Welcome to Beyond the Vow! Beyond the Vow is hosted by Nick and Janelle Lavender and focuses on religious and marital topics. We delve into the ups and downs, the twists and turns, the victories, the struggles, and everything that a couple may encounter as they journey through life and faith together. Habits will be tested, boundaries will be stretched, views will be analyzed, and compromises have to be made. All this and MORE as we go "Beyond the Vow!" You can find us on Facebook by simply searching for "Beyond the Vow".
Worldly by Whose Standards? | A Response to James Plank
During a recent School of the Prophets session at the Interchurch Holiness Convention (IHC), Pastor James Plank made some interesting comments about the people attending his church, distinguishing between those he considers "conservative" and those he describes as "worldly."
But that raises an important question: Does someone become worldly simply because they don't conform to the outward standards or traditions of a particular church?
In this episode of Beyond the Vow, we take a closer look at Plank's remarks and examine the difference between biblical holiness and the expectations often associated with conservative church culture.
We aren't questioning the importance of holiness, nor are we suggesting that Christians shouldn't have personal convictions or standards. Rather, we're challenging the practice of using those standards as the basis for determining another believer's spiritual condition.
Is worldliness defined by Scripture, or have we allowed our traditions and preferences to influence how we judge others?
Join us as we discuss these questions, examine what the Bible actually teaches, and consider whether our understanding of holiness always reflects the heart of Scripture.
Holiness matters. But so does how we define it.
19 Sept 2026
Beyond the Vow: We have a foster baby
An unexpected phone call. A little boy. A new chapter of faith, love, and family.
11 Sept 2026
From Dad's Library: The Devil's Ladder
While going through Dad's massive library, Nick came across an old book by W. B. Godbey describing what he called "the devil's ladder"—a progression from doubt to discouragement, despondency and despair. That discovery led us into a conversation about the thoughts that tear us down, spiritual warfare, grief, and what remains of the people we love after they're gone.
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