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#42. Why Success Never Feels Like Enough (w/ Mandy Balak)
We don’t have a burnout epidemic. We have a capacity crisis. And we’ve been calling it success.
That’s the line Mandy Balak opens with, and it’s the thesis her whole book Chasing Enough is built on. Not “you’re not managing your time well enough.” Not “you need better habits.”
You’ve been operating beyond what you have, for so long, that you’ve mistaken depletion for dedication.
I wanted to talk to Mandy not to promote the book, but to press on it. What does it actually mean to separate your worth from your output when the entire economy rewards output? Is “you are enough” a real permission you can give yourself, or just a nicer sentence you repeat until you believe it? And the question I couldn’t let go of — if you know the trap, if you can name the pattern the second it activates, does that knowledge protect you, or does it just mean you fall into it with your eyes open?
We got into:
* six “armor patterns” — the quiet defense mechanisms high achievers build instead of actual safety — and which one still runs her life.
* The curse of competence: the way every win resets your baseline so “enough” keeps moving just out of reach.
* And we sat with a question that’s uncomfortable precisely because it’s so ordinary: when did we start believing rest has to be earned?
This one’s for anyone who’s checked every box and still felt behind.
Mandy's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mandybalak/ (https://www.instagram.com/mandybalak/)
Book: https://shorturl.at/NsXOk (https://shorturl.at/NsXOk)
Website: https://mandybalak.com/ (https://mandybalak.com/)
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23 Jul 2026
#41 How to Pace Yourself (Without Falling Behind) w/ Elizabeth Svoboda
We live in a culture that worships speed. Faster output, faster growth, faster everything…as if slowing down were a personal failing rather than a skill. This week’s guest thinks we’ve got it backwards.
Elizabeth Svoboda is a science journalist and the author of The Art of Pacing, a book that digs into why sustainable effort is what actually gets us where we’re trying to go, not constant intensity.
In our conversation, we talk about where our obsession with speed comes from, why “pacing” gets dismissed as code for slacking off, and what it actually looks like to build a rhythm of work and rest that holds up over the long haul.
This one hit close to home for me. A lot of what we talk about on this show comes back to the tension between doing more and staying well — and pacing might be the most practical answer to that tension I’ve come across yet. We get into the research behind it, but we also get into the harder, more personal question: why do so many of us know this intellectually and still can’t seem to practice it?
If you’ve ever burned out chasing a deadline, or felt guilty for taking a break you clearly needed, this episode is for you.
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18 Jun 2026
#40. Why Great Speakers Aren’t Born w/Dayna Gowan
In this episode, I sit down with Dayna Gowan — founder of Improvly Speaking, Distinguished Toastmaster, workshop facilitator, and host of the Improvly Speaking podcast. Dayna's story starts in a bathroom, crying after a disastrous presentation, and ends with her building an entire career around the very thing that terrified her most.
We talk about how improv — yes, the kind you see on a comedy stage — is one of the most underrated tools for communication, confidence, and mental health. Dayna breaks down what "Yes, and…" really means beyond the stage, how improv helped her through the pandemic, and why letting go of perfection might be the most productive thing you can do.
We also get into the messy middle: imposter syndrome, analysis paralysis, the "more than zero" mindset, and what it actually takes to sustain a creative project when self-doubt is loud. Plus, Dayna shares what new motherhood taught her about uncertainty — and why she now calls it her friend.
If you've ever held back because you didn't feel ready, qualified, or confident enough, this one's for you.
Connect with Dayna: Website: improvlyspeaking.com (http://improvlyspeaking.com) Podcast: Improvly Speaking Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/improvlyspeaking/ (https://www.instagram.com/improvlyspeaking/)LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/daynagowan/ (https://www.linkedin.com/in/daynagowan/)
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