Convo with the Collum's

About Convo with the Collum's

Real conversations that create real connection! We will talk about emotional intelligence, practical relationship tools, spiritual growth and how to live with vulnerability and authenticity in your every day. Whether you are just starting on a growth journey, looking for tools, or simply hoping to hear real, authentic conversations, we invite you to stop and listen. Sometimes it's just worth a laugh...

Publisher

Zion 61

Category

health & fitness · kids & family

Language

en

Explicit

No

First episode

25 Sept 2025

Latest episode

1 Oct 2026

Latest episodes

15 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   1 Oct 2026

   Short guide school recap

   Guide School Recap with Britton and Milli For more info on offerings visit www.collumcollective.com (https://www.collumcollective.com/event-list) Britton and Milli recap their second year participating in guide school with Non-Typical Outfitters, a hands-on program that trains future hunting guides while also developing identity, core values, and leadership. They break down how the experience is structured, what makes horseback mountain guiding unique, and why the week is as much about personal growth as it is about outdoor skills.In this episode, Britton and Milli talk through the phases of guide school, what it looks like to train in the wilderness on horseback, and how the experience shapes both people and horses over the course of a week. Key topics Guide school is a partnership with Non-Typical Outfitters, where participants learn to become hunting guides in wilderness settings, specifically on horseback. Britton and Milli lead the Phase 1 curriculum, which focuses on identity, core values, and coaching the group around healthy leadership. The overall program is broken into phases: Phase 1 — introductory experience and values-based coaching Phase 2 — shooting class opportunities Phase 3 — mountain scouting and more definitive industry skills Phase 4 — active internship with the organization The horsemanship component includes saddling, tack, tying knots, and other foundational skills needed for guiding. The terrain is physically demanding, with steep elevation gain and mountain country that challenges both riders and horses. Milli shares how the experience stretched her personally, especially as an arena rider learning to trust mountain horses in rugged terrain. Britton reflects on how the horses’ confidence grows across the week and how much trust is involved in riding in unpredictable country. They emphasize that horses in this work need to know where to put their feet, and that good horsemanship is built through consistent guidance and relationship. Rob, the owner behind Non-Typical Outfitters, is highlighted for his integrity, his vision for healthy guides and healthy hunting camps, and his willingness to be vulnerable about the cost of success. Timestamps (00:29) Intro banter and setting up the recap episode (01:38) What guide school is and who it serves (03:00) Breaking the program into phases (04:38) Why horses are central to the outfitting business (05:06) Core horsemanship skills taught in Phase 1 (05:36) Phase 2, Phase 3, and the internship pathway (06:50) Personal highlights from the mountain experience (08:19) Watching participants grow in just six days (09:34) Rob’s vision for healthy guides and healthy camps (11:02) What Milli learned about mountain horses (13:17) Riding up mountains and trusting a horse’s confidence (16:25) Horse herd dynamics and leadership character (17:46) Horses need human direction to reach their potential (18:45) Friendships and camaraderie forming during the week (19:26) Why identity work matters in high-stress occupations (20:25) Cultivating identity without making it performance-based (21:12) Rob’s vulnerability and leadership tone (22:11) The difference between young horses and client horses (23:06) Why foundational training matters for rough country (24:07) Watching confidence grow in both people and horses (25:49) A personal story connecting horses, family, and grief (27:44) Remembering the importance of a horse knowing its footing (28:48) The metaphor of steadfastness for people and horses (29:53) Coaching around what shows up emotionally in the process (30:18) Final thoughts and encouragement to adventurous listeners

2. 

   15 Sept 2026

   What questions people seek out

   Jump over to Collumcollective.com (http://Collumcollective.com) to view all upcoming opportunities. This conversation explores the themes of self-identity, purpose, hope, and the perception of God. We talk about the most frequently googled personal growth questions. It delves into the impact of personal experiences on faith and the struggle to reconcile one's beliefs with life's challenges. The conversation delves into the passion for helping people encounter love and goodness, the role of identity and purpose in coaching, the importance of asking good questions and active listening, the distinction between coaching and counseling, and the preference for clients who are sincerely curious and hungry for change. The conversation delves into the essence of coaching, emphasizing the importance of curiosity and hunger in clients. It also explores the distinction between coaching and mentoring, the role of compassion, and the significance of community in addressing shame. The hosts discuss upcoming coaching opportunities and conclude with a call to action for their audience. Takeaways Self-identity and purpose are fundamental questions that individuals frequently grapple with. The perception of God and the struggle to maintain hope in the face of adversity are common themes in personal growth and faith journeys. Encountering love and goodness Identity and purpose in coaching The power of asking good questions and active listening Distinction between coaching and counseling Preference for clients who are sincerely curious and hungry for change Curiosity and hunger are essential qualities in clients seeking coaching. Coaching involves asking questions and empowering individuals to find their own solutions. Community plays a vital role in addressing shame and fostering growth. The hosts are offering various coaching opportunities and encourage their audience to engage with their content. Chapters 00:00 Representing Love and Authenticity 43:00 Preference for Clients Who Are Sincerely Curious and Hungry for Change 46:01 The Essence of Coaching: Curiosity and Hunger 47:04 Differentiating Coaching and Mentoring 48:03 Compassion and Empowerment in Coaching 49:12 The Role of Community in Addressing Shame 54:09 Upcoming Coaching Opportunities and Concluding Remarks

