Big Soft Energy

About Big Soft Energy

Big Soft Energy is a lifestyle and personal growth podcast hosted by Mykayla Best. Each episode explores the real, unfiltered side of becoming: healing, identity, relationships, motherhood, ambition, femininity, self-worth, and the quiet moments that shape who we are. This is the kind of growth that doesn’t just happen in journals or morning routines. It happens in heartbreak, burnout, reinvention, uncomfortable conversations, late-night thoughts, and deciding you deserve more from your life. Think soft life meets deep introspection meets emotionally intelligent chaos. Welcome to Big Soft Energy.

Publisher

Mykayla Best

Category

education

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

16 Jan 2026

Latest episode

27 Jun 2026

Latest episodes

10 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   27 Jun 2026

   FROM CONTROL TO ALIGNMENT: Relearning Feminine Energy with Alyssa Moore

   What if the life you're trying so hard to control is actually asking you to surrender? In this episode of Big Soft Energy, I'm joined by alignment coach and one of my close friends, Alyssa Moore, for a deep conversation on feminine energy, intuition, self-trust, and what it really means to live in alignment. We talk about how childhood experiences, survival mode, and independence can keep us operating in our masculine energy, why intuition feels completely different from anxiety, and how learning to soften doesn't mean giving up your strength—it means trusting yourself enough to stop forcing what isn't meant for you. We also dive into: How to tell the difference between intuition and fear Why self-trust is built through small promises to yourself The power of emotional regulation and choosing the next best thought Healing from toxic patterns in friendships and relationships What alignment actually looks like in everyday life Navigating single motherhood, independence, and learning to receive Why other people's lives aren't competition—they're mirrors for your own desires This episode feels like sitting down with your big sister after a long week—the kind of conversation that leaves you feeling seen, grounded, and reminded that you don't have to have everything figured out today. If you've been craving more peace, more softness, and a deeper connection to yourself, this one's for you!

2. 

   5 Jun 2026

   The Universe Cannot Guide You to an Unknown Destination

   What if the reason you feel stuck isn’t because you’re behind… but because you haven’t fully decided what you actually want? In this episode of Big Soft Energy, we’re talking about clarity, alignment, desire, identity, and the uncomfortable truth that the universe cannot guide you to an unknown destination. We dive into fear, self-sabotage, indecision, nervous system expansion, and why so many women stay disconnected from the lives they secretly want. This is a conversation about direction, standards, embodiment, and giving yourself permission to want more. If you’ve been feeling lost, overwhelmed, disconnected from yourself, or unsure of your next step, this episode is for you. CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM @bigsoftenergy (https://instagram.com/bigsoftenergy) @bymykaylabest (https://instagram.com/bymykaylabest) @thefeminineauthority (https://instagram.com/thefeminineauthority) EXPLORE https://www.thefeminineauthority.com FOLLOW THE SHOW Listen on ⁠Spotify⁠ (https://open.spotify.com/show/0aygJBxru2svLo653XO7Hi?si=0e3TfGZeSaqbzVuIP4tlMg) Listen on ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠ (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/big-soft-energy/id1873027910) CONTACT podcast@bigsoftenergy.com If this episode resonated with you, don’t forget to follow, share, or send it to someone who needs this 💋

3. 

   31 May 2026

   THE IDENTITY SPRINT SERIES: You Can't Step Into a New Life With an Old Identity

   In this episode, we’re bringing everything together. Because you can’t create a new life while holding onto the same identity that created your current one. If you’ve been feeling: a pull for more, but not fully there yet like you’re hitting a ceiling in life or growth ready for change, but unsure how to fully step into it We're Finishing With: why expansion feels uncomfortable (and why that’s a good sign) the identity “ceiling” that keeps you in the same cycles what it actually requires to step into your next level ✨ ⁠⁠JOIN THE IDENTITY SPRINT NOW!⁠⁠⁠ (https://app.acuityscheduling.com/catalog.php?owner=34836275&category=THE+IDENTITY+SPRINT) (enrollment beings 6/1): 💸 Use code BSE25 for 25% off (listener-only) 🔗 LINKS + NEXT STEPS → ⁠⁠FOLLOW THE SHOW⁠⁠ (https://open.spotify.com/show/0aygJBxru2svLo653XO7Hi?si=909dbd1b142d44b1) WEBSITE 🐆 ⁠⁠⁠www.thefeminineauthority.com⁠⁠⁠ FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM 🩶 ⁠⁠⁠@bigsoftenergy⁠⁠⁠ (http://www.instagram.com/bigsoftenergy) ⁠⁠⁠@thefeminineauthority⁠ (http://www.instagram.com/thefeminineauthority)

4. 

