By Your Side: Divorce Law and Support is a podcast for women navigating the uncertainty of divorce. Hosted by Patricia Sokolich, a family law attorney with more than 30 years of experience and a certified divorce coach, the show blends legal insight with compassionate guidance. Each episode offers practical tools on financial preparation, custody considerations, and choosing the right attorney—while also addressing the emotional challenges of leaving a marriage. Whether you’re just beginning to wonder if divorce is right for you, preparing for mediation, or rebuilding afterward, this show provides clarity, confidence, and support every step of the way.
Child Custody Basics: Protecting Kids Through the Process
In this episode of By Your Side: Divorce Law and Support, host Lisa Mosbey is joined by Patricia Sokolich, a seasoned family law attorney and divorce coach, to discuss the intricacies of child custody. They explore the critical distinctions between legal and physical custody, emphasizing the importance of understanding these terms before entering a divorce. Patricia explains how custody decisions have evolved over time, with courts now considering both parents equally. The episode delves into the ”best interest of the child” standard, highlighting how it guides custody decisions. Patricia also shares insights on preparing children emotionally for changes in living arrangements and the significance of co-parenting. Listeners will gain valuable knowledge on navigating custody discussions, avoiding common pitfalls, and ensuring the well-being of their children during this challenging process.
28 Jul 2026
Post-Divorce: Life After the Judgment
In this episode of By Your Side: Divorce Law and Support, host Lisa Mosbey is joined by Patricia Sokolich, a seasoned family law attorney and divorce coach. Together, they delve into the crucial steps women should take once their divorce is finalized. Patricia emphasizes the importance of planning during the divorce process to ensure a smooth transition into post-divorce life.
She discusses the necessity of financial planning, maintaining a stable lifestyle, and the role of a divorce coach in rebuilding self-esteem and identity. Patricia also highlights strategies for supporting children through new family dynamics and the importance of avoiding old patterns in future relationships. Listeners will gain valuable insights into creating a stable, fulfilling life after divorce, ensuring both personal and financial well-being.
30 Jun 2026
During Divorce: Managing the Process and Protecting Yourself
In this episode of By Your Side: Divorce Law and Support, host Lisa Mosbey is joined by Patricia Sokolich, a seasoned family law attorney and divorce coach. Together, they delve into the complexities women face once the divorce process begins. Patricia shares insights on managing initial challenges, such as serving divorce papers and dealing with a spouse’s reaction. She emphasizes the importance of finding a responsive attorney and discusses the role of temporary court orders in maintaining financial stability and housing security. The conversation also highlights the significance of maintaining physical and mental health during this tumultuous time, offering practical advice on establishing healthy routines. Patricia further explores the emotional aspects of divorce, including strategies for helping children feel secure amidst changing family dynamics. This episode is a valuable resource for women seeking clarity and support as they navigate the emotional and legal intricacies of divorce.
2 Jun 2026
Dealing with a Difficult Spouse: Staying Calm When Emotions Run High
In this episode of By Your Side: Divorce Law and Support, host Lisa Mosbey is joined by Patricia Sokolich, a seasoned family law attorney turned divorce coach. They delve into the challenges of dealing with a difficult or combative spouse during a divorce. Patricia shares insights on setting healthy boundaries, managing overwhelming communication, and the importance of limiting direct confrontations. She emphasizes the role of a divorce coach in preparing women for the legal and emotional hurdles of divorce, offering practical advice on gathering financial documentation and protecting one’s peace. The discussion highlights the benefits of having a divorce coach to navigate the complexities of the process, ensuring women feel empowered and informed. Listeners will gain valuable strategies to handle high-stress situations and maintain stability for themselves and their children.
10 Mar 2026
What Happens to the House? Understanding Property, Debt, and Divorce
In this episode, Patricia dives deep into one of the most emotional and complicated issues in divorce—what happens to the house. She breaks down how property is divided, what “marital assets” really mean under New York law, and how debt, pensions, and other finances come into play. Beyond the numbers, Patricia explains the emotional ties many women have to their homes, why financial planning is key before filing for divorce, and how to make confident decisions about the future. She also explores how housing decisions affect children and introduces the concept of “nesting” as a creative solution for families who can make it work.
24 Feb 2026
How to Leave an Abusive Relationship, Even If You Don’t Have Money
In this powerful episode, Patricia Sokolich dives into one of the most difficult but necessary conversations — how to leave an abusive relationship when finances feel like a barrier. She breaks down the three types of abuse — physical, emotional, and financial — and explains how control and fear keep many women trapped. Patricia shares practical steps women can take to regain their independence, protect their children, and find safety, even when financial limitations make leaving seem impossible.
10 Feb 2026
I Want to File for Divorce. Where Do I Start?
In this episode, longtime family law attorney and divorce coach Patricia Sokolich walks women through the very first steps of divorce. From recognizing the signs it may be time to leave, to gathering the right financial documents, to understanding mediation and custody evaluations, Patricia explains how proper preparation can make all the difference. She shares practical advice for women who feel ready to move forward but don’t know where or how to begin.
27 Jan 2026
What Is a Divorce Coach and How Can One Help?
In this episode, family law attorney Patricia Sokolich shares insights from over 30 years of experience helping women navigate the challenges of divorce. Now offering private divorce coaching, she explains how coaching provides clarity, emotional support, and practical preparation before hiring an attorney. Patricia discusses the misconceptions about divorce, the importance of financial awareness, the role of domestic control in relationships, and how women can gain confidence and control through guided support.
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