3. 

   5 Jul 2026

   Why Your Story Matters!

   The conversation explores the power of storytelling, the relevance of sharing personal stories, the impact of vulnerability and compassion, the identity and purpose of our stories. The conversation delves into the impact of community, emotional intelligence, church culture, suicidal ideation, unmet needs, depression, trauma, faith, and the power of storytelling and vulnerability. It emphasizes the role of community in healing and the balance of supernatural intervention and human support. If you want to support more of these convos click here. (https://cash.app/$zion61OK) If you would like coaching and direction within your story, visit our website here for additional support (https://www.collumcollective.com/). Takeaways The power of storytelling lies in its ability to connect individuals through shared experiences and emotions. Vulnerability, compassion, and love play a crucial role in the impact and relevance of personal storytelling. The importance of sharing your story for healing and hope The role of community in providing validation and support for emotional healing Chapters 00:00 The Power of Storytelling 05:30 The Value of Storytelling and Overcoming 10:34 The Impact of Storytelling on Identity 16:21 The Delicate Balance of Sharing Personal Experiences 21:36 The Impact of Personal Experiences on Identity 27:01 The Role of Personal Experiences in Advocacy 32:01 The Impact of Community 37:14 The Weight of Personal Stories 43:47 The Role of Faith in Healing 50:17 The Impact of Storytelling and Vulnerability 56:37 The Balance of Supernatural Intervention and Human Support

4. 

   15 Jun 2026

   EQ for the equine

   The conversation delves into the intersection of horsemanship and emotional intelligence, exploring the dynamics of coaching and mentoring in the context of equine relationships. It emphasizes the importance of relational equity, patience, and self-reflection in horsemanship, drawing parallels to biblical references and the role of humanity in horse development. If you'ld like more info or have questions on this topic, visit our website at Collumcollective.com. (https://www.collumcollective.com/) Takeaways Horsemanship coaching is about more than just skill development; it's about building relationships and emotional intelligence. The role of patience, self-worth, and clear communication is crucial in the context of horsemanship and equine coaching. Chapters 00:00 Exploring Horsemanship and Emotional Intelligence 05:01 Horses as Nonverbal Communicators 09:56 Relational Equity in Horsemanship 15:06 Accountability and Feedback in Horsemanship 19:53 Managing Triggers and Expectations in Horsemanship 25:09 Preparing the Horse for Riding 30:13 Managing Triggers and Expectations in Horsemanship

5. 

   29 May 2026

   Why do good questions matter?

   The conversation explores the value of asking good questions, the impact of hard questions, and the role of questions in coaching and relationships. It delves into the connection between righteousness, peace, and joy, as well as the agenda of safety and curiosity in conversations. The conversation explores the transformative power of curiosity in relationships, parenting, and personal growth. It delves into the role of curiosity in spiritual mentorship and the impact of hard questions on personal development. The journey of self-discovery through curiosity is a central theme throughout the conversation. If you're looking for someone to ask the hard questions, email us at Britt@collumcollective.com (mailto:Britt@collumcollective.com) If you would like to support this convo, you can donate here (https://cash.app/$zion61OK). For more information on what we offer go to our website here (https://www.collumcollective.com/). Takeaways The power of good questions in fostering curiosity and understanding The importance of creating a safe space for open dialogue and exploration Curiosity fosters a deeper understanding of oneself and others. The value of good questions lies in their ability to challenge and affirm personal beliefs. Chapters 00:00 The Power of Good Questions 11:40 The Art of Asking Open-Ended Questions 24:36 Navigating Opposition and Peace 31:26 The Agenda of Safety and Curiosity 36:44 Curiosity and the Image of God 52:53 Curiosity and Spiritual Mentorship 01:00:46 The Journey of Self-Discovery

6. 

