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A nervous system-led conversation about softness, safety, embodiment, intimacy, spirituality, and learning to receive from overflow. Hosted by Dr. Tabitha Taylor, licensed professional counselor, certified sex therapist, intimacy coach, and trauma specialist, She Receives helps over-functioning women move beyond survival mode and reconnect with themselves from the inside out. Together we'll explore nervous system regulation, emotional safety, boundaries, intimacy, relationships, desire, pleasure, self-trust, spirituality, and what it means to receive love, support, rest, and care without guilt. Because no amount of striving, achieving, healing, or performing can replace the one thing so many women were never taught: How to receive. If you've spent years being the strong one, the responsible one, the giver, and the one everyone depends on, this is your invitation to soften safely, reconnect with yourself, and give from overflow instead of depletion. Choose. Relax. Allow. Receive. Give from overflow. Welcome to She Receives.

Publisher

Tabitha Taylor

Category

health & fitness

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

13 Mar 2026

Latest episode

23 Sept 2026

Latest episodes

22 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   23 Sept 2026

   Episode 24: When Sex Becomes Something You Do For Someone Else.

   Have you ever had sex because it felt easier to say yes than to explain why you didn’t want to?Maybe you weren’t exactly forced. Maybe you even participated. But underneath your yes was obligation, accommodation, keeping the peace, or simply wanting your partner to be happy.In this episode of She Receives, Dr. Tab explores the difference between sexual consent and sexual compliance—and the quiet ways people-pleasing and self-abandonment can follow us right into the bedroom.We’ll talk about what sexual people-pleasing can look like, how it can affect desire, pleasure and intimacy, and why you may eventually find yourself wondering, What do I even want?Most importantly, we’ll talk about finding your way back.Not by performing empowerment or suddenly knowing everything you want, but through small moments of choice: pausing before yes, checking in with yourself, noticing what you feel and want, and remembering that your answer gets to exist too.Because restoring sexuality isn’t only about becoming better at saying no.It’s about recovering the capacity to experience your own choice, your own sexuality. Truth to Return To:I am allowed to be present in my own sexual experience.One choice at a time.One pause at a time.One safe moment of staying with yourself at a time.From Safety… She Receives.— Dr. Tabitha TaylorTherapist & Intimacy Coach

2. 

   14 Sept 2026

   Why Cant I Just Relax During Intimacy?

3. 

   8 Sept 2026

   Episode 22: Where Did My Desire Go?

   Why Desire Can Become Quiet—and Why It May Not Need to Be “Fixed”Have you found yourself wondering, Where did my desire go?Maybe there was a time when wanting intimacy and sex felt easier. You thought about it. You initiated. You felt sexy, connected, interested.And now… not so much.You may still love your partner. You may still want closeness and affection. You may even miss wanting sex—but your desire just doesn’t seem to show up the way it used to.Before you decide something is wrong with you or that you need to “get your sex drive back,” I want to invite you into a different conversation.What has your body been experiencing? And what conditions help desire become available to you now?In this episode of She Receives, Dr. Tabitha Taylor explores sexual desire through a nervous-system-informed, biopsychosocial, and relational lens. We talk about how stress, exhaustion, emotional disconnection, resentment, hormonal changes, body image, relationship dynamics, pressure around sex, and years of carrying too much can all influence desire. We’ll also explore the difference between spontaneous and responsive desire—and why responsive desire does not mean overriding your no, tolerating unwanted touch, or participating sexually just to see whether desire eventually catches up. Perhaps the question isn’t simply:How do I get back to the woman I used to be?How do I get my sex drive back?Perhaps it’s:What awakens me now?Because your sexuality is allowed to change as your body, your life, and you change. This conversation isn’t about manufacturing a sexual response or teaching you to perform sexuality better. It’s about restoring your relationship with you—so that your sensual and sexual self has room to emerge in a way you can actually experience. Truth to Return To:My desire is not a measure of my worth, my femininity, or my capacity for intimacy. I don’t have to force it. I don’t have to perform it. I’m allowed to become curious about it. One soft moment at a time.From Safety… She Receives. 💜

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