Becoming Full of Yourself

About Becoming Full of Yourself

Tired of being too much, too late, or not enough? This is the podcast for rebels, misfits, creatives, and culture-makers who are ready to live a deeply satisfying, fully expressed life on their own terms. Hosted by award-winning Master Coach and Soul Contract Guide Ebonie Allard, FULL OF YOURSELF invites you to stop performing perfection and start leading with your whole self — shadow, soul, body, brilliance and all. You’ll discover new ways of thinking and being that help you become full of yourself instead of censored and sad, repressed and depressed, or bored, basic, or binary. It’s time for strong core, soft edges. For self-leadership, sovereignty, and sacred mischief. Each episode explores: • The Kismet Codes: Human Design, Astrology, Gene Keys, Numerology • Shadow integration, inner leadership and self-trust • Embodiment, intimacy and communication • Values, vitality and the voice of your soul • Energy alchemy, playfulness and potency • The skinny on your Incarnation Intentions and Soul Contract You’ll hear raw conversations, poetic riffs, and practical guidance from someone who blends storytelling with deep tools like Human Design, Gene Keys, astrology, numerology, somatics, and energy work so that growth becomes soulful, sustainable, and actually satisfying. This is not just another mindset podcast. It’s a reclamation. A remembering. A rebellion. You’re not broken. You’re not too late. You’re just ready to be full of yourself. This podcast is for you if: • You’re done living life muted or on autopilot • You want substance, not spiritual performance • You crave depth, nuance, humour, and truth • You’re here to lead, but not like they told you to Ebonie speaks to your sacred spark, your wild heart, and your leadership potential. She guides you back to what really matters: living a life that feels like yours. New episodes drop Most Fridays. Subscribe now and begin your next becoming. www.ebonieallard.co.uk (https://www.ebonieallard.co.uk/s/becoming-full-of-yourself-podcast?utm_medium=podcast)

Publisher

Ebonie Allard

Category

religion & spirituality · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

13 Jun 2025

Latest episode

16 Mar 2026

Latest episodes

20 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   16 Mar 2026

   Becoming Full of Piss & Vinegar with Kehla G

   What happens when you stop filling yourself with the world’s noise and start listening to your own design? In this episode, I sit down with Kehla G, a Human Design and Gene Keys business mentor who went from competitive rugby athlete to online coach, navigating the Saturn return shift from body to mind with radical self-awareness. In this episode we explore: * Kehla’s journey from elite athlete to Human Design mentor and the Saturn return pivot from a body-focused career as a PE teacher to where she is now * How spirituality and embodiment practices are closer than we think; and why grounding into your body is essential for avoiding spiritual bypassing and being “away with the fairies” * The power of open throat energy: saying what everyone’s thinking, and how AI can help you externalise your process and find your own voice * Why being “full of yourself” means subtracting the world’s conditioning instead of adding more strategies * The nuances of sacral response: moving beyond “f**k yes or f**k no” to micro-yeses that build trust * Expression beyond words: pre-cognition, reading the room, and how childhood survival skills shape our gifts * Creating spaciousness by deleting social media, sitting with loneliness, and discovering what you’re actually full of when you’re being yourself This conversation is for you if: * You’re an entrepreneur who feels like you’re on the edge or ahead of your time * You have an “interesting relationship” with your body and are seeking grounding practices * You’re bored of being full of everyone else’s strategies and want to orient yourself in your own design * You struggle with open centres (especially throat, head, or G centre) and need to understand how to work with the conditioning * You’re navigating the tension between doing less and feeling isolated, or between specificity and allowing surprise * You want to understand how Human Design and Gene Keys can create sustainable business infrastructure, not just better messaging. Meet Kehla G: Kehla G is a human design, gene keys, and AI business mentor based in Victoria, BC, Canada. A 6/2 sacral generator, Kehla supports entrepreneurs in building sustainable businesses by treating them like ecosystems—helping clients orient themselves through their unique design rather than chasing the next strategy. A former elite rugby athlete (2003-2018) and personal trainer turned online coach, Kehla experienced a Saturn return pivot from body to mind that shaped her approach to integrating embodiment with business. She’s the host of Built for the Edge (https://podfollow.com/kehla-g-living-in-fierce-alignment/episode/04f7bc7b5b1c38860ded8823c004346caabd79d3/view), (https://podfollow.com/kehla-g-living-in-fierce-alignment/episode/04f7bc7b5b1c38860ded8823c004346caabd79d3/view) a top 2% podcast with over 500 episodes exploring entrepreneurship, spirituality, and human design. Known for her engineering mind, radical transparency, and being “full of piss and vinegar,” Kehla helps people become full of themselves instead of full of the world. Connect with Kehla: * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kehlaG * Substack: Kehla G (https://substack.com/profile/435673740-kehla-g) * Podcast: Built for the Edge (https://kehlag.podbean.com/) * Free Gift: Your Business Re-Oriented (https://www.kehlag.com/yourbusinessreoriented) (5-episode series on decision making, pressure & strategy through the human design and gene keys lens) Timestamps: 1:09 - Introduction and Kehla’s background4:05 - Why embodiment matters for spiritual entrepreneurs5:37 - From rugby athlete to personal trainer to mindset coach6:22 - The Saturn return shift: body to mind9:22 - Revealing what’s underneath: becoming full of yourself vs. full of the world10:26 - “I am full of piss and vinegar”11:28 - The wound of not belonging anywhere (open G Centre)12:35 - How podcasting changed everything for the open throat14:26 - Using AI to externalise thinking and mirror your own voice20:48 - Creating spaciousness: deleting Instagram and sitting with withdrawal22:42 - Feeling isolated when you stop distracting yourself25:26 - Dopamine hits are screwing your sacral response26:16 - Beyond “f**k yes or f**k no”—cultivating trust through micro-responses28:33 - Specificity vs. surprise: contradictions that make you alluring31:11 - Expression moves energy—why being polarising is helpful32:01 - Pre-cognition: seeing the shape before the language33:28 - Being hearing impaired and learning to read the room to survive36:43 - Parenting Manifestors: teaching kids to express anger and find peace40:16 - Kehla’s gift: Your Business Re-Oriented41:17 - Final wisdom: be kind to yourself, hindsight is 2020 “Everything in my world is about helping people to become full of themselves because otherwise we are full of the world. Otherwise we’re full of conditioning, otherwise we’re full of the radio and TikTok and Instagram. I am curious what you are full of when you’re being yourself.” — Ebonie Allard For the full interview and subscriber chat, come join us on Substack. https://eboniealchemy.substack.com/s/becoming-full-of-yourself-podcast (https://eboniealchemy.substack.com/s/becoming-full-of-yourself-podcast) Next Steps: Get your chart and foundational reports from Ebonie: www.ebonieallard.com/get-chart (http://www.ebonieallard.com/get-chart) Get your Kismet Codes Oracle Deck: https://shop.ebonieallard.com/collections/the-kismet-code-cards (https://shop.ebonieallard.com/collections/the-kismet-code-cards) (if you are outside of the UK, these are available, please message ebonie to arrange a custom order Work with Ebonie: https://www.ebonieallard.com/trueself-trifecta (https://www.ebonieallard.com/trueself-trifecta) This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit eboniealchemy.substack.com/subscribe (https://eboniealchemy.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_2)

