Build A Dad is a podcast about figuring out fatherhood in real time.
I’m a new dad to twin girls, and these are my thoughts, questions, stories, and lessons as I learn what it actually means to be a father.
Each episode is a short, honest conversation about whatever is on my mind—from raising daughters and setting a good example to relationships, responsibility, fears, mistakes, and the kind of person I want my children to grow up watching.
I’m not here because I have fatherhood figured out.
I’m here because I’m building the dad I want to become.
This is Build A Dad.
News Story:https://www.visir.is/g/20262911693d/-faer-thessar-frettir-og-vid-forum-ad-grata-og-allt-omurlegt-What are the things I wish I knew before having twins?Becoming a first-time dad to twin girls completely changed my life. There were so many things I thought I was prepared for… and even more that caught me completely off guard.In this episode of Build A Dad, I share the biggest lessons I’ve learned from becoming a twin dad—from sleepless nights and feeding schedules to relationships, accepting help, and learning that no amount of preparation can truly prepare you for becoming a parent.If you’re expecting twins, trying for a baby, or you’ve recently become a new parent, I hope these lessons make your journey just a little easier.
26 Jul 2026
How I Survive the Night Shift With Newborn Twins #008
What happens when dad takes the night shift with newborn twins?In this episode of Build A Dad, I talk about taking over nighttime feeds with my twin girls, letting their mom get some much-needed sleep, and figuring out how to handle two hungry babies in the middle of the night.Feeding twins every few hours can sound intimidating, especially when you’re exhausted and everyone else is asleep—but I’m learning that the night shift doesn’t have to be something you dread.This is what works for me, what I’ve learned so far, and how I’m trying to become more confident taking care of my daughters on my own.
26 Jul 2026
Iceland Rejected My Spose's Maternity Leave #007
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My girlfriend gave birth to our twin daughters early after an emergency C-section. Then we found out that her maternity leave had been rejected.In this episode of Build A Dad, I talk about what happened, why her application for parental leave in Iceland was denied, and what this situation has been like for us as new parents to twin girls.We went from focusing entirely on the birth of our daughters and bringing them home safely to suddenly having to worry about finances and fight a decision we never expected.This is our experience with Iceland’s parental leave system and what we’re trying to do about it.
18 Jul 2026
Is Having Twins Really That Difficult? #006
Are twins really double the trouble? And is raising twins actually twice as difficult as raising one baby?As a new dad to twin girls, I’m starting to experience firsthand what life with twins is really like. In this episode of Build A Dad, I talk about the challenges of having two babies at the same time, whether twins really are “double the work,” and some of the advantages that come with raising two children together.I’m still at the very beginning of this journey, and I definitely don’t have all the answers. I’m just figuring out fatherhood as I go.
17 Jul 2026
Is Formula Safer Than Breast Milk? #005
Breast milk vs Formula milk?This is a huge debate between parents, but in the episode I talk about why I need to feed my twins both, and how i'm coping with the Nestlé part in all this.Welcome to Build A Dad.🔥I’m Frikki—a young dad to twin girls, husband, and founder of Consistent Media, a content agency based in Iceland.This channel is where I document the journey of becoming the best father, husband, and man I can be. I’ll share the wins, the mistakes, and everything I’m learning along the way.Whether you’re about to become a dad, already raising kids, or simply trying to build a better life, I hope these videos help you feel a little less alone.
16 Jul 2026
Your Kids Will Copy Everything You Do #004
Your kids don’t just listen to what you tell them—they watch what you do.As a new dad to twin girls, I’ve been thinking about the example I want to set for my daughters. How do I make sure they learn the best parts of me without picking up the habits and mistakes I don’t want to pass down?The way you speak. The way you treat their mother. How you handle anger, failure, work, and everyday life. Your children are watching it all.In Episode 4 of Build A Dad, I talk about the responsibility of being a role model for your children and why becoming a good father might mean becoming a better version of yourself first.Welcome to Build A Dad.🔥I’m Frikki—a young dad to twin girls, husband, and founder of Consistent Media, a content agency based in Iceland.This channel is where I document the journey of becoming the best father, husband, and man I can be. I’ll share the wins, the mistakes, and everything I’m learning along the way.Whether you’re about to become a dad, already raising kids, or simply trying to build a better life, I hope these videos help you feel a little less alone.
16 Jul 2026
The Problem With Posting Your Kids Online #003
Should you post your kids online or show your newborn baby’s face on social media?As a new dad to twin girls—and someone who creates content online—this is something I’ve had to seriously think about. In this episode of Build A Dad, I talk about the decision parents face when sharing their children online, privacy, and where I personally draw the line.Welcome to Build A Dad.🔥I’m Frikki—a young dad to twin girls, husband, and founder of Consistent Media, a content agency based in Iceland.This channel is where I document the journey of becoming the best father, husband, and man I can be. I’ll share the wins, the mistakes, and everything I’m learning along the way.Whether you’re about to become a dad, already raising kids, or simply trying to build a better life, I hope these videos help you feel a little less alone.
16 Jul 2026
Was I Scared to Have Twins? #002
Was I scared when I found out we were having Twins?Frikki goes all out in this video and talks about the day he found out he was having twins, and all the emotions that come with that knowledge.Welcome to Build A Dad.🔥I’m Frikki—a young dad to twin girls, husband, and founder of Consistent Media, a content agency based in Iceland.This channel is where I document the journey of becoming the best father, husband, and man I can be. I’ll share the wins, the mistakes, and everything I’m learning along the way.Whether you’re about to become a dad, already raising kids, or simply trying to build a better life, I hope these videos help you feel a little less alone.
16 Jul 2026
The Day My Twin Daughters Were Born #001
Welcome to Build A Dad.🔥I’m Frikki—a young dad to twin girls, husband, and founder of Consistent Media, a content agency based in Iceland.This channel is where I document the journey of becoming the best father, husband, and man I can be. I’ll share the wins, the mistakes, and everything I’m learning along the way.Whether you’re about to become a dad, already raising kids, or simply trying to build a better life, I hope these videos help you feel a little less alone.
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