   30 May 2026

   THE IDENTITY SPRINT SERIES: You Don't Become Her, You Start Acting Like Her

   In this episode, we’re talking about identity activation—the part most people avoid. Because becoming the version of you you want to be doesn’t start with feeling ready… it starts with choosing differently. If you’ve been: waiting to feel confident before showing up avoiding decisions you know you need to make stuck in the gap between who you are and who you want to be We’re getting into: why your actions define your identity—not your intentions how small decisions create massive identity change what it actually looks like to “become her” in real time ✨ ⁠JOIN THE IDENTITY SPRINT NOW!⁠⁠ (https://app.acuityscheduling.com/catalog.php?owner=34836275&category=THE+IDENTITY+SPRINT) (enrollment beings 6/1): 💸 Use code BSE25 for 25% off (listener-only) 🔗 LINKS + NEXT STEPS → ⁠FOLLOW THE SHOW⁠ (https://open.spotify.com/show/0aygJBxru2svLo653XO7Hi?si=909dbd1b142d44b1) WEBSITE 🐆 ⁠⁠www.thefeminineauthority.com⁠⁠ (www.thefeminineauthority.com) FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM 🩶 ⁠⁠@bigsoftenergy⁠⁠ (http://www.instagram.com/bigsoftenergy) ⁠⁠@thefeminineauthority⁠ (http://www.instagram.com/thefeminineauthority)

5. 

   29 May 2026

   THE IDENTITY SPRINT SERIES: It's Not You, It's Your Subconcious

   In this episode, we go deeper into why you keep repeating patterns you know you’ve outgrown… and why awareness alone isn’t enough to change them. If you’ve ever felt like: you know what to do but don’t follow through you keep going back to the same situations you start strong… and then fall off This episode will connect the dots. We’re diving into: the difference between conscious goals and subconscious beliefs why your brain chooses what’s familiar over what’s aligned how your identity is built from repetition—not intention This is where you stop asking “what’s wrong with me?” …and start asking “what do I actually believe?” Ready to actually shift this? ✨ ⁠JOIN THE IDENTITY SPRINT NOW!⁠⁠ (https://app.acuityscheduling.com/catalog.php?owner=34836275&category=THE+IDENTITY+SPRINT) (enrollment beings 6/1): 💸 Use code BSE25 for 25% off (listener-only) 🔗 LINKS + NEXT STEPS → ⁠FOLLOW THE SHOW⁠ (https://open.spotify.com/show/0aygJBxru2svLo653XO7Hi?si=909dbd1b142d44b1) WEBSITE 🐆 ⁠⁠www.thefeminineauthority.com⁠⁠ (www.thefeminineauthority.com) FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM 🩶 ⁠⁠@bigsoftenergy⁠⁠ (http://www.instagram.com/bigsoftenergy) ⁠⁠@thefeminineauthority⁠ (http://www.instagram.com/thefeminineauthority)

6. 

   28 May 2026

   THE IDENTITY SPRINT SERIES: Collapse The Mask — Who You've Been vs. Who You Are

   In this episode, we’re breaking down “the mask”—the roles, patterns, and behaviors you’ve learned to embody over time that once kept you safe… but are now keeping you small. If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking: “Why am I still doing this?” “This doesn’t even feel like me anymore” “I know I’m meant for more, I just don’t know how to step into it” We’re talking about: how your identity is shaped by what feels familiar, not what’s aligned why you keep repeating patterns you’ve already outgrown and what it actually looks like to begin collapsing the version of you that no longer fits This episode is awareness.The rest of the series is what you do with it. ✨ ENTER THE SPRINT NOW! (https://www.thefeminineauthority.com/sprint) 💸 Use code BSE25 for 25% off (listener-only) FOLLOW THE SHOW → Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/0aygJBxru2svLo653XO7Hi?si=909dbd1b142d44b1) → Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/big-soft-energy/id1873027910) WEBSITE 🐆 ⁠www.thefeminineauthority.com⁠ (www.thefeminineauthority.com⁠) FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM 🩶 ⁠@bigsoftenergy⁠ (http://www.instagram.com/bigsoftenergy) ⁠@thefeminineauthority (http://www.instagram.com/thefeminineauthority)

7. 

   26 May 2026

   Never Too Much: A Conversation on Self-Worth & Standards

   In this episode of Big Soft Energy, we’re talking about self-worth, standards, settling, abundance, relationships, and the quiet ways we abandon ourselves just to maintain connection, comfort, or familiarity. This conversation is for the people who have spent too much time questioning whether they’re “too much” for wanting consistency, effort, honesty, reciprocity, emotional safety, peace, softness, support, and more from life. Because maybe you were never asking for too much. Maybe you were just accepting too little. We’re getting into: ♡ what you tolerate vs. what you truly deserve ♡ high standards & self-respect ♡ why healing changes your tolerance ♡ abundance beyond money ♡ relationships, boundaries & overexplaining ♡ becoming unavailable for less ♡ the loneliness that can come with growth ♡ choosing yourself without guilt This is your reminder that wanting more for yourself does not make you selfish. It makes you awake. LISTEN / CONNECT: Instagram: @bigsoftenergy Host IG: @mykaylabest The Feminine Authority: @thefeminineauthority Explore My Offers & Work: https://www.thefeminineauthority.com Listen on Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/0aygJBxru2svLo653XO7Hi?si=0e3TfGZeSaqbzVuIP4tlMg) Listen on Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/big-soft-energy/id1873027910) Business Inquiries: podcast@bigsoftenergy.com If this episode resonated with you, don’t forget to follow, share, or send it to someone who needs this conversation. 💋

8. 

