About Beyond the Clock: First Baby After 40, My Story.
Beyond the Clock: First Baby After 40, My Story
Ready to embrace parenthood on your own terms?
This is for the person who:
🤚 Refuses to let society dictate their timeline.
🦋 Knows their body is wise and powerful.
👩🍼 Craves a conscious and empowered pregnancy journey.
🪢 Wants to create a family that reflects your deepest values.
✍️ Is ready to rewrite the rules and embrace the magic of parenthood after 40.
Join Kole Whitty, as she shifts from successful business owner to pregnancy, listen as she shares her raw and honest journey of self-discovery, fertility, and conscious creation.
In "Beyond the Clock," you'll discover:
⭐️ How to cultivate deep self-trust and intuition.
⭐️ Practical tools for navigating the emotional and spiritual aspects of pregnancy and parenting.
⭐️ Inspiring stories from medical to magical folks that are helping her along the way.
⭐️ Expert advice on everything from fertility to postpartum healing.
It's time to ditch the fear, embrace your power, and create the path you've always dreamed of.
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Ep14 Moved To Spain to Have a Baby! Update On Our Conception Journey Over 40 (and 50)
Kole returns to Beyond the Clock: First Baby After 40 with a long-overdue update from Turia Park in Valencia, Spain, after several months of major change. Here is the Substack Update
She recounts moving to Spain on Feb. 10, getting scammed out of their savings, being forced from Barcelona to Valencia, and rebuilding stability, including borrowing money and finding a new flat. After taking three months to acclimate, she began acupuncture and had her first gynecologist visit, with bloodwork underway and a uterine polyp noted to review in September due to Spain's August shutdown.
She reflects on leaving the Condor Approach, chronic stress, miscarriages, grief, financial strain, and learning true relaxation while building community through free meetups, doing Pilates, resting, eating well, and rediscovering creativity through music and stand-up comedy. Now 43, she believes natural conception is still possible and plans further fertility testing while settling into a permanent apartment and life in Valencia.
00:00 Beyond the Clock Intro
01:17 Seven Month Update
01:53 Valencia Park Check In
02:36 Spain Move Scam
03:40 Doctors and Fertility Steps
05:48 Learning to Relax
08:08 Service and Community
11:44 Work Stress and Loss
14:34 Independence and Ancestry
17:05 Why Spain for Baby
20:02 Trust the Calling
21:18 Grief and Self Sacrifice
27:00 New Home New Self
27:55 Stand Up and Creativity
30:26 Fertility Plan Ahead
31:58 Closing from Turia Park
17 Dec 2025
Ep13 Moving To Spain
We Are Moving to Spain!
In this episode of Beyond The Clock, Kole Whitty shares her journey of becoming a first-time mom in her forties and restructuring her life.
She discusses the reasons behind her move to Spain, emphasizing how it aligns with her values and supports her well-being. Kole delves into the logistical and emotional aspects, including the benefits of Spain's healthcare system and the overall lifestyle.
She reflects on her personal growth, her experiences, and the steps she's taking to make this transition.
Kole invites listeners to reflect on their own choices and seek alignment in their lives.
00:00 Introduction to Beyond the Clock
01:38 The Journey to Spain Begins
02:28 Unexpected Challenges and Reflections
03:22 Aligning with the Spanish Lifestyle
05:13 Healthcare Comparisons: US vs Spain
06:29 Embracing Change and Letting Go
20:43 The Financial Benefits of Moving to Spain
23:33 Final Thoughts and Future Plans
24 Nov 2025
Ep12 Self-responsibility NOT self blame.
Self-responsibility NOT self blame.
In this episode of 'Beyond the Clock,' Kole Witty shares her deeply personal journey of preparing for her first baby in her 40s.
She discusses the transformative process of healing from chronic pain, embracing self-responsibility, and restructuring her life for a new chapter in Spain.
Kole recounts the struggles and triumphs, including dealing with medical conditions, trauma, and her powerful experiences in animal rescue and motivational speaking.
