Tune in for quick, powerful insights from the world’s top relationship experts and master the art of connection in just minutes a week. In bite-sized episodes, you’ll learn practical strategies for improving your relationships with partners, family, friends, colleagues, and yourself. We believe relational skills aren't a luxury—they're essential—and we're here to make transformative relationship wisdom accessible to everyone.
#015: The Biggest Mistake Couples Make After Having Kids - Dr. Stan Tatkin
Psychologist Stan Tatkin discusses with Mark Groves the common pitfalls couples encounter after childbirth, highlighting the importance of co-regulation for maintaining a strong relationship, in this interview.
1 Jul 2025
#014: Love Is Who You Are, Not What You Seek
Mark Groves explores the fear of commitment, explaining it stems from distrusting love and one's capacity to embrace it, ultimately advocating for self-devotion.
24 Jun 2025
#013: Your Trigger is Your Medicine with Rachel Fiori
Mark Groves interviews Rachel Fiori, CEO of Masters of Self University, about using personal triggers as medicine and reframing trauma for transformation, encouraging listeners to take aligned action for authentic healing.
17 Jun 2025
#012: You’re Not Too Much—You’re Just Asking the Wrong People with Jeff Guenther
Licensed therapist Jeff Guenther discusses attachment styles and self-awareness in dating with Mark Groves, encouraging listeners to embrace vulnerability and recognize emotional patterns in relationships in this interview.
10 Jun 2025
#011: Manifestation Without the Bullsh*t with Lacy Phillips
Mark Groves interviews Lacy Phillips, manifestation expert, who reveals how subconscious beliefs hinder abundance and how to reprogram them using neural manifestation, ultimately reclaiming innate magnetism.
3 Jun 2025
#010 How Structured Dialogue Can Heal Your Relationship With Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt
Relationship experts Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt discuss structured dialogue as a tool to transform conflict into connection and create relational safety in an interview with Mark Groves.
27 May 2025
#009 Attachment Styles Explained With Silvy Khoucasian
Relationship coach Silvy Khoucasian discusses attachment theory with Mark Groves, explaining how early experiences impact adult relationships and offering insights for fostering secure connections in this interview episode.
20 May 2025
#008: Solo - Reclaim Yourself: How to Stop People-Pleasing and Start Choosing You
In this powerful solo episode, Mark challenges listeners to break free from people-pleasing, reclaim their identity, and make soul-aligned choices that reflect true self-love. With raw honesty, he explores how relationships can be a mirror for growth and a catalyst for transformation—if we're willing to choose discomfort over conformity. This is your call to rise, to stand in your truth, and to create the life and love you truly deserve.
Links:
Website: www.createthelove.com (https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/16f3d9d6-1fd1-11ee-8cce-d7a864759a05/podcasts/ad852daa-0b48-11f0-b007-239551db01bf/episodes/7d09ae1c-0e59-11f0-9ca2-4391c4dba273/www.createthelove.com)
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Mark's Book: www.markgroves.com/book (https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/16f3d9d6-1fd1-11ee-8cce-d7a864759a05/podcasts/ad852daa-0b48-11f0-b007-239551db01bf/episodes/7d09ae1c-0e59-11f0-9ca2-4391c4dba273/www.markgroves.com/book)
How to Stop Chasing Unavailable People: https://markgroves.com/stopchasing (https://markgroves.com/stopchasing)
13 May 2025
#007: Unmasking High Functioning Codependency with Terri Cole
In this episode, Mark sits down with psychotherapist and author Terri Cole to dissect the misunderstood concept of codependency—specifically the overlooked phenomenon of high-functioning codependency. With raw honesty and clinical insight, Terri challenges listeners to reconsider their own behaviors, revealing how being overly invested in others’ emotions, choices, and outcomes can mask a covert quest for control rooted in childhood survival strategies. Whether you’re constantly offering unsolicited advice or excusing toxic behavior, this conversation unpacks how self-abandonment and adaptive dysfunctions silently erode our capacity for intimacy. Prepare to be called in—and called out.
