Catholic Narcissist Recovery

About Catholic Narcissist Recovery

If you’re here, you’ve likely experienced something few truly understand—narcissistic abuse. But you’re not alone, we get it! Catholic Narcissist Recovery is a support group for Catholics and non-Catholics seeking true healing after narcissistic abuse. We are an online support group, we offer weekly Lectio Divina Gatherings, courses and education, and a podcast to help you understand narcissistic abuse and how to heal. 🔗 Join our online support group: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgrou

Publisher

Catholic Narcissist Recovery

Category

health & fitness

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

16 Jan 2025

Latest episode

22 Apr 2025

Latest episodes

14 episodes in the feed.

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   22 Apr 2025

   DO NOT do couples therapy with a narcissistic spouse! Therapist reveals why

   Is couples therapy safe with a narcissist—or just another trap? Here’s what you need to know.Connect with Dr. Jameson Natwick: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/jameson🔗 Is couples therapy safe with a narcissist—or just another trap? Here’s what you need to know.Join our support group: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup----- Should you go to couples therapy with a narcissistic spouse? What if they manipulate the therapist—or use the process to hurt you even more? And what about involving a priest or spiritual director? Could that backfire too?In this episode of Catholic Narcissist Recovery, we answer these crucial questions and uncover the hidden dangers of seeking couples therapy or spiritual guidance when narcissistic abuse is involved. While therapy is often seen as a path to healing, it can become a tool of manipulation in the wrong hands—especially when the therapist or advisor doesn’t recognize narcissistic behavior. So what should you do?You’ll learn: • Why couples therapy with a narcissist often leads to secondary abuse • How narcissists can twist the narrative—even with professionals • What you should do and why individual therapy is often the safest and most effective path forward firstYour healing matters. Tune in for clear, faith-informed guidance and find the strength to walk the path of true recovery.⏱ Timestamps – Catholic Narcissist Recovery00:01 – Welcome + introducing today’s topic: Is couples therapy with a narcissist dangerous?00:31 – Can involving a priest or retreat be risky too? Why spiritual guidance must be discerned carefully01:15 – Narcissists in therapy: master manipulators who can charm the therapist01:55 – The danger of therapist-narcissist alliances (coalition-building explained)02:25 – Why many therapists fall for the twisted truth03:09 – What happens when therapists believe the narcissist? How it becomes unsafe03:24 – How narcissists weaponize your vulnerability in therapy04:04 – When therapy makes things worse: why individual work is often safer04:35 – What ethical therapists look for and how they protect victims05:25 – How real healing begins: narcissist must do deep inner work first05:49 – Empathy for those hurt by therapy experiences06:07 – Feeling trapped in marriage: why “no other option” thinking is dangerous07:16 – The safest next step: seek individual support before involving the narcissist07:48 – Final thoughts + thank you to Dr. Jameson Natwick“Be wise as serpents and innocent as doves.”— Matthew 10:16

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   17 Apr 2025

   12. Why We Experience SO MUCH Grief After Narcissistic Abuse

   Why Do You Feel So Much Grief After Narcissistic Abuse? Catholic Answer https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup It’s not just anger or frustration—you’re mourning something real. You're mourning a loss of who you thought someone was, a loss of a false reality, of false love, a loss of yourself. But God has a purpose for your tears. 🔹 Why grief happens (even if you’re more angry than sad). 🔹 What you’re really grieving: Lost love? Lost time? Yourself?🔹 How to process grief in a healthy, faith-filled way. 🔹 Jesus cried. You can too. Grieving isn’t weakness—it’s healing. 🙏 God will turn your tears into joy. You’re not alone in this. 📌 Join our Catholic Narcissist Recovery support group: Key Points: • The Unexpected Grief of Narcissistic Abuse • What Are You Really Mourning? Lost Love, Time, or Self? • How Suppressed Emotions Resurface in Healing • The Physical Side of Grief: Where Do You Feel It? • Why Anger Often Masks Deeper Sadness • How to Process Grief With Faith & Prayer • Jesus Wept: Why Crying is Not Weakness • Encouragement: God Will Turn Your Tears Into Joy Key Takeaways: ✔️ Grief is not just for death. You’re mourning what you thought was real. ✔️ Anger often hides deeper sadness. Allow yourself to feel it fully. ✔️ Your body holds grief. Pay attention to where you feel it. ✔️ Healing takes time, but it’s temporary. God has a plan for your tears. ✔️ Even Jesus cried. Grieving is not weakness—it’s part of healing. Bible Verse for Reflection: 📖 Psalm 30:11 – “You have turned my mourning into dancing; you removed my sackcloth and clothed me with joy.” Healing from narcissistic abuse takes time, but you are not alone in your grief. Let yourself feel, cry, and heal—because God is with you. 💙

