26 Oct 2026
E64: H.E.R. Talk — Doing It Differently with Coach Tammy
IN THIS EPISODE
Sis, doing it differently looks scary — especially when you've done it one way for so long.
In this week's Her Talk, Dorcas sits down with her good friend Coach Tammy Bowe-LaCroix — intimacy and relationship coach, speaker, author, and host of the Sex Ed for Saints podcast — for a real conversation about what God is calling her to do differently in this season.
Tammy talks about carrying a lot without knowing how to let go: wife, mother, student, business builder — doing everything, exhausted, and wondering why it felt so heavy when the vision was aligned. You'll hear how she let go of expecting support from the people closest to her, what it cost to keep doing things the comfortable way, and the pivots that looked crazy from the outside — from real estate and a law school acceptance letter to a 3 a.m. call into intimacy work, and a season where the well ran dry.
And the shift: "I don't move unless God tells me to move." Now she's doing more than ever — and it feels lighter. Because what you release opens your capacity to carry what you were actually called to carry.
If you're a builder, a wife, a mother, a woman carrying a vision that feels heavier than it should — this one is for you. Doing it differently is saying, "God, I trust You no matter what."
⏱ CHAPTERS
00:00 — Welcome to Her Talk
00:51 — Meet Coach Tammy Bowe-LaCroix
01:34 — Do It Differently This Time
02:54 — Carrying a Lot Without Knowing How to Let Go
05:49 — What Heaviness Actually Looks Like
09:05 — Letting Go of the Expectation of Support
14:04 — Doing More Now — But It Feels Lighter
16:05 — Release Everything That Isn't Aligned
23:38 — The 3 AM Pivot: Real Estate to Intimacy Coaching
28:24 — Why Christian Women Struggle Most With Intimacy
40:13 — When the Well Runs Dry
44:30 — Rivers of Living Water
49:09 — What Did Comfort Cost You?
54:47 — The Woman I Became: Free
🎟 DROPPING THE CAPE — LIVE EVENT
January 9, 2027 · 11 a.m.–3 p.m. · Bessemer, Alabama
A gathering to get honest about the weight you've been carrying and make room for the vision — without carrying every burden that brought you this far.
Register: https://droppingthecape.com/
✨ ABOUT DORCAS PITTMAN
Dorcas Pittman is an author, speaker, coach, and host of the Dorcas Pittman Podcast (formerly Beyond the Healing), where Christian women learn to drop the cape, heal for real, and become H.E.R. — Healed, Empowered, Restored. Through courage, clarity, and strategy, she helps women leaders, visionaries, and entrepreneurs turn past trauma into faith-filled power and step boldly into God's plan.
🔗 CONNECT WITH DORCAS
Website: https://dorcaspittman.com
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🔗 CONNECT WITH TAMMY
Website: https://www.yourmarriagelab.com/ (https://www.yourmarriagelab.com/)
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themarriagelabllc/ (https://www.instagram.com/themarriagelabllc/)
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Sex-Edforsaintspodcast/featured (https://www.youtube.com/@Sex-Edforsaintspodcast/featured)
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💬 YOUR TURN
What is God calling you to do differently this time? Name ONE thing below — and if this episode gave you language for the weight you've been carrying, share it with one of your good girlfriends. I read every comment.
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