Converse with Kaffy is a podcast for anyone navigating the beautiful, messy, and meaningful journey of life.
Hosted by Kaffy, each episode invites you into honest conversations about the things we often think about but don't always talk about; purpose, relationships, growth, identity, resilience, work, family, faith, failure, hope, and everything in between.
This isn't a place where anyone pretends to have all the answers. It's a space to ask thoughtful questions, share real experiences, and learn together, one conversation at a time.
Whether you're celebrating a new beginning, facing an unexpected challenge, or simply looking for conversations that leave you feeling encouraged and understood, there's a seat for you here.
Pull up a chair. There's room for you here.
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Kafayat Gbajabiamila
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society & culture · society & culture · society & culture
Do We Actually Know Our Friends Anymore? | Honesty, Accountability & Adult Friendship with Kenny Alasiri | Part 2
What does a healthy adult friendship actually require when the laughter stops and the harder questions begin? In Part 2 of my conversation with my longtime friend Kenny Alasiri, we go deeper into the parts of friendship we do not always talk about openly. Does friendship really have to be 50/50? Can you genuinely love a friend and still feel jealous of them sometimes? Can a good friend disappoint you and still be a good friend? And at what point does repeated disappointment stop being human i...
21 Oct 2026
Do We Actually Know Our Friends Anymore? | Adult Friendship, Distance & Growing Together With Kenny Alasiri | Part 1
How well do we really know the people we have called friends for years? Not who they were when we met them. Not the version of them we remember from ten years ago. But who they are now. For Episode 9 of Converse with Kaffy, I sit down with one of my closest friends, Kenny Alasiri, for a conversation that honestly felt less like an interview and more like two old friends catching up with microphones on. 😂 Kenny joined me virtually from London for CWK’s very first virtual episode, and apparentl...
14 Oct 2026
When Did We Get So Afraid to Start Over? | Starting Over in Life, Career & Relationships With Kathy Frias
Starting over sounds exciting when we talk about it from the other side. But what about when you are actually standing in the middle of it? When the relationship ends. When the career changes. When life no longer looks the way you thought it would. When you know something has to change, but you are not entirely sure what comes next. In Episode 8 of Converse with Kaffy, I sit down with my friend and former colleague Kathy Frias for an honest and deeply personal conversation about starting over...
7 Oct 2026
Why Is It So Hard To Ask For Help? Part 2 With Daisy Adebisi Adeleye
In Part 2 of my conversation with Daisy of Daisy Mo Collective, we continue exploring why asking for help can feel so uncomfortable... especially when we’re used to being the strong one, the dependable one, or the person everyone else turns to. Now, did we stay perfectly on topic? Absolutely not. 😂 Daisy and I took more than a few scenic routes into conversations about marriage, relationships, friendship, vulnerability, expectations, and navigating life with other people. We wandered, laughed...
30 Sept 2026
Why Is It So Hard To Ask For Help? Part 1 With Daisy Adebisi Adeleye
Why is it so hard to ask for help, even when we would gladly show up for someone else? In this episode of Converse with Kaffy, Kaffy sits down with her friend Daisy Adebisi Adeleye of Daisy Mo Collective for a warm, funny, and honest conversation about independence, vulnerability, pride, and the pressure of being the person everyone expects to have it together. They talk about what happens when being “the strong one” becomes part of your identity, why receiving help can feel uncomfortable, an...
23 Sept 2026
Growing Pains: When You’ve Outgrown What Once Fit With Genesis Romney
What happens when the life, relationships, spaces, or versions of yourself that once fit… simply don’t anymore? In Episode 6 of Converse with Kaffy, Kaffy sits down with Genesis Romney for an honest conversation about growth, change, identity, and what it feels like to realize that something you once belonged to may no longer fit the person you are becoming. Genesis brings so much lived experience into this conversation, from growing up as a young woman in the Caribbean, to the life she knew ...
16 Sept 2026
The Conversations We Keep Replaying in Our Heads
Have you ever walked away from a conversation only to replay it again and again in your head? What you should have said. What you wish you hadn't said. The response you didn't expect. The apology that never came. The closure you're still waiting for. Some conversations end in real life but somehow keep going on inside us. In this solo episode, Kaffy sits down alone to talk about the conversations we keep replaying, the arguments we rewrite after the fact, the words we never got to say, and wh...
9 Sept 2026
Can We Talk About Loneliness?
What does loneliness look like when you’re not actually alone? In this solo episode of Converse with Kaffy, I’m talking about the kind of loneliness that can exist even when your life is full of people; family, friends, coworkers, children, a partner, responsibilities and constant connection. Because sometimes being needed is not the same thing as being known. We talk about friendship loneliness, feeling unseen in relationships, the quiet isolation that can come with being “the strong one,” h...
3 Sept 2026
Who Am I When I’m Not Being Everything to Everyone? With Chenayi Shava Ogunbanjo
Who are you when you’re not being everything to everyone else? In this episode of Converse with Kaffy, I sit down with my very first guest, Chenayi Shava Ogunbanjo, for an honest conversation about identity, motherhood, ambition, purpose, community, and the many roles we carry for the people around us. Chenayi is an educator with more than 20 years of experience, a wife, mother of three, community advocate, and candidate for Oakdale City Council. But for this conversation, we go beyond the ti...
26 Aug 2026
Is Everyone Else Just Better at Life… or Does It Only Look That Way?
Ever look around and wonder if everyone else somehow got the handbook for adulthood except you? Kaffy gets into comparison, invisible timelines, social media, the stories we create about other people’s lives, and that nagging feeling that we should be further ahead. But what if comparison isn’t always something to silence? What if sometimes it’s telling us something about what we’re longing for?
26 Aug 2026
Can We Start With the Truth?
What if we stopped pretending we have it all figured out? In the very first episode of Converse with Kaffy, Kaffy opens up about why she created this space, the pressure to appear like we have life together, and why some of the most meaningful conversations begin when we’re willing to simply tell the truth. No pedestal. No perfect answers. Just real life, real questions, and a chair waiting for you.
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