Through candid storytelling, Kole emphasizes the importance of alignment, safety, and rhythm over biology in her fertility journey and highlights her commitment to creating a nurturing environment for her future child.
00:00 Introduction to Beyond the Clock
01:34 Day Four: Sharing My Fertility Journey
02:35 Challenges and Inspirations
06:38 Healing Journey and Self-Responsibility
11:08 Facing Past Traumas and Finding Safety
14:29 Turning Points and Radical Self-Responsibility
19:58 Struggles and Realizations
24:28 Accepting Self-Responsibility
30:37 Life Choices and Personal Boundaries
31:29 Building a Dream Relationship
32:27 Self-Responsibility and Healing
33:07 Understanding Body Signals
35:38 Emotional Triggers and Communication
38:02 Balancing Life and Self-Care
48:45 Financial Struggles and Adaptations
55:11 Fertility Journey and Future Plans
01:00:23 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
23 Nov 2025
Ep11 Micro Miracles And Fighting For Limitations
In this episode of Beyond The Clock, Kole Witty shares the journey of becoming a first-time mom in her forties.
Kole discusses her past struggles with chronic pain, healing from trauma, and finding alignment and safety in preparation for a new chapter in life. She highlights the importance of radical self-responsibility, effective communication, and listening to one's body. Kole also delves into her relationship dynamics, the process of overcoming limitations, and the significance of making choices that align with one's authentic self.
This episode offers deep insights into her transformative path and the preparation for moving to Spain with her husband while stepping into a fertility journey.
00:00 Introduction to Beyond the Clock
01:33 Going Live on Social Media
02:01 My Healing Journey
03:21 Struggles and Realizations
05:50 Finding My True Path
07:22 Embracing My Authentic Self
11:08 The Turning Point 15:38 Preparing for a New Chapter
18:38 The Power of Love and Timing 20:51 Navigating Relationship Dynamics
22:00 Building a Strong Foundation
22:55 Effective Communication Strategies
23:21 Cultural and Personal Backgrounds
24:02 Commitment to Growth
28:39 Health and Personal Transformation
30:32 Tracking and Accountability
31:59 Radical Self-Responsibility
33:06 Managing Emotional Triggers
36:09 Daily Micro Transformations
39:27 Final Thoughts and Inspiration
21 Nov 2025
Ep10 Creating Space: My Path to Becoming a Mom in My Forties
Creating Space: My Path to Becoming a Mom in My Forties
From chronic pain and shutdown to real healing — this is why I'm doing this now, and why I'm documenting the whole journey. Your body always tells the truth before your mind will. Follow for the full 30-day series.
Kole shares her personal story of overcoming chronic pain, restructuring her life, healing, and running a business with clarity. She discusses her decision to have a baby later in life, the societal pressures women face, and the emotional and physical challenges that come with it. Kole also talks about her unique approach to marriage, her supportive relationship with her husband, and their plans to move to Spain.
Throughout, Kole emphasizes the importance of creating a nurturing environment and maintaining emotional and physical health for a successful fertility journey.
00:00 Introduction to Beyond the Clock
02:16 The Journey to Motherhood Begins
03:12 Fertility Challenges and Societal Pressures
04:22 Personal Reflections and Decisions
07:33 Marriage and Annual Vows Renewal
09:03 The Decision to Have a Baby
10:45 Healing and Preparing the Body
13:48 Emotional and Physical Health
22:27 Tracking Fertility and Future Plans
25:12 Adjusting to the Journey of Conceiving
26:13 Health and Fertility Challenges
27:32 Shifting Business and Lifestyle for Pregnancy
28:20 Moving to Spain for a Better Life
31:38 Managing Stress and Fertility
34:47 Intuition and Instincts in Parenting
35:47 Overcoming Societal Expectations
41:28 Building a Supportive Relationship
46:04 Creating an Optimal Environment
48:58 Conclusion and Future Plans
20 Nov 2025
Ep 9 Undoing My Pain Body and Moving To Spain
Ep 9 Undoing My Pain Body and Moving To Spain
My Journey to Motherhood After 40: A Personal Health Transformation Host Kole Whitty announces a 30-day live streaming series on TikTok and Instagram where she will discuss her personal journey, health, and fertility after 40.