Terri's Links:
Terri’s Book: https://hfcbook.com/ (https://hfcbook.com/)
Terri’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/terricole/ (https://www.instagram.com/terricole/)
Terri’s Website: https://www.terricole.com/ (https://www.terricole.com/)
Terri & Mark’s Crushing Codependency Course: https://crushcodependency.com/mark (https://crushcodependency.com/mark)
CTL Links:
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Mark's Book: www.markgroves.com/book (https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/16f3d9d6-1fd1-11ee-8cce-d7a864759a05/podcasts/ad852daa-0b48-11f0-b007-239551db01bf/episodes/7d09ae1c-0e59-11f0-9ca2-4391c4dba273/www.markgroves.com/book)
Get our Relationship Toolkit: How to Thrive in Your Relationships: https://markgroves.com/relationshipmastery (https://markgroves.com/relationshipmastery)
6 May 2025
#006 From Fairy Tales to Reality: Navigating Relationship Truths with Sheleana Aiyana
In this episode of Create the Love, Mark Groves sits down with Sheleana Aiyana to dig into why we repeat relationship patterns—and how to finally break them. They unpack childhood wounds, attachment styles, and the difference between falling into love and consciously choosing it. If you've ever said, "Why do I keep dating the same person?"—this one's for you.
Sheleana Aiyana is the founder of Rising Woman, a growing community of more than 3 million readers. Her training and immersion in couples facilitation, inherited family trauma, family systems, conscious relationship, somatic healing, and plant medicines inform her holistic approach to seeing relationships as a spiritual path. More than 30,000 women in 146 countries have taken her flagship program Becoming the One.
Sheleana Aiyana | Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/sheleanaaiyana/?hl=en)
Rising Woman | Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/risingwoman/)
Rising Woman | Website (https://risingwoman.com/)
Becoming the One: Heal Your Past, Transform Your Relationship Patterns, and Come Home to Yourself (https://www.amazon.com/Becoming-One-Transform-Relationship-Patterns/dp/1797211676)
CTL Links:
Website: www.createthelove.com (https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/16f3d9d6-1fd1-11ee-8cce-d7a864759a05/podcasts/ad852daa-0b48-11f0-b007-239551db01bf/episodes/7d09ae1c-0e59-11f0-9ca2-4391c4dba273/www.createthelove.com)
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Mark's Book: www.markgroves.com/book (https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/16f3d9d6-1fd1-11ee-8cce-d7a864759a05/podcasts/ad852daa-0b48-11f0-b007-239551db01bf/episodes/7d09ae1c-0e59-11f0-9ca2-4391c4dba273/www.markgroves.com/book)
Get our Relationship Toolkit: How to Thrive in Your Relationships: https://markgroves.com/relationshipmastery (https://markgroves.com/relationshipmastery)
29 Apr 2025
#005: Why We Run From Love—and How to Stop with John Kim and Vanessa Bennett
In this solo episode, I sit down with real-life couple and therapists Jon Kim and Vanessa Bennett to unpack the messy, beautiful reality of modern relationships. From rocky beginnings and one-foot-out-the-door moments to learning how to see beauty in our differences, we explore what it takes to truly do life with someone—not at or around them. We talk about avoidant tendencies, attachment triggers, and how old wounds show up in conflict, all while keeping it raw, real, and deeply human. Whether you’re single, dating, or deep in partnership, this episode will have you reflecting hard and laughing a little too.
