I love sending voice notes to friends, sharing those thoughts that feel too big for text. That's what these are - morning reflections and gentle reminders about finding light in unexpected places. I record these pieces after writing them, sharing thoughts about growth, healing, and discovering magic in the mundane. Some mornings they're polished, other times they're raw - but they're always real.
Whether you listen with morning coffee, during an evening walk, or anytime you need a reminder to look for sparkles - I'm happy you're here.
Part of the Daily Sparkles journey, including my newsletter and upcoming book "Daily Sparkies: Illuminating Your Life With 1000 Glimmers" (March 2025)
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Episode Overview: You all voted for this episode topic, and I decided to give you both of the most popular requests! In this dual-themed episode, I'm sharing five unexpected lessons from my divorce journey, woven together with personal interludes that reveal sides of me beyond the healing content you usually see. From the anticlimactic moment of receiving my divorce email to discovering the power of self-permission, these lessons completely caught me off guard during my healing process.
I also open up about parts of my life you might not know - my British roots, theater background, sacred nightly ritual involving Bob's Burgers and crossword puzzles, and so much more. Plus, I share a vulnerable dating update about what it feels like to slowly open my heart again.
The Five Unexpected Lessons:
The anticlimactic nature of closure
Speaking your truth is healing, not harmful
Self-permission is more powerful than external validation
Healing isn't linear
The path forward is about values, not timelines
Personal Interludes:
My theater background and British roots
Why I was the library kid who skipped recess
My sacred nightly routine (complete with skylight projector!)
Five random facts about me you'd never guess
A dating update
This Week's Content:
Five journal prompts based on the lessons shared
Five current glimmers from my life
Book event updates and upcoming tour news
Connect with me:
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Get the book: "Daily Sparkles: Illuminating Your Life With 1000 Glimmers (https://bit.ly/m/buydailysparkles)" is available everywhere books are sold, including Target, Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and Bookshop.org (https://support.anthropic.com/en/articles/8525154-claude-is-providing-incorrect-or-misleading-responses-what-s-going-on).
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9 May 2025
The 52 Dates Project: Week 19
In today's episode of Daily Sparkles, I share my latest update on the 52 Dates Project. In this episode, I get a bit vulnerable about where I am in my journey and share some personal news!
What I Cover in This Episode:
Why I started the 52 Dates Project (2023 was surviving, 2024 was healing, and 2025 is putting that healing into action)
My favorite dates so far: joining a fantasy book club, my first post-divorce date, and taking a self-defense class
The biggest lesson I've learned: "walking through the door" is always the hardest part
How I'm approaching each experience as "data collection" rather than pass/fail
Building community through courage and expanding my circle after intentionally keeping it small
Finding joy in unexpected places and giving myself permission to be happy
A personal update about exploring a new connection with someone who's been in my life for the past two years
Favorite Quote:
"For the first time in two years, I'm giving myself time to explore this before sharing it on the internet. It feels like growth. It feels like healing. It feels like self-respect."
Journal Prompts:
Trust & Courage: Think about a moment when you hesitated to walk through a door (literal or metaphorical), but did it anyway. What did you learn about yourself?
Selective Vulnerability: Where in your life might you benefit from keeping some things private as they develop? How does it feel to protect something precious while it grows?
Finding Joy: What unexpected glimmers have appeared recently that remind you of your capacity for happiness?
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17 Apr 2025
The Paradox of Protection and Creation
In today's episode, I'm sharing a realization on "the trauma paradox": how we can simultaneously protect ourselves from future pain while still creating a meaningful life right now.
I explore how, after trauma (like my divorce), our brains create protective mechanisms to help us survive. While these are necessary at first, what initially protects us can eventually imprison us. I also discuss how finding glimmers becomes essential in this process. When we're dealing with trauma aftermath, we often can't see the big picture, but those tiny moments of joy or calm sustain us until larger healing happens.
My upcoming book: "Daily Sparkles: Illuminate Your Life With 1000 Glimmers (http://geni.us/DailySparkles)"
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Remember: Healing and creating can happen simultaneously. You don't have to choose. You can embrace the paradox and find your power there. Keep seeking the sparkles!
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