   3 May 2026

   No sons, no limits. Empowering women

   The conversation covers the topics up coming events (https://www.collumcollective.com/event-list), empowering women, challenging belief systems, and questioning tradition. It delves into the importance of empowering women, the impact of belief systems on personal growth, and the process of questioning traditional norms and values. The conversation delves into the themes of trust and support in marriage, the impact of religion and theology on relationships, and the shifting theology and perspectives on women. It explores the dynamics of trust and support in marriage, the influence of religious beliefs on relationships, and the evolving perspectives on women within theological contexts. The conversation delves into the themes of parenting with humility and understanding, gender and spiritual identity, empathy and validation, emotional intelligence and religion, empowerment and modeling, championing spouses and partnerships, understanding and valuing individuality, stewardship and influence, parental responsibility and influence, equipping and empowering women, creating safe spaces and feedback, purpose and legacy, and support and understanding. The overarching takeaways include the importance of parenting with humility and valuing individuality in children. Click here to support more conversations. (https://cash.app/$zion61OK) Takeaways Empowering Women Challenging Belief Systems Trust and support in marriage The impact of religion and theology on relationships Parenting with humility Understanding and valuing individuality Chapters 00:00 Retreats and Cohorts 08:00 Challenging Belief Systems 15:58 Questioning Tradition 21:43 Trust and Support in Marriage 38:17 Shifting Theology and Perspectives on Women 45:54 Parenting with Humility and Understanding 51:07 Championing Spouses and Partnerships 56:26 Equipping and Empowering Women 01:03:21 Purpose and Legacy 01:08:43 Spiritual Identity and Legacy

7. 

   27 Mar 2026

   What's new for '26

   The conversation covers the exciting things happening in 2026, including the consolidation of coaching efforts, the launch of a new website collumcollective.com (https://www.collumcollective.com/), and the offering of retreats and courses. It also delves into the importance of gender-inclusive spaces and the vision for online content and courses. The conversation covers the development of an intensive program focused on identity, personal growth, and spiritual development. It also discusses the challenges of launching and marketing the program, as well as the importance of community and connection. Takeaways Consolidation of coaching efforts and the launch of a new website under the name 'Column Collective' Offering of retreats, courses, and the vision for online content and courses Intensive Program Marketing Challenges Chapters 00:00 Vision for Online Content and Courses 17:59 Developing an Intensive Program on Identity and Growth 23:04 Marketing and Advertising Challenges 28:26 Cohesive Platform and Sharing Information 34:04 Website Launch and Social Media Presence

8. 

   16 Feb 2026

   50/50 relationship

   Help us grow this conversation by liking, sharing, commenting and subscribing. You may even financially support here. (https://cash.app/$zion61OK) The conversation delves into the importance of relational intimacy, encompassing emotional, spiritual, and physical connection. It explores the impact of family of origin on intimacy, the role of purpose in connection, and the responsibility in relationships. Additionally, it discusses emotional processing, transparency, and vulnerability, emphasizing growth and intentionality in fostering intimacy. The conversation delves into the differences in communication between men and women, highlighting the societal assumptions that create different dynamics for each gender. It then explores the relevance of spiritual connection in relationships, emphasizing the importance of a secure belief system and the hierarchy of spiritual connection in relationships. The power of prayer and partnership in relationships is also discussed, emphasizing the need for specificity in requests for partnership and the impact of spiritual intimacy in friendships and relationships. The conversation delves into the power of prayer and spiritual connection in relationships, highlighting the importance of emotional and spiritual intimacy. It then explores the themes of responsibility and vulnerability in relationships, emphasizing the significance of emotional vulnerability and spiritual partnership. The dynamics of 50-50 in relationships are discussed, along with the importance of self-worth and healthy relationships. Throughout the conversation, the focus remains on equipping healthy families and fostering spiritual and emotional connection in relationships. Takeaways Relational intimacy involves emotional, spiritual, and physical connection. Vulnerability and courage are essential for intimacy in relationships. Men and women communicate differently Spiritual connection in relationships The importance of a secure belief system The power of prayer and partnership in relationships Spiritual intimacy in relationships The importance of emotional and spiritual connection in relationships Chapters 00:00 Growth and Intentionality 49:05 Hierarchy of Spiritual Connection in Relationships and Identity 01:01:16 The Power of Prayer and Spiritual Connection 01:08:19 Responsibility and Vulnerability in Relationships 01:15:02 Emotional Vulnerability and Spiritual Partnership 01:22:06 The Dynamics of 50-50 in Relationships

9. 

