Aye Man, Say Man is a show hosted by Kiaya J. that puts a spin on modern day conversation. The goal of this show is to entertain, enlighten, and encourage young adults to walk in their purpose and gain awareness on topics that matter.
Every decision you make comes from a place internally before it ever shows up externally.
Most people think they make decisions with logic.
But you actually make decisions from one of five places:
Disappointment
Desperation
Discernment
Desire
Discipline
Tune in to dive deeper into the definition, declaration and direction understanding these concepts have in your life.
9 May 2026
How Long Does It Last?
We all ask the same question in two completely different seasons of life: “How Long Does It Last?” We ask it when things are going really well and we’re waiting for something to go wrong. And we ask it when life feels heavy and we’re desperate for relief.
In this episode, we explore the duality behind that question, why we struggle to be present in both good and hard seasons, and how perspective can help us find the silver lining no matter what we’re facing. This conversation is a reminder that joy is a choice, seasons don’t last forever, and the present moment deserves to be experienced fully.
7 Apr 2026
Default Mode
On this episode of Aye Man, Say Man: The Podcast, we’re talking about default mode — the automatic version of you that shows up when you’re triggered, overwhelmed, scared, or trying to protect yourself.
Your default mode was built from trauma, past disappointments, survival instincts, and environments that demanded strength. And while it once kept you safe, what protected you before may now be limiting your growth.
We unpack how trauma responses can disguise themselves as personality traits like people-pleasing, shutting down, hyper-independence, over-explaining, and even self-sabotage.
Because healing isn’t about changing who you are — it’s about becoming intentional about how you respond.
Who has been a guest on Aye Man, Say Man
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Issac "AntiSocial" Tate IV
Tiony "Duwai" Cooper
Brian "B" Dickson
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Apple Podcasts (US)
5.0 / 5
16 ratings
Spotify
5.0 / 5
2 ratings
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