Links:
John's Instagram: www.instagram.com/theangrytherapist
Vanessa's Instagram: www.instagram.com/vanessasbennett
CTL Links:
Website: www.createthelove.com (https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/16f3d9d6-1fd1-11ee-8cce-d7a864759a05/podcasts/ad852daa-0b48-11f0-b007-239551db01bf/episodes/7d09ae1c-0e59-11f0-9ca2-4391c4dba273/www.createthelove.com)
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Mark's Book: www.markgroves.com/book (https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/16f3d9d6-1fd1-11ee-8cce-d7a864759a05/podcasts/ad852daa-0b48-11f0-b007-239551db01bf/episodes/7d09ae1c-0e59-11f0-9ca2-4391c4dba273/www.markgroves.com/book)
Get our Relationship Toolkit: How to Thrive in Your Relationships: https://markgroves.com/relationshipmastery (https://markgroves.com/relationshipmastery)
—How are your Nervous System + Attachment Style connected? https://markgroves.com/connectthedots (https://markgroves.com/connectthedots)
22 Apr 2025
#004: Redefining Masculinity: Why Men Must Look Deeper With Bryan Reeves
In this heart-opening episode of the Create the Love podcast, Mark Groves sits down with Bryan Reeves for a raw, no-holds-barred conversation about modern masculinity, emotional depth, and what it really takes to thrive in a relationship. They unpack the social conditioning that teaches men to suppress the very skills needed for deep connection, and explore the radical idea of choosing your partner—and yourself—every single day. From advocating for conscious endings to reframing relationships as invitations, not obligations, this episode is a soulful call to own your choices, stand in your truth, and create love with intention.
Bryan Reeves is a former U.S. Air Force Captain turned renowned relationship coach, author, and speaker who helps men and couples navigate the complexities of modern love with clarity and heart. With a masterful blend of lived experience, emotional wisdom, and grounded insight, Bryan empowers individuals to break free from outdated paradigms of masculinity and create deeply connected, conscious relationships. He’s the author of Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her) and the voice behind the Men, This Way podcast, guiding thousands toward more authentic, soulful partnerships.
Bryan's Links:
Website: https://bryanreeves.com/
Book: https://bryanreeves.com/book/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bryanreevesinsight/
CTL Links:
Website: www.createthelove.com (https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/16f3d9d6-1fd1-11ee-8cce-d7a864759a05/podcasts/ad852daa-0b48-11f0-b007-239551db01bf/episodes/7d09ae1c-0e59-11f0-9ca2-4391c4dba273/www.createthelove.com)
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Mark's Book: www.markgroves.com/book (https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/16f3d9d6-1fd1-11ee-8cce-d7a864759a05/podcasts/ad852daa-0b48-11f0-b007-239551db01bf/episodes/7d09ae1c-0e59-11f0-9ca2-4391c4dba273/www.markgroves.com/book)
Get our Relationship Toolkit: How to Thrive in Your Relationships: https://markgroves.com/relationshipmastery (https://markgroves.com/relationshipmastery)
Learn How to Stop Chasing Unavailable People: https://markgroves.com/stopchasing (https://markgroves.com/stopchasing)
15 Apr 2025
#003: Shifting Blame to Bravery: Dr. Alexandra Solomon on Relational Self-Awareness
Mark is joined by Dr. Alexandra Solomon to unpack the power of relational self-awareness and how it transforms romantic connections. They tackle the challenges of receiving feedback—especially for men—and how societal conditioning can block growth and intimacy. Instead of placing blame, they explore how understanding relational dynamics leads to deeper, more authentic bonds. The conversation closes with a powerful reminder: who we are in relationships isn’t fixed, but ever-evolving through connection.
For nearly three decades, Dr. Alexandra H. Solomon has become one of today’s most trusted voices in the world of relationships, and her work on Relational Self-Awareness has reached millions of people around the world. Dr. Alexandra is a licensed clinical psychologist who trained, taught, supervised, and worked at The Family Institute at Northwestern University for nearly 30 years. She is the founder of the Institute for Relational Self-Awareness (IRSA) where she maintains a clinical practice with individuals, couples, and adult family systems.
