Behind the Paddle

About Behind the Paddle

Welcome to "Behind the Paddle", the podcast that explores the fascinating world of sex across a wide spectrum of topics; from LGBTQ+ and feminine power, to kink, sex work and the adult industry. We aim to inform, inspire and entertain, featuring expert interviews, compelling stories, and thought provoking discussions. Join Porcelain Victoria (a very experienced Pro-Dominatrix of 9yrs) on a funny and wonderfully truthful look at the world through the lens of a BDSM practitioner working in the sex industry. She will also be answering listeners questions about real-life queries which will be discussed on the podcast. These can be sent in via email or through any socials. Email: behindthepaddlepodcast(at)gmail.com Our socials: https://allmylinks.com/behindthepaddle

Publisher

Porcelain Victoria

Category

education · society & culture · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

5 Jun 2024

Latest episode

26 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

136 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   26 Oct 2026

   E136:Fear Play

   Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! Fear Play: When Fear Becomes Pleasure | Behind the Paddle Why can being scared feel so good? And what happens when fear becomes part of sexual pleasure? In this episode of Behind the Paddle, we're exploring the darker side of BDSM with fear play — where anticipation, vulnerability, power and control collide. From blindfolds and sensory deprivation to psychological mind games and the thrill of the unknown, we delve into why so...

2. 

   12 Oct 2026

   E135: Confidence & Guidance workshop Part 2

   Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! Kink curious? This one's for you. 🖤 Welcome to Part 2 of Confidence & Guidance. After exploring sexual confidence, communication and intimacy in Part 1, we're heading into the BDSM side of the workshop. I've been involved in BDSM for more than nine years, and this episode is about helping people understand the reality of kink beyond the fantasy — particularly if you're curious but have absolutely no idea where to begin. W...

3. 

   5 Oct 2026

   E134:Confidence & Guidance workshop part 1

   Want to suggest a topic or simply say Hello ? Send a message here ! This is a recording of the latest Confidence & Guidance workshop which i host every other month. Welcome to Part 1 of Confidence & Guidance, taken from my live workshop exploring sex, intimacy, confidence, communication and all those questions people often feel too embarrassed to ask. After nine years working in the sex industry, I've met people with every level of experience — from virgins and people struggling...

Who has been a guest on Behind the Paddle

Names identified in recent episode analyses. Showing up to five guests.

• Miss Fay Morgan
• Celeste Hirschman
• Dr Danielle Harel
• Christine Denning
• Scotland for Decrim

Reach and audience

Public platform figures. Ratings count people who left a rating, not total listeners.

YouTube views

6,069

Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025

Spotify

4.5 / 5

20 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 63 / 100

A composite of feed quality, social presence, YouTube performance and engagement. Read the methodology.

Quality

87

Social presence

0

YouTube

68

Engagement

32

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Guest appearances

Books guests

Based on episode analysis; this does not confirm that the show is currently accepting guests.

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