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Becoming, by Design

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by Frances Paciente

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Becoming, By Design is a reflective podcast series exploring the quiet, powerful moments of growth - the transitions, the unlearning, and the art of choosing who we become. Through personal storytelling and Fleabag-style honesty, I share what it’s like to step into your 30s, redefine success, embrace solitude, and sit with both the questions and the answers. No over-editing. No perfection. Just honest reflections and the hope that my journey might resonate with yours. Because becoming isn’t something that happens to us. It’s something we do - by design.

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Recent Episodes

March 22, 2026

Episode 14: Dating Feels Different Now (And I Don’t Know If I Like It)

In this episode, I’m trying something new—having more raw unscripted talks.I'm talking about dating in my 30s—how it feels so different from when we were in school, when things were simpler, more organic, and honestly… easier.Now? It’s a mix of online dating, overthinking, and trying to figure out if someone is actually worth your energy.This episode is a bit experimental, a bit unfiltered, and very real. If you’ve ever thought, “Why is dating so hard now?”—this one’s for you. #BecomingbyDesign #Dating #womenintheir30s #OnlineDating

December 24, 2025

Episode 13: This year, I courted a guy. I mean… I didn’t mean to, but I did. And here’s what happened

This year, I met someone unexpectedly.What started as a quiet, organic encounter slowly turned into something deeper—at least for me. There were moments of warmth, presence, hope, and also long stretches of silence, waiting, and self-reflection.In this episode, I share the full story of Bluey: the connection, the confusion, the unintentional courting, the spiraling, and the clarity that finally came. It’s about learning the difference between affection and capacity, between hope and direction, and between loving someone and choosing yourself.This isn’t a story about blame. It’s a story about honesty, boundaries, attachment, and letting go with kindness.If you’ve ever waited on someone, filled in the silence with hope, or needed clarity more than answers—this one’s for you.#EmbarassingIKnow lol #BecomingbyDesign #Avoidant #Anxious #Relationships

November 16, 2025

Episode 12: Waiting, Wanting, Wounded: A Spiral into Anticipation and Attachment

Have you ever spiraled while waiting on someone? Felt like your heart was holding its breath—hoping for a message, a sign, anything?In this episode, I get real about what anticipation does to someone like me—anxious, avoidant, overthinking, and still… deeply hopeful. From waiting in silence to learning how to let go, I reflect on situationships, emotional spirals, and the power of choosing myself again.Including a release ritual I wrote when I needed to feel free again.Whether you’re in something undefined, waiting on someone, or trying to return to yourself—this one’s for you.🔊 You’re not broken. You’re becoming.#BecomingbyDesign #FearfulAvoidant #AnxiousAvoidant #Avoidant #Relationships #Ritual #ReleaseRitual

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What is Becoming, by Design?: Becoming, By Design is a reflective podcast series exploring the quiet, powerful moments of growth - the transitions, the unlearning, and the art of choosing who we become.

Through personal storytelling and Fleabag-style honesty, I share what it’s like to step into your 30s, redefine success, embrace solitude, and sit with both the questions and the answers.

No over-editing. No perfection. Just honest reflections and the hope that my journey might resonate with yours.

Because becoming isn’t something that happens to us. It’s something we do - by design.
How often does this podcast release new episodes?: This podcast updates daily.
Where can I listen to this podcast?: This podcast is available on 4 platforms including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and more. You can also use the RSS feed directly.
Does this podcast accept guests?: No, this podcast does not typically feature guests.

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