Casual Swinger - A Sex Positive, Swinging Lifestyle Podcast

About Casual Swinger - A Sex Positive, Swinging Lifestyle Podcast

Follow the sexy misadventures of Mickey & Mallory, a casual lifestyle couple who are trying hard to be the family next door while being consensually non-monogamous. From sex toys to the latest swingers in the news, you’ll hear our take on it.

Publisher

Mickey & Mallory

Category

health & fitness · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

14 Oct 2018

Latest episode

19 Jan 2026

Latest episodes

11 of 103 episodes have a transcript.

1. 

   19 Jan 2026TRANSCRIPT

   The Great Divide - Can You Grow Apart In The Lifestyle?

   Join hosts Mickey and Mallory as they kick off Season 7 with a deep dive into one of the most challenging aspects of lifestyle relationships: when partners have different play styles, needs, and desires. In this candid episode, they explore "The Great Divide" - what happens when couples grow in different directions within the lifestyle, and how to navigate these differences without letting them destroy your relationship. Topics Covered: Understanding why couples grow apart (lifestyle and vanilla) The difference between DTF and connection-based play styles Navigating polyamory vs. swinging dynamics within one relationship Solo travel and independent play in committed relationships Finding four-way connections when you have different needs Communication strategies for bridging lifestyle divides Why keeping score destroys relationships The importance of "pebbling" and giving each other flowers Plus: Whiskey of the Month returns with Wild Turkey Rare Breed - the bourbon that changed barrel-proof whiskey forever! Upcoming Events Mentioned: Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism II (March 14-21, 2026) Groove Cruise 2027 Cap d'Agde, France adventure This podcast contains adult content and is intended for mature audiences. The Casual Swinger is a variety show covering lifestyle topics, travel, events, and real talk about non-monogamy. Show Notes: [00:00] - Introduction & Season 7 Reboot New music, new episode art, fresh start Why Season 6 didn't go as planned Getting back to their roots [03:30] - Recent Adventures X Club Toronto: New Year's Eve & Jake's birthday celebration Mickey's DJing journey ("the new midlife crisis") Mallory's solo trip to Be Better at Being Bad (Naughty Gym's event) The transformative power of solo travel in the lifestyle [15:00] - Upcoming Events Casual Swinger Week at Hedonism II (March 14-21, 2026) - casualswingerweek.com Cate's Miami event (Memorial Day weekend) Cate's Scottsdale event (October, Mickey's birthday) Groove Cruise 2026 & 2027 Cap d'Agde, France Toronto X Club return [20:00] - THE GREAT DIVIDE: Main Topic What is The Great Divide? How people grow apart in relationships (55% of divorces over 50 are due to "irreconcilable differences") The lifestyle version: when play styles, desires, and needs diverge Why this isn't about divorce - it's about navigation Common Lifestyle Divides: DTF vs. connection-based players Polyamory-aligned vs. swinging-focused partners Different levels of sexual adventurousness Kink/fetish compatibility issues The "real unicorn": finding genuine four-way connections Healthy vs. Unhealthy Backfilling: ✅ Good: Replacing flaky vanilla friends with lifestyle friends who value your time ✅ Good: Choosing workouts and self-care over passive activities ❌ Bad: Seeking physical touch from lifestyle friends because you don't get it at home ❌ Bad: Complaining about your partner to others for validation ❌ Bad: Using drugs, alcohol, or attention-seeking to fill emotional voids How to Navigate The Divide: Find mutual ground Focus on what you agree on, not just differences Don't keep score Quid pro quo thinking destroys relationships Practice "pebbling" Give each other flowers and little wins to stay connected Communicate honestly Even when it's uncomfortable Allow for parallel roads You don't always need to be on the same path, just alongside each other Take time and space Sometimes you need to pause and process before continuing the conversation Seek outside resources Therapy, podcasts, books, community support Key Insights: "Do I need to follow you there, or can I be on a parallel road alongside you?" The hardest person to say "no" to is someone you care about If you're keeping score, you're already at a deficit Solo experiences can strengthen your primary relationship Different doesn't mean doomed - it means you need to communicate more [55:00] - Clarification on "DTF" Addressing feedback from previous episode DTF isn't dispa