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   16 Apr 2025

   11. 5 LIES About Forgiveness After Narcissistic Abuse

   Think forgiveness means reconciliation? Think again. This will change how you heal. How do you know you've truly forgiven the narcissist: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LRr7k6-JrMM&t=13s --------------- 💚 It’s time to step into freedom! Join our Catholic Narcissist Recovery Support Group: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup --------------- In this episode of Catholic Narcissist Recovery, we uncover the 5 biggest lies about forgiveness that are keeping you stuck in pain, confusion, or toxic cycles after narcissistic abuse. You’ll learn what forgiveness really is, why it’s not the same as reconciliation, and how to let go without enabling the narcissist or minimizing the harm done. If you’ve struggled with forgiving someone who’s deeply wounded you, this episode is for you. 🙏 Bonus Resource: I mention Encounter Ministries, a powerful Catholic prayer ministry that has helped many (myself included) experience real emotional and spiritual healing. https://encounterschool.org/inner-healing-freedom/ 🕊️ Remember: Forgiveness is for you, not them. God wants your heart free and full of peace. 💡 Key Takeaways: • Forgiveness and reconciliation are not the same thing • You can forgive without tolerating abuse • Forgiveness doesn’t mean they “got away with it”—God is just • Forgiveness is a choice, not a feeling • Lack of hatred doesn’t always mean you’ve already forgiven

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   10 Apr 2025

   10. Learning Healthy Relationships from the Holy Family after Narcissistic Abuse

   Where do we learn healthy love and relationships from after narcissistic abuse?💚 It’s time to step into freedom! Join our Catholic Narcissist Recovery Support Group: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroupPerfect! Here’s your updated episode outline with the timestamps you provided:------------- After narcissistic abuse, learning to trust and build healthy relationships can seem impossible. But as Catholics, we have a perfect model to guide us—the Holy Family. In this episode, we explore how Mary, Joseph, and Jesus can teach us the true meaning of love, sacrifice, and healthy attachments.Timestamps:00:00 – Introduction: Healing After Narcissistic AbuseWelcome to Catholic Narcissist Recovery—where we help you reclaim your life after narcissistic abuse and focus on healing and healthy relationships.01:01 – The Holy Family as a ModelWhy Mary, Joseph, and Jesus are the perfect models for healthy love and relationships.01:19 – Joseph’s Stability vs. Narcissistic FathersThe contrast between Joseph’s protective nature and the self-centered, toxic behaviors of a narcissistic father.02:41 – Mary’s Receptivity vs. Narcissistic MothersHow Mary’s nurturing qualities differ from the possessiveness and emotional manipulation of a narcissistic mother.06:10 – The Spousal Relationship of Joseph and MaryHow Joseph and Mary’s relationship exemplifies mutual sacrifice, respect, and trust—something we should aspire to in our own relationships.07:06 – God’s Love: The Ultimate ModelUnderstanding how God’s love, as described in Scripture, is the perfect model for healthy relationships.08:12 – Practical Steps for HealingHow to learn healthy relationships from the Holy Family, using scripture and prayer for healing.Bible Verse:“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.” — 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 (NIV)

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   8 Apr 2025

   9. Dating After Narcissistic Abuse, What Catholics NEED to Know

   Do not make these dating mistakes after ending a narcissistic relationship... If you’ve been with a narcissist, chances are there’s a pattern or wound that’s making you repeat the same mistakes. So, here’s the first step: STOP dating! Dating after narcissistic abuse can feel overwhelming and confusing, but as Catholics, we are called to heal and trust God’s guidance in every aspect of our lives—especially relationships. In this video, we dive into why a “dating detox” is essential for your healing, how to break free from destructive patterns, and how to approach dating with clarity, discernment, and strong boundaries. You don’t have to navigate this alone—God is with you, guiding you through this important journey toward healthy, holy relationships. Timestamps:00:00 – Introduction: Healing After Narcissistic Abuse01:20 – Why You Need a Dating Detox05:30 – Taking Time to Heal with God– When Is It Actually Time to Date?– Recognizing Red Flags and Moving Slowly– The Importance of Chastity and Boundaries– Dating with Discernment, Not Desperation– How the Holy Family Models Healthy Relationships– Final Thoughts: Trust God in Your Healing Journey Bible Verse:“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.” – 1 Corinthians 13:4-5

