Beyond Nrml w/ Mya Lamis

About Beyond Nrml w/ Mya Lamis

Beyond Normal is more than a brand—it’s a movement. It was created for those who refuse to settle, for the dreamers, the go-getters, and the ones who know they were meant for more. We believe in elevation, resilience, and breaking barriers—because success isn’t about fitting in, it’s about rising above. Our brand represents persistence, ambition, and the power of belief—especially for minorities and underrepresented communities who are rewriting their own narratives. Beyond Normal is a daily reminder that you are capable of greatness, your dreams are valid, and anything is possible when you refuse to be ordinary. Every piece we design carries a message: elevate, push beyond limits, and create your own legacy. Beyond Nrml, because normal was never enough!

Publisher

Mya Lamis

Category

society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

2 May 2025

Latest episode

30 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

54 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   30 Oct 2026

   YOU ARE NOT THE PROBLEM! | Family Trauma, Parenting & the Power of Words

   YOU ARE NOT THE PROBLEM! 💚 Sometimes the people around you will make you question everything about yourself. Your decisions. Your parenting. Your feelings. Your reactions. Your worth. Even your reality. And after hearing certain things repeatedly, you can start believing that maybe YOU are the problem. But what happens when you finally realize that you aren’t? In Episode 54 of Beyond Nrml w/ Mya Lamis, we’re doing things a little differently. No studio. No fancy setup. No script. Just me, sitting in my car, having a RAW and UNCUT conversation about life, parenting, family trauma, emotional healing, and a realization that has changed the way I look at myself and the people around me. I’m opening up about what happens when people make you feel like something is wrong with you simply because you don’t think, act, or respond the way they expect you to. We’re also talking about something that doesn’t get discussed enough: THE POWER OF WORDS. Because words hurt. Sometimes the things people say to us stay with us for years. Especially when those words come from people we love, trust, or look to for guidance. 🎙️ IN THIS EPISODE: • Realizing that you are not always the problem • How family trauma affects the way we see ourselves • Parenting while healing from your own childhood experiences • Breaking unhealthy generational patterns • When people make you question your worth • The emotional impact of hurtful words • Why words can leave lasting emotional wounds • Learning to trust your own feelings and experiences • Recognizing unhealthy relationship dynamics • Understanding the difference between accountability and accepting blame for everything • Protecting your peace and emotional well-being • Learning that you cannot control how other people treat you • Choosing healing instead of continuing harmful cycles One thing I’ve learned is that you can spend years trying to fix something about yourself that was never yours to fix. And sometimes the hardest part of healing is realizing that people you love can still hurt you. This episode isn’t about pretending we’re perfect or that we never make mistakes. We all have things we can work on. But there’s a difference between taking accountability for your actions and carrying blame that doesn’t belong to you. You deserve to be heard. You deserve to be respected. And you deserve relationships where your feelings aren’t constantly dismissed. 💚 YOU ARE NOT THE PROBLEM JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE ELSE HAS MADE YOU FEEL THAT WAY. If you’ve ever questioned yourself because of how someone treated you, this conversation is for you. 💬 LET’S TALK: Have you ever had someone make you feel like you were the problem, only to realize later that the situation was more complicated than they made it seem? How have the words of others affected your confidence or self-worth? Share your thoughts in the comments. You never know who might need to hear your story. 🎧 Listen to Beyond Nrml w/ Mya Lamis on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, iHeartRadio, and other streaming platforms. 👕 SHOP BEYOND NRML: beyondnrml.com 📚 EBOOKS, COACHING & RESOURCES: stan.store/MyaLamis 🔗 CONNECT WITH ME: linktr.ee/myalamis Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, SHARE & SUBSCRIBE! Your support helps these conversations reach people who need them. 💚

2. 

   16 Oct 2026

   Not Everyone Has a Support System | Family Trauma, Healing & Finding Your Strength

