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Think you've had a bad date? Wait till you listen to our viewer submitted stories on everything from first dates gone wrong to being catfished and all the perils from Tinder, Grindr, Hinge and yes even Bumble.
Co-hosts Justin Matters and Chris Northover discuss the theme of the month whether it be anonymous profiles, transphobia, racism and we are joined by sexuality expert Robert Grigor to answer your burning questions!
Not to be missed, this podcast will enable you to make smarter, safer choices in the online dating space.
#5 - Little Monsters | The Worst Dating / Hookup / Sex / Love Stories You've Never Heard Before
Welcome back to Date or Disaster: The Worst Dating/Hookup/Sex/Love Stories You've Never Heard Before.
In this series, my co-hosts Chris Northover, Robert Grigor and I read out your submitted stories on your worst experiences when it comes to love, dating, sex, hook-ups, relationships and everything in between.
For this episode, I will be discussing my experiences regarding Lady Gaga and my various hook-ups, relationships and flings that have happened indirectly because of the global superstar. I also read out your submitted stories.
Robert and Chris unfortunately won't be joining me this episode as I recorded this on a whim.
Chapters
00:00 - Lady Gaga
02:31 - Bad Romance
08:17 - LoveGame
14:27 - Vanish Into You
27:36 Thank you for listening and Xmas Tree
27 Oct 2023
Date or Disaster #4 - Red Flags | The Worst Dating / Hookup / Love Stories
Welcome back to Date or Disaster: The Worst Dating/Hookup/Sex/Love Stories You've Never Heard Before.
In this series, my co-hosts Chris Northover, Robert Grigor and I read out your submitted stories on your worst experiences when it comes to love, dating, sex, hook-ups, relationships and everything in between.
For this episode, we are discussing the concept of red flags, what concerning behaviour should you look out for and what have our viewers experienced?
About the hosts
Justin Matters is a Digital Marketing Specialist and Podcaster who also helms The Complete Guide to Horror Movies.
Chris Northover is a media extraordinaire co-hosting and co-producing Queer Stories on the Swan.
Robert Grigor is a sexuality expert who has undergraduate degrees in sociology and psychology, a Masters in Sexual Health and currently works as a community health educator in clinical settings.
CHAPTERS
00:00 Intro
02:14 Red Flags
03:22 Chris's Red Flags
04:50 Robert's Red Flags
06:11 Justin's Red Flags
07:37 Taylor Swift
08:49 Slide in my DMs
09:14 DM 1 Single as a Pringle
11:09 DM 2 TransAction
13:59 DM 3 Don't Ask, Don't Novotel
15:34 DM 4 Gumtree
17:28 DM 5 Coffs Harbour
20:02 DM 6 Dealer Bust
23:14 Which Stories Are Mine
32:35 Unqualified Vs. Sexpert Advice
32:56 Question 1 - Should I date or dump this guy?
36:14 Question 2 - Are there safer ways to do auto-erotic asphyxiation?
39:47 Question 3 - Am I the Asshole?
42:50 Question 4 - My girlfriend leaked our sex tape to her Onlyfans, what should I do?
46:39 Justin's odyssey of being single in 2023
1:03:03 Thank you for tuning in
1:03:35 Queer Stories on the Swan
1:03:41 Gameboy
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21 Apr 2023
Date or Disaster #3 - Heartbreak and Revenge | The Worst Dating / Hookup / Sex / Love Stories
Welcome back to Date or Disaster: The Worst Dating/Hookup/Sex/Love Stories You've Never Heard Before.
In this series, my co-hosts Chris Northover, Robert Grigor and I read out your submitted stories on your worst experiences when it comes to love, dating, sex, hook-ups, relationships and everything in between.
For this episode, we are discussing the concept of heartbreak, revenge and rebounds.
About the hosts
Justin Matters is a Digital Marketing Specialist and Podcaster who also helms The Complete Guide to Horror Movies.
Chris Northover is a media extraordinaire co-hosting and co-producing Queer Stories on the Swan.
Robert Grigor is a sexuality expert who has undergraduate degrees in sociology and psychology, a Masters in Sexual Health and currently works as a community health educator in clinical settings.
Chapters
00:00 Intro
00:30 Introducing Co-Hosts Chris Northover and Robert Grigor
02:46 Heartbreak and Revenge
04:32 Chris's First Heartbreak
08:17 Robert's First Heartbreak
10:12 The Crabs
11:13 Bisexuality and Bi-erasure
16:28 Justin's First Heartbreak
20:30 Justin's Revenge (Part I)
22:46 Have Chris and Robert Exacted Revenge on an Ex?