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   1 Apr 2025

   8. How to Be Grateful for Your Suffering!

   How the heck can we be grateful for narcissistic abuse?! How can we even have joy during the intense suffering of dealing with a narcissist? Well good news - nothing is impossible for Jesus!Suffering can feel endless, especially after narcissistic abuse. But God never wastes pain—He wants to transform it into something beautiful. In this episode, Chris joins us to discuss the power of gratitude, finding evidence of God’s presence, and embracing joy even in the darkest seasons. We’ll cover: ✅ Practical ways to practice gratitude ✅ How to see God working in your suffering ✅ Why joy is the best antidote to narcissistic abuse ✅ How serving others can transform your healingJoin us on this journey of faith and healing. You’re not alone—there is hope, joy, and purpose in every season. Timestamps: 00:00 - Welcome to Catholic Narcissist Recovery 00:15 - Why gratitude is essential for healing 00:45 - Finding something to be grateful for—even in suffering 01:30 - The power of an evidence journal to see God’s hand 03:59 - The Examen Prayer and how it helps heal your mindset 04:27 - Satan’s tactics: isolation and negativity 04:46 - How to profit spiritually from your suffering 05:16 - Asking God for supernatural joy 05:59 - Recognizing what is from God vs. what is from the enemy 06:42 - Breaking free from toxic thoughts and embracing truth0 7:06 - How serving others can bring unexpected healing 08:22 - The power of community and breaking isolation 09:06 - Finding joy and hope even in narcissistic abuse recovery 10:05 - Why joy is the best antidote to dealing with a narcissist “You have turned my mourning into dancing; you have loosed my sackcloth and clothed me with gladness.” — Psalm 30:11 Resources: Examen Prayer Catholic Narcissist Recovery Support Group 💬 Let us know in the comments: What’s one thing you’re grateful for today?📩 Need more support? Join our community for healing and encouragement.

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   25 Mar 2025

   7. Why Did God Allow Me to go Through Narcissistic Abuse?

   Struggling to understand why God allowed narcissistic abuse? Discover His plan for healing & freedom. 💚 Join our Catholic Narcissist Recovery Support Group: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup 💚 Connect with Dr. Jameson Natwick for therapy: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/jameson ---------------------------- Do you ever wonder why God allowed you to endure the pain and confusion of narcissistic abuse? Have you questioned if there’s a purpose behind the suffering? In this episode of Catholic Narcissist Recovery, Dr. Jameson Natwick and I explore how God can use your pain for healing, transformation, and spiritual growth. We discuss: ✅ How suffering can lead you closer to God ✅ The purpose behind pain and how to process it ✅ Practical steps for healing from narcissistic abuse ✅ How faith can help you break toxic generational patternsDon’t let your suffering define you—God has a greater plan for your healing and freedom. Resources: 💚 Blog post: https://catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/post/strength-in-weakness-healing-after-narcissistic-abuse 💚 Join our Catholic Narcissist Recovery Support Group: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup 💚 Connect with Dr. Jameson Natwick for therapy: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/jameson ------------------- Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction: Why does God allow narcissistic abuse? 00:24 – The deeper question: Why does God allow pain & suffering? 03:31 – Turning pain into purpose: My personal journey 06:00 – Wrestling with God: How suffering can lead to transformation 07:58 – Finding gratitude in suffering: St. Padre Pio’s wisdom 08:34 – Accepting suffering vs. seeking it: A biblical perspective 09:17 – Trusting God’s plan: Romans 8:28 10:29 – Strength in weakness: 2 Corinthians 12:9-10 ----------------- ✨ “We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, who are called according to his purpose.” — Romans 8:28 ------------------- 💚 Join our Catholic Narcissist Recovery Support Group: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup 💚 Connect with Dr. Jameson Natwick for therapy: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/jameson

