Crawl Before You Ball® Love, Relationships & Money

About Crawl Before You Ball® Love, Relationships & Money

Crawl Before You Ball: Love, Relationships & Money is a podcast dedicated to empowering couples to navigate the complex world of finances together. Financial expert Buffie Purselle hosts the show and offers practical advice, real-life stories, and expert insights to strengthen relationships and economic futures. Buffie's unique approach combines her expertise in finance with her warm and relatable personality. She delivers Auntie Know's Best guidance on love and finances, offering practical tips and strategies that can be applied to any relationship stage. From single and dating to engaged, married, divorced, or widowed, the podcast caters to couples at all stages of life. What to expect: Expert insights: Hear from financial experts, relationship counselors, and other professionals who share their knowledge and experience on various topics related to money and relationships. Real-life stories: Discover how real couples have overcome financial challenges, built wealth together, and strengthened their relationships through financial understanding and cooperation. Auntie knows best guidance: Benefit from Buffie's wisdom and experience as she offers advice and encouragement based on her own life and the experiences of her listeners. Join us on this journey of financial empowerment and relationship growth. Crawl Before You Ball is your go-to resource for navigating the complex world of money and love together. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

Publisher

Buffie Purselle

Category

business · education · society & culture

Language

en

Explicit

Yes

First episode

18 Oct 2024

Latest episode

30 Dec 2024

Latest episodes

11 episodes in the feed.

1. 

   30 Dec 2024

   Ep. 10: Enjoy Responsibly

   In this heartfelt and hilarious episode of Crawl Before You Ball, Auntie Buffie sits down with her nephew Corey to tackle the real-life financial challenges that many face but few talk about. From navigating parking tickets that spiraled into a car repossession to contemplating bankruptcy as a fresh start, Corey lays it all out with honesty and humor. Auntie Buffie, with her signature blend of tough love and wisdom, guides Corey through actionable solutions, including budgeting for life's milestones, leveraging free resources like the NACA program, and redefining the concept of "wants" vs. "needs." Together, they explore how to rebuild financial confidence while keeping the FOMO at bay. Whether you’re juggling student loans, dreaming of homeownership, or just trying to park legally, this episode is packed with gems to help you crawl your way to financial freedom without cutting off your arm for a mosquito bite. Don’t miss this lively conversation filled with laughs, life lessons, and Auntie Buffie's signature financial vegetables. 🥦💰 Listen now and take the first step toward living your best, financially-free life! Follow Auntie Buffie: Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/buffiepurselle) Twitter (https://x.com/auntieBuffie) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/therealbuffiepurselle/) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/@auntiebuffie) Learn more and grab Auntie Buffie’s book & course: [Click Here (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B09TX2RHP1/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tpbk_p1_i0)] Get Auntie Buffie's latest book to dive deeper into her life-changing advice on money, relationships, and more [Click Here (https://www.justbeingbuffie.com/course/)] Want to level up even faster? Check out Auntie Buffie’s course for in-depth lessons on mastering life, love, and finances Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review on Apple & Spotify! Your support helps Auntie Buffie continue to serve up the wisdom every week. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

2. 

   24 Dec 2024

   Ep. 9: Robbing Peter to Pay Paul

   In this insightful and entertaining episode of Crawl Before You Ball, Auntie Buffie dives deep into the fundamentals of distinguishing needs versus wants, creating balanced budgets, and taking control of your financial future. She shares practical strategies for debt reduction, improving credit scores, and the importance of incorporating "budgeted balling" into your life. This week, Auntie Buffie is joined by Chiffon, an international real estate agent with a fascinating journey. Together, they discuss navigating finances in a marriage with different spending habits, the significance of joint and individual accounts, and how to keep financial goals aligned with personal and family aspirations. Plus, Auntie answers listener questions about student loan repayment, increasing credit scores, and avoiding pitfalls like buy-now-pay-later schemes. Packed with laughter, real talk, and actionable advice, this episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to earn, save, ball occasionally—and repeat! Don't miss Auntie's signature blend of wisdom and wit—subscribe and join the Crawl Before You Ball movement today! Follow Auntie Buffie: Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/buffiepurselle) Twitter (https://x.com/auntieBuffie) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/therealbuffiepurselle/) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/@auntiebuffie) Learn more and grab Auntie Buffie’s book & course: [Click Here (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B09TX2RHP1/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tpbk_p1_i0)] Get Auntie Buffie's latest book to dive deeper into her life-changing advice on money, relationships, and more [Click Here (https://www.justbeingbuffie.com/course/)] Want to level up even faster? Check out Auntie Buffie’s course for in-depth lessons on mastering life, love, and finances Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review on Apple & Spotify! Your support helps Auntie Buffie continue to serve up the wisdom every week. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

3. 

