Welcome to Date Smarter Sexier — the podcast that tells modern dating to take a seat and listen up. Host Andrea LaRosa (communication coach, author, and reformed matchmaker) serves up unfiltered truths on love, lust, and what the hell is going on in your texts. From first dates to situationships, she brings real talk, sharp insight, and the occasional cocktail to help you date with clarity, confidence, and just the right amount of sass.
Host Andrea interviews a law enforcement investigator about the hidden dangers of modern dating, including statistics on sexual assault, consent, and bystander intervention, offering crucial insights for personal safety.
7 May 2025
Is the Ick Protecting You or Sabotaging You?
You’re vibing… and then suddenly, they chew too loudly, say “cool beans,” or text you one too many emojis — and BAM. The ick strikes. But what if it’s not just a silly turnoff? In this episode, we break down what the ick actually is (spoiler: it’s deeper than cringe), when it’s a legit warning sign, and when it might be self-sabotage in disguise. Get ready for some wild real-world ick stories, a little expert insight, and a whole lot of hmm, maybe it’s me moments.
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30 Apr 2025
Are You Financially Dateable?
Forget chemistry — are you bringing financial baggage to your next first date?
When is the right time to talk money with someone you're dating? And do you really need to have your financial life fully figured out before you start swiping right? In this episode, I sit down with Amy Spandau, financial strategist and founder of Ablaze, to explore the tricky (and often taboo) intersection of love and money. From cash flow to commitment, we tackle the real questions singles are asking — but the answers might surprise you. Tune in to find out why timing, transparency, and your true financial story could change everything... if you’re brave enough to have the conversation.
About Amy Spandau:
Amy is a financial strategist, founder’s ally, and the visionary behind Ablaze, a boutique financial services firm helping entrepreneurs master their cash flow and scale confidently. With 25 years in corporate finance across startups, Fortune 500s, and global enterprises, she’s seen the big wins, the tough pivots, and the hidden stories numbers reveal. In 2022, Amy left the corporate world to build a life focused on meaningful work, helping founders turn financials into roadmaps for growth. Based in Laguna Beach, she now spends her days advising entrepreneurs, raising her Doberman Rhea, and soaking up the ocean life.
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YouTube views
17,817
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Apple Podcasts (US)
5.0 / 5
10 ratings
Spotify
5.0 / 5
6 ratings
Podcast Authority Score: 87 / 100
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91
Social presence
97
YouTube
76
Engagement
82
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