Kole shares her story of dealing with chronic pain, self-loathing, and societal pressures, and how she turned her life around through self-care, fitness, and emotional healing. Kole also speaks about her podcast 'Beyond the Clock: First Baby After 40,' her relationship with her husband, and their decision to have a baby.
The episode outlines the couple's steps to prepare for parenthood, including changing their lifestyle, relocating to Spain, and prioritizing physical and mental well-being.
00:00 Introduction to the 30-Day Live Challenge
00:24 Starting the Podcast: First Baby After 40
00:31 Fertility Journey and Personal Reflections
03:36 Deciding to Have a Baby
07:30 Health Challenges and Lifestyle Changes
13:28 Breaking Free from Toxic Jobs
18:39 Moving to Austin and New Beginnings
21:26 Rediscovering Joy Through Music and Community
23:12 Embracing Creativity and Overcoming Pain
24:50 Facing Past Traumas and Finding Happiness
26:09 Living Simply and Finding Freedom
27:38 Radical Self-Responsibility and Health Transformation
33:54 Fitness Journey and Meeting My Husband
37:26 Emotional Healing and Helping Others
40:03 Preparing for a New Chapter: Fertility Journey
16 Feb 2025
Ep8 Raising A Child In Today's World Our Way
Beyond the Clock | First Baby After 40
Kole Whitty and her husband Tah discuss their experiences after a three-month since the ast episode.
The couple highlights life events, such as losing family members, relocating, and growing their businesses. They share their fertility journey, including their decision not to undergo traditional testing, the emotional nuances of conception, societal pressures regarding age, and the evolving dynamics in their relationship.
The discussion extends to their perspectives on raising a child in today's world, educational philosophies, and shifting societal norms regarding parenting and gender. The episode promises deep insights into their holistic approach to life and family.
00:00 Introduction and Welcome Back
00:35 Life Updates and Challenges
01:34 Fertility Journey and Conception
04:10 Emotional and Physical Changes
09:53 Reflections on Parenthood
14:38 Legacy and Parenting Philosophy
16:43 Thoughts on Age and Parenting
19:27 Gender and Parenting Choices
22:18 Education and Schooling Views
26:34 The Evolution of Human Normalcy
27:58 Technological Impact on Human Evolution
29:58 Shifts in Education and Parenting
30:46 Personal Reflections on Parenting
32:32 Navigating Life's Challenges Together
35:26 Embracing New Ways of Being
37:39 The Importance of Self-Care and Support
51:49 Final Thoughts and Future Plans
15 Nov 2024
Ep7 Geriatric Pregnancy?! Ew.
Geriatric Pregnancy?!
Ew.
Host Kole Whitty breaks down the outdated and offensive concept of 'geriatric pregnancy,' sharing her personal journey of conceiving after 40.
She discusses the cultural and medical stigmas surrounding pregnancy later in life, the importance of mental and physical health, and the significance of creating a stress-free environment.
Kole emphasizes the role of mindset, spirituality, and self-awareness in overcoming societal fears and misconceptions about fertility and pregnancy as one ages.
00:00 Introduction and Personal Journey
00:40 Debunking Geriatric Pregnancy
02:52 Personal Experiences with Birth Control
03:25 Fertility Fears and Misconceptions
08:51 The Importance of Safety and Mindset
12:26 Understanding the Nervous System
17:12 Impact of Stress on Pregnancy
18:38 Mindful Approach to Conception
20:08 Intentional Self-Care and Preparation
22:40 Navigating Relationships and Support Systems
23:23 Rejecting Negative Terminology
25:01 Personal Reflections and Future Plans
30:47 Encouragement and Resources
32:20 Final Thoughts and Upcoming Topics
30 Oct 2024
Ep5 Creating Abundance and Space for New Beginnings with Michelle Dillard
Creating Abundance and Space for New Beginnings with Michelle Dillard
In this episode, Kole welcomes Michelle Dillard to discuss the importance of creating space for the things you desire in life.
