Bi+ Black Men is a dialogue-driven platform founded by Robert Saint Michael that centers the lived experiences, identity development, relationships, and cultural realities of Bi+ Black Men. Through structured conversations, personal reflection, and community-centered storytelling, the show explores bi erasure, masculinity, mental health, social perception, and the intersections that shape our experiences.
In this episode, a community voice reflects on the pressure bi+ people can face from both straight culture and LGBTQ+ spaces to prove their sexuality through dating, sex, or relationship history.
The conversation explores how early expectations around masculinity, virginity, hookup culture, and bisexual identity can push people toward experiences they may not actually be ready for. It also challenges the idea that a bi+ person has to sleep with more than one gender in order to be considered valid.
For bi+ Black men navigating identity, sex, relationships, and community expectations, this episode is a reminder that attraction does not need to be proven through experience. Your identity is still yours, even if your history does not fit someone else’s expectations.
13 Aug 2026
007. Being a Bi+ Black Man Feels Lonely
In this episode, Jay reflects openly on loneliness, friendship, and the difficulty of finding meaningful community as a bi+ Black man.
He talks about what happens when old communities change, friendships become less accessible, and connection with other men can feel complicated by attraction, masculinity, emotional vulnerability, and expectations around bisexual identity.
The conversation also explores the difference between having people in your life and actually feeling connected, why emotionally intimate friendships between men can be difficult to build, and what it means to stop accepting relationships that no longer feel reciprocal.
For Bi+ Black Men who have ever felt isolated, unseen, or unsure where they fully belong, this episode is a reminder that loneliness and community can exist side by side.
13 Aug 2026
006. Learning To Trust Me Again
Trust isn’t only about learning who you can rely on. Sometimes it’s about rebuilding your trust in yourself after your assumptions, relationships, and sense of safety have been challenged.
In this personal reflection, J.R. (a Black man from Far Rockaway, NY) explores what it means to navigate betrayal, boundaries, self-acceptance, and emotional safety as a fluid. Through his own experiences, he examines how stereotypes, expectations, and painful interactions can shape the way we relate to others, and how learning to trust ourselves again becomes the foundation for healthier relationships.
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Michael E Mack
T Bennett
Eclectic Kel
K Smith
Eric
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