Be Better.

About Be Better.

This podcast is for successful men who feel reactive or disconnected at home and want to become calm, confident, grounded leaders. I’m Harrison Orr — husband, father, men's coach and creator of The Grounded Man Method — and I share the tools that helped me break Nice Guy patterns, regulate my nervous system, and rebuild connection in my marriage. Each episode gives you practical wisdom, deep conversations, and proven frameworks to help you show up stronger for yourself, your wife, and your kids. #dontbesorrybebetter Find me on IG @theelitefather

Publisher

Harrison Orr

Category

health & fitness

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

28 Mar 2024

Latest episode

16 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

116 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   16 Oct 2026

   How To Lead Your Marriage Without Being Controlling l EP. 112 l

   Send us Fan Mail If you want to be the leader of your marriage and household but you’re not sure what that actually looks like, this video breaks it down. Leading your marriage has nothing to do with power, control, or your wife blindly following orders. It’s being the one who can provide direction and clarity when things are uncertain or emotions are high. It sounds like “this is where we’re going, here’s why, how does that feel?” When she pushes back, a grounded man hears it, takes on the n...

2. 

   12 Oct 2026

   Why Do I Feel Like Everything Is My Fault When My Wife Is Upset? l EP. 111 l

   Send us Fan Mail If every time your wife expresses an emotion, all you hear is that it’s your fault, this video is for you. You’ve probably done the therapy and looked up the communication tips. Maybe you’ve gone hunting for the perfect script to say when she’s upset. But the script was never the problem, and neither is her emotion. The problem is what you make it mean. She says she’s tired, overwhelmed, or let down, and a part of you hears “I’m failing, I need to fix this, I need to defend m...

3. 

   6 Oct 2026

   Your Marriage Doesn't need better communication. It needs a better ____. l EP. 110 l

   Send us Fan Mail If your wife keeps getting irritated at you over small things, and you've already tried love languages, I-feel statements, and date nights, this episode explains why none of it stuck. Communication isn't the root cause. Neither is the lack of date nights. When no one is leading the marriage, it defaults to your wife, and she can do it, but a part of her doesn't want to. I get into why being the easygoing guy who never rocks the boat can work in the early years and become a bu...

Reach and audience

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YouTube views

36,450,242

Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025

Spotify

5.0 / 5

9 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 62 / 100

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Quality

57

Social presence

94

YouTube

93

Engagement

27

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