Coming inside OUT

About Coming inside OUT

Coming Inside OUT is a heartfelt podcast where hosts Brian Janes and Mark Dembo create a safe space for gay fathers, men coming out later in life, and anyone exploring their identity within the LGBTQ+ community. Through candid conversations they explore the emotional journey of self-discovery, relationships, and the power of living authentically. Each episode dives into real stories of courage, healing, and connection—covering topics like mental health, therapy, mixed-orientation marriages, dating, fatherhood, and community support. Whether it’s navigating guilt and shame, celebrating Pride, or confronting societal challenges, Brian and Mark remind listeners that no one walks this path alone. ✨ It’s never too late to come home to yourself. Tune in for inspiration, solidarity, and a reminder that authenticity is not just freedom—it’s leadership. 📩 Contact: cominginsideout@gmail.com (mailto:cominginsideout@gmail.com) 🌈 #Gay #LGBTQPodcast #GayFathers #ComingOut #Authenticity #MentalHealth #Pride365 #LGBTQ #LoveIsLove Keywords: LGBTQ, coming out, relationships, gay parent, gay podcast, gay men, personal growth, gay fathers, pride,

Publisher

Brian Janes and Mark Dembo

Category

health & fitness · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

23 May 2024

Latest episode

18 Jun 2026

Latest episodes

88 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   18 Jun 2026

   From Shame to Self-Discovery: Navigating Sexuality, Dating Apps and Safety in Gay Life with Zachary Zane

   Coming out is often portrayed as the destination—but for many men, it's actually the beginning of a whole new journey. In this episode of Coming Inside Out, Brian Janes and Mark Dembo welcome author, columnist, and LGBTQ advocate Zachary Zane for a wide-ranging conversation about bisexuality, shame, sexual identity, dating, community, and modern relationships. Zach shares his own coming-out story, discusses the ongoing challenges bisexual men face, and offers practical advice for men navigating dating and relationships after coming out later in life. The conversation also explores open relationships, polyamory, monogamy, and what healthy communication looks like regardless of relationship style. Whether you're newly out, questioning, or simply looking for a deeper understanding of sexuality and connection, this episode is packed with insight and perspective. Guest: Zachary Zane Author of Boyslut, sex columnist, LGBTQ advocate, and Grindr's Sex & Relationship Expert. Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a parent, someone exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to better understand the LGBTQ+ experience, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, meaningful insight, and the sense of belonging we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, they connect with fellow gay dads—sharing real stories of resilience, growth, victories, and struggle. Together, they explore the complexities of sexuality across every stage of life—from teens to husbands to fathers—while building a supportive community for those still in the closet and reminding them they are not alone. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity. 📩 Contact: cominginsideout@gmail.com (mailto:cominginsideout@gmail.com) #LGBTQ #GayMen #Bisexuality #ComingOut #Pride #ZacharyZane #Boyslut #Relationships #Dating #MentalHealth #authenticitycheck Keywords: coming out later in life zachary zane boyslut bisexual men bisexuality gay men lgbtq podcast sexual identity dating after coming out gay fathers life after coming out mens mental health lgbtq self discovery open relationships polyamory

2. 

   6 Jun 2026

   Pride Flag Raising Ceremony - The Greatest Act Of Self-Love Is Living As Your Authentic Self. LGBTQ+

   Three years ago, I never would have imagined standing in front of my community speaking openly as a gay man. This week, I had the honor of speaking at a Pride flag raising ceremony in Bedford. Pride is about visibility. It’s about belonging. It’s about making sure people know they don’t have to hide who they are. Happy Pride. 🌈 #Pride #HappyPride #GayDad #ComingOutLaterInLife #Authenticity VisibilityMatters LiveYourTruth LGBTQ PrideMonth Cominginsideout @ (https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UC_Xz1Z1q3OY5bx06NVKsagA)gmail.com (http://gmail.com) (https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UC_Xz1Z1q3OY5bx06NVKsagA)

3. 

   21 May 2026

   After Decades in the Closet, These Gay Fathers Open Up About Shame, Marriage and Truth

   In this emotional and honest episode of Coming Inside Out, Brian and Mark recap the overwhelming response to their recent conversation with Dr. Evan Goldstein, including listener reactions about gay sex, intimacy, body image, and shame. The episode then shifts into deeply personal “Letters From the Closet” submissions from listeners navigating life as gay fathers, husbands, and men coming out later in life. Topics include conversion therapy, surviving religious trauma, sexual abuse, divorce, loneliness, healing, and learning how to build authentic connections after decades in the closet. Brian shares his own experience finding support through gay fathers groups, while Mark discusses the importance of LGBTQ community, online safety, and finding people who truly understand the journey of coming out after marriage and parenthood. The conversation also touches on Pride Month, LGBTQ visibility, and why support, connection, and community matter now more than ever for gay men and fathers trying to rebuild their lives authentically. This episode is for anyone searching for hope, healing, support, and proof that they are not alone. I also need title options Here are several strong podcast/social media title options built around your themes of gay fathers, coming out later in life, support, healing, Dr. Evan Goldstein, and Letters From the Closet: Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a parent, someone exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to better understand the LGBTQ+ experience, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, meaningful insight, and the sense of belonging we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, they connect with fellow gay dads—sharing real stories of resilience, growth, victories, and struggle. Together, they explore the complexities of sexuality across every stage of life—from teens to husbands to fathers—while building a supportive community for those still in the closet and reminding them they are not alone. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity. 📩 Contact: cominginsideout@gmail.com (mailto:cominginsideout@gmail.com) #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout keywords: gay relationships, coming out, trust, monogamy, gay community, personal stories, listener questions, LGBTQ+ @thefuturemethod @bespokesurgical @drevangoldstein

Reach and audience

Public platform figures. Ratings count people who left a rating, not total listeners.

YouTube views

20,089

Score snapshot 15 Sept 2025

Apple Podcasts (US)

5.0 / 5

5 ratings

Podcast Authority Score: 71 / 100

A composite of feed quality, social presence, YouTube performance and engagement. Read the methodology.

Quality

99

Social presence

0

YouTube

76

Engagement

32

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