23:32 Justin's Shitty Revenge (Part II)
27:41 Justin Runs Into His Ex in Melbourne
28:40 Slide in my DMs
30:02 DM 1 F**kboy
31:59 DM 2 LesBeLovers
35:41 DM 3 SloppySeconds
41:40 DM 4 QueenB***h
45:39 DM 5 BiBro
48:37 Bragging Vs. Humblebragging
51:12 Who Reported My Photo of Me Kissing Adore Delano?
53:12 Which Stories Are Mine
1:03:30 Unqualified Vs. Sexpert Advice
1:03:53 Question 1 - How Do I Get Over Heartbreak?
1:06:02 Question 2 - Can I Be Friends With an Ex?
1:08:55 Question 3 - How Do I Break the News I've Cheated & How Do I Get Over the Guy I Cheated With?
1:13:44 Question 4 - I Slept With My Ex's New Partner, Do I Tell My Ex?
1:16:33 Question 5 - What are the Best Apps to Explore My Sexuality?
1:26:55 Thank You to Co-Hosts Chris and Robert
1:27:31 My First Date Post-Breakup
1:33:03 Funny Tinder Exchange
1:35:15 Send Us Your Questions and Submissions!
1:35:41 A Tribute to My Ex's
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24 Mar 2023
Date or Disaster #2 - Boundaries and the Beast | The Worst Dating/Hookup/Sex/Love Stories You've Never Heard Before
Welcome to Date or Disaster: The Worst Dating/Hookup/Sex/Love Stories You've Never Heard Before.
In this series, my co-host Chris Northover and I read out your submitted stories on your worst experiences when it comes to love, dating, sex, hook-ups, relationships and everything in between.
For this episode, we are discussing the concept of boundaries.
I also share my own horrifying experiences including both my best and worst experiences from 2022 that are strong examples of how respecting boundaries can go incredible and how breaking boundaries can be awful.
We are also lucky to be joined by Robert Grigor, a sexuality expert who has undergraduate degrees in sociology and psychology, a Masters in Sexual Health and currently works as a community health educator in clinical settings. Robert joins us to answer your burning questions on everything from love, sex, hook-ups and more!
Chapters
00:00 Intro
02:42 What Are Boundaries?
10:00 The Guy Who Always Wanted to Sleep with a Podcaster
20:30 Slide In My DM's
21:20 DM 1 Blonde Bombshell
29:48 DM 2 VersKing
40:13 DM 3 BartenderLove
54:26 DM 4 Nambucca Heads High School Musical
1:02:04 DM 5 SpeedDater
1:16:05 Justin's story
1:24:27 Unqualified vs. Sexpert Advice
1:24:57 Question 1
1:31:52 Question 2
1:36:41 Question 3
1:42:04 Question 4
1:47:49 How I Nearly Got Date Raped By a Mark Latham Lookalike
2:01:11 My Best Hookup of All Time
2:07:36 PSA to Str8 Men
2:09:51 Thank You & Send Us Your Stories!
2:11:12 A Delusional Encounter I Had With a Twink
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10 Feb 2023
Date or Disaster #1 - Catfishing and Anonymous Profiles | The Worst Dating/Hookup/Sex/Love Stories You've Never Heard Before
Welcome to Date or Disaster: The Worst Dating/Hookup/Sex/Love Stories You've Never Heard Before
In this series, my co-host Chris Northover and I read out your submitted stories on your worst experiences when it comes to love, dating, sex, hook-ups, relationships and everything in between.
For this episode, we are discussing the concepts of catfishing and anonymous/discreet profiles.
I also share my own horrifying experiences including exposing my on-going catfish stalker who has assaulted me over the past 10 years.
We are also lucky to be joined by Robert Grigor, a sexuality expert who has undergraduate degrees in sociology and psychology, a Masters in Sexual Health and currently works as a community health educator in clinical settings. Robert joins us to answer your burning questions on everything from love, sex, hook-ups and more!
Chapters
00:00 Intro
00:48 The Backstory
01:56 Introducing Co-host Chris Northover
03:24 Queer Stories on the Swan 03:48 What is Catfishing?
05:01 What is 'Anonymous/Discreet Profiles'?
09:03 How Justin Caught His Ex via Catfishing Him
12:06 Slide In My DM's
12:43 Story 1 - The Shed
16:23 Story 2 - Bi-Curiosity Killed the Cat
22:23 Story 3 - WetNWild
31:37 Story 4 - Secret Santa
40:20 Story 5 - Teenage Catfish Mutant Turds
50:09 Justin's story
1:02:44 Unqualified vs. Sexpert Advice
1:03:33 Introducing Sexpert Robert Grigor
1:04:23 Question
1 1:09:44 Question 2
1:16:20 Question 3
1:25:55 Question 4
1:37:55 Justin's Catfish Stalker
1:49:54 Thank You & Send Us Your Stories!
1:50:34 Exposing My Catfish Stalker Lachlan Meng & His Weird Messages
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