   5 Mar 2026

   YOUR ENERGETIC BLUEPRINT: Human Design 101

   In this episode, I break down what Human Design is and why it changed the way I see myself. When I understood my chart, I stopped judging parts of myself. I felt clearer. More grounded. More powerful. I finally had language for how I am designed to move through life. I walk you through: The five Human Design energy types. Generator, Manifesting Generator, Projector, Manifestor, Reflector Human Design strategy and how each type is designed to move and make decisions Human Design authority. Emotional, sacral, splenic, ego, self-projected, lunar Defined and undefined energy centers and how conditioning happens Human Design profiles and what they reveal about your life theme You do not need to memorize your whole chart. Start with your type, your strategy, and your authority. Then notice where you are forcing and where you are ignoring your body. ♀ STAY CONNECTED Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/thefeminineauthority/) |  Website (https://www.thefeminineauthority.com/) ♀ FEMININE AUTHORITY ☾ Support for growth, alignment, and real-life change: Flourish (https://www.thefeminineauthority.com/flourish) ☾ Human Design readings and decision-making clarity: Divine (https://www.thefeminineauthority.com/divine) Use code *INTEGRATE* for $25 off your firstHuman Design reading with me <3 ☾ Stepping fully into your authority: Powerhouse (https://www.thefeminineauthority.com/powerhouse) ♀ ABOUT MYKAYLA Mykayla Best is a coach and the founder of Feminine Authority. She supports women in reconnecting with theirinternal authority, trusting themselves, and making decisions that feel aligned rather than forced. Her work blends coaching with Human Design and focuses on real-life application around money, work, relationships, and personal growth. Through Feminine Authority, Mykayla helps women stop playing small and step into lives that feel true to who they are. ♀ ABOUT Big Soft Energy Big Soft Energy is where I talk about real growth. The kind that actually shows up in your daily life. I share what it feels like to want more peace and more money without losing yourselfalong the way. We talk about the hard moments, the soft ones, and the ones that quietly change you. Some episodes will call you out in a good way. Some will help you slow down. This space is feminine, honest, and grounded. This is Big Soft Energy. ♀ Girl, this is just the beginning. Follow the show. ☾☾☾ Produced by AOLI.fm (https://www.aoli.fm).

9. 

   29 Jan 2026

   What 2025 Taught Me About Money, Alignment, and Letting Go

   In this very first episode of Big Soft Energy, I share what 2025 taught me about money, alignment, and quitting what wasn’t actually me. I talk about leaving misaligned work, operating from scarcity, trusting my body instead of fear, and why Human Design became such an important part of how I now make decisions. This episode focuses on money, entrepreneurship, boundaries in love, and what it really looks like to stop playing small and take your power back. ♀ Stay connected Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/thefeminineauthority/) |  Website (https://www.thefeminineauthority.com/) ♀ Feminine Authority ☾ Support for growth, alignment, and real-life change: Flourish (https://www.thefeminineauthority.com/flourish) ☾ Human Design readings and decision-making clarity: Divine (https://www.thefeminineauthority.com/divine) I’m currently offering a limited number of free Human Design readings until January 31. From February 1 to February 28, readings are available at 50% off. Starting March 1, readings return to full price. ☾ Stepping fully into your authority: Powerhouse (https://www.thefeminineauthority.com/powerhouse) ♀ About Mykayla Mykayla Best is a coach and the founder of Feminine Authority. She supports women in reconnecting with their internal authority, trusting themselves, and making decisions that feel aligned rather than forced. Her work blends coaching with Human Design and focuses on real-life application around money, work, relationships, and personal growth. Through Feminine Authority, Mykayla helps women stop playing small and step into lives that feel true to who they are. ♀ About Big Soft Energy Big Soft Energy is where I talk about real growth. The kind that actually shows up in your daily life. I share what it feels like to want more peace and more money without losing yourself along the way. We talk about the hard moments, the soft ones, and the ones that quietly change you. Some episodes will call you out in a good way. Some will help you slow down. This space is feminine, honest, and grounded. This is Big Soft Energy. ♀ Girl, this is just the beginning. Follow the show. ☾☾☾ This podcast is produced by AOLI.fm (https://www.aoli.fm).

10. 

    16 Jan 2026

    This is Big Soft Energy

    Big Soft Energy is where I talk about real growth. The kind that shows up in your daily life. I share what it feels like to want more peace and more money without losing yourself. I talk about the hard moments, the soft ones, and the ones that change you a little. Some episodes will call you out in a good way. Some will help you slow down. If you want to stay close, find me on Instagram at bigsoftenergy. This is feminine as hell. This is Big Soft Energy.

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