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   20 Oct 2025TRANSCRIPT

   A Racoon Named Desire - Mickey & Mallory's Romantic Wildlife Expedition

   Welcome to another wild ride with Mallory and Mickey on the Casual Swinger Podcast! In this episode, "A Raccoon Named Desire," your favorite hosts take you on their first-ever trip to Desire Riviera Maya, sharing honest, hilarious, and insightful stories from their lifestyle vacation in Mexico. Episode Highlights: Desire Riviera Maya Review: Get the inside scoop on the newly renovated resort, from the stunning Eden building to the not-so-stunning beach. Mallory and Mickey break down the vibe, amenities, and what makes Desire unique compared to their beloved Hedonism II in Jamaica. Lifestyle Travel Tips: Hear about the differences between resort stays, hotel takeovers, and house parties. The duo discusses how Desire caters to both newbies and seasoned swingers, and why it might be the perfect fit for your next adventure. Wildlife Encounters: You won’t want to miss the infamous raccoon story that inspired this episode’s title! Find out how a cheeky raccoon (and some other local critters) made their mark on the trip—literally. Community & Events: Learn about upcoming events like Casual Swinger Week (March 14–21, 2026), how to join the Connect Casual community, and why staying connected year-round is so important. Real Talk: Honest reflections on swinging, making connections, and why sometimes you just need a vacation from your vacation. Key Takeaways: Desire RM offers a more relaxed, boutique experience compared to the high-energy, week-long party at Hedo. The resort is ideal for couples new to the lifestyle, with approachable staff, beautiful grounds, and a variety of room options. Not everything goes as planned—sometimes, the most memorable moments involve wildlife and waffles! Community is everything: connect with like-minded friends before, during, and after your trip. Links & Resources: Book your spot for Casual Swinger Week: casualweek.com Join the Connect Casual community: connectcasual.com Follow Casual Swinger on social: Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, YouTube Desire Riviera Maya review, lifestyle resort, swingers vacation, Hedonism II vs Desire, travel tips, swinging podcast, Connect Casual, Casual Swinger Week, Mexico lifestyle travel, resort comparison, raccoon story, adult travel, lifestyle community But wait...there's more!If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share with your friends! Got questions or want to join the conversation? Visit casualswinger.com or connectcasual.com for the community, or you can with us on social media. Tune in for laughs, real talk, and all the sexy, silly, and surprising moments that make the lifestyle unforgettable. You’ve been listening to Casual Swinger!

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   3 Sept 2025TRANSCRIPT

   One Size Fits All?

   One Size Fits All? Navigating Lifestyle Events, House Parties, Clubs & Takeovers – with Wanderlust Swinger's own Cate! Description: Welcome to Season 6, Episode 5 of the Casual Swinger Podcast! In this candid and entertaining episode, hosts Mickey and Mallory are joined by the ever-popular Wanderlust Cate for a deep dive into the world of lifestyle events. Whether you’re a seasoned swinger or new to the scene, this episode is packed with real talk, hilarious stories, and practical advice on navigating everything from meet & greets and house parties to clubs, hotel takeovers, and full-blown resort events. We break down the pros and cons of each event type, discuss the importance of setting expectations, and share personal experiences—both the wild and the awkward. Learn how to find the right event for your vibe, what red flags to watch for, and how to make the most of your lifestyle journey. Plus, get the inside scoop on Casual Swinger Week, Libertine Events, and how to connect with the community year-round. Keywords: Swinger podcast, lifestyle events, house parties, swingers clubs, hotel takeovers, resort takeovers, Wanderlust Cate, Casual Swinger Week, Libertine Events, lifestyle community, swinging advice, adult podcast, open relationships, event etiquette, lifestyle travel Episode Highlights: [00:00] Intro & Warnings: Mickey and Mallory welcome listeners and introduce special guest Wanderlust Cate. [03:00] House Party Recap: Behind-the-scenes of their epic three-day house party, including hilarious mishaps and lessons learned. [10:00] Community & Connection: The value of year-round lifestyle communities like Casual Connect and Libertine Connect. [15:00] Booking Casual Swinger Week: Updates, booking tips, and why it’s not sold out! [20:00] Meet & Greets: What to expect, etiquette, and how to spot red flags. [30:00] House Parties: The difference between social and DTF (down to fun) parties, setting boundaries, and the importance of clear communication. [40:00] Swingers Clubs: Club culture in the US vs. Europe, pros and cons, and how to find your fit. [55:00] Hotel & Resort Takeovers: Investment, expectations, and how to choose the right event for you. [1:10:00] Age, Vibe & Finding Your People: Why “average age” questions matter, and how to connect with like-minded folks. [1:20:00] Final Thoughts & Resources: How to research events, ask the right questions, and set yourself up for success. Special Guest: Wanderlust Cate – Host of Wanderlust Swingers Podcast and founder of Libertine Events. Find her at wanderlustswingers.com and libertineevents.com. Resources & Links: Casual Swinger Community: casualswinger.com Casual Swinger Week: casualswingerweek.com Libertine Events: libertineevents.com Connect with Us: Instagram, YouTube, X (Twitter), SLS, SDC, Kasidie Contact: Email: podcast@casualswinger.com Support the Show: Join the Casual Connect community for exclusive events and resources. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review!

Inside a recent episode

The Great Divide - Can You Grow Apart In The Lifestyle?

Published 19 Jan 2026 · Transcript excerpt

[…] Now, like, we grow and we are needs might change. Which is interesting because in the lifestyle, you're having needs filled through a group of women who are also in the lifestyle, but none of you are fulfilling any needs that would be even remotely sexual. Yeah, no. Actually, according to my conversations today, they're anti -sexual. They are birth control. But, well, you know, it's funny though, because lifestyle couples that divide that forms, it's not necessarily in the bedroom. It can be in the way that they lifestyle. And if you don't feel the same way about what you're doing or what you expect or your appreciation of the outcomes, somebody inevitably ends up feeling left out, left behind, or left for dead, right? […]

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Apple Podcasts (US)

4.2 / 5

188 ratings

Spotify

4.5 / 5

35 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 65 / 100

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58

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0

YouTube

86

Engagement

96

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