Michelle shares her journey from poverty to realizing that true abundance goes beyond monetary wealth.
They delve into the significance of valuing time over money, being present in every phase of life, managing belief systems, and nurturing an environment filled with love and supportive energy.
This insightful conversation is packed with practical advice for preparing for life's big transitions—including motherhood—by becoming the person you need to be.
00:00 Introduction to Belief Systems and Nurturing Love
00:24 Excitement for Today's Episode
01:21 Meet Michelle Dillard
01:40 Michelle's Journey to Abundance
03:49 Balancing Career and Motherhood
04:45 The Value of Time Over Money
05:34 Seasons of Work and Play
06:27 Finding Abundance Beyond Money
11:08 Creating a Nurturing Environment
13:28 Preparing for Parenthood
15:03 Controlling Belief Systems and Environment
20:45 Visualizing and Preparing for the Future
25:08 Embracing Presence and Trust
27:55 Embracing Faith and Trust in Life's Journey
29:25 The Pressure of Modern Success
30:20 Recalibrating for Peace and Presence
32:40 Balancing Business and Personal Life
34:43 Preparing for Parenthood
37:19 Creating Space for New Beginnings
39:42 The Power of Perspective and Acceptance
59:07 Final Thoughts on Abundance and Choice
27 Oct 2024
Ep5 Calling In Our Baby ✨ Meditation
Today's episode is extra special.
It's a meditation that I'm going to listen to every morning and every night.
I did something similar before I met Tah... And so it felt appropriate to do it again.
And so I sat with my alters items, some sweet grass brought together feathers from the Q'eros nation from the Huni Kuin and other gifts fro many of my teachers.
Maybe it inspires you to utilize it or create your own.
I found there's nothing more powerful than hearing my own voice. Calling in. And using the words that resonate from my heart. So today's episode is my meditation, my affirmation, my manifestation for calling in my baby.
The meditation emphasizes openness, love, and readiness to welcome new life, blending natural imagery and deep emotional resonance.
00:00 Introduction to a Special Meditation
00:21 Creating a Sacred Space
01:16 Morning Affirmations Begin
01:41 Embracing Presence and Possibility
04:59 Invoking Energy and Readiness
05:19 Reiterating the Call
06:26 Final Affirmations and Conclusion
18 Oct 2024
Ep4 WTF Is a Doula? (And Why You Might Want One) 🎧
In this episode of 'Beyond the Clock,' host Kole explores the multifaceted path of motherhood with expert guests like doula Venus Rodriguez.
They dive into integrating ancient rituals with modern insights, developing birth philosophies, and choosing the right care team.
Topics include the roles of midwives and doulas, the influence of cultural narratives, and the importance of trust and preparation. Reflecting on personal and societal expectations, episodes emphasize informed choice-making, particularly for women over 40.
Through personal anecdotes, the show highlights the unique and transformative journey of motherhood, addressing emotional, spiritual, and practical aspects to empower and inspire prospective parents.
00:00 Wake Up Call: Introduction to the Podcast
00:57 Meet Venus Rodriguez: The Doula Master
02:04 The Journey of Birth Work
05:40 Empowering Women's Healing
09:31 Developing a Birth Philosophy
21:41 Choosing Your Birth Team
34:35 Navigating Pregnancy Over 40
39:58 Setting Boundaries for a Healthy Pregnancy
41:21 Essential Conversations for Expecting Couples
42:22 The Importance of Self-Reflection and Partnership
46:18 Navigating External Opinions and Personal Beliefs
48:21 The Emotional Journey of Pregnancy
52:38 Planning and Preparing for Birth
56:46 The Role of Support Systems
01:02:28 Empowering Birth Experiences
01:03:44 Recommended Resources and Final Thoughts
01:14:37 Conclusion and Future Conversations
12 Oct 2024
Ep3: Too Old For Who? Part 2
Tiktok : https://www.tiktok.com/@firstbabyafter40
IG https://www.instagram.com/mystikole
Kole continues her convo with husband Tah as they explore their personal journey of preparing for parenthood after 40.
