1 Jun 2026
Preface
For many of us, the subject of sex brings up feelings of shame, embarrassment, and confusion. As a result, most people avoid talking about it even though we all share a longing to experience and understand love and sexuality. The purpose of this book is to share a clear and hopeful vision from the teachings of Reverend Sun Myung Moon and Dr. Hak Ja Han Moon, who we affectionately call True Parents. Their revolutionary insight is that the sexual relationship between a husband and wife is the very core of the universe. This resource can help young adults grow their sexual integrity in preparation for marriage and support blessed couples to create heavenly intimacy.
We acknowledge that not everyone is in the place they may want to be in terms of their habits and attitudes regarding sex or their relationship with their spouse. We encourage you to start from wherever you are and to bravely take steps towards realizing God’s beautiful ideal for His gift of sexuality.
Few people have had healthy conversations about sexual intimacy growing up in their family, and even fewer have had good role models. In today’s culture, we see a lot of misinformation about sex coming out of schools, Hollywood, and the internet. Because sex can be an embarrassing subject, there has been little to no conversation about it in the home. As quiet as most families are about sex, churches are often more silent, which has led many to believe that God has nothing to say on the topic either. Consequently, internet pornography has replaced the home and the church as a major source of sex education.
True Father was not silent on the subject of sex. He wanted people to understand that the sexual organs are God’s most precious gift to us. Through them, a husband and wife can experience love in their marriage and experience God in a deeper way than they ever could as individuals. In the Divine Principle, we learn how the misuse of sex caused the Fall of our first human ancestors, and from there, all the problems in the world. It’s only through True Father’s Words on the holiness of the sexual organs that we understand why the misuse of this sacred act caused the greatest tragedy for God and for all humankind.
Even though there are volumes of speeches from True Father about the sexual organs and related topics, people are often unaware these speeches exist. When they do stumble upon them, they find it is uncomfortable to discuss the content and challenging to see how it applies to their lives. This leaves many confused about essential questions regarding sex.
This Hoon Dok Hwe study book is the first to compile True Parents’ quotes from hundreds of speeches to create a comprehensive understanding of God’s vision for sex. It is organized into six sections: Core of the Universe, God’s Design for Sex, Conjugal Love, Absolute Sex, The Fall, and Restoration.
Each chapter begins with True Parents’ words, followed by Sharing Thoughts, in which we extract and explain the central theme. You may be surprised and challenged by some of True Parents’ teachings on the subject of sex. We ask you to keep an open mind. There is a story in each chapter highlighting historical events, great people, or fables to support your understanding and discuss the main theme. Every chapter includes a segment on Making It Real, showing how to apply the theme to your lives, and ending with suggested discussion questions. If you are reading this together with your spouse, small group, or family members, these stories and questions can provide a path to free and open discussions about sex.
