Welcome to Behind the Mic—a podcast where a Gen Z Black woman living her best "hot girl" life shares unfiltered thoughts on everything from my 9-5 to side gigs. No kids, no man—just me, my mic, my cat with a whole lot of ambition.
Every episode, I dive into the grind: the wins, the fails, and the random new things I try along the way. Whether I’m unpacking what it means to live authentically, or chasing joy on a budget, this is a solo journey through life, love, work, and whatever’s next—with laughs, lessons, and maybe a few unpopular opinions.
Life’s too short not to speak your truth
Thank you God, a new page has turned!
Happy 26th birthday to meeeeeee 💕
6 Mar 2026
Ep. 18 THIS is a Revolution
Welcome back, happy new year, happy Black History Month, happy women’s history month, happy birthday month to myself 😌
During this episode, I dive into the latest who what when where and lies about life excluding the who. I focus on the revolution of life and where I currently stand and ultimately give my praises to God.
17 Dec 2025
Ep. 17 THIS IS A WARNING FOR EVERYBODY
READ: THIS IS A WARNING FOR EVERYBODY
In this episode i give an update as to how I’m feeling as well as give what I feel like is a fair warning….
IG - TIKTOK - YT: @theealexusjay
✨stay blessed, stay black, and if you can’t - at the least - stay respectful ✨
-theealexusjay 💋
15 Dec 2025
Ep. 16 Under The Weather
In today’s episode, I recap my last few days being under the weather. I also touch on the Erykah Badu concert and a few miscellaneous topics
IG, YT, & TIKTOK: @theealexusjay
✨ Stay blessed, stay black, and if you can’t at least stay respectful ✨
10 Dec 2025
Ep. 15 You gonna answer or not?
Are you gonna answer to your calling? Are you living in purpose?
IG - TIKTOK - YOUTUBE: @theealexusjay
Stay blessed - stay black - and if you can’t, at the least stay respectful
💋
5 Dec 2025
Ep. 14 A Mic’d Up Christmas Party
In today’s episode yall get to listen to the Holly Jolly at the Christmas party - lots of fun, games, and I ain’t win a single prize 😂
Anywho stay blessed, stay black, and if you can’t - at the least stay respectful
✨Catch up with yall Monday ✨
IG - TIKTOK - YOUTUBE: @theealexusjay
Podmas Day FFIIIIIVVVVEEEEEEE 💗
4 Dec 2025
Ep. 13 There’s A Reason I’m Here
Ep. 13 and Day 4 of Pod-mas, how yall feeling?
In today’s episodes I discuss purpose in existence because there’s a reason we are here followed by some inspirational quotes from Maui The Writer
IG - TIKTOK - YOUTUBE: @theealexusjay
Always remember - stay blessed, stay black, (and if you can’t) at the least stay respectful
VOD: Ephesians 6:18
3 Dec 2025
Ep. 12 Short, Sweet, To the T
Episode #12 - Short, sweet, and straight to the point!
LITERALLY LOL
Podmas Day 3 of 31, talk to yall tomorrow :)
IG, TIKTOK, YOUTUBE: @theealexusjay
And remember - Stay Bless - Stay Black (and if you can't) Stay Respectful
Proverbs 11: 25 "the generous will prosper: those who refresh orthers will themselves be refreshed"
2 Dec 2025
Ep. 11 Inflation Is Too High
Episode #11 - One for growth but full of insight and lessons!
In episode 11 I rant about the inflation but specifically groceries followed by All things black - in a grace giving way and last but not least episode closing rituals and engagement/call to action.
Podmas Day 2 of 31, talk to yall tomorrow :)
IG, TIKTOK, YOUTUBE: @theealexusjay
And remember - Stay Bless - Stay Black (and if you can't) Stay Respectful
1 Dec 2025
Ep: 10 A Lesson Wrapped in Chaos (Pod-Mas Day 1)
Episode #10 - One for growth but full of insight and lessons!