   16 Dec 2024

   Ep. 8: You Can't Keep Up With the Jones'

   In this inspiring and heartfelt episode of Crawl Before You Ball, Auntie Buffie welcomes her fabulous niece and nephew, Nadege and Jude, for a candid discussion about building strong financial, emotional, and family foundations. From practical advice on maximizing 401(k)s and UTMA accounts to navigating the ups and downs of marriage, Auntie Buffie offers sage wisdom with her signature wit and compassion. Jude seeks guidance on balancing his superhero tendencies with family priorities, while Nadege opens up about overcoming personal trauma and fostering deeper connections in her marriage. Together, they discuss the importance of therapy, setting boundaries, and the power of mutual support. Auntie Buffie also dishes out some tough love about financial habits, encouraging listeners to invest in land, prioritize retirement savings, and ditch superficial spending. Plus, she tackles listener questions about escaping toxic relationships and disputing medical debt. This episode is a masterclass in preparing for the life you deserve while staying grounded, connected, and intentional. Grab a notebook and tune in for Auntie Buffie’s gems of wisdom! Follow Auntie Buffie: Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/buffiepurselle) Twitter (https://x.com/auntieBuffie) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/therealbuffiepurselle/) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/@auntiebuffie) Learn more and grab Auntie Buffie’s book & course: [Click Here (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B09TX2RHP1/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tpbk_p1_i0)] Get Auntie Buffie's latest book to dive deeper into her life-changing advice on money, relationships, and more [Click Here (https://www.justbeingbuffie.com/course/)] Want to level up even faster? Check out Auntie Buffie’s course for in-depth lessons on mastering life, love, and finances Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review on Apple & Spotify! Your support helps Auntie Buffie continue to serve up the wisdom every week. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

4. 

   9 Dec 2024

   Ep. 7: What the Nieces Need to Know

   In this empowering episode of Crawl Before You Ball, Auntie Buffie tackles the tough but necessary topics of caring for aging parents and safeguarding generational wealth. From navigating family dynamics to avoiding financial traps like reverse mortgages, Auntie Buffie offers her signature no-nonsense advice with a sprinkle of humor and love. Later, Auntie welcomes Jerilyn, a singer, songwriter, comedian, and advocate, for a candid conversation about the complexities of dating in today’s world. Together, they explore the challenges of setting boundaries, recognizing love-bombing, and managing societal pressures on relationships. Jerilyn shares her experiences of dating while successful and the importance of being intentional and realistic when choosing a partner. Packed with wisdom, laughs, and plenty of real talk, this episode delivers valuable lessons on family, finances, and finding meaningful connections in the modern dating scene. Don't miss this inspiring and relatable chat with your favorite auntie and her brilliant niece! Follow Auntie Buffie: Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/buffiepurselle) Twitter (https://x.com/auntieBuffie) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/therealbuffiepurselle/) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/@auntiebuffie) Learn more and grab Auntie Buffie’s book & course: [Click Here (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B09TX2RHP1/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tpbk_p1_i0)] Get Auntie Buffie's latest book to dive deeper into her life-changing advice on money, relationships, and more [Click Here (https://www.justbeingbuffie.com/course/)] Want to level up even faster? Check out Auntie Buffie’s course for in-depth lessons on mastering life, love, and finances Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review on Apple & Spotify! Your support helps Auntie Buffie continue to serve up the wisdom every week. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

5. 

   2 Dec 2024

   Ep. 6: Ballin' On a Budget

   In this episode of Crawl Before You Ball, Auntie Buffie sits down with Valeka to discuss how past financial mistakes impact our mental health, the importance of practicing "financial mental health," and ways to build wealth one step at a time. Auntie Buffie shares her best tips on avoiding high-interest debt, managing credit effectively, and leveraging resources for financial support. Highlights from this episode include: Auntie Buffie’s “financial mental health” practices and how to recover from financial trauma Advice on managing credit cards, avoiding scams, and why DIY credit repair may be your best option Valeka’s story of building a thriving notary business, Midtown Atlanta Notaries, and her advice on leveraging your network for success Practical steps for ensuring credit health and the dos and don’ts of co-signing or taking on others' financial obligations Tune in to hear Auntie Buffie and Valeka share empowering insights and actionable steps to reclaim financial peace and build a lasting legacy. Follow Auntie Buffie: Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/buffiepurselle) Twitter (https://x.com/auntieBuffie) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/therealbuffiepurselle/) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/@auntiebuffie) Learn more and grab Auntie Buffie’s book & course: [Click Here (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B09TX2RHP1/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tpbk_p1_i0)] Get Auntie Buffie's latest book to dive deeper into her life-changing advice on money, relationships, and more [Click Here (https://www.justbeingbuffie.com/course/)] Want to level up even faster? Check out Auntie Buffie’s course for in-depth lessons on mastering life, love, and finances Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review on Apple & Spotify! Your support helps Auntie Buffie continue to serve up the wisdom every week. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

6. 

