这是一档由独立撰稿人萧梵和非典型程序员余着共同制作的聊闲天播客，欢迎与我们一起侃天侃地，顺带关注个人成长。
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这是一档由独立撰稿人萧梵和非典型程序员余着共同制作的聊闲天播客，欢迎与我们一起侃天侃地，顺带关注个人成长。
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June 9, 2025
#07 数字游民社区、城市客厅和合租——共居空间为什么让人上瘾？
<p>都说人是社会的动物，成年之后，你还会想要在物理空间意义上与一群陌生人一起生活吗？</p><p>在如今的时代，人与人的关系愈发疏远，“共居空间”却成了青年人生活的潮流——为什么这些人抛弃了独居的舒适，而选择群居的生活？</p><p>关于这个话题，我们找来了在洞头实践数字游民社区的满满与我们一同交流，希望对想要进入数字游民、旅居生活或者想要探索人生更多可能性的你有一些帮助。</p><p><strong>章节列表</strong></p><p>01:23 对共居空间的初印象与体验</p><p>11:05 共居空间类型对比：城市 vs. 乡村</p><p>20:41 运营成本与可持续性</p><p>32:20 社群与空间的共生关系</p><p>39:56 人员管理与矛盾处理机制</p><p>59:21 共创规则与责任分配</p><h3>1:09:53<strong> </strong>共居空间的未来展望</h3><p><strong>关于我们</strong></p><p>茶余梵后是一档由独立撰稿人萧梵与非典型程序员余着（现名陈巳）共同制作的聊闲天播客，欢迎与我们一起侃天侃地，顺带聊聊个人成长。</p>
December 23, 2024
#06 掌握方法，脱单跟呼吸一样容易？关于脱单的各种迷思……
<p>人们无疑是矛盾的。</p><p>一方面，每人都是一座孤岛；另一方面，每个人都在渴求一个愿意提供情绪价值，能够与自己共鸣的“灵魂伴侣”。</p><p>很奇妙的是，我们总在询问如何能够找到一个优秀的伴侣，却很少有人在问“如何成为一个好的伴侣”。</p><p>为什么如今人们越来越难脱单了？为什么我脱不了单？如何才能科学脱单？</p><p>带着这些问题，我们邀请了一位已婚红娘朋友聊了聊……</p><p><strong>章节导航</strong></p><p>01:35 脱不了单的关键问题是什么？</p><p>04:57 对伴侣的硬性条件和软性条件</p><p>18:01 脱单过程中的配得感</p><p>20:14 很多人爱别人，其实是在爱自己</p><p>23:39 谈恋爱也是一种自我探索</p><p>26:11 不要试图理解，先去爱</p><p>28:05 恋爱中会被什么点打动？</p><p>33:09 我们真的有可能理性地沟通吗？</p><p>37:50 脱单真的有方法论吗？</p><p>50:50 恋爱中的撒手锏</p><p>55:26 爱人先爱己</p><p><strong>书影音推荐</strong></p><p>《逃避虽可耻但有用》 [日] 2016</p><p>《横道世之介》 [日] 2013</p><p>《花束般的恋爱》[日] 2021</p><p><strong>关于我们</strong></p><p>茶余梵后是一档由独立撰稿人萧梵与非典型程序员余着（现名陈㭘）共同制作的聊闲天播客，欢迎与我们一起侃天侃地，顺带聊聊个人成长。</p>
November 13, 2024
#05 交友软件：社交封闭青年的救赎，还是鸡肋？
<p>对于大学毕业进入社会社交圈开始闭塞的年轻人来说，如何交友、脱单似乎成了一道难以跨越的高墙——毕竟恋爱什么的，从来没有在教材里出现过。</p><p>交友软件看似是突破樊笼的一种可能，但实际上，市面上这些层出不穷的交友恋爱软件真的能够帮我们脱单吗？上面有哪些坑？这些问题大概只有软件的“老玩家”才能解答。</p><p><strong>章节导航</strong></p><p>02:06 为何选择交友软件？</p><p>14:00 交友软件的“邪门用法”</p><p>15:13 左划右划……我们到底是如何下判断的？</p><p>29:02 交友软件里发生的有趣故事</p><p>39:08 网恋有“真爱”吗？</p><p>45:34 网恋为什么会见光死？见面和网聊你更倾向于……？</p><p>49:13 网上交友为我们带来了什么？ </p><p>65:11 男生/女生交友软件漫游避坑指南</p><p><strong>关于我们</strong></p><p>茶余梵后是一档由独立撰稿人萧梵与非典型程序员余着（现名陈㭘）共同制作的聊闲天播客，欢迎与我们一起侃天侃地，顺带聊聊个人成长。</p>
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