In episode 10, I dive into my WHY for everything that has been happening, followed by All things black - where honestly, it gets a bit emotional, last but not least episode closing rituals and engagement/call to action. Oh, and, did I mention - welcome to Podmas Day 1 of 31, here I am dedicating myself to my podcast however that suits throughout this holiday season!
IG, TIKTOK, YOUTUBE: @theealexusjay
An remember - Stay Bless - Stay Black (and if you can't) Stay Respectful
15 Nov 2025
Ep 9: Not gonna lie, I’m not ok…
As clear as day - I’m not ok, but I will be….
TikTok & IG: theealexusjay
17 Oct 2025
Ep 8: I Got Some Shit To Get Off My Chest
I gotta get this shit off my chest......
Being lusted over is OVER-RATED big mama is tired of the constant subjection to lust. My energy, time, and peace is valuable but so is my body, "this body is mine". This EP is uncut, unedited and off the dome, feeling the feels and all.
Stay Blessed - Stay Black (and if you can't- at the least) Stay Respectful Byeeeeeeeeeee
13 Oct 2025
Ep 7: See What Had Happened........
**clears throat**....See what had happened was
In the episode I dive into my absence - disappearance - lack in attendance - whatever you'd like to call it lol then moving into the normal schedule of the show.
DONT FORGET TO ANSWER THE POLL
Stay Bless - Stay Black (and if you can't- at the least) Stay Respectful
Until the next one --- Alexusssss Jaaayyyyyy
15 Aug 2025
Ep 6: "We are living...single" Living Single 20s Edition
Happy Friday!
Second EP of the month! YUP - YUP - give it up for me lol
In this episode, I dive into a few talking points surrounding living single, but specifically, my personal perspective regarding living single 20s edition, a continuation of last weeks topics. Followed by All things black, my what list and weekly prayer. Last but not least, episode opening/closing rituals and engagement/call to action.
-------POLL OPTIONS BELOW -------
8 Aug 2025
Ep 5: Personal Perspective About Dating
Happy Friday - First EP of the Month :)
Dating in Your 20s: The Chaos, the Lessons, and the Laughs
In this episode, I dive into a few talking points surrounding dating, but specifically, my personal perspective about dating in my 20's followed by All things black - where I discuss all things that are all black that have caught my eye for the week. Last but not least, episode opening/closing rituals and engagement/call to action.
Sending another shoutout to my accountability partner follow him on youtube: @thegr8ken
Stay Bless - Stay Black (and if you can't- at the least) Stay Respectful
20 Jul 2025
Ep 4: The Balance of Work and Life
Happy Sunday!
We are halfway thru the month and on to EP#4! (This episode was previously recorded but never before posted)
In this episode, I talk about some of my ways I prefer to balance work and life followed by All things black - where I discuss all things that are all black that have caught my eye for the week. Last but not least, opening/closing rituals and engagement/call to action.
Stay Bless - Stay Black (and if you can't- at the least) Stay Respectful
10 Jul 2025
Ep 3: The Best Care Is Self Care
Hey Yall ---- IM BACCCCKKKKK :)))))))
Ep#3 I discuss my ways of self-care rituals and conversation with my usual commentary in between.
I would like to notate condolences the families, victims, survivors, and responders and/or those assisting with the flash flood that occurred in Central Texas.
Thank you to all who have joined in on this journey, this is just the beginning! Stay Bless - Stay Black (and if you can't) Stay Respectful - theealexusjay
IG & TikTok: @theealexusjay
9 Jun 2025
Ep 2: Y.O.U. - 5 Lessons I've Learned in my 20s
Alexus Jay shares five personal lessons learned in her twenties, exploring insights on growth and self-discovery.
2 Jun 2025
Ep 1: Lets Get Acquainted
Host Alexus Jay introduces her podcast and shares her goals for weekly content creation, hoping listeners will join her journey.
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