   25 Nov 2024

   Ep. 5: Learn to Fight Fair

   In this week’s episode of Crawl Before You Ball, Auntie Buffie sits down with Sabine and Ejiro, a powerhouse couple dedicated to building wealth and uplifting their community. Together, they unpack the essentials of talking finances early in relationships, blending finances as a couple, and the unique aspects of managing a dual-business household. Highlights from this episode include: Why financial transparency matters in relationships and how to address red flags early on Sabine and Ejiro’s story of starting Brooklyn Funding Group and breaking ground as the first Black-owned private lending company in real estate Tips on balancing separate and joint finances, even when married Auntie Buffie’s take on setting up UTMA accounts for generational wealth and creating flexible financial plans for kids Join Auntie Buffie, Sabine, and Ejiro as they share powerful insights on securing a legacy, making wise investments, and navigating the challenges of business and family life. Follow Auntie Buffie: Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/buffiepurselle) Twitter (https://x.com/auntieBuffie) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/therealbuffiepurselle/) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/@auntiebuffie) Learn more and grab Auntie Buffie’s book & course: [Click Here (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B09TX2RHP1/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tpbk_p1_i0)] Get Auntie Buffie's latest book to dive deeper into her life-changing advice on money, relationships, and more [Click Here (https://www.justbeingbuffie.com/course/)] Want to level up even faster? Check out Auntie Buffie’s course for in-depth lessons on mastering life, love, and finances Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review on Apple & Spotify! Your support helps Auntie Buffie continue to serve up the wisdom every week. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

7. 

   18 Nov 2024

   Ep. 4: First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage

   In this episode of Crawl Before You Ball, Auntie Buffie welcomes newlyweds Naomi and Jordan to dive into the essentials of financial planning for couples. From managing joint finances to setting up trusts and planning generational wealth, Auntie Buffie guides Naomi and Jordan through the steps to secure their family’s financial future. Highlights from this episode include: The importance of open conversations about budgeting and finances in relationships How Naomi and Jordan are building generational wealth with custodial accounts, 529 plans, and life insurance Setting up trusts to protect assets and ensure peace of mind for loved ones Auntie Buffie’s advice on balancing independent and joint financial accounts for long-term success Join Auntie Buffie and her guests as they discuss the steps couples can take to create a strong financial foundation and keep future generations thriving. Follow Auntie Buffie: Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/buffiepurselle) Twitter (https://x.com/auntieBuffie) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/therealbuffiepurselle/) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/@auntiebuffie) Learn more and grab Auntie Buffie’s book & course: [Click Here (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B09TX2RHP1/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tpbk_p1_i0)] Get Auntie Buffie's latest book to dive deeper into her life-changing advice on money, relationships, and more [Click Here (https://www.justbeingbuffie.com/course/)] Want to level up even faster? Check out Auntie Buffie’s course for in-depth lessons on mastering life, love, and finances Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review on Apple & Spotify! Your support helps Auntie Buffie continue to serve up the wisdom every week. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

8. 

   11 Nov 2024

   Ep. 3: Flag On The Play

   In this week’s episode of Crawl Before You Ball, Auntie Buffie digs deep into financial red flags that everyone should be aware of when dating or considering marriage. From bad credit to living an Instagram lifestyle they can’t afford, Auntie Buffie gives practical advice on spotting warning signs and addressing them before co-mingling finances. 💸 Highlights from this episode include: Why multiple baby mamas/daddies and financial secrecy are red flags 🚩 How to budget your time and money as a couple while navigating entrepreneurship 💼 Tips on keeping the spark alive while balancing work, love, and family life 🔥 Auntie Buffie also chats with newlyweds Kayla and Garin about balancing entrepreneurship, budgeting time, and keeping the love strong while preparing for their first child. 💖 Follow Auntie Buffie: Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/buffiepurselle) Twitter (https://x.com/auntieBuffie) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/therealbuffiepurselle/) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/@auntiebuffie) Learn more and grab Auntie Buffie’s book & course: [Click Here (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B09TX2RHP1/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tpbk_p1_i0)] Get Auntie Buffie's latest book to dive deeper into her life-changing advice on money, relationships, and more [Click Here (https://www.justbeingbuffie.com/course/)] Want to level up even faster? Check out Auntie Buffie’s course for in-depth lessons on mastering life, love, and finances Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review on Apple & Spotify! Your support helps Auntie Buffie continue to serve up the wisdom every week. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

9. 