They share insights on prioritizing self-care, fostering deep connections, and the roadmap to intimacy.
The couple discusses their experiences with psychedelics, personal growth, and the importance of setting boundaries and intentions.
They delve into how they're preparing emotionally and practically for expanding their family, including selecting a supportive birth team. Emphasizing the significance of authenticity, vulnerability, and mutual support, they aim to inspire others embarking on similar life transformations.
00:00 Wake Up Call
00:08 Prioritizing Self and Family
00:16 Introduction to Part Two
00:59 The Path to Intimacy
04:12 Roadmap to Intimacy
12:08 Navigating Trauma in Relationships
14:41 Preparing for Parenthood
17:19 The Role of Psychedelics
24:21 Setting Boundaries and Advocacy
26:39 Supporting Through Pregnancy
30:00 Conclusion and Future Plans
12 Oct 2024
Ep2 Too Old For Who? Forging Our Own Path
Tiktok : https://www.tiktok.com/@firstbabyafter40
IG https://www.instagram.com/mystikole
In this debut episode, Kole Whitty and her husband Tah share their personal journeys and experiences as they prepare for parenthood after 40.
Kole, who co-founded The Condor Approach with Tah, discusses her fertility journey and the emotions surrounding pregnancy.
Tah, a former nurse and now master coach, shares insights from his past experiences at 52 and the role psychedelics played in their growth. They emphasize healing, self-interest, and redefining normalcy in relationships and aging.
The episode deep dives into Kole and Tah's unique relationship dynamics, healing from past traumas, redefining beliefs about age, and their vision for future family life. Both express their commitment to constructing a life based on personal values and effective strategies for safety and growth.
00:00 Introduction and Purpose of the Show
01:09 Meet Kole Whitty: Host and Co-Founder
03:04 Introducing Tah: The Journey Begins
04:44 Tah's Background and Expertise
06:45 The Evolution of Kole and Tah's Relationship
09:02 Facing Personal Challenges and Growth
18:44 Tah's Rock Bottom and Recovery
25:23 Parenthood and Healing Family Dynamics
29:43 A Daughter's Perception
30:15 Turning Point in Fatherhood
31:01 Embracing Parenthood
31:59 Age and Parenting
35:46 Defying Aging Beliefs
42:57 Creating a Safe Space
48:12 Commitment and Priorities
53:19 Conclusion
12 Oct 2024
Ep1 "But You Aren't Even Pregnant, Yet?"
Tiktok : https://www.tiktok.com/@firstbabyafter40
IG https://www.instagram.com/mystikole
In this introductory episode of 'Beyond the Clock', host Kole Whitty shares her personal journey into pregnancy after 40.
She discusses the challenges and dreams of redefining parenthood beyond societal clocks and limitations. Kole provides an intimate look at her life, including her experiences with trauma, addiction recovery, and healing through unconventional methods like psychedelics.
The episode is not only a narrative of personal transformation but also a call to build a supportive community for those exploring parenthood on their own terms. With future episodes promising raw and honest conversations about fertility, pregnancy, and emotional transitions, Kole aims to empower listeners with insights, stories, and resources along the way.
00:00 Introduction to Beyond the Clock
00:23 The Journey to Motherhood After 40
00:47 Creating a Space for Unique Conversations
01:21 Embracing the Transformative Power
01:40 The Internal Shifts Before Pregnancy
02:24 What Makes This Podcast Different
04:49 Meet My Husband, TAH
07:15 My Personal Journey and Struggles
09:47 A Turning Point: Overcoming Health Challenges
17:41 Discovering Alternative Healing Modalities 21:22 Trust and Signs 21:57 Psychedelic Journey Begins
22:47 Healing and Integration
24:22 Meeting Tom and Moving to Austin
26:58 Fitness and Transformation
29:34 Creating the Condor Approach
32:08 Psychedelic Informed Coaching
35:01 Journey to Parenthood
40:16 Conclusion and Next Steps
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