young Men's Religious Revival with Griffin Gooch

    Griffin Gooch, Gen Z theologian who authors the popular Substack newsletter Reality Theology (https://griffingooch.substack.com/), discusses the evolving landscape of faith among young people, particularly young men, and the resurgence of interest in traditional Christianity and Eastern Orthodoxy. Gooch, alongside Chance Seales, explores the importance of rituals, community, and the need for genuine connections in faith. The discussion also touches on the challenges of men's ministries, the appeal of Eastern Orthodoxy, and the cultural shifts influencing young men's engagement with religion and young women's move away. Gooch emphasizes the significance of nurturing young men in faith and the potential for a more authentic expression of Christianity moving forward. ⁠Reality Theology⁠ (https://griffingooch.substack.com/⁠) by Griffin Gooch Resource Links: French Catholic Church Sees Surge of Catechumens (Catholic Review (https://catholicreview.org/france-to-see-a-record-17800-catechumens-baptized-at-easter-with-requests-still-pouring-in/)) Orthodox Studies Institute report (https://www.orthodoxstudies.org/documents/2/ConvertstoOrthodoxy.pdf) Ryan Burge's Graphs About Religion (https://www.graphsaboutreligion.com/p/the-religion-of-americas-young-adults) Substack Young Men Are Leading a Religious Resurgence (Axios (https://www.axios.com/2025/05/10/religious-young-people-christianity-rise)) UK's "Quiet Revival" Among Young Men (Bible Society (https://www.biblesociety.org.uk/research/quiet-revival)) Chapters 00:00 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SNvXQ7RvazI) Spiritual Perspectives and Theological Foundations 03:53 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SNvXQ7RvazI&t=233s) Trends in Young Men's Spirituality 06:50 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SNvXQ7RvazI&t=410s) Rituals and Their Importance in Faith 09:57 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SNvXQ7RvazI&t=597s) The Appeal of Traditional Christianity1 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SNvXQ7RvazI&t=782s) 3:02 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SNvXQ7RvazI&t=782s) Eastern Orthodoxy and Its Mystical Allure 20:58 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SNvXQ7RvazI&t=1258s) Demographic Shifts in Church Attendance 22:31 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SNvXQ7RvazI&t=1351s) The Role of Theology in Modern Faith 25:35 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SNvXQ7RvazI&t=1535s) Nurturing Young Men in the Church 27:30 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SNvXQ7RvazI&t=1650s) The Importance of Male Friendships 28:20 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SNvXQ7RvazI&t=1700s) Recommended Voices in Spirituality 30:13 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SNvXQ7RvazI&t=1813s) Cultural Mismatch in Relationships 31:53 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SNvXQ7RvazI&t=1913s) Navigating Gender Roles in Faith 35:31 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SNvXQ7RvazI&t=2131s) Cultural Reactions and the Church's Response 39:01 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SNvXQ7RvazI&t=2341s) The Future of Faith and Authenticity 45:03 (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SNvXQ7RvazI&t=2703s) All Boy.mp4 Takeaways Young men are increasingly engaging with faith communities. There is a historical shift in the demographics of church attendance. Rituals play a crucial role in providing structure and meaning. Eastern Orthodoxy and Roman Catholicism are gaining appeal among young men. Men's ministries need to focus on genuine connection, not just accountability. The cultural landscape is influencing young men's perceptions of faith. Authenticity in faith is becoming more important than performance. Young men are seeking purpose and responsibility in their spiritual lives. The revival of interest in traditional Christianity is notable. Community and relationships are key to nurturing faith in young men. All Boy homepage (http://www.allboyallgood.com⁠)

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    6 May 2025

    Redshirting Boys in School: Expert Advice from Dr. Michael Thompson

    Clinical psychologist Dr. Michael Thompson and Chance Seales delve into the redshirting movement in American schools, exploring the developmental differences between boys and girls, the implications of ADHD and learning disabilities, and the socio-economic factors influencing educational decisions. Thompson, the bestselling author of Raising Cain, explains the importance of emotional intelligence and self-regulation in boys, as well as the role of teachers in fostering a supportive learning environment for rambunctious boys. Dr. Michael Thompson bio (https://www.michaelthompson-phd.com/) Books (https://www.michaelthompson-phd.com/books/) by Thompson All Boy Homepage (http://www.allboyallgood.com) YouTube: All Boy All Good (https://www.youtube.com/@AllBoyAllGood) Chapters 00:00 All Boy Podcast Introduction 01:55 Redshirting 101 10:06 Creating Boy-Friendly Schools 13:03 Understanding Self-Control in Boys 14:25 The Role of Learning Differences 15:19 ADHD and Its Diagnosis 17:33 The Impact of Educational Policies 19:24 Redshirting: A Double-Edged Sword 21:21 Executive Function and Development 23:23 The Importance of Emotional Intelligence 25:17 Balancing Discipline and Affection 27:25 Creating Warm Learning Environments 29:22 Engaging Boys in Learning 30:40 Building Relationships with Boys 32:34 Understanding Boys' Emotional Lives 39:18 All Boy.mp4 Takeaways The growth curve of boys and girls is different. Boys often struggle with self-regulation and impulse control. Redshirting can benefit boys who are not ready for school. Teachers need to adapt their methods to engage boys effectively. Emotional intelligence is crucial for boys' development. Socioeconomic status influences the decision to redshirt boys. Boys learn better in active, engaging environments. ADHD diagnoses have increased significantly among boys for diverse reasons. Boys need warm, supportive relationships with teachers to thrive. Understanding boys' motivations is key to effective teaching.

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