Becoming Her Anyways

About Becoming Her Anyways

Hello, my name is Natasha Bellefort and I’ve created this podcast based on how I dealt with my real life experiences and struggles. I want my audience to feel connected to me, and I want those who have grown up in turmoil to understand that they can still choose to have a fulfilling and healthy life. However, I also want to connect to all women and anyone in general as everybody goes through hardships. I’ve been told my friends that I am great at giving advice, and so this podcast will be like the voice messages I send my best friends. Thank you so much for listening.

Publisher

Natasha Bellefort

Category

education

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

21 Jul 2025

Latest episode

31 Aug 2025

Latest episodes

27 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   31 Aug 2025

   Signs Someone Is Dimming Your Light (And What To Do)

   Ever felt like someone was subtly dimming your light? In this episode of Becoming Her Anyways, I open up about my own experience with people who tried to tear me down, minimize my success, and make me question my worth. We’ll break down the red flags of jealousy, manipulation, and quiet sabotage, and I’ll share how I learned to protect my energy and rise above it. This is your sign to trust your intuition, set boundaries, and step fully into your power. If you’ve ever dealt with toxic friendships, draining relationships, or people who can’t stand to see you shine, this episode is for you. Keywords: toxic friendships, jealousy, manipulation, boundaries, self worth, protecting your energy, becoming your best self, confidence, empowerment, healing, glow up

2. 

   11 Aug 2025

   The Real Reason Women Don’t Feel Instant Attraction To Men

   Why don’t women feel instant attraction to men the way men often do? In this episode, I reveal the science and psychology behind responsive desire vs. spontaneous desire, and why female attraction usually builds over time. We’ll explore how safety, trust, emotional connection, and personality shape women’s attraction to menand why this “slow burn” can lead to deeper, more lasting relationships. Whether you’re a woman who’s never experienced love at first sight, or a man who’s confused by female dating patterns, this episode breaks down the real differences in how men and women experience chemistry. Keywords: women’s attraction, female desire, responsive desire, spontaneous desire, dating psychology, attraction differences, how women fall in love, slow burn attraction, love at first sight myth.

3. 

   10 Aug 2025

   How I Manage My Anxious Attachment

   Anxious attachment doesn’t need “curing”—it needs a system. In this episode I share exactly how I manage dating anxiety with boundaries that actually stick: reassurance on a schedule, space without stories, and standards over sparks. You’ll hear my calm-down routine for overthinking and texting anxiety (self-soothing, emotional regulation, nervous system resets), the green flags I filter for (consistency, clarity, secure attachment energy). If you’re tired of chasing bare minimum and want healthy relationships without abandoning your needs, this is your playbook. Keywords: anxious attachment, attachment styles, dating anxiety, boundaries, self-soothing, emotional regulation, secure attachment, overthinking, texting anxiety, reassurance, attachment theory, nervous system regulation, healthy relationships.

Podcast Authority Score: 37 / 100

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