Confident Again is for women navigating the aftermath of intimate betrayal who want less confusion and more clarity. Clear, compassionate, and grounded, it helps you cut through the fog, find your footing, and step back into strength with steady hope and quiet clarity. If you want betrayal healing wisdom to reconnect with your innate confidence, this podcast is for you.
Discipling Men in Sexual Integrity with Gerard Trolove from Stouthearted
How can churches create spaces where men can talk honestly about sexuality, pornography and sexual integrity without shame — while still encouraging responsibility, growth and loving relationships? In this episode, Jane talks with Gerard Trolove from Stouthearted, an Australian Christian ministry helping men grow in sexual integrity through discipleship, community and practical tools. Stouthearted is an eight-week group programme designed to help men understand themselves more deeply, reflect...
20 Sept 2026
When You Don’t Know What Comes Next: Family Law, Separation & Betrayal with Sian Green
When betrayal leaves you questioning the future of your relationship, the thought of separation can bring a whole new layer of fear and uncertainty. Where would I live? What would happen with the children? Do I need a lawyer? And does speaking to one mean I’ve decided to leave? In this episode of Confident Again, Jane speaks with Sian Green from Horizons Family Law about what women need to know when separation is a possibility — even if they are nowhere near ready to make a decision. Sian bri...
13 Sept 2026
Finding your Way Back to God with Andrew and Susannah Connolly
What happens when betrayal doesn’t only shake your relationship — but also your faith, your understanding of God, and your sense of who you are? In this deeply compassionate conversation, Jane is joined by New Zealand counsellors and spiritual directors Andrew and Susannah Connolly to explore the intersection of betrayal trauma, spiritual abuse, spiritual trauma and spiritual healing. Andrew and Susanna bring both professional expertise and lived experience to this conversation. Together, the...
10 Aug 2026
Healing through Art with Beth Woessner
Healing Through Art with Beth Woessner Healing after betrayal can feel exhausting. Sometimes you are tired of talking, analysing and trying to find the right words for what you have experienced. In this episode, Jane speaks with artist, educator and betrayal trauma coach Beth Woessner about how creativity can offer another pathway towards healing. Beth brings together a lifetime of artistic practice, her own experience of trauma and healing, and her trauma-informed training. She explains how ...
7 Aug 2026
Parenting your Teen when Navigating Betrayal: Creating Safety, Connection and Repair with Ellia Markham
When Betrayal Impacts Your Teen: Creating Safety, Connection and Repair When betrayal, infidelity or pornography addiction ruptures a relationship, parents are often consumed by their own pain and uncertainty. But what is the experience like for the teenagers living alongside that crisis? In this episode, Jane speaks with youth and family coach Ellia Markham about how adolescents may be affected by betrayal within the family—and how parents can support them without expecting themselves to ha...
31 Jul 2026
How Recovering Husbands Can Help their Wives Heal with Carol Juergensen Sheets
What does it really take for the person who caused the betrayal to become safe enough to support his wife’s healing? In this episode, Jane speaks with Carol Juergensen-Sheets—also known as Carol the Coach—about the betraying partner’s role in recovery after the discovery of secret sexual behaviours or infidelity. Carol is a marriage and family therapist, certified sex addiction therapist, certified clinical partner specialist with APSATS, coach, author and creator of the Early Recovery Couple...
18 Jul 2026
Financial freedom for women navigating uncertainty with Genene Wilson
Financial uncertainty can add another layer of fear and vulnerability when a relationship is fragile, ending, or already over. You may be worried about where you will live, how you will support yourself, what assets you have—or whether important financial information has been hidden from you. In this episode, Jane speaks with Genene Wilson about moving from financial vulnerability and confusion towards greater clarity, confidence and empowerment. Genene draws on her experience as a former acc...
30 Jun 2026
The A Word: Naming Abuse in Betrayal with David and Noni Yates
What if the word we most avoid is the word that brings the most clarity? In this powerful conversation, Jane is joined by Noni and Dave Yates to talk about “the A word” — abuse — and why it matters in the context of intimate betrayal. Together, they explore the painful reality that betrayal is not only about sexual acting out or infidelity. It is also about deception, secrecy, gaslighting, manipulation, minimisation, deflection, stonewalling, and the misuse of power. These behaviours can slow...
16 Jun 2026
It's not about his Recovery Plan, a Life-altering Boundaries Mind Shift with Pam Blizzard
It’s not about his recovery plan — it’s about your safety. In this powerful conversation, Jane is joined by trauma-informed recovery coach, consultant, writer and educator Pam Blizzard to explore a life-altering shift in how we think about boundaries after intimate betrayal. So often, betrayed partners get pulled into monitoring, managing or debating their husband’s recovery plan. But as Pam explains, his recovery is his responsibility. Your work is not to control the details of his healing, ...