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   18 Mar 2025

   6. How I Trusted God and Left My Narcissistic Marriage

   Trapped in a toxic marriage? Chris shares how she left after 28 years and found healing in Christ. 💚 Join our Narcissist Recovery Support Group: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup (https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup) ____________________________________ Leaving a narcissistic marriage is one of the hardest things you can face—especially when your faith teaches you to honor the sanctity of marriage. You may wonder: Does God want me to stay? Will He provide if I leave? The guilt and fear can feel paralyzing. In this episode, Chris, a member of the Catholic Narcissist Recovery community, vulnerably shares her powerful journey of leaving a 28-year marriage. She opens up about how she overcame guilt and shame, how she learned to trust God’s perfect timing, and how she found true healing. If you feel trapped in a toxic marriage and are struggling to discern the right path, this episode will give you some clarity, encouragement, and hope. _________________ Key Takeaways: ✅ How to discern God’s will when you’re in a toxic marriage ✅ Overcoming fear and trusting God’s provision ✅ Biblical wisdom for navigating narcissistic abuse ✅ Practical steps to heal and rebuild your life in faith If this episode resonates with you, be sure to subscribe and share with someone who needs to hear this. 💛 ________________________ 00:00 - Welcome to Catholic Narcissist Recovery 00:26 - Meet Chris & her journey to healing 00:37 - How Chris found CNR & the role of community 02:13 - The power of healing together 02:46 - Chris’ 28-year marriage & her struggles 04:59 - The moment Chris knew it was time to leave 06:44 - Taking the first steps to freedom 08:05 - Guilt, shame & divorce as a Catholic 10:50 - How God’s timing helped Chris heal 11:12 - Advice for women in toxic marriages 12:34 - Making a safe exit & seeking counsel _____________________________ 💚 Join our Narcissist Recovery Support Group and chat with Chris and me: ⁠https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup⁠ (https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup)

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   11 Mar 2025

   5. Can a Narcissist Change? The Truth from a Catholic & Clinical Perspective

   What if a narcissist could change? Can they heal, or are they forever stuck in their patterns? 💚 It’s time to step into freedom! Join our Catholic Narcissist Recovery Support Group: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup 📌 Connect with Dr. Jameson: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/jameson ------------------------------- In this episode of Catholic Narcissist Recovery, I’m joined by Dr. Jameson Natwick, Marriage and Family Therapist, to answer the question: Can a narcissist truly change? We explore the clinical and spiritual aspects of transformation, the role of pride, boundaries, and God’s grace, and how healing is possible—but not in the way you might think. If you’re struggling in a relationship with a narcissist, this episode will give you hope, clarity, and practical wisdom for your journey. ----------------------------------------------------- Resources: 📌 Want more Catholic-based healing support? Join our free support group: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup 📌 Connect with Dr. Jameson: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/jameson ------------------------------- ⏰ Timestamps: 00:00 - Welcome to Catholic Narcissist Recovery 00:18 - Can a narcissist actually change? 01:12 - The spectrum: NPD vs. narcissistic traits 02:40 - The hard truth about change and therapy 04:15 - Why narcissists resist change & how pride plays a role 05:32 - The power of boundaries in helping a narcissist change 06:41 - A personal story: Holding boundaries & seeing a narcissist transform 08:49 - Final thoughts: Healing, faith, and standing strong _______________________ Luke 18:27: “What is impossible with man is possible with God.”

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    4 Mar 2025

    4. Why Does A Narcissist Do What They Do? The Truth Will Shock You...

    Why do narcissists torment their victims? The shocking truth—they actually enjoy it!Join our community: https://www.youtube.com/@CatholicNarcissistRecovery?sub_confirmation=1____________________________________________What if I told you that narcissists don’t see their actions the way you do? They manipulate, lie, and hurt others—but in their minds, they’re just doing what’s “necessary” and what is 'normal'. In this episode, Dr. Jameson Natwick helps us understand why narcissists behave the way they do, how their disorder develops, and what that means for your healing.Key Takeaways:✅ The deep insecurity driving narcissists’ actions✅ The role of nature vs. nurture in developing NPD✅ Why narcissists struggle with empathy and accountability✅ How boundaries help expose their behaviorIf you’ve ever felt confused, hurt, or desperate for answers, this episode will give you clarity on why narcissists do what they do—and how you can break free.📌 Resources & Community: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup📌 Connect with Dr. Jameson: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/jameson______________________________________0:00 - Intro: Why do narcissists behave the way they do?0:21 - Dr. Jameson Natwick’s insights on narcissistic behavior1:30 - Theories on how narcissistic personality disorder develops3:40 - Why narcissists fear being wrong or vulnerable5:50 - Are narcissists aware they hurt others?7:56 - Nature vs. nurture: What causes narcissism?9:19 - Why narcissists lack empathy and manipulate others10:26 - Setting boundaries: The best way to hold a narcissist accountable11:20 - Final thoughts & scripture reflection (Matthew 7:15-16)_______________________________________📖 “Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves. By their fruit you will recognize them.” - Matthew 7:15-16

