As It Is is your unfiltered dose of real-life gossip .
The kind we whisper but rarely say out loud.
I spill the tea on dating disasters, toxic friendships, situationships gone wrong, petty betrayals, overthinking texts, shady exes, and all the chaotic dramas of modern life.
No celebs. No sugarcoating. No expert lectures.
Just raw, hilarious, messy personal stories that feel like a 2 a.m. voice note from your most chaotic friend.
If you love honest gossip, unfiltered takes on relationships & independence, and that guilty “wait… what happened?” thrill,
pour a drink,
you’re home.
13. That one time I Let AI Take Full Control of My Dating Life
For two months, an AI agent ran my entire dating life.
It was smarter and more strategic than me... and the relationship still imploded.
Here’s the messy truth about outsourcing your love life, why my instincts wouldn’t stay quiet, and what I learned about emotional maturity and anxious attachment.
6 May 2026
12. Reality TV & The Death of Mystery
From the 'TMI' culture of US dating shows to the high-stakes politeness of Asians reality TV.
I explores why we can't stop watching people make terrible decisions.
This week, I’m diving into Western vs Asian dating shows, age gaps, social media, oversharing, and why it feels like nobody knows what their age - or anyone else’s - is anymore.
From trash TV chaos to the death of mystery… let’s talk.
29 Apr 2026
11. A Hug and a Lie or a Painful Truth?
When was the last time a friend asked for your opinion and you immediately regretted it?
In this episode, Maayan and I dive into one of the toughest dilemmas in friendship: where is the line between brutal honesty and loving support?
Is 'brutal honesty to someone's face' the best gift you can give, or is a white lie sometimes worth more?
We'll talk about friends who don't listen, the awkward "I told you so" moment, and the question that can save any conversation: "Do you want support or the truth?".
Because sometimes the most loving thing you can do is tell the truth, and sometimes it's not.
22 Apr 2026
10. My Ex Wore the Clothes I Bought Him to Italy... with His Ex-Wife
I’m spilling the tea on the ex who lived so deep in his own delusions he dragged me into them too.
From “I’ve been over her for two years” to vacationing in Italy with his ex in the clothes I bought him. This long-distance situationship was pure mess.
Love-bombing, Botox shade, closet audits, and the ultimate rebound reveal. Raw, savage, and painfully relatable.
If you’ve ever been gaslit by a walking fantasy, press play.
As It Is - where the gossip gets real.
15 Apr 2026
09. Am I Mean, or Is Everyone Else Fake?
I’m the softest friend to my girls, but zero filter when someone else is shady.
In this episode I spill why my friends call me “mean” for telling the truth about everyone else, the boss who taught me I can’t kiss ass, and why I’m brutally honest in every friendship.
Raw girl talk unfiltered.
8 Apr 2026
08. How I Escaped a Catfish Date Through the Hospital Back Door
The great hospital escape: I ran away from a date… through a hospital at midnight.
Catfished at my own door, fake emergency, and one very awkward drive later - this is one of my wildest dating stories.
Short, chaotic, and girl talk unfiltered. If you love real, messy girl talk, this one’s for you.
1 Apr 2026
07. Paris Fashion Week FOMO: The Time I Said No Thank You
I got a golden ticket to Paris Fashion Week… and I turned it down.Why would someone say "no" to a real runway show? In this episode I tell the honest (and a bit messy) story. The fantasy, the overthinking, the impostor syndrome, and what I ended up doing instead.If you’ve ever felt out of place at something everyone else dreams about, this one might hit close to home.
25 Mar 2026
06. The Social Tax
Ever opened a group chat and felt your stomach drop?
In this episode, I talk about something we all pay…
but no one really names.
The Social Tax.
18 Mar 2026
05. The Things We're Not Supposed to Want
A line from an old Hollywood movie sparked a question I couldn't ignore.
Why are some desires celebrated in one person…
but judged in another?
Let's talk about attraction, expectations, and the strange rules nobody admits exist.
11 Mar 2026
04. Red Flags, Photoshoot, and Sunrise Magic: My Wildest Paris Night.
A random night. A photographer. Paris at midnight.
And a story that proves not every experience needs meaning to matter.
Sometimes you just say yes, and life gives you the most chaotic, ridiculous adventures.
4 Mar 2026
03. When Chemistry Isn’t Commitment
We all have that one person.
Not the love of our life.
Not the one who broke us.
Just the one who gave us hope.
In this episode, I talk about the most dangerous kind of text.
The one that makes your body react before your brain does.
About fantasy, memory, loneliness…
and the quiet decision not to open the door again.
25 Feb 2026
02. Morbid Curiosity: Why These Stories Hook Us
It’s not about the darkness itself.
It’s about why we’re drawn to it.
A short, honest look at curiosity and the stories that hook us.
18 Feb 2026
01. About Thoughts and Life, As It Is
This episode is about thoughts, life itself,
and the things we want to admit but don’t always feel comfortable admitting.
Not in a structured way,
and not with conclusions.
This is a space where I speak about what I notice,
what stays with me,
and the thoughts I don’t always know where to put.
This is As It Is.
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