2. 

   15 Feb 2026

   Becoming Full of Embodied Intuition with Jessie Eccles

   [Just a heads-up, the video for this episode was corrupt, but I was able to edit together something that I was happy with from back up audio files.] Episode 19: The Astrologer Who Turned Down Double Her Salary to Trust Herself What does it actually mean to trust yourself? Not conceptually, but as a lived, embodied practice? In this episode, we dive into the messy, beautiful process of reclaiming your authority: the moment you realise you’ve been outsourcing your decisions, the terror of saying no when everything in your conditioning screams yes, and what happens when you finally stop performing and start listening to your body. We explore the Leo-Aquarius axis, the myth of the isolated family unit, why we’re all drowning trying to save each other, and how your core wound might just be your greatest gift. In this episode we explore: • The Leo-Aquarius axis and what it means for the collective as we move into the Aquarian age • Why “belonging” doesn’t mean conforming; it means being yourself within community • The myth of the nuclear family and why we’re all “drowning trying to save each other” • How motherhood became Jessie’s gateway to trusting her intuition unconditionally • Gate 29 and the journey from saying yes to everything to honouring when cycles are complete • The difference between the gift of commitment and the shadow of half-heartedness (and knowing when it’s time to let go) • Why your core wound is your greatest gift This conversation is for you if: - You’re navigating your Saturn return or a major life transition - You struggle with saying no (or saying yes to the wrong things) - You’re questioning the traditional paths you were told to follow - You want to understand the Leo-Aquarius energy shaping our collective future - You’re a parent trying to find your village in a world of isolated family units - You’re learning to trust your body and intuition over external authority - You are a Sag rising, or have strong Sag, Leo, or Aquarius placements, are a 6/2 or 5/2 Profile. - You have ever struggled with commitment / or bi passing emotions Meet Jessie Eccles: Jessie Eccles is an astrologer, Human Design reader, and teacher who helps people understand their personal timing, patterns, and decision-making so they can live and work in a way that actually fits their life.After leaving a corporate career during early motherhood, she built an business centered around self-trust, cyclical living, and redefining success outside of productivity culture. Her work blends practical guidance with psychological and symbolic insight, helping clients move from external validation toward internal authority.She teaches astrology and Human Design, offers personal readings, and mentors women, especially mothers, in building lives and businesses aligned with their values, energy, and real capacity. Connect with Jessie: Website: https://jessie-eccles.mykajabi.com (https://jessie-eccles.mykajabi.com/) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessieeccles (https://www.instagram.com/jessieeccles/) For more thoughts from this episode and our subscriber chat, come over to 'Kismet + Compass' on Substack Timestamps: 3:50 – The Leo-Aquarius axis in family dynamics 7:20 – What “belonging” really means in the Aquarian age 19:30 – Ebonie’s midlife unraveling and radical honesty about what she wants 24:30 – Facing your greatest fears and living through them 28:00 – Jessie on the moment she couldn’t override her intuition 32:30 – The 6/2 Profile journey: staying in the body when things get tough 38:00 – Embodying Gate 29: commitment, half-heartedness, and knowing when cycles end 45:00 – Leaving corporate life and the moment no amount of money could keep her 49:00 – Becoming full of yourself means saying no more than you ever imagined Next steps: Get your chart and foundational reading reports: https://www.ebonieallard.com/get-chart (https://www.ebonieallard.com/get-chart) Work with Ebonie: https://www.ebonieallard.com/trueself-trifecta (https://www.ebonieallard.com/trueself-trifecta) Get full access to Kismet & Compass at eboniealchemy.substack.com/subscribe (https://eboniealchemy.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4)

