Struggling to fix the distance in your marriage - even though you’ve tried everything?
You’re not alone. This podcast is for high-achieving men who want more intimacy, better communication, and a stronger emotional connection with their wives.
I’m Alisa, a certified relationship coach for men. I help husbands stop chasing sex and start creating real connection.
Each week, you’ll get straight-talking, practical advice to help you feel more respected, appreciated, and connected at home. Whether you’re dealing with emotional disconnection, constant tension, or feeling unwanted - this podcast will help.
You don’t need to walk on eggshells.
You need a better way forward.
And I’ll show you how.
She Didn't Stop Trying. She Stopped Begging. (Encore) | Ep 79
Encore episode. If your wife has stopped reaching for you, it likely started long before you noticed.
This episode is back because men keep telling me it named something they couldn't. It's about what she was living through while the marriage felt quiet to you: the asking, the escalating, and the moment she stopped.
In this episode, you'll hear:
- How emotional distance starts in small, everyday moments
- Why her attempts to reconnect began to feel like pressure
- Why sex fades long after emotional connection does
- Why the moment you notice the distance is not when it began
- What it takes to become an active partner again
Join me live for a free webinar, "What She Stopped Saying," on Wednesday, November 11 at 1pm PT / 2pm MT / 3pm CT / 4pm ET.
Save your seat. https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/open-call-registration (https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/open-call-registration)
🎧 Listen to all episodes at https://alisastoddard.com/podcast (https://alisastoddard.com/podcast)
💬 Want help figuring this out in your own relationship? Access my free Intimacy Training: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/opt-in (https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/opt-in)
Book a Relationship Clarity Call: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/podcast-scheduling-page (https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/podcast-scheduling-page)
Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. Find out more at https://alisastoddard.com/ (https://alisastoddard.com/)
23 Oct 2026
You Haven't Done Anything. You're Afraid You Will | Ep 78
You haven't done anything. But you're afraid you might.
Maybe you check your phone hoping a particular name shows up. Maybe you feel more like yourself in twenty minutes with someone else than you have in months at home. Or maybe you've crossed this line before, and you recognize where this goes.
In this episode, we'll cover what that fear is actually telling you, and why the pull toward someone else is rarely about her.
You'll hear:
- Why living like roommates leads to numbness, and why numbness doesn't stay put
- Why feeling alive with someone new feels like clarity, and why it isn't
- What a relationship with no history offers, and what it can't tell you
- What men who've strayed before need to know about rules, shame, and secrecy
- The stories that keep the door open, and a simple test that cuts through them
- Why the moment before you act is the moment you have the most choice
Join me live for a free webinar, "What She Stopped Saying," on Wednesday, November 11 at 1pm PT / 2pm MT / 3pm CT / 4pm ET.
Save your seat. https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/open-call-registration (https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/open-call-registration)
🎧 Listen to all episodes at https://alisastoddard.com/podcast (https://alisastoddard.com/podcast)
💬 Want help figuring this out in your own relationship? Access my free Intimacy Training: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/opt-in (https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/opt-in)
Book a Relationship Clarity Call: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/podcast-scheduling-page (https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/podcast-scheduling-page)
Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. Find out more at https://alisastoddard.com/ (https://alisastoddard.com/)
16 Oct 2026
"Just Tell Me What to Do" (and Why It Backfires) | Ep 77
"Just tell me what to do. I'll do anything." You meant it. So why did she look more tired instead of relieved?
In this episode, we'll look at why that offer so often lands as more work for her, and what's missing when a man is doing more around the house but nothing between you is changing.
You'll hear:
- Why asking for a list leaves her holding the mental load
- The unspoken deal between chores and intimacy, and why it was never real
- Why "I can't read her mind" reveals who has been carrying the household
- What it means to finish a task through completion
- Why her trust depends on your follow-through over time, not one good week
- What real buy-in to a shared life looks like
I'm hosting a free live webinar on Tuesday, October 20 at 12pm PT / 1pm MT / 2pm CT / 3pm ET.
Save your spot here: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/open-call-registration (https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/open-call-registration)
🎧 Listen to all episodes at https://alisastoddard.com/podcast (https://alisastoddard.com/podcast)
💬 Want help figuring this out in your own relationship? Access my free Intimacy Training: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/opt-in (https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/opt-in)
Book a Relationship Clarity Call: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/podcast-scheduling-page (https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/podcast-scheduling-page)
Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. Find out more at https://alisastoddard.com/ (https://alisastoddard.com/)
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