   What happens when you don’t have anyone cheering you on? 💚 Not everyone has a loving family. Not everyone has someone they can call when life gets hard. Not everyone grew up hearing, “I’m proud of you,” “I love you,” or “You’re doing a great job.” And sometimes, the people who should have been your biggest supporters are the very people who caused you the most pain. In Episode 53 of Beyond Nrml w/ Mya Lamis, we’re having a heartfelt conversation about SUPPORT SYSTEMS, FAMILY TRAUMA, TRUST ISSUES, HEALING, and the strength it takes to keep going when you feel like you’re doing everything alone. This conversation was inspired by a video I came across of a college student who was asked to call someone he loved. He called his grandfather. What happened next was beautiful. His grandfather poured love, encouragement, and affirmation into him. He reminded his grandson how proud he was of him and how much he loved him. Watching that interaction made me think about how many people have never experienced that kind of unconditional support. It also reminded me how blessed we are when we have family members who genuinely love, encourage, and support us. But what about the people who don’t? What about the people breaking generational cycles without guidance? What about the people healing from family trauma while trying to build a better future? What about the people who struggle to trust others because the people closest to them have hurt them? THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU. 💚 🎙️ IN THIS EPISODE: • The importance of having a healthy support system • The emotional impact of hearing someone say they’re proud of you • Why having a loving family is a blessing • Why we shouldn’t judge people without knowing their stories • Growing up without emotional support • Family trauma and its lasting effects • How betrayal can contribute to trust issues • Learning to trust again after being hurt • Breaking generational cycles without family support • The difference between being independent and feeling alone • Why everyone deserves encouragement • Creating your own support system • Finding strength when nobody is cheering you on • Learning to celebrate yourself • Encouragement for people who are still showing up despite everything they’ve experienced One thing I want everyone to understand is that we don’t all start life with the same emotional resources. Some people grow up surrounded by encouragement, guidance, and unconditional love. Others spend years trying to heal from the very people who were supposed to protect them. And that’s why we have to be careful about judging people when we don’t know what they’ve experienced. To everyone breaking generational cycles ALONE… To everyone who had to become their own biggest cheerleader… To everyone who is learning how to love and trust after experiencing family trauma… To everyone building a life they were never shown how to build… I SEE YOU. I’M PROUD OF YOU. AND I HOPE YOU’RE PROUD OF YOURSELF TOO. 💚 It may be harder without support, but your circumstances do not determine your potential. And remember, you deserve support, too. You don’t have to do everything alone forever. 💬 LET’S TALK: Did you grow up with a strong support system, or did you have to learn how to encourage yourself? What’s something you wish someone had told you growing up? Share your experience in the comments. You never know who might need to hear your story. 🎧 Listen to Beyond Nrml w/ Mya Lamis on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, iHeartRadio, and other streaming platforms. 💚 SUPPORT THE BEYOND NRML MOVEMENT 👕 Shop merch: BeyondNRML.com 📚 eBooks, coaching & resources: stan.store/MyaLamis 🔗 Connect with me: linktr.ee/myalamis Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, SHARE & SUBSCRIBE! Your support helps these conversations reach people who need them. #FamilyTrauma #SupportSystem #BeyondNrml

3. 

   8 Oct 2026

   Are People Leaving God… or the Church? | The Problem With Extreme Christianity | Ep. 52

   Why are people walking away from Christianity? Are people actually rejecting God—or are some people rejecting what they've experienced from Christians and the church? In Episode 52 of Beyond Nrml w/ Mya Lamis, we're having an uncomfortable but necessary conversation about Christianity, extreme religion, judgment, church hurt, hypocrisy, fear, politics, and what may be pushing people away from the faith. This isn't an attack on Christianity, Christians, or every church. It's a conversation about what happens when faith becomes more associated with judgment, condemnation, fear and control than love, grace, compassion and accountability. Jesus taught, “Judge not, that ye be not judged.” But judgment can still become one of the first things people associate with Christianity. So what went wrong? 🎙️ IN THIS EPISODE: • Why some people are leaving Christianity• Are people leaving God—or leaving the church?• Church hurt and religious trauma• Christianity and judgment• “Judge not” and Matthew 7• Conviction vs. condemnation• Why Christians sometimes focus on certain sins while ignoring others• Hypocrisy within the church• Fear-based Christianity• Questioning your faith without automatically abandoning it• Why some churches discourage difficult questions• Christianity and politics• When political identity becomes intertwined with religious identity• Christianity's complicated history within Black America• How Christianity was used both to justify oppression and to resist it• The Black church and the Civil Rights Movement• How religious leaders can misuse authority• What Jesus' treatment of marginalized people can teach modern Christians• What Christianity could look like without the extremes One of the biggest questions in this episode is: What if Christians became known more for how deeply they loved people than for everything they were against? People leave churches and question Christianity for many different reasons. Some have experienced church hurt. Some disagree with particular doctrines. Some struggle with philosophical questions. Some have witnessed hypocrisy. Some no longer believe. And others still believe in God but have stepped away from organized religion. Those experiences aren't all the same—and this conversation shouldn't pretend they are. Whether you're a Christian, former Christian, questioning your faith, spiritual, part of another religion, or simply curious, I want this episode to create room for a conversation. You don't have to agree with me. But let's be willing to ask difficult questions. 👇🏾 JOIN THE CONVERSATION: Why do YOU think people are walking away from Christianity and organized religion? And for Christians: Before we ask why people are leaving, are we willing to examine what they experienced while they were here? Keep the conversation respectful. Different beliefs are welcome. Disrespect isn't. 🎙️ Subscribe to Beyond Nrml w/ Mya Lamis for conversations about faith, society, history, healing, personal growth, culture and the topics people are sometimes afraid to discuss. 👕 Shop Beyond Nrml:BeyondNRML.com 📚 eBooks, coaching & resources:stan.store/MyaLamis #Christianity #ChurchHurt #BeyondNrml #ExtremeChristianity #Faith #Religion #ChristianPodcast #ReligiousTrauma #Church #Jesus #Deconstruction #FaithQuestions #ChristianTikTok #BlackChurch #MyaLamis

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