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    25 Feb 2025

    3. How Do I Know I've Gone Through Narcissistic Abuse?

    Always blamed? Walking on eggshells? Documenting everything? You might be facing narcissistic abuse. 💚 30 Essential Terms Every Survivor of Narcissistic Abuse Should Know: https://catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/post/30-terms-everyone-who-has-been-through-narcissistic-abuse-should-know (https://catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/post/30-terms-everyone-who-has-been-through-narcissistic-abuse-should-know)-------------------------------Have you ever felt like something was deeply wrong in a relationship but couldn’t quite put your finger on it? In this episode, Dr. Jameson Natwick joins me to break down the signs of narcissistic abuse, how to recognize manipulation tactics like gaslighting and blame-shifting, and the steps to begin healing.I share my own experience of discovering narcissistic abuse and how, by the grace of God, I finally saw the truth. If you’ve ever felt confused, doubted yourself, or wondered if you’re overreacting, this episode is for you.Key Takeaways:🔹 How to recognize narcissistic abuse🔹 Why documentation and self-trust are key🔹 The role of faith and discernment in healing🔹 Seeking support and breaking free from isolationResources:📖 Related Blog Post: https://catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/post/30-terms-everyone-who-has-been-through-narcissistic-abuse-should-know (https://catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/post/30-terms-everyone-who-has-been-through-narcissistic-abuse-should-know)Connect with Dr. Jameson: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/jameson (https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/jameson)🔔 Subscribe for more Catholic healing & recovery content!#NarcissisticAbuse #CatholicHealing #FaithBasedRecovery #Gaslighting #Narcissist-------------------------------0:00 - Welcome & Introduction0:19 - How Do You Know You’ve Experienced Narcissistic Abuse?1:13 - Recognizing the First Signs of Narcissistic Abuse3:37 - The Gut Feeling That Something Is Off5:40 - The Importance of Stepping Away to Gain Clarity6:45 - Why It Takes Time to Understand the Abuse7:56 - Seeking Help & Trusting Yourself Again9:00 - Final Encouragement & Psalm 34:18

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    18 Feb 2025

    2. What is Narcissistic Abuse?

    Is it selfishness or narcissistic personality disorder abuse? What Catholics NEED to know to spot the the abuse... It’s time to break free from the narcissist’s control. 🔹 Connect with Dr. Natwick: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/jameson (https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/jameson) 🔹 Start your healing journey with our 5-Step Forgiveness Worksheet – Download here: https://catholicnarcrecovery.com/5-secrets-to-break-free-from-narcissistic-abuse (https://catholicnarcrecovery.com/5-secrets-to-break-free-from-narcissistic-abuse) 💚 Dr. Jameson Natwick, PhD, LMFT joins Catholic Narcissist Recovery to explain: What is Narcissistic Abuse?If you feel like you’re losing your mind, constantly walking on eggshells, never good enough no matter what you do, and always blamed for things that aren’t your fault, watch this video to understand what narcissistic abuse really is. Key Takeaways: • Understanding the different forms of narcissistic abuse • The cycle of abuse: Idealization, Devaluation, Discard, and Hoovering • Recognizing narcissistic traits: Aggression, lack of empathy, and need for admiration Remember, you are not alone—God is with you every step of the way. Let’s take the next step in your healing journey together. Resources: Forgiveness worksheet: https://catholicnarcrecovery.com/5-secrets-to-break-free-from-narcissistic-abuse (https://catholicnarcrecovery.com/5-secrets-to-break-free-from-narcissistic-abuse) Connect with Dr. Natwick: https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/jameson

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    14 Feb 2025

    1. How I Healed From Narcissistic Abuse & Welcome to Catholic Narcissist Recovery!

    Is narcissistic abuse turning your world upside down? Do you feel like you’re losing your mind, while the narcissist is admired by everyone else? We get is, come join us: ⁠hello.CatholicNarcissistRecovery.com/SupportGroup (https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup) What if I told you that you’re not alone—and that there’s a way out? And that God wants to bring something beautiful out of your suffering? In this episode, I share: 💚My journey of healing from narcissistic abuse and how God led me out of the darkness. 💚An introduction to Catholic Narcissist Recovery—a faith-based support community. 💚The tools, truth, and support you need to reclaim your life after narcissistic abuse. If you’re exhausted from narcissistic abuse, know this:You are not alone, God has a plan for your suffering, and God wants you to profit from your pain. It’s time to step into freedom. Come join us athello.CatholicNarcissistRecovery.com/SupportGroup (https://hello.catholicnarcissistrecovery.com/supportgroup)

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    16 Jan 2025

    Coming Soon!

    Hi and welcome to Catholic Narc Recovery - we're on a mission to help you reclaim your life after narcissistic abuse. We will be launching our podcast soon, in the meantime subscribe to know when we go live! https://catholicnarcrecovery.com/coming-soon

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