Can I Call You? is the group chat that tells it like it is. Founders and friends Emma Bates, Eva Goicochea, and Charlotte Palermino take on real questions from real people—about love, sex, friendship, careers, and the mess in between. No fluff. Just sharp, honest advice from women who’ve seen some things.
Money with Friends & Relationships, and a Scarcity Mindset
This week on Can I Call You? Emma, Charlotte, and Eva get into the money of it all. When you make less money than your friends how do you deal with the awkwardness of making social plans? When you marry your partner is it important to have separate bank accounts? If you have a scarcity mindset around money, how do you get out of it?
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1 Aug 2025
Aging, Attention, and the Vanishing Act
This week on Can I Call You?, Emma, Charlotte, and Eva get into the emotional math of aging. What is it about turning 30 that makes you realize your parents are aging too? Why do women feel like they disappear with age while men seem to gain relevance? And is that pressure to stay visible real—or just another part of growing up?
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17 Jul 2025
Personas, Parasocials, and the Shame of Fangirling
This week on Can I Call You? Emma, Charlotte, and Eva break down the performance of presence. Do you need a public persona to start a company? Is it weird to care about people you only know online (and if you meet them in person in the gym locker room, should you talk to them)? And why is fangirling treated like a punchline—especially when men do it all the time (with jerseys)?
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3 Jul 2025
Babies, Boyfriends, Breakups (With Your Bestie)
Hosts Emma, Charlotte, and Eva explore the intricacies of friendship, discussing grief related to friends becoming parents, feelings of abandonment when friends find love, and the concept of quietly ending friendships.
20 Jun 2025
The Kids Decision, Mommy’s Boys, Mother-Daughter Relationships and more
Emma, Charlotte, and Eva explore listener questions about mothers envying daughters, relationships with "mommy's boys," and the complex decision of whether or not to have children in this interview episode.
12 Jun 2025
Career Worship, Startup Cults, and Choosing Yourself
Hosts Emma, Charlotte, and Eva explore career obsession and startup culture, revealing how to prioritize personal well-being over professional demands in this episode.
5 Jun 2025
Tradwives, Pick-Me Girls, and Who Holds the Power
Hosts Emma, Charlotte, and Eva analyze modern gender roles, exploring tradwife aspirations, income disparities, and the pick-me girl phenomenon to understand power dynamics in relationships; this is not an interview.
29 May 2025
Can I Call You? Porn, Dating the Patriarchy and Life Priorities
Podcast hosts Charlotte Palermino, Eva Goicochea, and Emma Bates tackle listener questions about pornography, dating, and life priorities, offering candid advice on navigating modern dilemmas in this interview episode.
25 May 2025
Introducing "Can I Call You?"
Founders Emma Bates, Eva Goicochea, and Charlotte Palermino introduce "Can I Call You?," a group chat-style podcast offering sharp, honest advice on love, sex, friendship, and careers.
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Apple Podcasts (US)
4.5 / 5
10 ratings
Spotify
4.7 / 5
11 ratings
Podcast Authority Score: 15 / 100
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Social presence
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YouTube
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Engagement
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