8 Jun 2026
From Self-Abandonment to Self-Trust with Amy Graziano
What happens when you’ve spent years saying “I’m fine” when you’re really not? In this episode of Confident Again, I’m joined by betrayal healing coach and group facilitator Amy Graziano for a tender and honest conversation about the journey from self-abandonment to self-trust. Amy shares pieces of her own betrayal healing story, including the devastating discovery of her husband’s affair after 32 years of marriage, and how that experience helped her recognise a deeper pattern of walking on e...
29 May 2026
The Gift in the Wound with Sharalyn Drayton
What if the thing that feels unsurvivable could also become a pathway toward healing, self-connection, and transformation? In this episode of Confident Again, Jane is joined by Sharalyn Drayton for a rich and hope-filled conversation about “the gift in the wound” — a phrase that gently points to the possibility that even deep betrayal pain does not have to be wasted. This is not about minimising harm, rushing healing, or pretending betrayal is somehow good. Instead, Jane and Sharalyn explore ...
14 May 2026
Self-Care Confidence: From Survival to Flourishing with Coach Kendra Lee
What if self-care wasn’t selfish… but essential? In this heartfelt conversation, I’m joined by Kendra DeVito to explore the role of self-care in healing after intimate betrayal. Together, we unpack the guilt, exhaustion and survival-mode thinking that can make caring for yourself feel impossible — especially when you’re overwhelmed, caring for others, or simply trying to get through the day. Kendra shares pieces of her own healing journey after multiple D-Days, raising five children and spend...
11 Apr 2026
Spiritual Safety after Betrayal with Donna Dixon
Hello, friend. If betrayal has shaken not only your relationship, but your sense of safety in your faith, this episode is for you. Today, I’m joined by Donna Dixon, founder of A Doorway of Hope, who trains women to facilitate faith-based support groups for those healing from betrayal. Together, we explore a deeply important and often overlooked question: What does it actually mean to feel spiritually safe after betrayal? For many women, betrayal doesn’t just impact trust in a partner — it dis...
1 Apr 2026
Not Cheating but Still Lying: Staying Safe when the Lying Persists (with Lisa Taylor)
What happens when the behaviour stops—but the lying doesn’t? In this powerful and nuanced conversation, I’m joined by Lisa Taylor, a counsellor and APSATS-trained practitioner who specialises in betrayal trauma, sex addiction, and recovery. Together, we explore one of the most painful and confusing aspects of betrayal: ongoing dishonesty—even when there is sobriety. If you’ve found yourself upset with lying, lack of transparency, minimising and evasion, even when you're pretty sure he's no lo...
24 Mar 2026
Boundaries as an Act of Love in the Aftermath of Betrayal
When you hear the word boundaries, what comes to mind? For many women navigating the aftermath of intimate betrayal, boundaries can feel harsh, confusing, or even unkind. You might wonder… Am I being controlling? Am I asking for too much? In this episode of Confident Again, we reframe boundaries through a very different lens. What if boundaries are not about control or punishment… but about love in action? Together, we explore how boundaries can become grounded, values-based decisions that su...
18 Mar 2026
Reclaiming your Worth after Betrayal
If intimate betrayal has left you feeling not enough, unchosen, unseen, or deeply shaken in your sense of value, this episode is for you. In this heartfelt conversation, Jane explores one of the most painful impacts of betrayal: the way it can distort your sense of self-worth. She gently unpacks why betrayal is never a commentary on your value, even though it can feel that way in the aftermath. You’ll hear why betrayal is rooted in disloyalty, secrecy, deception, and power imbalance — not in ...
17 Feb 2026
Understanding the Multidimensional Parter Trauma Model: A Roadmap for Healing after Betrayal
If you’ve ever wondered, “Why am I reacting like this?” after discovering betrayal, this episode is for you. In today’s conversation on Confident Again, Jane walks you through the Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model (MPTM) — a research-informed framework developed by APSATS (the Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Specialists). This model was created specifically for partners experiencing the trauma of intimate betrayal. For too long, betrayed partners were labelled “codependent,”...
9 Feb 2026
From Thought Loops to Calm: Mindfulness That Builds Confidence (with Therese Sheedy)
In this episode of Confident Again, Jane Gibb sits down with Australian psychologist Therese Sheedy to explore how mindfulness can gently rebuild confidence, nervous system safety, and emotional resilience — especially for women navigating betrayal trauma, anxiety, or overwhelming life transitions. With more than 30 years of experience, Therese brings warmth, clarity, and practical wisdom to a topic that is often misunderstood. Mindfulness isn’t about sitting cross-legged trying to silence yo...
2 Feb 2026
6 Ways to Regrow your Confidence after Betrayal
Betrayal has a way of destroying confidence — leaving you confused, disoriented, and unsure of who you are anymore. In the very first episode of The Confident Again Podcast, betrayal trauma coach Jane Gibb shares a grounded, trauma-informed message of hope: confidence can return after betrayal — and there’s a real reason it feels so far away right now. Drawing on both professional experience and her own lived journey, Jane explains what happens in the nervous system after betrayal and why you...
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