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   9 Feb 2026

   Becoming Full of Persuasion with Tanya Marie

   What happens when a splenic Manifestor, conversion copywriter meets a manifesting generator soul contract guide? Magic, initiations, and some seriously potent truth bombs about persuasion, authenticity, and why your AI-generated content may very probably be the modern equivalent of the Emperor’s New Clothes. In this episode we explore: * How to use Human Design as a persuasion map (not just an awareness tool) * The difference between “bro marketer” pressure tactics and feminine equivalent (love-bombing) and why both miss the mark * Why the fact that 71% of people have open head centres is so important and a simple shift in your messaging that speaks directly to this. * The not so often talked about shadow side of AI-generated content. When to use it (and when to absolutely not) * How to identify the patterns, beliefs, and immaturities keeping your audience stuck * What part of your chart helps you understand your audience’s desires and gaps * Why now is the time to call out charlatans and take off the rose-colored glasses This conversation is for you if: * You’re tired of following marketing formulas that feel misaligned * You want to understand how to meet your audience where they actually are * You’re curious about using astrology and Human Design for business strategy * You’ve been waiting for someone to invite you to the “big girl table” * You want to create content that converts without compromising your integrity Meet Tanya Marie Hi, I am Tanya Marie. I am a Human Design Business Strategist and Conversion Copywriter, and I help you turn your words into wealth with Content by Design. I love helping online business owners show up and influence online based on their birth codes, neuro psychology, and by using the astrological transits, which I call Sky Strategy, to make powerful moves in their business and attract the right soul clients to open their wallets for them. Connect with Tanya: The masterclass we mention that you don’t want to miss: https://tanya-marie.mykajabi.com/seducebydesign If you miss the class, and she hasn’t put a replay up yet… Join her free Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/thehouseofhumandesign where she goes live with messaging angles based on the transits and you can get a free report on how to market sell and scale by design. Her Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thehouseofhumandesign Substack: The House of Human Design (https://substack.com/profile/162035959-the-house-of-human-design) Timestamps * 2:40 – Manifestor energy: responding juice and the electric on/off switch * 4:29 – Saturn and Uranus: the headmaster meets the eccentric uncle * 7:43 – Ebonie’s Neptune-Saturn-Venus T-Square and claiming your range * 10:35 – Pluto in Scorpio in the 11th: creating cult-like fan bases (ethically) * 12:06 – Why dark arts people can’t even find Tanya’s transmission * 13:00 – Feeling is believing: sensing intent and frequency behind words * 15:08 – Spotting misalignment in content: when polarising doesn’t match your energy * 17:58 – The Emperor’s New Clothes story explained * 18:58 – AI as the modern Emperor’s New Clothes * 20:01 – When AI works and when it absolutely doesn’t * 22:00 – The washing machine analogy: some things are too precious for AI * 23:58 – Persuasion levers: meeting people by their gaps, not your authority * 26:00 – 71% have open heads: they’re craving answers * 27:48 – Open root centres and countdown timers: the pressure that makes you buy * 29:13 – Urgency without timers: the cost of staying the same * 32:26 – Bro marketers vs. love bombers: two sides of misaligned selling * 35:00 – Calling out patterns, beliefs, and immaturities * 39:00 – The 26 gate, Neptune, and calling out charlatans * 41:00 – Pride, humility, and being willing to be wrong to be happy * 46:25 – Why everyone is fascinating when you look at their design “People don’t know how to conversate because they don’t understand the persuasion levers... It’s not always about you. Your authority is out there, but it’s about knowing your audience on a deeper level. People’s desires are their openness.” — Tanya Marie ==== Next Steps: Get your chart and foundational reports from Ebonie: www.ebonieallard.com/get-chart Get your Kismet Codes Oracle Deck: https://shop.ebonieallard.com/collections/the-kismet-code-cards (if you are outside of the UK, these are available, please message ebonie to arrange a custom order) Please subscribe to get notified when a new episode is live and leave a review if you found value here. Get full access to Kismet & Compass at eboniealchemy.substack.com/subscribe (https://eboniealchemy.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4)

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