   4 Nov 2024

   Ep. 2: Auntie Ain't Raise No Fool

   In this week’s episode of Crawl Before You Ball, Auntie Buffie sits down with newlyweds Tracy and Eric to discuss the complexities of balancing love, life, and finances. From navigating food budgets to managing expectations about kids, this episode is filled with practical tips for any couple trying to find their groove. Highlights from this episode include: How to handle meal planning and budgeting without guilt 🍽️💸 Setting healthy boundaries with family and friends when it comes to questions about having kids 👶🏽 The importance of financial automation and why it can be a game-changer for busy couples 💡 Tune in to hear how Tracy and Eric have learned to blend their lifestyles, set financial goals, and support each other on this journey of marriage. Follow Auntie Buffie: Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/buffiepurselle) Twitter (https://x.com/auntieBuffie) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/therealbuffiepurselle/) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/@auntiebuffie) Learn more and grab Auntie Buffie’s book & course: [Click Here (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B09TX2RHP1/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tpbk_p1_i0)] Get Auntie Buffie's latest book to dive deeper into her life-changing advice on money, relationships, and more [Click Here (https://www.justbeingbuffie.com/course/)] Want to level up even faster? Check out Auntie Buffie’s course for in-depth lessons on mastering life, love, and finances Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review on Apple & Spotify! Your support helps Auntie Buffie continue to serve up the wisdom every week. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

10. 

    28 Oct 2024

    Ep. 1: Til Debt Do We Part

    In the first episode of Crawl Before You Ball, Auntie Buffie kicks off the series with a powerful discussion on planning for the future—while keeping the spark alive in your relationships! This episode is packed with practical advice on everything from choosing the right life insurance to creating a will, and even how to maintain that “spicy” energy with your partner💃🏽 Highlights from this episode include: Why life insurance isn’t just for “old folks” 🧓🏽 The essential steps to creating a will that reflects your wishes 📝 Fun tips on how to keep your marriage spicy after decades together 💍🔥 Plus, Auntie Buffie sits down with viral couple Ms. Rita and Mr. Theodore, who share their secrets to a 43-year marriage that’s stronger (and spicier) than ever! Tune in for their invaluable advice on love, money, and planning for the future 🌶️ Guest Contact Information: Ms. Rita & Mr. Theodore (https://www.instagram.com/bad_girl_riri504/) Follow Auntie Buffie: Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/buffiepurselle) Twitter (https://x.com/auntieBuffie) Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/therealbuffiepurselle/) YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/@auntiebuffie) Learn more and grab Auntie Buffie’s book & course: [Click Here (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B09TX2RHP1/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_hsch_vapi_tpbk_p1_i0)] Get Auntie Buffie's latest book to dive deeper into her life-changing advice on money, relationships, and more [Click Here (https://www.justbeingbuffie.com/course/)] Want to level up even faster? Check out Auntie Buffie’s course for in-depth lessons on mastering life, love, and finances Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review on Apple & Spotify! Your support helps Auntie Buffie continue to serve up the wisdom every week. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

11. 

    18 Oct 2024

    Auntie Has A Podcast!

    Crawl Before You Ball: Love, Relationships & Money is a podcast dedicated to empowering couples to navigate the complex world of finances together. Financial expert Buffie Purselle hosts the show and offers practical advice, real-life stories, and expert insights to strengthen relationships and economic futures. Buffie's unique approach combines her expertise in finance with her warm and relatable personality. She delivers Auntie Know's best guidance on love and finances, offering practical tips and strategies that can be applied to any relationship stage. From single and dating to engaged, married, divorced, or widowed, the podcast caters to couples at all stages of life. What to expect: Expert insights: Hear from financial experts, relationship counselors, and other professionals who share their knowledge and experience on various topics related to money and relationships. Real-life stories: Discover how real couples have overcome financial challenges, built wealth together, and strengthened their relationships through financial understanding and cooperation. Auntie knows best guidance: Benefit from Buffie's wisdom and experience as she offers advice and encouragement based on her own life and the experiences of her listeners. Join us on this journey of financial empowerment and relationship growth. Crawl Before You Ball is your go-to resource for navigating the complex world of money and love together. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy (https://acast.com/privacy) for more information.

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