Dr. Alexandra's Links:
Website: https://dralexandrasolomon.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.alexandra.solomon/
Loving Bravely Book: https://a.co/d/19AEUXR
Create The Love Links:
Website: www.createthelove.com (https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/16f3d9d6-1fd1-11ee-8cce-d7a864759a05/podcasts/ad852daa-0b48-11f0-b007-239551db01bf/episodes/7d09ae1c-0e59-11f0-9ca2-4391c4dba273/www.createthelove.com)
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Mark's Book: www.markgroves.com/book (https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/16f3d9d6-1fd1-11ee-8cce-d7a864759a05/podcasts/ad852daa-0b48-11f0-b007-239551db01bf/episodes/7d09ae1c-0e59-11f0-9ca2-4391c4dba273/www.markgroves.com/book)
Get our Relationship Toolkit: How to Thrive in Your Relationships: https://markgroves.com/relationshipmastery (https://markgroves.com/relationshipmastery)
15 Apr 2025
#002: Navigating Love: Sarah Baldwin on Attachment Theory & Relationship Patterns
In this episode, Mark Groves and Sarah Baldwin dive into how attachment theory and childhood experiences shape our adult relationships. They explore why we’re drawn to emotionally unavailable partners, how early neglect wires our nervous system, and why these patterns aren’t flaws—but protective mechanisms.
Sarah Baldwin is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and trauma-trained Life Coach specializing in trauma, attachment dynamics, and nervous system health. Known for her approachable teaching style, Sarah helps individuals understand how early experiences shape adult attachment patterns, influencing emotional responses and relational behaviors.
Sarah Baldwin's Links:
Sarah’s Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/sarahbcoaching/)
Sarah’s Website (https://www.sarahbaldwincoaching.com/)
Create The Love Links:
Website: www.createthelove.com (https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/16f3d9d6-1fd1-11ee-8cce-d7a864759a05/podcasts/ad852daa-0b48-11f0-b007-239551db01bf/episodes/7d09ae1c-0e59-11f0-9ca2-4391c4dba273/www.createthelove.com)
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Mark's Book: www.markgroves.com/book (https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/16f3d9d6-1fd1-11ee-8cce-d7a864759a05/podcasts/ad852daa-0b48-11f0-b007-239551db01bf/episodes/7d09ae1c-0e59-11f0-9ca2-4391c4dba273/www.markgroves.com/book)
How are your Nervous System + Attachment Style connected? Get our guide: https://markgroves.com/connectthedots (https://markgroves.com/connectthedots)
15 Apr 2025
#001: Welcome To The Create The Love Podcast
Embark on a journey of relational transformation with Mark Groves in the inaugural episode of the "Create the Love" podcast. Mark, a passionate advocate for relationship education, and founder of Relational Wellness Company, "Create The Love," introduces listeners to the profound impact that mastering the art of relating can have on overall life quality. With a focus on romantic relationships, he reveals how these connections serve as mirrors, reflecting personal growth areas and opportunities for healing. This episode sets the stage for a podcast dedicated to equipping you with the tools to enhance your relationships, regardless of your past experiences.
Welcome, to the Create The Love Podcast! We are so glad you're here.
Links:
Website: www.createthelove.com (https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/16f3d9d6-1fd1-11ee-8cce-d7a864759a05/podcasts/ad852daa-0b48-11f0-b007-239551db01bf/episodes/7d09ae1c-0e59-11f0-9ca2-4391c4dba273/www.createthelove.com)
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Mark's Book: www.markgroves.com/book (https://cms.megaphone.fm/organizations/16f3d9d6-1fd1-11ee-8cce-d7a864759a05/podcasts/ad852daa-0b48-11f0-b007-239551db01bf/episodes/7d09ae1c-0e59-11f0-9ca2-4391c4dba273/www.markgroves.com/book)
Get our Relationship Toolkit: How to Thrive in Your Relationships: https://markgroves.com/relationshipmastery (https://markgroves.com/relationshipmastery)
2 Apr 2025
Create The Love Podcast: Trailer
Welcome to the Create The Love Podcast, hosted by Mark Groves. Expect weekly "bite sized" relationship content from the greatest Relationship Teachers of all time.
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