   7 Feb 2026

   Her Time Inside

   If you feel led to continue to support these conversations, please help by subscribing, sharing, commenting or contributing here (https://cash.app/$zion61OK). This conversation delves into the experiences and insights gained from volunteering and working inside a prison. It explores the journey from volunteering, the initial experience inside the prison, leading an academy, understanding the correctional system, diverse structures of correctional facilities, learning curve and initial realizations, impact of trauma and power dynamics, community and resourcefulness, and deeper awareness and realization. The conversation delves into the weight of compassion, the power of courage in shifting culture, and the transformative impact of learning from incarcerated individuals. It also explores the need for a shift in perspective and the dangers of comparison, emphasizing the value of freedom and the understanding of persecution and conviction. The conversation delves into the impact of personal experiences, male presence, healthy relationships, and the need for restoration and freedom. It also explores the stigma of the criminal justice system and the importance of preventing hard experiences. The impact on children and the passion for humanity are also highlighted. Takeaways Impact of trauma on incarcerated individuals Diverse structures and dynamics of correctional facilities Courage and hope are contagious The impact of punitive measures on hope The need for a shift in perspective and motive Avoiding the trap of comparison The need for healthy relationships and male presence The importance of experiencing and preventing hard experiences Chapters 00:00 Journey to Volunteering in Prison 06:04 First Experience Inside the Prison 13:23 Understanding the Correctional System 19:29 Learning Curve and Initial Realizations 27:18 Deeper Awareness and Realization 34:08 Shifting Culture Through Courage 50:10 Perception and Responsibility 59:35 Reflection on Past Behavior 01:05:15 Healing Through Healthy Relationships 01:10:23 Stigma of Criminal Justice System 01:16:04 Opportunity for Restoration

10. 

    31 Dec 2025

    Self-defeating games discussion

    The conversation delves into the topic of self-defeating behaviors, exploring the definition, impact of fear, and the dynamics of hiding behind judgments and spreading lies and gossip. It also highlights the internal, external, and vertical manifestations of self-defeating behaviors, emphasizing the role of fear and the need for empathy and compassion. The conversation delves into the importance of preserving connection in relationships and the impact of self-defeating behaviors on communication. It explores the dynamics of blended families, honest communication, and the role of accountability in maintaining healthy relationships. Additionally, it addresses the influence of self-defeating behaviors on communication and the need for setting boundaries. The conversation delves into the exploration of self-defeating behaviors, blame shifting, negative attention seeking, victim mentality, self-sabotage, emotional processing, getting them before they get you, understanding self-defeating behaviors, compassion, emotional intelligence, and self-worth course offering. If these convos are helping and you feel lead to support more click here (https://cash.app/$zion61OK). Takeaways Self-defeating behaviors can manifest internally, externally, and vertically Hiding behind judgments is often the number one self-defeating behavior of humanity Preserving connection in relationships The impact of self-defeating behaviors on communication Understanding self-defeating behaviors The impact of unprocessed emotions Chapters 00:00 Spreading Lies and Gossip 27:37 Preserving Connection in Relationships 53:14 Blame Shifting and Offloading Responsibility onto God 59:23 Getting Them Before They Get You 01:08:07 Emotional Intelligence and Self-Worth Course Offering

11. 

    11 Dec 2025

    What is spiritual bypassing?

    How does the pretty process of religion get in your way? Join us as we discuss the topic of "spiritual bypassing" and how it robs you of not just real vulnerability but also authenticity. If you find value in this convo, please like, share, subscribe and comment. You may also support these conversations by capturing the link in the video or here (https://cash.app/$zion61OK).

12. 

    14 Nov 2025

    The dangers of a "how to" culture

    We live in a time where most everyone seems desperate for an answer on "how to" get it right. How to do "IT" and avoid mistakes or hurt, rejection or disappointment, failures and getting it wrong. In this convo, we literally process the reality of our present day dilemmas where, in an information age, people seem more hungry than ever to be told "HOW TO" do life. Join us as we share concerns and insights on the topic of a how to culture. If this stirs you, please help us by sharing, liking and subscribing. You may also donate HERE (https://cash.app/$zion61OK)to support this content.

13. 

    4 Nov 2025

    Experiences with horses

    Utilizing horses in the process of helping people or even discovering ourselves has been not only impressionable, but also profoundly impactful. We share a few of our favorite memories with horses as we journey this life helping people discover truth. If these conversations are impacting you and you feel lead to support what we are doing, you can donate here. (https://cash.app/$zion61OK)

14. 

    11 Oct 2025

    Womens retreat recap

    We discuss the amazing Wyoming women's retreat and share interviews from participants about their experience. We also discuss what it looks like when being seen, heard or known is only partially engaged and how safe spaces afford authentic opportunities.

15. 

    25 Sept 2025

    The why behind Convo with the Collum's

    We dive into our reasons for capturing this conversation with some of our own story and how its compelled us to share what we learned from it. Healthy people make healthy relationships. And healthy relationships make healthy families. We hope to equip, empower or encourage you in your own emotional intelligence journey.

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