You are becoming someone. Question is, are you becoming someone you are proud of? At the end of the day, every man wants to feel proud of who he sees in the mirror. That's why we exist.
Becoming Men is a road map for the masculine journey. We empower and equip good men to become the epic men God created them to be.
Previous podcast guests include John Eldredge, Gary Thomas, Joseph Warren, Allen Parr, Dr. Joe Martin, Ryan Michler, Jason Vallotton, Jerrad Lopes, Dr. Billy Alsbrooks and more!
Why Men Relapse—and How to Stop the Lust Cycle for Good
You’ve deleted the apps. You’ve made the promises. Maybe you’ve even joined a men’s group. But the cycle of relapse keeps coming back. Why?
In this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez (https://www.raydelanuez.com/) breaks down the real reasons men keep falling into the lust cycle—and it’s not just about lust.
We dig deep into emotional avoidance, unhealed wounds, and the trap of isolation, then walk through 9 practical, grace-filled steps to break the cycle for good. If you’re ready to move beyond shame and into lasting freedom, this is your roadmap.
🎯 3 causes behind relapse that most men miss
🛠️ 9 action steps you can start using today
🤝 A clear invitation to real brotherhood and healing
Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? Click here to book our Zoom Call! (https://becomingmen.ck.page/coaching)
Check out MasterMyPurpose.com (https://www.mastermypurpose.com/) to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course.
This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be.
Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram @raydelanuez. (https://www.instagram.com/raydelanuez/)
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1 May 2025
THIS Is Holding You Back—and You Don’t Even See It
Too many men are stuck—not because they lack motivation, but because they’re waiting.
Waiting for clarity.
Waiting for the perfect timing.
Waiting to feel ready.
But here’s the truth: perfect conditions don’t exist, and delayed action kills momentum.In this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez (https://www.raydelanuez.com/) breaks down 5 powerful, biblical reasons why you need to move before you feel ready—and how clarity, confidence, and calling all begin with obedience. You’ll learn how to overcome hesitation, silence fear, and take the next bold step toward becoming the man you were created to be.
With real stories, Scripture, and practical steps, this episode will challenge and equip you to stop circling the runway and start living with direction.
Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? Click here to book our Zoom Call! (https://becomingmen.ck.page/coaching)
Check out MasterMyPurpose.com (https://www.mastermypurpose.com/) to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course.
This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be.
Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram @raydelanuez. (https://www.instagram.com/raydelanuez/)
Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to T (https://www.thebecomingmen.com/partner)heBecomingMen.com/Partner (https://www.thebecomingmen.com/partner).
28 Apr 2025
10 BRUTAL Reasons You're Stuck In a Rut (and how to get out of it!)
Stuck in a rut? You’re not alone—but staying stuck isn’t neutral. It’s dangerous.
In this episode of The Becoming Men Podcast, Ray De La Nuez (https://www.raydelanuez.com/) unpacks 10 brutally honest reasons why you might be spinning your wheels—and more importantly, how to break out of you're rut starting today.
If you’re serious about becoming the man God created you to be, you can’t afford to drift, delay, or live on autopilot. You were made to lead yourself well, to build, to fight for your calling, and to leave a lasting legacy.
We’ll tackle the real reasons behind the frustration—things like trusting your feelings over truth, having no systems, procrastination, poor discipline, and misplaced identity—and equip you with practical steps to reclaim momentum.
Because here’s the truth: Nothing changes if nothing changes.
✅ Stop coasting.
✅ Take ownership.
✅ Build the life you were called to lead
Want to meet with Ray One-on-One on a FREE coaching call? Click here to book our Zoom Call! (https://becomingmen.ck.page/coaching)
Check out MasterMyPurpose.com (https://www.mastermypurpose.com/) to reserve your spot for our new LIVE virtual course.
This course will equip good men as they journey to live epic lives by helping them unearth their unique purposes and learn the skills, tools, and habits they need to become the purpose-driven men they were created to be.
Make sure you connect with Ray on Instagram @raydelanuez. (https://www.instagram.com/raydelanuez/)
Consider becoming a financial partner of this podcast. head over to T (https://www.thebecomingmen.com/partner)heBecomingMen.com/Partner (https://www.thebecomingmen.com/partner).
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